By Rabbi Yair Hoffman for 5tjt.com
In a new sefer that was just released entitled �Yevakshu MiPihu- Hilchos Tefillah Vol. III� there are hundreds of new rulings from Rav Elyashiv zt�l that have never been previously printed.� The author is Rav Zelig Kosovsky who was present with Rav Elyashiv for over 20 years.� The sefer has the backing of Rav Elyashiv�s family members.� What follows are some highlights from chapter twenty-nine in the sefer.� Some of the questions were combined together and re-organized by this author (RYH).
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- It is permitted to hear the voice of a woman who is speaking.
- It is not permitted to hear the voice of a woman singing unless two factors are present: 1] He is accustomed to hear her singing and 2] He became accustomed to hear her singing in a permitted manner. In other words if he only became accustomed to her voice by hearing it in a forbidden manner it is still forbidden for him to hear it.� It is forbidden even regarding a Baal Teshuvah who became accustomed to hear a voice b�issur.
- He may hear his daughter�s voice or his sister�s voice if he was accustomed to hear it. This is permitted lechatchilah. Even if she is sixteen and he is twenty.
- Even though he may hear his daughter or his sister singing � he may not recite the shaim Hashem, psukim, or dvarim sheb�kedusha while hearing them sing. He may, however, sing zmiros with them as long as he sings �Hashem� instead of Hashem�s actual Name.
- A sister is permitted to sing while cleaning even if her brother is unaccustomed to hearing his sister�s voice since he does not pay attention to it.
- If a sister is married, however, it is proper to avoid hearing her sing.
- He may not hear his wife singing if she is Niddah.
- Regarding an adult daughter, one can assume that the father is used to her voice.
- In regard to the reading of the Ramah in OC 75:3 � that if he is used to her voice it is not considered an ervah � the reference is to her singing voice not her speaking voice.� When Rav Chaim Kanievsky (Shoneh Halachos 75:25) writes that it is her speaking voice, this is for chumrah but not for halacha.
- Singing in front of a brother-in-law is forbidden. At age seven it is forbidden – between four and seven there is a hiddur not to do so.
- The age in which a girl�s voice should be considered ervah is unclear. Certainly, three or four would be permitted.� It would appear that by age seven or eight there may be a concern that it may lead to improper thoughts.� In terms of chinuch it is not proper for girls of such an age to be singing in front of men.
- When one is (forced to be) present when a woman is singing he should focus on other matters so that he will not be hearing her voice. If a man lives next to a playgroup or Gan � and the teacher or Morah is singing � he should not focus on her singing and there is no prohibition.
- An alef-bais Rebbe who enters a playgroup where a woman is singing to other children in the other corner, and he has no other place to go, may teach – he should not focus on her singing and there is no prohibition.
- Someone who lives next to a girls� seminary where there is singing and he needs to bentch – he should not focus on the singing and there is no prohibition.
- Someone whose wife is singing while putting the kids to bed and she is in a state of Niddah – he should not focus on her singing and there is no prohibition of him hearing her.
- A husband may not even listen to a tape of his own wife singing if she is in a state of Niddah � even if it was recorded when she was tehorah, as this can bring one to hirhur.
- An adopted boy may not hear the singing of a sister unrelated to him biologically.
- Even old men are forbidden to hear a woman sing.
- A taped female voice is technically not considered kol isha, however, if it can come to cause the listener to have improper thoughts it is forbidden.
- A Kiruv organization may create a tape of daughters singing in order to be mekarev their irreligious fathers since this is technically not Kol Isha.
- A woman may sing, record, and sell songs in a store for girls or women. She need not concern herself that men might listen since this is technically not kol isha.
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3 Responses
R’ Moshe ZTZ”L held that adopted relatives are as biological ones for this and even for Yichud and Negiah. This is assuming that the adoption took place at a very young age.
I believe that kitzur Shulchon Aruch says that if it�s a group it is not a problem. Do we not hold like that ? I�m wondering because of the psak of being next to seminary , I assume that would be a group, no ?
Wedding videographers are prohibited from filming the women’s section dancing and singing since the wedding video is intended to be, and will be, viewed by men.