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  • in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154259
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    Joseph- “I believe hunting for sport ought to be a crime”

    Agreed.

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154258
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    Avram in MD, I dont know about the gorilla case because I don’t know the details. But for the loin I think unless the dentist gave a public apology people should be informed about what he did and they can choose to boy cot his practice.

    I think the fact that it was legal is atrocious, and the government officials should be held responsible. If a law was broken they should be prosecuted.

    in reply to: How to regulate who your children are friends with #1153598
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    I can so see it.

    You sitting there brewing by your computer saying “I hate so many of the people here how can I express my rage, oh I know, Ill imply that because of your evil beliefs your children will be ex-communicated! I’ll ask it as a question!”

    Not saying others on the other side don’t do similar. Just want to call a spade a spade.

    in reply to: How to regulate who your children are friends with #1153596
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    Or…..

    Is it a subtle threat? Saying your children will be emotionally blackmailed and be left bereft of friends and suffer social ostracism by the charedi community because of your evil beliefs?

    Either way, I don’t think its a practical question.

    in reply to: How to regulate who your children are friends with #1153595
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    Joseph, I do not think this is a practical question. But rather, by asking this, it is an emotionally cathartic way of expressing your disapproval of others. By excluding your children from having friendships with such people (and yourself by proxy) you are validating your own beliefs by essentially saying “your kids are not good enough to play with my kids”.

    Why not just say “I hate your opinions and consider them so toxic I won’t even let me kids play with your kids.” Instead of asking it as a question?

    in reply to: How to regulate who your children are friends with #1153593
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    Joseph, by children’s homes do you mean children who go to an orthodox school, but their parents have different hashgachic views than yours?

    Or kids who go to public school and the like?

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154234
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    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154233
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    Rav Ovadia asserts that even non-Jews are forbidden to conduct bullfights. However, one may ask that a specific prohibition to conduct bullfights does not appear on the list of the Seven Noachide Laws that the Torah obligates all mankind to abide by.

    Rav Yehuda Amital (in a lecture at Yeshivat Har Etzion) answers that we see that the Torah expects and demands every human being to behave decently. Moreover, the Torah demands every human being to refrain from engaging in immoral activities, even if an activity is not formally prohibited by the Noachide code. Failure to do so will result in divine retribution.

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154231
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    “Hunting for the thrill is putting a GPS transmitter on the animal so you know exactly where it is and then killing it in a few hours.”

    Disgusting. This is how people are capable of doing the most horrific things. Its built into their nature to do evil. And this is the start of the desensitization process.

    I disagree with you in the sense that both types of hunting are for the “thrill” even hunting for sport. Only the latter is a worse form of it. You can perfectly enjoy nature without hunting for sport.

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154230
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    Compare this- popa_bar_abba: ” I didn’t really get killing animals for fun, but it didn’t seem like such a big deal either….. You should davka hunt”

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154225
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    “You are “preaching” to me about what not to get upset over as well”

    Bullet proof “logic” right there.

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154224
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    Just to be clear, I agree if there was even a small chance the gorilla would have killed the boy they should kill the gorilla.

    I would only be against it if it was “policy” to kill the gorilla even when no danger existed for PR or legal reasons. But this case looks legit.

    This gorilla case and the lion are totally not comparable.

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154128
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    *If not most a good chunk of them.

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154221
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    by Rabbi Howard Jachter

    In Teshuvot Yechaveh Daat (3:66), Rav Ovadia Yosef discusses the Halachic propriety of attending a bullfight and visiting a zoo. Although the first question appears obscure and the answer to the second question seems obvious, this Teshuva teaches vital lessons regarding our evaluation of cultural activities of the non-Jewish world. This insightful Teshuva has many other Halachic and Hashkafic (relating to Jewish Thought) implications that we shall elucidate in this essay.

    Bullfighting

    Similarly, the Ohr Hachaim Hakadosh (Vayikra 17:11) asserts that we have no right to kill an animal needlessly. This, he writes, explains the seemingly odd requirement of the Mishna (Sanhedrin 2a) to convene a panel of twenty-three judges to determine if an animal deserves to be put to death. Indeed, the Rama (Darchei Moshe Orach Chaim 316:2) writes that one who hunts with dogs will not participate in the feast of the Livyatan upon the arrival of the Mashiach.

