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‘Al taam ve’al reyach’ and all that. you’d prefer less coconut, the next guy prefers double the coconut and 1/2 the chocolate. Smile and say thanks!! Now that changes if the person is working onthe recipe and is asking every taster for feedback so that they can tweak it- if asked, phrase it nicely… “love it the way it is, and maybe it would be worth a try to see if less cocolnt would also be good” vehameivin yavin.
If you are asking if it would be looked at as out of the ordinary and you want to stay “in the box” at least for a first date, many pple start off in a lounge or the like, and after a bit offer your date the option of taking a walk around. So plan your date in a place this might make sense, it’s totally normal and acceptable.
Getting past being an individual and becoming greater than yourself…
Not the PC response in these shidduch-crisis-times… 20 seems a touch young; I’d have to be very convinced about the particular guy to go for 1 so young for my daughter, at age 18,19 or 22.
“I’m not a rav but…”
stop right there.
Please call your local orthodox rabbi!!!!!!!