Be willing to go out with girls who are heavier and/or more “plain.”
Women who are good looking have a pre-disposition to be high-maintest and expect more money out of you for her to consider you to even breathe in her vicinity (What part of Bat Melech do you not understand?).
Rabbi Mordechai Dolinskey (shlit”a) wrote a book called “Don’t Judge A Book By Its Cover.” In it he says males make looks a huge priority not because they are baalei taivoh but because of self-esteem.
Just let go, find female who is a ballit middot AND observes the dictates of leading mainstream ultra-orthodox Rabbis (Who are the truly Orthodox), and is especially careful with the halachos of dress code. If she does not believe in that, its unimportant to her, or is not comfortable with that, then that is a conclusive indicator that she has fundamental issues with her emunah and its neccarilly infecting her learning and shmirat ha’mitzvot. Such a girl must daven to the Ribono shel Olam and seek the guidance of a legitimate Torah personality.
Break your arrogance by dating an older woman. :^)
You are expected to make money if you want female companionship. When they called you a baby, they really meant you haven’t earned female companionship.
You have to earn it!
That’s a big shaylah, ask your posek. :^)
Ignore them, because they are following man-made delusions that are bad for your soul. :^)
“someone who posts topics with vague titles?”
They should be tested for aspergers, and if they are intelligent enough explain what proxy language is.
When know what you are doing when you squeeze a zefek, you aren’t fooling anyone.