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154127
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    I said, most of the “frum” ones are not really frum. You have to be very careful about this.

    in reply to: Camp yachad/ya had tours #1153540
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    Happy 60th birthday coming up.

    in reply to: Hated, persecuted minority? #1153387
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    Is there in general a lot of tension and anger between the frum and secular Israeli communities in Israel today?

    If so is it especially worse in any one city?

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153445
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    Which rishon said every 20th century Roshe Yeshiva is infallible???

    in reply to: How to regulate who your children are friends with #1153591
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    Visit the friends home and get to know the parents and their kids prior to letting your kids go there. Same thing parents have probably been doing for thousands of years.

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154121
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    “Yes there are a few shysters out there who try to milk every dollar from clients”

    Well, you obviously disagree. But what I have heard from people in the know and even seen youtube videos from ex-lawyers that the shysters are the norm, not the exception.

    I know lawyers have one of the highest suicide rates. It can be a crushing career for a sensitive soul.

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154119
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    ctlawyer- “Newbee, don’t believe what you are told.”

    So let me get this straight. I shouldn’t believe what I am told, even if it comes from close family and friends, unless it comes from you- an anonymous internet person.

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153439
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    Im starting to get the feeling Im the sucker who got stuck with a group of trolls. These are the ramblings of crazy people.

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154213
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    I guess everyone who has a family pet dog should kill it and send its meat to African children. All that money spent at the vet could have fed Chinese families. All the money spent on dog food could have gone to single mothers in India.

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154212
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    “Says the person trying to convince me that I cannot be upset that people value animal life more than human life…”

    False, you can be upset over whatever you want. But here you are preaching to everyone else what NOT to be upset over. Saying its wrong to be upset over this.

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153431
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    Little Froggie, thanks for calling the existence of me and my family along with millions of others at this point “Woopie Doo”. Very nice of you.

    Your mindset is most disturbing. All I can say it that baruch Hashem you were not raised by ISIS. Your logic literally makes no sense.

    Not to mention the thousands upon thousands of bale teshuva who come from these families today who are “better off dead”.

    Not to mention the thousands upon thousands of holocaust survivors who gave up orthodox Judaism after the holocaust.

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154115
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    CTLAWYER, sorry but being this information comes from a close family relative of mine that is an actual divorce lawyer along with other people I know, their knowledge and advise trumps yours.

    I have seen too many horror stories.

    On a personal note, may she have a complete refua shleima.

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153423
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    My ancestor who came to the US before the war remained orthodox. His siblings did not remain orthodox for long because they were murdered. My other grandfather who stayed and survived the holocaust and then came to America in the end anyway did not remain orthodox.

    You see how that logic you mentioned makes no sense in retrospect?

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154208
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    To give you an idea about the frustration. There are 7.4 billion people. At the time the gemara was written there was an estimate 1,000,000 lions. Today, the estimate is 20,000. More and more species and habitats are being destroyed every year. Hashem did not create such worldly wonders to be destroyed, made extinct, and tortured for no reason.

    If you dropped your plate of chicken after a long day or got into a bad fender bender you would probably be more upset over that than the human suffering you mentioned. So maybe we shouldn’t judge others on what and what not they can be upset over.

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153422
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    My ancestor came to the US before the war. He was able to keep fully shabbos, get married, keep kosher, earn enough money to live on, have children. Most of his siblings who did not leave with him were murdered. In the camps, you didn’t keep shabbos, you didn’t eat kosher if you were lucky enough to eat at all. You didn’t think about Torah, you thought about food.

    I would not be typing this right now if my ancestor who came here would have listened to you.

    -Not to mention the fact that the people who would put their lives in jeopardy to listen to a Rabbi are the ones who would follow the Torah anyway!

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153421
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    He can’t disagree with me, because he died before the war ended. I said in retrospect, anyone who said its better to be murdered and violated in Auschwitz apposed to flee to the US was and is 100% wrong. Totally, completely wrong.

    If anyone disagrees with me about that, they are wrong too. I dont care who they are.

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154207
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    mw13, Im pretty sure if someone had tortured to death a child for a week, and took a photo with its corpse there would have been outrage as well.

    What are you doing to stop all this human suffering personally? Not the most noble quality to dictate what others can and cannot be emotionally upset over. To me, seeing an innocent creature who knew not right from wrong tortured to death by a wealthy dentist is something valid to feel distress over.

