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Torah613- Hakol b’yidey shamayam chutz mayiras shamayim. If the additude is such than no good can be accomplished. Everyone, as a tzibur must work on themselves together to reach shleimus.
Is that a blame game? This is utterly shocking and disgraceful. We are not here to pinpoint faults in boys or girls. The goal is to solve issues that come up along the way, and ultimately make as many shidduchim as possible b’karov. Only once the shadchan, the boys and the girls strengthen themselves will that be achieved.
100%, the question posed here wasnt about personal opinions. Rather, is it suitable in hashkafa & flexibilty & pay… for a jewish mother?
What about accounting? Is that a well paying, suitable job for a jewish mother?
If You really KNOW the man is not for you…
If one would know the man is not for them then obviously they would not be going out, the problem is when one is stuck in between those to stages. They have a slight chashas but nevertheless only tune in to there true binah yeseirah. Men, unfourtanetly have this problem since they lack this chachma.
One that mocks someone else is really mocking that middah he himself posseses. What a pity to show your true colors when in reality you couldve helped and brought tremendous awareness of such a special, important mitzvah. Chaval on what was done and in the future i am confident that you will not breach it.
Chas v’shalom! WHy would one want to open there minds to boys, the less you see the better. Its mamish bittul torah on the boys side & shows disrespect & lack of chashivus hatorah for a girl to take a boy on a ride, having them date with no purpose behind it.
This is pure onaas dvarim, mamish not impressive. Each person has there own nekudas habichira and no one can decide on another’s name.