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  • in reply to: Shidduch for ex-Modox bochur #1298208
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    Also I’m done with this conversation, you can review the tshuva with a real Rav and ask if this issue is comparable to a case of treif meat

    in reply to: Shidduch for ex-Modox bochur #1298202
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    No, but the issue involved in coed schools is not literally walking into a classroom with with boys and girls in it. The issue is being in an environment that may store up inappropriate thoughts or lead to inappropriate actions. Similar to going to a mall, or a water park ect.

    in reply to: Shidduch for ex-Modox bochur #1298182
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    Exactly, you must build other schools.
    While gathering funds and finding rabbaim for two schools, what do you do? That doesn’t happen quickly. If you come up short on money and teachers, what do you do?
    Lchatchila you build, you search for better options. When it’s not there, may you send a frum child or teen to a coed school or in those circumstances, or must you sit the school year out?

    in reply to: Shidduch for ex-Modox bochur #1298175
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    He is clearly speaking lchatchila as he answers it’s assur to have mixed classes and stresses you must go to a non coed yeshiva. He does not address when no such option exists, do you mix, go to public school, or not go to school at all.

    in reply to: Shidduch for ex-Modox bochur #1297551
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    Kol shecain if there are such schools, no? Granted it’s assur to choose a coed school over a separate school. But a coed school over public, or an unlicensed home school? In that particular case, do we say they’re equally assur, so better public school to involve fewer Jews in an aveira, or a coed Yeshiva high school to get at least some Torah. I don’t see where R’ Moshe is addressing that specifically.

    in reply to: Shidduch for ex-Modox bochur #1297345
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    He very clearly says it’s not always assur, there are cases it would be allowed.

    in reply to: Shidduch for ex-Modox bochur #1297094
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    I think they don’t really understand what assur means

    in reply to: Shidduch for ex-Modox bochur #1296274
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    I believe he says attend, not open. Is there a psak from American gedolim that say it’s always assur to send to coed schools, even in cases where the parents can’t send out of town? I’ve seen a few tshuvos in passing, not an expert. Rav Moshe seems to say co-ed schools should be avoided, but I don’t think he says assur always to attend.

    in reply to: Shidduch for ex-Modox bochur #1296108
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    He says you can open and attend if needed. Im not sure what financial situation is considered nescesary, just that if the schools are not financially stable enough separately, you can (or should) combine them otherwise people would send to public schools. It sounds like sending out of town to separate schools is clearly a better options, im just saying there no reason to say what this school or community is doing is clearly assur.

    in reply to: Shidduch for ex-Modox bochur #1295299
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    Rav ovadiah Yosef says co-ed yeshivah high school is better than public school, for communities that can only support one school. There are number sh’ut seforim that discuss it.

    in reply to: "Rabbi" Shmuly #1225617
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    To the op, Shmuely yanklowitz has said in an interview I heard that when he covered a second time it was more chareidi (his words), and he was living in Lakewood before moving more towards open Orthodoxy?.

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    I tried to find some sources for it, couldn’t come up with anything

    in reply to: Non-slip Tallis #1219394
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    My shabbos Tallis is non slip, weekday is regular, slight difference

    in reply to: Shutting Refugees out of America #1213227
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    On a side note, how about the Whitehouse officially not mentioning 6 million Jews killed in the Holocaust because “all innocent people suffered” during the Holocaust. I voted Trump, but that statement Literally sounds like a Holocaust deniers prepared it.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210521
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    It’s time for the truth, just about everyone pasken like R Shlomo Zalman ztl, and is machmir unless it’s tzarich gamur. Does Rav Dovid hold you can never use a shabbos elevator? ( And a shabbos elevator is really the same as a regular elevator in the case you are discussing due to not pushing buttons).

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209966
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    I’m actually reading that book now, thanks.

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209952
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    Not looking for anything to in depth, they have an english Rav zadok on the parsha series. I thought maybe he says something in there could help.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210380
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    Joseph, no. I’m saying some rishinom don’t hold that there is a strict “halachic line” of calf, knee, above knee, ECT…, that hold its dependent up to a point, and when the gemmarah refers to calf it was not to give halacha definition. I know that is not the halcha. They all to my knowledge hold a tank top would not be allowed as well.

