Home › Forums › Decaffeinated Coffee › Hi I’m back 3.0
- This topic has 533 replies, 29 voices, and was last updated 19 hours, 54 minutes ago by yankel berel.
-
AuthorPosts
-
April 7, 2025 5:39 pm at 5:39 pm #2387251Menachem ShmeiParticipant
*pirsumei nisah
(Auto correct)April 7, 2025 5:39 pm at 5:39 pm #2387250Menachem ShmeiParticipantWhat I cannot understand is that Gemara Shabbat clearly modifies takanat derabanan of ner hanuka to put it al shulhano inside.
And people keep on ignoring this clear gemara and [mis]using it to advocate for a purim torah that it is preferable [!] to sleep out of the suka even when all kulot in halacha are exhausted.No one used Chanukah to advocate for sleeping outside of the Sukkah. That doesn’t make any sense (strawman).
I will repeat my simple question, which no one has been able to answer:
Why do you (Yankel, Daas, etc.) insist on attacking Chabad for davka not sleeping in the Sukkah, while ignoring those who DAVKA don’t eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres, and DAVKA light the menorah indoors – both of which are seemingly against halacha.What I cannot understand is that Gemara Shabbat clearly modifies takanat derabanan of ner hanuka to put it al shulhano inside.
Yankel: If you can erase the words “בשעת הסכנה” from your Gemara Shabbos – why’s it so hard for you to accept that the Rama modified the mitzvah of Sukkah to not include sleeping?
Is it backwards that people davka don’t eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres?
It’s k’neged Halacha, but it’s not backwards.Daas, be so kind as to explain your deep words to a simple person like me:
Why is the minhag of DAVKA sleeping outside the Sukkah backwards (even though it has *some* basis in Shulchan Aruch), while the minhag of DAVKA eating outside the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres (with *no* basis in Shulchan Aruch) is not backwards?
[And again, don’t forget to explain why the minhag of DAVKA lighting the menorah indoors, contrary to the mitzvah of pirsumei Nissan – is not backwards. Thanks]April 8, 2025 9:20 am at 9:20 am #2387387☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI will repeat my simple question, which no one has been able to answer:
Why do you (Yankel, Daas, etc.) insist on attacking Chabad for davka not sleeping in the Sukkah, while ignoring those who DAVKA don’t eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres, and DAVKA light the menorah indoors – both of which are seemingly against halacha.I actually did answer, but I’ll repeat:
Eating outside the Sukkah on Shmini Ateres is indeed k’neged Halacha.
Saying Davka to sleep outside of the Sukkah on Succos is not merely k’neged Halacha; it is backwards.
April 8, 2025 9:20 am at 9:20 am #2387388☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant(even though it has *some* basis in Shulchan Aruch)
It doesn’t.
It’s k’neged Halacha because it mangles the definition of mitztaer.
It’s backwards because it takes a mizvah and makes it k’ilu it’s chas v’shalom an aveirah (or at least a shortcoming that one isn’t “mitztaer”)
(Please don’t accuse me of bringing a strawman argument; I know you don’t literally consider it an aveirah)
April 8, 2025 9:21 am at 9:21 am #2387274☕️coffee addictParticipant“Ah, so you don’t know. You mock Chabad for a widespread chassidish minhag of talmidei habaal shem tov and onward, explained by giants such as the Minchas Elazar and others.
And when confronted, you admit that you know nothing about this minhag. All you know is: mock first, question after.“You’re (deliberately?) misunderstanding me
Just because they did for whatever reason doesn’t mean it should be done for ALL reasons
April 8, 2025 9:22 am at 9:22 am #2387280yankel berelParticipantMENACHEM TO YB :
Yankel: If you can erase the words “בשעת הסכנה” from your Gemara Shabbos – why’s it so hard for you to accept that the Rama modified the mitzvah of Sukkah to not include sleeping?
—I am not erasing anything .
Most Poskim point to these very words , ‘besha’at hasakana manicho al shulhano vedayo’, and explain that this was a MODIFICATION.
Takana originally was to put it outside. Outside only.
And if you could not and were an oness , then you are patur legamrei.Then hahamim reconvened , because of the sakana , and modified the mitsvah that one can also put it on shulhano and be yotseh that way.
After this MODIFICATION, one can be yotseh inside also even for other reasons.Is it better to light outside after the modification ? That is a separate argument. Maybe the inyan of mezuza takes precedence. Other inyanim, etc…
However – No posek will say that someone who lights inside nowadays is making a braha levatala.
As opposed to before this modification of the gemara, lighting inside would be a braha levatala.
.April 8, 2025 9:22 am at 9:22 am #2387306yankel berelParticipantMenachem is not getting it.
Its not the minhag of not sleeping there which is backwards .Its THE LOGIC which is backwards.
Its time to be modeh al ha’emet, menachem –
If your infallible rebbi would not have come up with this logic , would you say that on your own ??
what would your reaction be if a satmar hasid or a dye in the wool mitnaged would have come up with that type of logic ??Would you defend it with the same vehemence ? Or would you have a good laugh and say – Oh well …..
.
April 9, 2025 12:49 am at 12:49 am #2387612Menachem ShmeiParticipant“Most Poskim point to these very words , ‘besha’at hasakana manicho al shulhano vedayo’, and explain that this was a MODIFICATION….”
“Its not the minhag of not sleeping there which is backwards .
Its THE LOGIC which is backwards.”Let me get your argument straight. According to you:
It makes sense to say that once the Mishna said that in a time of danger one can light menorah indoors, we can now have a minhag to davka light indoors even when it’s not a time of sakanah and we lack pirsumei nissa.
