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  • in reply to: adopt a kollel #1027599
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    Yerushalmi: I think that’s a fabulous idea.

    in reply to: Girl I want to get engaged to wants me to change my Rabbi #1047141
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    bym: On many issues it is a posek or rav that needs to make the decision. This is an issue of aseh lecho rav and should be decided on with his rav.

    in reply to: Girl I want to get engaged to wants me to change my Rabbi #1047127
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    My mom always warned not to marry a guy and expect to change him after marriage from his old habits.

    in reply to: Conformity for its own sake #1026921
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    Members of sports teams display conformity as do military personnel. Businessmen used to too.

    In Eretz Mitzrayim we refused to change our names, language and clothing. There was conformity.

    Does this have them do with ????? ??????

    in reply to: Changing a rabbi through a text on the third date #1026910
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    Change your date, instead.

    in reply to: CovenantEyes vs. K9 Web Protection #1091055
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    Anyone with experience using CovenantEyes?

    in reply to: Girl I want to get engaged to wants me to change my Rabbi #1047119
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    Sam, aseh lecho rav. If this rov is his rov as in aseh lecho rav, then this is the rov he needs to ask this shaila, especially as this is a major life event (forcing to change the rav of aseh lecho rav).

    in reply to: Ending it after 10 dates over text #1027197
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    Menachem, so how does the date find out that it’s over?

    in reply to: Girl I want to get engaged to wants me to change my Rabbi #1047112
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    Aseh Lecho Rav. You need one Rav who is your go-to for all life’s major questions. Do not deviate. And as your Rav what to do in this case.

    in reply to: Engaged on 3rd date #1027032
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    Didn’t Yitzchok Avinu get engaged before his first date?

    in reply to: Ending it after 10 dates over text #1027187
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    Is there any different protocol or societal expectation (in the yeshivishe community) about telling in person if it were the girl deciding to break it off rather than the guy?

    in reply to: Are white skirts not tzanuah? #1034504
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    Mobico, which and whose minhag yisroel? Where is this brought down and how old is it?

    in reply to: Ending it after 10 dates over text #1027184
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    How does it typically go in the yeshivishe world after a couple date for a while? Does it typically go through the shadchan, if one side decides to break it off, or typically the girl will call the guy (or vice versa) or it could go either way?

    in reply to: Are white skirts not tzanuah? #1034501
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    Sam, do single women tend to forget yaale vyovo or is it married women who tend to forget?

    in reply to: What's going on with YWN site? #1026472
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    I’m having the same problem today. Didn’t have this issue previously.

    in reply to: A Humorous Item #1173817
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    There are 10 kinds of people in the world; those who understand binary and those who don’t.

    in reply to: Are white skirts not tzanuah? #1034496
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    bym: Sam is correct. There isn’t anything wrong with discussing the particulars of the various legal parameters required to fulfil this obligation. In fact it is a necessary topic.

    in reply to: OnlySimchas #1026605
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    How do you delete a page if there was a divorce cv and now every time someone googles either of the couples name, the OS engagement/wedding page is one of the top results? (And the person who created the page is not family and you have no contact with her and she no longer has her os login.) Are you forever stuck having an engagement/wedding page as a top result for google searches?

    in reply to: Is the chassidish way better? #1035240
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    When you’re 25 and he’s 23 no one will think twice about the age difference.

    in reply to: Is the chassidish way better? #1035238
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    It’s also normal in the modern O world for a girl to be two years older. And in the secular world. So where *isn’t* it normal?

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