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Yitzchokm u are weird, why do have to joke about this im trying to do whats best for my son
Thank you @sem613 what a thought out great answer, i did have a talk with him and he was very mature and not in the clouds anymore, thats why i think im going to let him date..i guess there are some boys ready at 21 and i shouldnt be nervous!
What about penninim seminary, I had a sister that went there and loved it the girls were soooo normal and the teachers didn’t brain wash you that your husband has to be in kollel for life…..believe it or not their are so many great amazing boys that don’t do kollel for more then 3,4,5, years and still build a true house of Torah and most important MIDOS..this applies for machon raaya also they are just soooo normal and have their heads screwed on straight.
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It is a genetic disease and to all those that say ” you just need family members when ur in a flare and ill be fine” or ” take meds ull be fine”…..u all should know I never complain but now I just want to prove a point…. I have crohns and which part of having surgery and in the ICU for a week plus injecting myself with meds is ” a no big deal” …if u don’t know anything about crohns plz don’t speak about it bec it can be soooo bad..but then again I thank hashem every day for giving me the zchus to fight crohns bec it made me so strong and made me appreciate life more then 99 out of 100 people…all I’m trying to say is that it shouldn’t effect shidduchim bec so what u strugle a few weeks a year in flares but hashem gave that to me as my nisoyan and I’m so greatfull for that….ill be entering shidduchim this summer I really hope that a girl can see that even though I might struggle with crohns but I have a lot of good in me that many don’t have bec they weren’t forced to appreciate the little stuff…..” I didn’t realize how strong I was until I was forced to know”
Sure u have to get tested..but every1 has issues so if ur not gonna marry some1 that has a genetic desiese that doesnt danger ur life is foolish..
Hi i am a bachur with crohns and i would just like to let every1 know one thing..WHATS WRONG IF YOUR KIDS HAVE CROHNS?? I thank hashem all the time for giving me crohns, it make you appreciate and enjoy the little things in life so much more. Plus it has made me so strong i can honestly say i am a better person by 10 times since i had the zechus to fight crohns…So u ask will u date some1 like me? I answer, if u have to debate i wouldnt want to marry YOU…