It doesn’t make sense to say that once Shulchan Aruch says that nowadays most don’t sleep in the Sukkah (and יש אומרים support for this), we can have a minhag to davka not sleep in the Sukkah.
Why? I can’t wrap my head around your distinction.
If your infallible rebbi would not have come up with this logic , would you say that on your own ??
If it was the Rebbe who made this diyuk in the Mishna Shabbos and started the minhag of davka lighting indoors – would you agree with it or attack it and anyone who follows it?
what would your reaction be if a satmar hasid or a dye in the wool mitnaged would have come up with that type of logic ??
Would you defend it with the same vehemence ? Or would you have a good laugh and say – Oh well …..I mentioned the minhag of other chassidim who eat outside the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres. I don’t accept their logic, so I eat in the Sukkah in Shemini Atzeres. But I don’t attack them for following their minhag or accuse them of violating halacha.
April 9, 2025 12:50 am at 12:50 am #2387613Menachem ShmeiParticipantI actually did answer, but I’ll repeat:
Eating outside the Sukkah on Shmini Ateres is indeed k’neged Halacha.
Saying Davka to sleep outside of the Sukkah on Succos is not merely k’neged Halacha; it is backwards.You’re just repeating your point but not explaining. Just because I obey my Rebbe when I don’t understand, it doesn’t mean I obey YOU without understanding.
Why is one minhag against halacha while the other is backwards? And why do you only attack those who are “backwards” but not those who are going against halacha?
The only difference I spotted between how you portrayed both minhagim is that you only put the word “davka” in the second minhag. But we know full well that many chassidim DAVKA eat outside the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres because that is their minhag. Eating INSIDE the Sukkah would be violating their minhag.
Why is this minhag less “backwards” in your mind than the minhag of sleeping outside the Sukkah?
It’s backwards because it takes a mizvah and makes it k’ilu it’s chas v’shalom an aveirah
Just like many consider it an “aveira” (i.e. against their minhag) to eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres and light Menorah outside the front door. Doesn’t that sound just as backwards, if not more?
I honestly think my argument is quite simple and clear, and I’m surprised that I can’t get a simple explanation of why the Chabad minhag is bad but the other minhagim are good.
April 9, 2025 12:57 am at 12:57 am #2387747☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhy is this minhag less “backwards” in your mind than the minhag of sleeping outside the Sukkah?
Because there a good reason to not sit in the sukkah on Shimini Atzeres, because on the tzad that it’s not Succos it’s nireh k’mosif. Happens to be we don’t pasken that way.
OTOH not sleeping in the sukkah is a distortion of the mitzvah, the reason given not to is basically against the whole mitzvah of sleeping in the sukkah, and the halachik justification of mitztaer doesn’t hold water.
April 9, 2025 1:06 am at 1:06 am #2387753☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI honestly think my argument is quite simple and clear, and I’m surprised that I can’t get a simple explanation of why the Chabad minhag is bad but the other minhagim are good
I didn’t say the “minhag” of not eating in the sukkah on SA is good. I actually said it’s bad. I just said not sleeping on the sukkah is worse.
Not sure where lighting indoors came into this; as YB said, it’s a sugya about whether or not Chazal actually changed the tzurah of the mitzvah (which is a d’rabbonon.)
The idea that the R’ma modified the mitzvah is just wrong. He simply codified a very sensible application of mitztaer.
April 9, 2025 12:40 pm at 12:40 pm #2387756yankel berelParticipantMENACHEM TO YB :
Let me get your argument straight. According to you:
It makes sense to say that once the Mishna said that in a time of danger one can light menorah indoors, we can now have a minhag to davka light indoors even when it’s not a time of sakanah and we lack pirsumei nissa.
It doesn’t make sense to say that once Shulchan Aruch says that nowadays most don’t sleep in the Sukkah (and יש אומרים support for this), we can have a minhag to davka not sleep in the Sukkah.
Why? I can’t wrap my head around your distinction.
===================
By Hanuka which is a derabanan – HEM AMRU , VE’HEM AMRU .
They modified the takanah, and now the takanah is that you can light in or outdoors. Both are valid ways to do it and none is making a bracha levatala.
Any posek will tell you the same.There might be extra pirsumei nisa in one case more than the other , but the mitsva is equally valid in both options.
And once the mitsvah is valid both ways anyway , one can have the benefit of being surrounded by mitzvot on all sides- mezuza, tzitzit and ner. Or other benefits.
.
As opposed to sleeping in the sukka, or better said , outside of the sukka.WHICH IS A MITSVA DE’ORAYTAH, WHICH CANNOT BE MODIFIED, EVEN BY A PROPHET.
And when rama says the minhag was to sleep outside the sukah , that HAS TO BE ATTRIBUTED to a solid de’oraytah logic which would be matir the isur of sleeping outside.
Absent that , the nonnegotiable isur min hatorah is bemkomo omed.
Thats why the poskim all stress that if there is no cold and no marriage, it is assur min hatorah to sleep outside the sukkah.So those two logics, coldness and married life, are acceptable NOT BECAUSE THE ISSUR IS MODIFIED halilah , like by hanukah.
They are acceptable because there was a clause of teshvu ke’ein taduru IN THE ORIGINAL MITSVAH. Hence no modification.
Thats why purim torah is ineligible to be matir this issur min hatorah.