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154109
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    From what I am told, what divorce lawyers care most about is not their clients well-being, but taking as much money from their client as possible by encouraging divorces and dragging them out as long as possible.

    I doubt therapists do this like lawyers do, but selfish motives might come into play on occasion.

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154108
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    “therapists damaging peoples yiras shamayim, marriages, families”

    Thats a great one actually. Therapists often can do more harm than good.

    The entire secular court system and university I suppose you can say also leads to destroying marriage and families.

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154203
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    “Here we go again…”

    Saving someones life from imminent danger is very different than going into the jungle and torturing a wild lion to death for no other reason than to take your picture with its corps because you are a rich dentist with lots of money you don’t know what to do with.

    in reply to: Is the Outrage Over The Killing of Cecil the Lion Justified? #1154202
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    Actually, Im not sure what halacha would say about that. Joseph?

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153416
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    This is a great example of how tangents work though.

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153415
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    I believe its safe to say that ANYONE (Rabbi or not) who told people in the community to STAY IN NAZI GERMANY while they could have escaped to America was wrong in retrospect to give such advise. Does anyone disagree with this?

    I would probably not be around today if one set of my grandparents did not flee from Europe to the US before the holocaust.

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153406
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    Joseph, are you seriously advocating that it is best to be gassed to death in Nazi Germany than send your kids to Brooklyn?

    I don’t think this helps getting other people to move next to you in Brooklyn either.

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153405
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    “newbee, are you again mixing things up? I took no position. I simply asked a question and requested a source.”

    But you had an agenda no?

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153404
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    “Don’t trust this though (not that you would anyway)!”

    So modest, oy now that makes me want to trust it.

    in reply to: Stealing permitted in order to save ones life? #1153395
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    Joseph- Weren’t we just talking the other day how certain people here wouldn’t do well being your neighbor or going to your shule in Brooklyn and visa-versa? I don’t think you defending stealing from others in order to learn helps.

    But to answer your question, yes Im worried more about the second one than the first because if you psychically die you cant learn Torah ever again anyway. If you cant learn Torah you can still learn it in the future. Also, the second one if far more easy to rationalized and corrupted and cause anti-semtisim if its even true at all.

    in reply to: POVERTY IN ISRAEL #1152977
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    For many places in the US, the quality of life is not high enough to be called a developed country either.

    in reply to: Zionist Rabbi: Hareidi Cities should Guard Themselves #1153044
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    I feel like this has been discussed dozens of times on here already no?

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154104
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    All people do is waist their lives away with their family and learning old Torah books. They refuse to engage in disquisition on the pros and cons of Zionist Political Philosophy, its a shandah.

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154103
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    “Lack of thinking about The Ribono Shel Olam”

    I have tried bringing this subject up in the past, not many people wanted to think about it (well at a minimum didn’t want to talk about it).

    in reply to: The Torah v. Morals #1152052
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    As for Torah V Morals: its an issue when one could care less about kavod habrioys, ahavta lereacha kamocha, forgets the 5th chelek of shulchan aruch, and uses aggadah in the wrong context without appreciating the time, audience and subtleties it was intended for.

    in reply to: The Torah v. Morals #1152051
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    Joseph, again, I have heard rabonim say lemeisa shaking a woman’s hand is not automatically considered derech chiba today.

    Also, does anyone have a source for what the Chelkas Yoav says about this? I recall him having a unique approach.

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154087
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    Joseph, lets use the coffee room as an example. If you represent the typical mindset and behavior of chareidi Jews in concentrated tri-state areas, would it be best for other members of the coffee room to constantly live around you? What about the giyores we were talking about before would she do best in Lakewood being your neighbor? What about someone who has a limited income and has to pay rent for his family, would he do better in NYC or OOT.

    Some places are better for different people. Dont give in to the pressure that you have to live in Brooklyn. You have to go to CUNY Brooklyn. You have to pay rent in Brooklyn or Lakewood so you can be the best Jew. I think that pressure is starting to fade more and more today.

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154086
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    Thats great you should stay in the city its worth it for you. Does every frum Jew who moves to Brooklyn benefit from this to the extent it outweighs the negatives or even at all?

    in reply to: The biggest issue facing the Frum world #1154084
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    CTLAWYER, you should try out to be interviewed for one of those PBS Jewish History in America documentaries or that genealogy show.

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