    The only difference is a borderline case, “at the knee” that when your sitting might be iffy. Some people have said that is clearly assur, I’m saying we pasken it’s assur.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210375
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    Ym moderator 29, that is specifically not the context of the sources I gave. What you are saying is the Sevara to argue, (Wich is the psak we accept) and is based on the language and names of the parts of the body the gemarra uses. But other rishinim and achronim specifically do not distinguish above the calf, knee, above knee, ECT..

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210372
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    Clarification: upper arms and Above the calves

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210369
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    Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 75:1 talks about how tznious is dependent to your surroundings

    Rashi in Kesubos 72a includes calf as such a case, Kaf Hachayim 75:2 includes calf and arms, and I believe Rav Moshe also includes calf and arms as depending on your community but I need to double check. ( They all say body/low neckline is always ervah).

    Bottom line it is not completely clearly Assur by chazal, there are many more sources who hold arms and knees are not always ervah.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210367
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    Lilmod ulamemaid, Previous posts address halacha of tznious, please provide sources for where chazal state above knees and above elbows is completely Assur.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210346
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    David Rosenthal, check out topic Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209937
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    I’ve read a few OO psakim and articles, and often they justify new interpretations of halacha with Rav zadok and Rav gershon henoch leiner, saying they claim we have a better, or more atune understanding of halacha for our generation than previous doros, and we should trust our instincts. I’m assuming that’s the wrong way to understand Rav zadok. Hoping g someone here knows what Rav zadok was actually saying, his writing is difficult and as I’ve tried to go through his seforim on my own.

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209933
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    People are more aware and sensitive of what they are saying when there is a specific person that they are directing their comments too. It easier to understand insulting a person is mean. “The kollel world” isn’t a person, it’s more of a culture, and easier to not think about people a comment might hurt.

    Granted he insulted an entire segment

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210316
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    Open Orthodox say they follow all “Cardinal Precepts” very carefully and even more than most. because they take more rishonim into account.

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209930
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    It’s time for truth, maybe just repost the references with no comments that may be deemed offensive

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210313
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    I saw the letter from the moetzes hagedolah about OO, is that what you are referring to by stating “OO has been declared off-the-map of Orthodoxy” by rabbanim?

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209923
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    Again, looking for ideas of where to review hassidus sources that discuss halachic process or yerdos hadoros. Let’s try to stick to names of seforim or peirushim

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209922
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    in all honesty, assuming a person is to smug to have a reasonable conversation before even giving them a chance is pretty awful. Avi k made a nasty comment, but it was not to anyone in particular. If addressed him directly he would probably be more tame. Thats human nature in a one on one conversation, let’s assume he has basic human decency.

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209917
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    10 to 15 years is along time, especially when compared to historically marrying and working at 17.

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209910
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    Avi k, are you saying Rav zadok and isbizca really would support the changes being suggested? Or Rav Kook would support such ideas and changes? Or are their statement s just vauge enough for many interpretations

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209909
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    Twisted, I think Avi k was saying full time learning as part of the yeshivish world, is also a new idea,

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210299
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    Open Orthodox basically does not believe there is Torah Hashkafa. They openly say that we should find a way to make Torah reflect what we feel is right, and follow or own moral senses. Example, find a way to have women rabbis, activily support homosexual right to marriage, ECT…

    They openly say they do these things because they are the right thing to do, therefore do it. And just because the Torah seems to not support it, look harder and be more creative and you’ll find a support

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209903
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    oo articles often site Rav zadok and radzin about historical development of halacha (different applications by gedolim for each for), and Rav zadoks “different take” on yeridos hadoros (we have some meilos to previous Doris) to justify their own reinterpretation of halacha and hashkafa. I’m curios if any in the coffee has gone through of radzin hassidus and can clarify what they are actually saying. I am assuming oo is off the mark

    in reply to: Rabbi fights the mafia #1206938
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    Is this about rav ruevain published anywhere?

    in reply to: Rabbi fights the mafia #1206931
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    Thanks, I think it was Rav rueven I was trying to remember

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