.April 9, 2025 12:40 pm at 12:40 pm #2387758yankel berelParticipantThe major difference between the mekatrgim on the purim torah of sukah and menachem is : that menachem specifically agreed in his post that he would listen to his rebbi even when he does not understand him too.
Whereas the rest klal yisrael , the non habad hasidim, would not.
That is an excellent indication of bias.
Menachem declares that he follows ‘the infallible rebbi’ , even without understanding .
Is he then not biased to add ‘understanding’ to something he will anyway follow ?
Is it psychologically easier to follow something you understand and agree with or something you do not ?
April 9, 2025 12:40 pm at 12:40 pm #2387760Menachem ShmeiParticipantNot sure where lighting indoors came into this; as YB said, it’s a sugya about whether or not Chazal actually changed the tzurah of the mitzvah (which is a d’rabbonon.)
Shulchan Aruch rules that Ner Chanukah must be lit by the outer door unless it’s a time of sakanah.
You haven’t attacked those who davka light indoors (even not during sakana), and you haven’t presented any logic why they are correct.Shulchan Aruch rules that one must eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres.
You haven’t attacked those who davka eat indoors, and you haven’t presented any logic why they are correct (other than a hava aminah in Gemara which is not accepted by the Gemara or by Shulchan Aruch).Shulchan Aruch rules that one must sleep in the Sukkah on Sukkos, but accepts that most don’t do so nowadays and is melamed zechus on them.
You attack those who davka sleep indoors because you disagree with their logic.This is very suspicious.
April 9, 2025 12:40 pm at 12:40 pm #2387778yankel berelParticipantMENACHEM TO YB :
If it was the Rebbe who made this diyuk in the Mishna Shabbos and started the minhag of davka lighting indoors – would you agree with it or attack it and anyone who follows it?
—-If it was your “infallible rebbi” who made this diyuk in the Mishna Shabbos and started the minhag of davka lighting indoors – you ask , what would we say ?
——
I understand that your question is, supposing that all rishonim poskim rabanim from gemara and onwards were makpid to light only outside and all of them say that manicho al shulhano is NOT A MODIFICATION IN THE WHOLE MITSVA.I.e. that the mitsva stays the same – only outside.
And now, after undisputed documented 16 centuries of klal israel wide acceptance of that pshat in the gemara , comes the “infallible rebbi” and argues on this 16 century klal yisrael wide acceptance ? And says inside is also acceptable ?
What would we say to him, you are asking ?
Guessing , the same as the gedolim said to moshe mendlesohn in his time …..
..
April 9, 2025 6:50 pm at 6:50 pm #2388042ardParticipantmenachem- is (or was) CS a chillul lubavitch?
April 11, 2025 5:28 pm at 5:28 pm #2388052Menachem ShmeiParticipantYankel, I thought we were having a nice Torah discussion. Why do you need to pepper it with nasty insults?
I understand that your question is, supposing that all rishonim poskim rabanim from gemara and onwards were makpid to light only outside and all of them say that manicho al shulhano is NOT A MODIFICATION IN THE WHOLE MITSVA…
You are now saying that Chanukah is different than Sukkah, because with Chanukah it was always accepted to light indoors, so in recent generations, even though the sakana stopped, it’s not an issue to davka light indoors.
But with Sukkah, all rishonim poskim rabanim from gemara and onwards have slept in the Sukkah the entire Sukkos, and suddenly in the 1950s the Rebbe began allowing people to do otherwise.But, we know that that’s not true (as brought in Shulchan Aruch, and many more places), so your entire idea falls apart.
They modified the takanah, and now the takanah is that you can light in or outdoors. Both are valid ways to do it and none is making a bracha levatala.
Where’d you get this from? It doesn’t say this in Gemara or Shulchan Aruch. In both it clearly states that ner chanukah must be lit outdoors, except in times of danger.
Any posek will tell you the same.
Aha, so now the poskim are infallible? You can’t provide me with any logic that explains that Gemara or Shulchan Aruch permit lighting indoors when it’s not a time of danger, yet because recent poskim allow it, it’s allowed!?
(Earlier poskim may have lit indoors because of the dangers in Europe, etc.).one can have the benefit of being surrounded by mitzvot on all sides- mezuza, tzitzit and ner. Or other benefits.
So it makes sense to davka violate the halacha in Shulchan Aruch by lighting indoors, losing pirsumei nissa, because then you get mitzvos on all sides (didn’t the Gemara and Shulchan Aruch know about mitzvos on all sides when they permitted it ONLY in times of sakanah!?).
But it’s crazy to say to not sleep in the Sukkah because you don’t want to be mezalzel in the holiness of Sukkah.Az Nidbiru has many teshuvos where he argues that it’s forbidden to light menorah indoors nowadays. Are you ready to read his seforim, and if you accept his logic, begin attacking all those who “stupidly” follow their “infallible” poskim and light menorah indoors?
Unless you give me reasoning in your own logic, logic that you would even accept from the Lubavitcher Rebbe, why we may DAVKA disregard the Gemara and Shulchan Aruch about lighting the menorah and Shemini Atzeres – I will believe that you have a personal bias against Chabad.
menachem specifically agreed in his post that he would listen to his rebbi even when he does not understand him too.
Whereas the rest klal yisrael , the non habad hasidim, would not.
That is an excellent indication of bias.Shocker! As a Lubavitcher, I will constantly defend my minhagim and my Rebbe. What a surprise.
Nu, what’s worse? To be biased and always defend your derech, or be biased and always attack someone else’s derech?
