Wonder if any גדולים would lend any credence to this comment.
Anyway, its a major compliment to all the thousands of couples who are still בשלום after 25.
A teenager rarely possesses the שקול הדעת to make such a far reaching decision.
He / she should make a list of their pros and cons which should be used to make a educated decision.
Hashemisone1 has a very valid point.
If u do not have a דעת תורה connection till today, this would be a wonderful opportunity to create one.
Not only is his future dependent on what decision is made, so are all his future dependents directly affected.
Parent’s consulting with a Rebbe of the child concerned, are logging in to Siyato Dishmayo.
Wishing you loads.
The entire world was subjected to a “מקוה” (mabul) granting a new start. Stay focused on the huge benefits & shortly you will be wondering whatever bothered you.
Thanks for the laugh
What a refreshing question on this website.
You are to be admired. May we all be as careful as you describe.
As above, the apushatayid correctly advised, you need to have someone with whom you can discuss these matters with on an ongoing basis. There is no global reply to what you are asking. Every circumstance has to be weighed. A solution for one child will not necessarily apply to another. It also depends where children go to school. etc etc….
Wishing you much Hatzlocho
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