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the credit card companies will catch it right away and there will be big trouble. we had such a problom with a return on a credit card from american express for an item that was purchused from us. he paid with credit card a and for the return he gave us credit card b. a few months later we got a phone call from the people that we never gave them a credit on there credit card. we looked in to the matter and checked with american express to confirm that we did refund them back there money and guess what happened a few days later when our customer called back for there refund we told them we gave it to them months back and they could check out the problem with american express. we told them that the problom was they gave us a differant card to do the refund then giving us the original card that they made the purchuse with.June 15, 2008 5:05 am at 5:05 am in reply to: Out Of The Mailbag: (Flatbush Kiddush: Tznius & Drinking Out Of Control) #1142377yosseParticipant
the first thing this showes is that people don’t know how to spend there money.
second when shuels make rules that there can only be a plain simple kiddush maby this is why they made this rule so things should not get out of hand.
third it is easy for you to tell a rov how he should behave and what he should do. what do you know about this rov. maby these same people give him big money for differant causes , and before you say that this is blood money mabey the next time big money has to be raised for differant causes please step up to the plate and write that million dollar check for this rov to give to those people who need it.
please do not think that i’m for this type of behaveur in any circle but if you want this to stop then lets get to the root of the problom. all the jewish papers that show ads of girls wearing thight fitting clothing should be banned and not allowed to be printed and not allowed in to houses.
insted of crying about the problom do something about it. which two shuels did this happen buy and let the rabbonim involved have a chance to defend themselves.
mabey if people on this board would know which shuels have these probloms , when they get an invitation for a simcha mabey they will not go in the future and let the bal simcha know about it so in the future he will think before he makes a simcha and makes sure that everything is kosher from the food to the way everybody should behave.