April 11, 2025 5:28 pm at 5:28 pm #2388054Menachem ShmeiParticipantmenachem- is (or was) CS a chillul lubavitch?
What point are you trying to make?
What do you mean by that?
April 11, 2025 5:29 pm at 5:29 pm #2388055yankel berelParticipantMost Poskim point to these very words , ‘besha’at hasakana manicho al shulhano vedayo’, and explain that this was a MODIFICATION.
Takana originally was to put it outside. Outside only.
And if you could not and were an oness , then you are patur legamrei.Then hahamim reconvened , because of the sakana , and modified the mitsvah that one can also put it on shulhano and be yotseh that way.
After this MODIFICATION, one can be yotseh inside also even for other reasons.Is it better to light outside after the modification ? That is a separate argument. Maybe the inyan of mezuza takes precedence. Other inyanim, etc…
However – No posek will say that someone who lights inside nowadays is making a braha levatala.
As opposed to before this modification by hahmei gemara in their berayta, lighting inside would be a braha levatala.
=========I am not sure why menachem insists on comparing sukka and hanukah, when their halachik difference is so clear ?
.April 15, 2025 4:56 pm at 4:56 pm #2388747Menachem ShmeiParticipantMost Poskim point to these very words , ‘besha’at hasakana manicho al shulhano vedayo’, and explain that this was a MODIFICATION.
Again, this is clearly logic that you wouldn’t rely on yourself. This is definitely not the simple pshat in the Mishna.
A) Which poskim say that you can light indoors even when it’s not a time of sakana? Clearly not Shulchan Aruch which rules that one must light menorah outdoors except in a case of sakana.
B) Why do you accept the logic of those poskim which doesn’t fit with a simple reading of Mishna or Shulchan Aruch? Is it because you think those poskim are infallible?
Is it better to light outside after the modification ? That is a separate argument. Maybe the inyan of mezuza takes precedence. Other inyanim, etc…
This is NOT A separate argument. You admitted that you yourself sleep outside the Sukkah, and we know that this has always been the custom of most Jews. What bothered you was that Chabad relies ruchniusdike reasons by their “infallible rebbes” to DAVKA sleep outside the Sukkah.
My question is: How is that different from relying ruchniusdike reasons (mezuza, etc.) by your “infallible poskim” to DAVKA light the menorah indoors (as is the minhag of many holy communities), in violation of Shulchan Aruch that this is only acceptable in a time of danger?
No posek will say that someone who lights inside nowadays is making a braha levatala.
Who brought bracha levatola into the picture? No posek says that if you don’t sleep in the Sukkah your לישב בסוכה was a brocha levatola.
The argument was about trusting your “infallible poskim/rebbes” to keep a minhag of davka doing something that seems against halacha. This argument applies equally to Sukkah and Menorah.I am not sure why menachem insists on comparing sukka and hanukah, when their halachik difference is so clear ?
I have made one single argument this entire time, and I will persist until I get a proper answer. Or until I get tired of repeating the same simple point again and again.
April 15, 2025 4:57 pm at 4:57 pm #2388758yankel berelParticipantMenachem – there are no insults.
There is an argument , however and we cannot hide behind victimhood to win an argument.
==Does Oz Nidberu say that lighting inside nowadays is a bracha levatala ??
==
What I wrote, is the CONSENSUS of the poskim .
Hanukah ‘s mitsva of lighting was modified. By Hazal themselves.
Before this modification, lighting inside was a bracha levatala. After the modification it is not levatala anymore.The only mahloket haposkim is the following : After the modification is there a PREFERENCE to light outside or is there no preference anymore.
Whereas sukka there was NO MODIFICATION, for the simple reason that the torah itself states that the dinim min hatorah are INELIGIBLE FOR MODIFICATION.
.
April 15, 2025 4:58 pm at 4:58 pm #2388759yankel berelParticipantMENACHEM TO YB :
You are now saying that Chanukah is different than Sukkah, because with Chanukah it was always accepted to light indoors, so in recent generations, even though the sakana stopped, it’s not an issue to davka light indoors.
But with Sukkah, all rishonim poskim rabanim from gemara and onwards have slept in the Sukkah the entire Sukkos, and suddenly in the 1950s the Rebbe began allowing people to do otherwise.But, we know that that’s not true (as brought in Shulchan Aruch, and many more places), so your entire idea falls apart.
=====NO . I am not saying that at all.
You are misrepresenting me.[Should I complain that you are insulting me …. ]
I am saying the following ;
Chanukah is different than Sukkah, because with Chanukah the takanah was modified to enable lighting indoors, so in recent generations, even though the sakana stopped, it’s not an issue to light indoors. Because of a formal modification, by hazal themselves.
But with the non modifiable mitsva of Sukkah, all rishonim poskim rabanim from gemara and onwards have slept in the Sukkah the entire Sukkos, PROVIDED THERE ARE NO COLD OR MARRIAGE ISSUES, and suddenly In the 50’s someone claimed otherwise, basing himself on a most illogical pretsel svara.
You are welcome to argue, but please argue on my real position .
Not on my position you [mis]represent.
.
.April 15, 2025 6:20 pm at 6:20 pm #2388835☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSources to explain the practice of lighting indoors when there’s no sakana:
https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=53183
The רמ”א says that everybody lit indoors (although he does say it would be better to light outdoors, according to the MB’s explanation).
The MB himself says better to light by the window if that will better display the menorah to the public
Menachem, your comparing this to not sleeping in the sukkah is completely off base.
