The Great Unresolved Question About This Shabbos Rosh Chodesh

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(By Rabbi Yair Hoffman for 5TJT.com)

It is Shabbos Rosh Chodesh Elul.  And when Rosh Chodesh falls on Shabbos – there is a fascinating yet unresolved halachic question.

As a preface, we know that Rosh Chodesh is a special and festive occasion that symbolizes the renewal of the Jewish people. It is for this reason that the Shulchan Aruch rules that it is a Mitzvah to add food on the seudah of Rosh Chodesh. The Tur (Siman 419) cites a Psikta that states in regard to Rosh Chodesh that if one adds to Rosh Chodesh [in a seudah] then that person receives additions from Heaven.

THE MISHNA BRURAH’S VIEW

What many people do not necessarily know, however, is that the Mishna Brurah writes (419:2) that when Rosh Chodesh falls on Shabbos the medakdekim – those that are careful in Mitzvos add a special dish beyond what one normally does on Shabbos on account of Rosh Chodesh.  He cites the shaarei knesses hagedolah, the Eliyahu Rabba and the Chayei Odom.

IS IT JUST ONCE OR FOR ALL THREE MEALS?

The Mishna Brurah, however, is not clear as to whether it should be done just once on Shabbos or for each of the three meals on Shabbos.  The question perhaps is predicated upon the notion that Shabbos might be different because there is an obligation for three meals on Shabbos.  Whereas, on Rosh Chodesh – there is no obligation of a night meal.

Indeed, the author of the Shmiras Shabbos K’hilchasa (54:footnote 151), Rav Yehoshua Neuwirth zt”l (1927-2013), raises this question and remains with no answer. When Rosh Chodesh falls during the week – it is sufficient just to have extra food during the day meal.  But it is not so clear whether this is true for when Rosh Chodesh falls on Shabbos. [As an aside, Rav Neuwirth zt”l was born in Berlin and escaped Nazi Germany on the Kindertransport.  Imagine, chalillah, the loss if this wonderful attempt to save children did not exist].

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Perhaps as a slight indication that three times is preferable, the Bach writes that on a two day Rosh Chodesh that occurs on Shabbos and Sunday, it would not be sufficient to merely add to the Shabbos meal since it would not be identifiable that it is being done for Rosh Chodesh. On the other hand, the Yaavetz writes that one could just have a larger Melaveh Malka than one is accustomed to have which would indicate the other way.

RAV OVADIAH’S VIEW

Rav Ovadiah Yosef zt”l has a different approach. In Responsa Chazon Ovadiah Vol. I #8, he writes that one can fulfill two mitzvos with the same kezayis. However, the Mishna Brurah clearly indicates that for medakdekim – there should be a recognizable difference – unlike Rav Ovadiah Yoseph’s view.  It would seem that this would be a debate between Sefardim and Ashkenazim as to whether even medakdemim should do this or not.  For those who follow Rav Ovadiah – there is no need.  For those who follow the Mishna Brurah – it should be done.

SUGGESTION

There is an important Gemorah that may weigh in on this question. The Gemara (Beitzah 15b) tells us that money we spend for Shabbos is excluded from the predetermined sum we are destined to make that year. In other words, Hashem covers our Shabbos expenditures. In light of this Gemorah, the Mishna Brurah and the aforementioned Tur – if we can afford it and it won’t cause us to go into debt – it would be worthwhile to add an extra dish or item to each of the three meals.

We see something fascinating from Rav Moshe Chaim Luzzatto’s explanation of honoring Shabbos in his Mesillas Yesharim, chapter 9. He writes that Rav Nachman would contemplate what he would do according to his means to honor another person. The operative term is “according to his means.”  So based upon this Mesillas Yesharim – here are some suggestions:

For the night seudah – it could be a nicer meat (but mention that it is for Rosh Chodesh) such as ribs or London Broil.  If money is somewhat tighter – adding another type of fish in addition to gefilte fish such as salmon can do the trick.  If money is tighter – preparing a second choice of gefilte fish – with a different recipe is sufficient.

For the Shabbos day meal, adding a deli platter or just adding something to the salad that one normally doesn’t do.

For Shalos Seudos one can add sushi, or salmon or even an extra fruit platter. If one is milchig – a cheese cake can do the trick. If money is tight one can add ice cream for dessert.

Let us keep in mind that thinking of possible suggestions like we are doing in this article is actually a Mitzvah.   This is clearly seen from the Mesillas Yesharim’s explanation of Rav Nachman.  Wishing everyone a gut Shabbos and a guten chodesh.

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5 COMMENTS

  1. “…. Rav Nachman would contemplate what he would do according to his means to honor another person. The operative term is “according to his means.”

    הַלְוַאי the same standard were firmly established and applied across the board where yidden feel pressured to spend beyond their means for everything from buying an esrog to marrying their daughter and just about everything in between. Rabbonim, have tried, with limited success to scale down the escalating expenditures (not costs) of being a shomer torah u’mitzvos and wanting to be mehader one’s observance of the mitzvos.

  2. Are the specific examples necessary to the lesson in halacha? Why not just leave it up to the individual family to decide what “extra dish” can be served. I know one special Mother who baked (when possible) a certain type of cookie on Shabbos Rosh Chodesh. IMHO, the “if money is tight” suggestions are hurtful, insulting and lack sensitivity. It implies second best or “not as good as”.

  3. This article’s title is “The Great Unresolved Question About This Shabbos Rosh Chodesh”.
    Oh my gosh, this is the crisis of the day!
    If only this could be settled the geula will most certainly come! Sheesh!

  4. “[As an aside, Rav Neuwirth zt”l was born in Berlin and escaped Nazi Germany on the Kindertransport. Imagine, chalillah, the loss if this wonderful attempt to save children did not exist].”

    By the way Rav Neuwirth – and HaGaon Rav Pinchas Schreiber were from the miniscule amount of children who avoided or escaped the Zionists.

    Ran Neuwirth was forced by a Zionist representative to bored a ship on Shabbos. When he realsied that there had been absolutely no intention to sail on Shabbos and there was zero zero heter of pikuach nefesh he decided as a kappara to devote his life to ;earning and teaching hilchos Shabbos.

    The book ואתתר אנכי לבדי about Rabbi Schreiber’s life is a brilliant brilliant book and if one can read Ivrit well worth reading.

  5. Rabbi Hoffman, my minhag is that on shabbos I make one kugel. On shabbos rosh chodesh I make two kugels. And on shabbos roshosh chodesh chanukah I make three kugels. (Chanukah one should also have a shtikel seuda, just like rosh chodesh).

    Potato kugel, lokshin (sweet or Yerushalmi) kugel, apple kugel!

    The number of kugel corresponds to the number of Sifrei Torah taken out. A regular shabbos – one sefer. Shabbos rosh chodesh – two sefarim. Shabbos rosh chodesh chanukah – three seforim.

    This correlation with sifrei Torah is mentioned in Sefer Darchei CHaim vSholom (Munchatcher).