in the Sefer מנהג ישראל תורה the author writes (source needed – I will bli neder look it up) that any name other than the one the interred used other than what was used for Aliya when he was alive is considered דרכי האמורי
The number of people who complain about loshin hora yet visit blogs boggles my mind. Avada be zohir – but stay away for all our good.
The days of Shlomo Hamelech.