April 15, 2025 6:20 pm at 6:20 pm #2388820Menachem ShmeiParticipantThere is an argument , however and we cannot hide behind victimhood to win an argument.
You know very well that I didn’t hide. I made my argument clearly, many times.
Should I complain that you are insulting me ….
I don’t remember calling your or your rabbis’ arguments a “Purim Torah” or a “most illogical pretzel sevorah.”
You are welcome to argue, but please argue on my real position .
Not on my position you [mis]represent.I think I’ve answered all your points, and I think you haven’t properly explained why you attack Chabad’s minhag but not the menorah minhag and Shemini Atzeres minhag.
I guess we’ll leave it to the readers to decide.
April 15, 2025 8:48 pm at 8:48 pm #2388850Menachem ShmeiParticipantThe רמ”א says that everybody lit indoors (although he does say it would be better to light outdoors, according to the MB’s explanation).
The רמ”א says that everybody slept outside the Sukkah (although he does say it would be better to sleep in the Sukkah).
Sources to explain the practice of lighting indoors when there’s no sakana:
https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=53183Thank you for sharing this source – it perfectly supports my point, and it’s a great opportunity to wrap up my argument:
To summarize: My intention was not, ch”v, to attack the minhag of lighting the menorah indoors (which I myself do) or of eating outside the sukkah on Shemini Atzeres.
My point is that our holy leaders have sometimes supported or encouraged customs that seem not to align perfectly with Shulchan Aruch. In some cases, because Shulchan Aruch explicitly forbids it (like Shemini Atzeres); in others, because the leniency mentioned there applies only in narrow circumstances (like Chanukah); or because the Shulchan Aruch acknowledges the common practice but struggles to support it (like sleeping outside the sukkah).
In such cases, later poskim may attempt to be melamed zchus on the minhag or bring dochakdikeh proofs to explain how it could be allowed or even encouraged.
Obviously, no one today would feel comfortable inventing such sevaros on their own. As Yankel correctly pointed out: if someone today decided we should suddenly stop lighting indoors based on their own reading of the Shulchan Aruch and complicated pilpulim (including those brought in the kovetz), no one would listen. The same applies to Shemini Atzeres and sleeping in the sukkah.
But once these practices were supported by the rabbanim of a particular community, we accept them—even if we don’t fully understand the sevaros used to justify them.
This is why I don’t criticize a Sanzer chossid who eats outside the sukkah on Shemini Atzeres (even if I find his halachic arguments weak).
This is why I light menorah indoors, even if the pilpul needed to justify it is dochakdik.
And this is why I sleep outside the sukkah.
All three practices rely on trusting our rabbeim to instruct us the right mesorah, even when we don’t fully grasp the reasoning.
Yet Yankel only calls the third case “infallible rebbes.”
__ __ __All of this is stated explicitly in the wonderful kovetz that Daas brought!
After offering extensive pilpulim to show that the halacha might not be as it appears in the Shulchan Aruch (and in my opinion, these are even more dochakdik than those brought for sleeping outside the sukkah), he concludes:
“Even if we don’t accept this explanation for lighting indoors, it is still clear that someone who follows the path of our holy Rabbeim and lights indoors is on a more secure path than those who treat our Rabbeim as if they were mistaken ch”v, due to not understanding their reasoning…
I am therefore puzzled by what I saw in Yerushalayim where some had the practice to light outside. I don’t know who gave this directive, but it is clear that he did not have greater authority than the Or Zarua and all our rabbeim who followed him. Even though there was no danger in their time to light outside, they still lit indoors. And anyone who deviates from the minhag – ידו על התחתונה. He is being motzi laaz on our fathers and rabbeim, ראשונים כמלאכים.”Yankel, does the author of this kovetz consider his rabbis “infallible”? Maybe start a thread about him.
April 15, 2025 8:48 pm at 8:48 pm #2388838☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI think you haven’t properly explained why you attack Chabad’s minhag but not the menorah minhag
I think he explained it clearly and repeatedly
April 17, 2025 10:31 am at 10:31 am #2388878☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAnd this is why I sleep outside the sukkah.
I don’t blame you.
But it is a tayna on the one who recently wrote a poor and backwards sevara and influenced his chassidim (yourself included) to pretty much disregard a mitzvah
April 17, 2025 10:31 am at 10:31 am #2388889yankel berelParticipantMenachem loves changing my position. That makes it that much easier for him to argue ….
Maybe he should change his own position, before he changes other peoples’ ….===
I never complained about so called infallible rebbes. In plural.
I complained about the supposed infallibility of one particular rebbi of Menachem. When confronted with overwhelming evidence to the contrary , that is.
====Btw. Even a cursory reading of Rav Ahronsons’s writing which Daas Yochid so kindly provided, will bring out his reasoning where posits the same line as I mentioned . That the takana of lighting was modified.
===
I am still waiting for Menachem’s response about Oz Nidberu’s shitah re the bracha of indoors lighting ? Is it levatalah ?
April 17, 2025 10:32 am at 10:32 am #2388893yankel berelParticipant…. the non modifiable mitsva of Sukkah, all rishonim poskim rabanim from gemara and onwards have slept in the Sukkah the entire Sukkos, PROVIDED THERE ARE NO COLD OR MARRIAGE ISSUES, and suddenly In the 50’s someone claimed otherwise ….
===
Please Menachem , bold letters means –
do not ignore !
pay extra attention to !===
Repeat:
The minhag was, that whenever there were no cold/marriage issues, to sleep in the sukkah !For uninterrupted 3300 years , from Sinai onwards.
