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we had a lot of fun in boomers ,it is same as six flags only better.
it sounds very normal on her part , let me explain the human nature is such that it hates to be indebted to someone so the more we give to somebody the the less time we hear thank you ,when was the last time a child said thank you to a parent , when was the last time we said thank you to Hashem , but if some stranger does a smallest thing for us we shower them with all the blessing , why is that ? because nobody wants to feel inferior , nobody wants to feel like they need someone , nobody wants to feel like they in need of anything , so it is very normal for someone to whom one gave so much to distance one self and not to have any connections, But in the same time she needs all of you more than you need her and she herself knows it very well but she will never admit to that , so this my humble suggestion
try to get the relationship back , start slow maybe send her something like a card or an en email or just something else just to get her attention and build slowly , forget all the misunderstanding don’t even mention it unless ofcourse she wants to but otherwise forget about it, in the beginning she will be cold and not friendly but eventually she will be back to her self and guess what you won !!
hey you have nothing to loose but soo much to gain !!!
hazlocho
there are some situations when Rabbonim allow to date 2 people at the same time and there are situations when it is not allowed
this question should really be discussed with the Rav or Rebbezin
nobody can say anything until they know all the details
hazlocho raba
To know it all
no matter how much we know or understand we can never really know why anything happens ,i don’t want this to sound like a sermon or something but there is a reason for everything and our lives and everything else
that comes with it are in the hands of Hashem.
i have seen families who have very noble and chesheve yichus , Rabonim rosh yeshivos ,as well i have seen big baal habatim who are wealthy and rich and so on even they had hard time marrying of their children , and on the other hand i have seen really simple folks ( if there is such a thing) who married off their daughters and sons on first suggestions.
on the other hand i have seen smart intelligent people who have degrees in who knows what they don’t make too far in life and i have seen people who barely finished high school becoming wealthiest people over night.
basically what i am trying to say is don’t give up hope ! daven to the one who’s is in charge ! being in the shiduchim parsha is very hard emotionally and physically nobody is arguing with that , whoever says shiduchim is easy never dated in their live , it IS very hard
but eventually it comes .. don’t give up
hazlocho raba
happiest
i dont have any practical suggestions
but i would like to say that your post game me a lot of chizuk
i see there are other peple who still have inner strugles and still are in the middle of the battle.
thank you for your post
kol hakovod
keep up the fight we need more people like you !!!!