ScooterJew613

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  • in reply to: Kaddish Wars…..Fast or slow kaddish in shul #1066026
    ScooterJew613
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    In a bigger shul perhaps that make sense but in smaler settings the mouners should be able to find a commn speed but that doesnt seem to happen

    in reply to: Shop Local vs Amazon #1007032
    ScooterJew613
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    From a person who sells on Amazon and have retail store I can tell you this much. My labor and time on Amazon is much cheaper to fulfill orders and I have several products that I can sell all over the place so i can lower my profit margin a bit. In retail where i have several on people who assist customers who come in to my store i always want to give attention to the walkin customers. But that time from my employees is needed and it costs me money an amazon order is pack and ship in 3 minutes no interaction. I am cheaper on Amazon for that reason. For instance something that retails in more store for 20 dollars i sell it on amazon for 17.50 plus i get shipping depending on the customer. Mind if a customer came in and asked for a discount I would honor it more than likely 20% off depending on the time of year.

    in reply to: How to Stop Nail Biting??? #944468
    ScooterJew613
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    A few things to do. 1. (Without therapy)Be conscious of what you are doing and realize that what you doing is disgusting, would you want your kids to that and especially would you want your friends to see you nail biter.

    2. You have a mouth fetish and give in to stress so start chewing gum, suck on lollipops, drink water, heck even smoke cigarettes if you have to whenever you get the urge to bite. (I don’t condone smoking because of the first rule of how you are being viewed)

    3. Put a rubber band around your wrist and snap it whenever you get the urge to bite your nails.

    4. Keep a nail file and clippers with you so you can keep your nails short.

    B Hatzlachah

    in reply to: Davening on a plane #915369
    ScooterJew613
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    I dont get it do you guys also shop shielahs until you get the answer you want. Rav Sheinberg doesnt have a written psak on the topic so until I hear it from the horses mouth it does not exsist. Everyone else has a written psak and clearly states you shouldnt do so. What exactly is the argument to have a minyan?

    in reply to: Who Will WinóROMNEY or OBAMA? #991912
    ScooterJew613
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    Brooklineborn

    Does anyone use medicaid, food stamps, medicare, Section 8, Child Health Plus or Family Health programs. HEAP.. Romney Ryan will kiss those goodbye.

    Did George Bush kiss those programs away….NO

    Did Ronald Reagan kiss those programs away….No

    Will Mitt Romney kiss those away………NO

    He still has a democratic senate to pass through and amongst other issues he has to overcome.

    Will make it harder a family to qualify for food stamps possibly I guarantee you this since you work and strive harder you will be fine. Ha Kadsh Baruch Hu will intervene on your behalf to make sure you are fine.

    in reply to: 5 YEAR SON HITING FATHER #900750
    ScooterJew613
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    Depends if he planned it or did it in a stage of rage and tantrum? 5 year old generally get a pass you have to ignore them dont get angry at them either because then you teach them it s okay to get angry. Stay calm ignore them OR put them in their room at shut the door

    in reply to: Segulah! Open Hashgacha from the one ABOVE! RE: FoodStamps #897929
    ScooterJew613
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    I WOULD ASK A SHAILAH IF WERE YOU. When you signed the form it clearly says you can misuse the funds and must only be used on your family. It also says you cant donate it either I believe. My wife is schtark with our card she didnt want to use on cupcakes for my sons 5th birthday party at school and for his party at the house. I had to fight with her to use on the Roast for yumtov she didnt she only used chicken and basic things for it. Thank goodness my in laws paid for the roast instead.

    in reply to: Punishment for Adulteress #892219
    ScooterJew613
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    yitzchokm

    Go back and check your Megillah, the first few times she was forced and the Midrash says her neshama left he body during Biah. However on the other nights when she sought out the King she seduced the King. The Rabbanu Tam (i believe and sure The Rambam both clearly state that she was not forced under that circumstance along with many other rishonim. Therefore Tozfos sites a source along with Rambam that a women is not held punishable if she has relations with a goy. EVEN when she is a niddah. Goyim dont have the mitzvah of niddah and are therfore putar.

    I am not saying I agree its a tough pill to swallow in A rav in 5 towns gave a shmuz on this I dont hear so I can say his name but I went and asked a rebbi of mine in Ner Yisrael Rav Singer and he personally showed me the sources.

    in reply to: Punishment for Adulteress #892216
    ScooterJew613
    Participant

    Ahaven Esther wasn’t punished

    in reply to: Punishment for Adulteress #892209
    ScooterJew613
    Participant

    Only punishment she really gets if she is m’zanah with another Jew by a goy this doesn’t apply. She also doesnt get punished either if its with a goy. The Rambam has a whole sheitah on this and is also in his Misha Torah. Many other people poskin like the Ramban too.

    in reply to: Taking children (3rd garde and up) to shul #891624
    ScooterJew613
    Participant

    Let me clear the air a bit hear, my wife doesnt scream or yell, but she makes it known that she is annoyed that I dont go to early davening like I normally do to assist with carpool. As for taking my son I actulally took my both my sons today although my 2nd grader is really ready he just wanted to tag along because big brother went to the 8:30 minyan. BUT we all learned together afterwards Chumash with my 2nd grader and mishnayos with my 4th.

    in reply to: Lubavitch #820169
    ScooterJew613
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    Dr. Seuss and Stuck.

    While your questions seem good in nature there is a very simple answer. The Baal Shem Tov had said before his death that Lubavitch was only going to have 6 leaders, at the end of the last Moshiach would come. Granted it was left wide open which is also why the Rebbe never had any children, as they felt from the decree in Shamayim was correct the could never discuss or point towars a new leader. I am not Lubavitch but I have spent time with them and have many open discussions with them. I dont attack them for there beliefs nor should we, as a Jew in order to bring Moshiach, Rav Frand said it best We must have Achtus as nation for a good din that will ultimatley bring us Moshiach.

    in reply to: girls!!!! DON"T SELL YOURSELVES CHEAP!!! #805738
    ScooterJew613
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    My wife and I were each others first date,we have been married now 11 years 5 kids later…..

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