Quite an old minhag, I would say. Supported by the hiyuv min hatorah to do so.
In the form of the non-modifiable mitsva of sukka.===
April 18, 2025 11:10 am at 11:10 am #2389157Menachem ShmeiParticipantThe minhag was, that whenever there were no cold/marriage issues, to sleep in the sukkah !
What’s your source for this?
April 18, 2025 11:11 am at 11:11 am #2389187DaMosheParticipantI’ll be honest – I don’t sleep in the sukkah. When I moved to my current home, I went out into the Sukkah at night, before Yom Tov, and there was a raccoon there. I also have skunks and foxes that like to stay in my yard, and they can easily get into the sukkah.
I discussed this with my Rav, and he told me that if there are animals there that can potentially transmit diseases (all 3 animals can transmit rabies), then I definitely have reason to sleep inside the house.
I do eat in the sukkah on Shemini Atzeres.
When someone says “eating in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres goes against my minhag”, that is just ridiculous. A minhag that goes against halachah is a minhag shtus, and has no validity. There may be valid reasons to sometimes not follow something (as I noted above re: sleeping in the sukkah), but claiming it’s a minhag isn’t one of them.
Maybe the next time a Chabadnik asks me if I put on tefillin, I’ll say, “It’s not my minhag to do that, and you know all about following minhagim that go against halachah!”April 20, 2025 11:59 pm at 11:59 pm #2389506Menachem ShmeiParticipantA minhag that goes against halachah is a minhag shtus, and has no validity
DaMoshe and I agree that you either mock all these minhagim or not. You can’t choose to only mock Chabad.
I personally think these minhagim (Sukkah, Shemini Atzeres, Menorah) are valid (though I keep the two that I was taught), while DaMoshe thinks they’re all invalid.
Maybe the next time a Chabadnik asks me if I put on tefillin, I’ll say, “It’s not my minhag to do that, and you know all about following minhagim that go against halachah!”
Hold it, it’s not just Chabad that you’re trying to mock!
On the contrary, you happen to practice the Chabad minhag (albeit for other reasons)!
You also mock all the non-Chabad chassidim who have a minhag of eating outside the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres, and all the Jews who have a minhag of davka lighting menorah indoors.
How come your post ended specifically about Chabad? How does it keep coming back to that?
April 21, 2025 12:00 am at 12:00 am #2389507DaMosheParticipantI did some more research on the issue, and found that the exemptions for sleeping in the sukkah are not so modern.
The Mordechai on Sukkah states that most people in his area did not sleep in the Sukkah, because it was cold.
The Rema quotes the Mordechai, but rejects the reasoning of the cold – he says it’s because a man shouldn’t be with his wife in the sukkah. However, he encourages couples to have privacy within the sukkah, so they could be there.
The Taz says that if a woman wants her husband to be in the same room as her inside the house, then that is reason enough to sleep inside. The Chasam Sofer agrees withe the Taz.
I also read that R’ Moshe Feinstein did not sleep in the sukkah when he was at his own home – but he lived in an apartment building, and there was a large communal sukkah there, with no privacy. Some have reported that when he was at his daughter and son-in-law, in Monsey, he did sleep in the sukkah.In short, there are definitely those who hold that there are valid exemptions to sleeping in the sukkah. However, to say that it became a minhag not to do so is just ignorance. Even according to the opinions that there are exemptions, if those don’t apply, then one should sleep in the sukkah. So a single man, in a warm place, really has no reason at all to sleep inside.
April 21, 2025 12:00 am at 12:00 am #2389528☕️coffee addictParticipantDamoshe
It’s the opposite
Lubavitchers (and chassidim) sit in the sukkah on shmini atzeres and they don’t sleep in the sukkah so you’re doing like them
April 21, 2025 12:01 am at 12:01 am #2389903ujmParticipantDaMoshe and other MO folks: How do you feel about the fact that Rabbi J.B. Soloveitchik (as testified by Rabbi Hershel Schachter and others in addition to photographs) was close to the Lubavitcher Rebbe and held very highly of him?
April 21, 2025 12:01 am at 12:01 am #2389904ujmParticipantBTW, Chabad Feminist has been MIA from this thread she started, from shortly after starting this.
April 21, 2025 12:10 pm at 12:10 pm #2389946DaMosheParticipantMaybe I’m doing like Chabad, but my reasoning is very different.
I recognize that I SHOULD be sleeping in the sukkah, but I have a reason not to. If that reason went away, I’d be in the sukkah. Chabad won’t, because they claim it’s a minhag not to.
Do Chabad eat all meals in the sukkah on Shemini Atzeres? I thought they make kiddush in the sukkah during the day, but eat the meals inside?April 21, 2025 12:10 pm at 12:10 pm #2389911yankel berelParticipant@ujm
How do you feel about the fact that Rabbi J.B. Soloveitchik (as testified by Rabbi Hershel Schachter and others in addition to photographs) was close to the Lubavitcher Rebbe and held very highly of him?
—-
The following is not that similar , but still is a valid question …How do you feel about the fact that many rabbanim chashuvim [and a clear majority of klal yisrael] (as testified by multiple reputable historians) were close to Melech Hamashiach Sh’Tz, and held very highly of him?
.
.April 21, 2025 3:19 pm at 3:19 pm #2390349ujmParticipantYankel: They all admitted they made a mistake. RJBS and RHS have not.
