Anyone who stays updated with the latest in Jewish music has surely seen the “Real Yidden” song “Emese Yid” that decries the TYH (Thank You Hashem) brand. I was, as I’m sure many of you were as well, shocked that Jews have descended to writing diss-tracks on each other in an effort to communicate about our culture. This on its own is an unfortunate slide in the perceived integrity of Jews on the public stage. Nonetheless, this debate has sparked a conversation of which values we hold dear as Orthodox Jews in 2026.
Thank You Hashem is a Jewish hype brand that makes religious Judaism more accessible and palatable for today’s younger generation. Such a cause is a great cause. For so many who have had negative experiences with their Judaism now have an inclusive, welcoming, and inspiring movement to be a part of.
Unfortunately, such a message of inclusivity and “Hashem loves me no matter what” is not without pitfalls. Yes, Hashem loves you no matter what. And yet, Hashem still has expectations of you. If coming close to Him means connecting to a Tzaddik for guidance and inspiration, then that is appropriate. But to supplant traditional Jewish values such as Torah study and adherence to Halacha with pseudospirituality is a mistake.
The problem is not that TYH followers consciously reject Torah – they don’t – it’s that the branding can unconsciously shift priorities for impressionable youth. The issue is subtle drift, not outright rebellion.
The real problem, however, arises in the practical implementation of this Hashkafa. To put it succinctly, “how am I to find my way in serving Hashem?”, “which avenues of connection are genuine, and which are imitation?”. That is the crux of this controversy.
Before assessing the arguments on both sides, it’s important to ask, “why is this controversy happening now?” The answer is that we find ourselves in a digital landscape. An environment where ideas are shared faster than they are conceived. A platform where anyone can build a following. Before social media, the barrier to becoming a leader was steep. One had to prove their authenticity to their community to become a valued source of wisdom. Mesorah trumped entertainment. This standard is eroding. For better or for worse, anyone can profess their philosophy online and attract a following. This cultural shift has set the stage for this controversy.
The implications of this shift are important. The burden of identifying reputable sources of Torah and Hashkafa has increased. Slop (drivel at best, obscenities at worst) is served around the clock. But more narrowly, we now have a schism in our own values.
So who’s right, Thank You Hashem or Real Yidden? Both and neither. This debate calls for a dialectical synthesis: Each position contains truth, but the real answer transcends both. When Real Yidden says, “If you want to be a real Emese Yid, open Shulchan Aruch it’s what your Zeidas did”, he is correct. A life without Halacha observance is a life squandered. However, the follow-up lyric, “It’s the only way Hashem wants to be close to you”, is false. There are many ways of connecting to Hashem that don’t fall squarely into narrowly defined Halacha observance. Character development, chesed, supporting one’s family, to name a few.
When TYH has children singing, “I want to be like Zusha”, and not “I want to be like Moshe Rabbeinu”, one has every right to object. At the same time, however, these lyrics need to be judged for what they are. These are song lyrics meant to inspire, not comprehensive Hashkafic statements. The danger isn’t in the songs themselves, but in letting them replace deeper Torah education rather than complement it.
Ultimately, neither side deserves the authority we’re giving them. Neither side is, or even claims to be, the standard of Orthodox Jewish Hashkafa. They’re just expressing what resonates with their audience – and yes, each captures some truth.
The real controversy isn’t TYH vs. Real Yidden – it’s whether we’ll let social media determine our Torah priorities, or whether we’ll reclaim the responsibility to seek guidance from our Rebbeim and Mesorah. The diss-track is just a symptom. The disease is thinking we can download Yiddishkeit from our feeds.
With hope and optimism for the future,
Zev Levin
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7 Responses
It’s very good to thank hashem, what’s not good is misleading people and teaching them that there’s no consequences for sinful behavior and that Hashem will love you and look the other way no matter what, which is the impression many of these ad campaigns give. Go look in Rambam hilchot teshuva for a very extensive list of people that Hashem does not love, until they repent
Perhaps it’s time to start pushing for Hasgachas on music like we have on food. One we put in my body, one we put in our soul. Both need a Kashrus.
> However, the follow-up lyric, “It’s the only way Hashem wants to be close to you”, is false. There are many ways of connecting to Hashem that don’t fall squarely into narrowly defined Halacha observance. Character development, chesed, supporting one’s family, to name a few.
The halachic parameters of the things mentioned are in fact defined in the Shulchan Aruch. However, in addition, learning Mussar Seforim are also necessary of course – but that never defies the practical Halacha as outlined in the Shulchan Aruch.
> it’s whether we’ll let social media determine our Torah priorities, or whether we’ll reclaim the responsibility to seek guidance from our Rebbeim and Mesorah.
The latter is precisely the message contained in the song!
Word for word:
“So make yourself a real Rebbi, connect to the Mesorah,
Of Yiras Shamayim, Torah and Avodah,”
Maybe this can explain, too , how Ele Stefansky baca,e so popular
justabout any pushback against the TYH trend is very welcome in my opinion, and ive never even heard of this “real yidden” thing.
“making religious Judaism more accessible and palatable for today’s younger generation” sound like a very bad mihalech to take. true torah judaism doesnt need to be made palatable, diracheha darchei no’am, so find a rebbi or chavrusa to learn real torah with, anddevote yourself to chessed and all the mitzvos and you will be a very happy fulfilled person. and if your too immature at your current stage then work on realizing the sweetness of yiddishkeit, dont invent a false replacement that claim to make it “palatable” bc i garuntee there is no substitute. dont change the Torah, work on yourself and change your bad middos and bad dayos. needhelp? learn mussar. seriously.
what nonsense (And kefira)! Hashem does NOT “love me no matter what”! He hates rashoyim and it is not too hard r”l to leave klal yisroel and join that group!
God does love you unconditionally but you are not exempt from the consequences of your actions and there are consequences. Consequences are the root of love.
But the thread in this post I see here is an ideology for groupthink against freedom of thought. And a push towards the old age of things which is censorship and conformity.
A new age is brewing one where freedom and learning right and wrong comes from true critical thinking which cannot live in a controlled box. But comes from being exposed to real dialogue. Your pushing the “let’s go back to zero dialogue” ideology which unfortunely and or fortunately is slowly becoming a visage of the past. We can’t go back the only thing we can do is become stronger in our understanding of right and wrong so that we are clear about our values despite the oppeness of the world. The new reality
What your pushing is ideological control. Just not saying it outright