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Thanks everyone!!! May we all share in simchos. Just a point obviosly we all need to daven. Boruch Hashem there was no major medical problem. However A Time did help us with referels and doctors. To anyone that is having trouble please call these wonderful organizations. A time. Or bonei olam…. They are there to help

Seriously speaking I was very shocked when I saw that the post I started 11 months ago re appaired. I’m a guy and I was tearing as I read my post from 11 months ago Baruch Hashen we were blessed with a healthy baby girl a few weeks ago!!!!!. Wow I’m still shocked that my post came around again what hashgacha. Let’s all keep davening that everyones bakashos should be filled.

M in Israel- Thanks very much for explaining all my points, I hope bpt, can learn from you,

BPT- Your comments get more and more pathetic. Why would you assume that people want more children bec of family pressure….what a dumb statement. You should never know from such pain

Belec echad- many of your ideas are ones that I follow at all times, many that I could never do. My wife and kids know ill buy whatever foods/nosh they want, ill get the best price. Staple items I always stock up on when they are on sale. Yes I go to a few different stored every week to stock up on good priced items. Regarding cleaners, grand it I could save the$, but don’t have the time/strenth at the end of my long day to deal with it. Electricity I am always care full. Clothing………. I get brand name on sale, I wish you could explain the $30 shoe deal to my wife bec no matter how much ill explain she doesn’t get it. Don’t get me wrong I nice nice things, its also very difficult to work very hard and not allow yourself to at times buy a coffee ect….

Honestly we have 2 kids and I would love many more/ I’m afraid ill have no way to provide for them……….. I know they say that with each child comes parnassah and I have seen this first hand but its difficult to enternalize. And then to beg the schools bec u can’t pay…..

Thanks guys for all of the support. Just to clarify; we are not big spenders, the only “vacation” we go on are with credit card points. All clothing we buy are nice, however all are purchased on sale. We almost never eat out. Ok, every other shabbos ill purchase a $30 piece of meat for firday night. I buy my wife flowers for shabbos….am I supposed to cut this out. We pay are credit cards in full every month (its not easy) and pay tuition and other bills on time. Sometimes I just feel depressed like I can’t do any better (I know many will say they wish they are in my shoes). Its very hard for me to work like a dog and still struggle at the end of the month without the luxeries. And can almost nerver buy that extra item for myself wife or kids.

Since our jobs are in the city house isn’t much cheaper unless we go out verry far