I was originally going to leave this alone. You can be as happily married as you and your spouse want to be. I have been married for a little while and will tell you that it can be so wonderful! I highly recommend it and suggest working on it. I remember asking the same questions that you were asking, and was annoyed that everyone was excited about marriage. But, if you really work at it, the dividends add up and it is supremely worth it!
Kollel2 – Does Onaah apply when a worker makes a mistake and mislabels a package, to which when presented to the owner he says it is ok? In addition, please remember that more tickets were sold in those few hours than would have been sold in many months. The Mekach may be batel, but they aren’t offering an opportunity to return the money (well, you can cancel on certain sites before sometime this evening.)