April 21, 2025 5:16 pm at 5:16 pm #2390428ujmParticipantYankel: In the case you mentioned they all admitted they made a mistake. Over here RJBS and RHS have never said they made a mistake,
April 21, 2025 10:38 pm at 10:38 pm #2390474Menachem ShmeiParticipantI did some more research on the issue, and found that the exemptions for sleeping in the sukkah are not so modern.
Of course. This has been mentioned several times.
However, to say that it became a minhag not to do so is just ignorance.
It became a minhag in *Chabad* — that’s my point.
Just as eating outside the sukkah on Shemini Atzeres is not permitted according to the Shulchan Aruch, but became a minhag in other Chassidic communities (not Chabad).
Just as lighting the menorah indoors was only permitted by the Shulchan Aruch in times of danger, yet became a minhag among many Jews (as cited in the kovetz brought by Daas Yochid).
All three of these practices have complex pilpulim to be melamed zchus on the minhagim—pilpulim that wouldn’t stand on their own, but serve as support once these customs were practiced by Gedolei Yisroel in their respective communities.
The reason I brought up the Shulchan Aruch is simply to show that, of the three minhagim, sukkah has the most leniencies in Shulchan Aruch — yet it receives the most criticism in these online forums (I wonder why…).
Even according to the opinions that there are exemptions, if those don’t apply, then one should sleep in the sukkah.
While you might imply that from the Shulchan Aruch, it doesn’t state this explicitly. It doesn’t say that one may only sleep outside the sukkah if they are married or it’s cold—rather, those are offered as *reasons* as to how the leniency came to be.
In fact, there are poskim who clearly write that these leniencies can be extended to others. For example, the Eshel Avraham writes that bochurim may sleep outside the sukkah, since they can rely on the fact that “רובא דעלמא” most people are exempt due to their wives.
Contrast this with the menorah: the Shulchan Aruch explicitly states that lighting indoors is only permitted in times of danger.
P.S. I’m not citing the Eshel Avraham as the source for the Chabad minhag. Regarding Chabad, everything I’ve said until now stands on its own. I’m simply contrasting sukkah to menorah: the Shulchan Aruch does not clearly state that the leniency of sleeping outside the sukkah applies only to married people or in the cold — whereas with menorah, it does explicitly say that the leniency applies *only* in times of danger.
In other words:
Shulchan Aruch regarding sukkah: “And regarding the current practice to be lenient with sleeping – that people do not sleep in the sukkah, except for those who are particularly meticulous about mitzvos – some say it’s because… But it appears to me that it is because…”
Shulchan Aruch regarding menorah: “The Ner Chanukah should be placed at the entrance closest to the public domain, on the outside… And in a time of danger, when one is not permitted to fulfill the mitzvah publicly, he should place it on his table, and that is sufficient.”
April 21, 2025 10:39 pm at 10:39 pm #2390484yankel berelParticipantMenachem has not answered whether according to Oz Nidberu lighting inside is a bracha levatala .
A bracha levatala, is a clear indication that one is not yotseh the mitsva.
A bracha not levatala, is a clear indication that one is yotseh the mitsva.
O’N agrees, like all other poskim, that it is not levatalah and that one is yotseh even inside.
Not like the original takanah, which specified only outside.So, employing simple and basic logic, O’N agrees that the takanah was MODIFIED, like Rav Ahronson [brought to us by daas yochid] clearly writes .
Like the consensus of the Poskim.
Opposed by Menachem , whose otherwise healthy sense of logic is nebach taken captive by his preconditioned blind acceptance of anything which passes his infallible rebbi’s lips.
We should bestow upon him the top prize for mental acrobatics. Under duress.
.April 21, 2025 10:39 pm at 10:39 pm #2390485☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI personally think these minhagim (Sukkah, Shemini Atzeres, Menorah) are valid (though I keep the two that I was taught), while DaMoshe thinks they’re all invalid.
Where did DaMoshe comment about lighting the menorah indoors?
April 21, 2025 10:51 pm at 10:51 pm #2390490☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantMS, you’ve got it backwards. The reason people “mock” Chabad is because some of their haskafos and hanhagos are outside of the pale.
Sukkah is perhaps the most concrete example because of its clear twisting of halacha. Until you understand that there is a qualitative difference between some of the differences we have with Chabad, vs. the differences we may have with some others, you will continue to believe that we are finding excuses to put down Chabad, rather than the truth, that the reason we don’t like Chabad* is because of these things we strongly disagree with.
*I just want to make abundantly clear that there is, in my opinion, a lot to like about Chabad, and there are some Chabad chassidim I know for whom I have a lot of respect and admiration. I still firmly reject some of the tenets espoused by and associated with Chabad.
April 22, 2025 8:33 am at 8:33 am #2390507Menachem ShmeiParticipantMenachem has not answered whether according to Oz Nidberu lighting inside is a bracha levatala
I’m not sure what he paskens. But this is irrelevant, because:
A) The question wasn’t whether it’s a bracha levatala, but whether it’s permitted/encouraged lechatchila or considered a major kulah. According to you, we never accept directives from Gedolei Yisroel to establish a minhag based on something that appears to be a massive kulah.
B) Regardless of what Oz Nidberu rules, the question remains on you: Why do you accept recent poskim “twisting” the Shulchan Aruch to mean something that seemingly doesn’t align with the straightforward reading?
Is it because you consider them “infallible”? As Rav Ahronson wrote (and you choose to ignore), whether or not one accepts his pilpul, we are to follow the practice of the Gedolei Yisroel, even if it seems not to fit the plain meaning of the Shulchan Aruch. Is this your new opinion? If yes, why is Chabad different?
the takanah was MODIFIED, like Rav Ahronson [brought to us by daas yochid] clearly writes .
Like the consensus of the Poskim.
Opposed by MenachemYou’re so quick to argue that you completely misunderstand my view.
I don’t oppose this pshat in menorah at all. I myself light the menorah indoors. I’m simply pointing out the obvious — that this is clearly not the poshute pshat in the Shulchan Aruch.
I don’t follow this minhag because I was personally persuaded by the pilpul. Rather, I follow it because that was the practice of my Rabbeim, just as Rav Ahronson wrote at the end of his kovetz, which I quoted earlier. The pilpul only serves as extra support after the minhag was established by Gedolei Yisroel.
I’m only questioning the minhag *leshitascha*, where you claim we don’t accept a pshat dachuk in Shulchan Aruch just because it was the practice of our Rabbeim.
How many times must I repeat this simple point for it to be understood?
Menachem , whose otherwise healthy sense of logic is nebach taken captive by his preconditioned blind acceptance of anything which passes his infallible rebbi’s lips.
We should bestow upon him the top prize for mental acrobatics. Under duress.You really can’t help yourself, eh Yankel? And then, when you fill your posts with this kind of rhetoric and I get tired of responding, you complain that I’m afraid to answer you and that “shetikah kehoda’ah.”
April 22, 2025 8:33 am at 8:33 am #2390508Menachem ShmeiParticipantWhere did DaMoshe comment about lighting the menorah indoors?
If he mocks minhagim that follow the practice of Gedolei Yisroel, and are only supported by complex pilpulim that seemingly “twist” the straightforward pshat of Shulchan Aruch – he probably mocks the minhag of lighting menorah indoors as well.
Unless he only mocks the minhagim of Chabad (sleeping outside the sukkah) and other chassidim (eating outside the sukkah on Shemini Atzeres) – but I wouldn’t want to be choshed b’ksheirim, ch”v.
April 22, 2025 8:33 am at 8:33 am #2390509Menachem ShmeiParticipantMS, you’ve got it backwards. The reason people “mock” Chabad is because some of their haskafos and hanhagos are outside of the pale.
Sukkah is perhaps the most concrete example because of its clear twisting of halacha.
We are going in circles here.
What led me to believe that people are unjustifiably going after Chabad regarding sukkah is the fact that the sukkah minhag “twists” Shulchan Aruch much *less* than Shemini Atzeres and menorah do — as I’ve explained many times.
April 22, 2025 8:47 am at 8:47 am #2390568☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantExcept that it doesn’t. As I’ve explained several times.
I’ll try one more time. The notion that ideally one should be on a level to be so sensitive to the kedushah of the sukkah that he is mitztaer and therefore is pattur, is backwards.
Hashem gave us mitzvos to do. Yes, sometimes there’s a p’tur, but it’s not the ideal.
The others are at worst against Halacha, but the reasoning behind the minhag is solid.
(Also the way it’s universally applied is wrong, because most people, I’m pretty confident, are not actually mitztaer…
A Chabad chossid one told me that he’s mitztaer that he’s not mitztaer. I told him that he can do that in the sukkah….)
April 22, 2025 8:53 am at 8:53 am #2390570☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI’ll quote from the Shulchanaruchharav site how he explains the minhag Chabad, MS, you can tell me if it’s wrong:
“The Chabad practice is not to sleep in the Sukkah due to that one is unable to be conscious of the holiness of the Sukkah during sleep, and this causes one painful, and anyone who is in pain upon dwelling in the Sukkah is exempt from the Mitzvah”
In another article:
“The reason behind the custom is due to another aspect of the exception of Mitztaer/distress, which exempts one from sleeping in the Sukkah, and was not listed above. This aspect of Mitztaer is explained as follows: The Sukkah contains a sublime level of holiness, or G-dly revelation, called Makifim Debina. Chabad Chassidus emphasizes the study of Chassidus which internalizes the knowledge of the above level of Divinity. One who has knowledge of this holiness contained in a Sukkah, will naturally be disturbed to perform any action that is unbefitting of the holiness it contains. Now, since during sleep one is unable to be conscious of the holiness of the Sukkah, as well as the act of sleep in it of itself can be viewed as a disrespect to the holiness of the Sukkah, therefore there is distress involved in sleeping in the Sukkah. Accordingly, since sleeping in the Sukkah causes one spiritual pain, he is exempt from doing so, as anyone who is in pain upon dwelling in the Sukkah is exempt from the Mitzvah. This reason especially applies to those Tzaddikim and Chassidim who are on a level that they could feel the holiness of the Sukkah, and therefore simply cannot fall asleep. Furthermore, it even applies to those who do not feel this level of holiness, if they are nevertheless distressed over the fact that they know it contains this holiness, and are disturbed to act in a disrespectful way towards it, such as to sleep in it. Furthermore, it even applies to those who are not disturbed to sleep in the Sukkah due the holiness of the Sukkah, but simply due to the fact that this is the custom of their Rebbe, and they are distressed to not follow in their Rebbe’s custom. As stated above, if none of these reasons, or other exceptions, are applicable, and one hence finds no disturbance at all in his sleeping in the Sukkah, then he is obligated to do so.”
April 22, 2025 9:33 am at 9:33 am #2390574☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIn that article he condemns those who find this “minhag” so backwards as to therefore question the legitimacy of Chabad chassidus as “troubled”. Suffice it to say that I disagree.
-
AuthorPosts
- You must be logged in to reply to this topic.