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  • in reply to: Halacha Discussions, Obscure Heteirim, and the Modern Orthodox #795494

    Mikehall: I sincerly apologize. I had no intention to hurt your feelings ch”v. I would never in any way equate MO Jews who are shomer Torah U’mitzvos with Goyim ch”v. I was merely discussing philosophy, and I was expressing how I disagree with MO philosophy which I believe made changes to the traditional Orthodox Jewish philosophy. My philosophical opinions do not at all translate into a negative attitude towards any particular Jew who follows MO philosophy. I hope you are mochel me.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795628

    Yitayningwut: I checked out what Panentheism means. I can’t understand how you can compare Panentheism to the concept of Diveikus in Judaism. Panentheism means that the whole universe is part of God not only peoples souls. Panentheism attributes the physical world to God’s being. L’havdil, the concept of Deveikus in Judaism means that only the souls of the Jewish nation are one spiritual essence with God. Also the concept means that through unification, Jewish souls become part of God kaviyochol, not that Jewish souls are inheritly a part God ch”v. Addditionally, the unification of God with each individual Jew is not a ‘mitzius’ that happened at Matan Torah; but rather it is a new occurence that God constantly does with each individual Jew through the Jew’s actions of connecting himself with God.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795627

    In addition, the unity with God only happens through our actions. When we make ourselves spiritual and connect with Him, then unity happens and we actually become connected with God. However, without our ‘Avoda’ of connecting ourselves with Him, we will not become connected with Him. This is your answer regarding comparing the diveikus concept with l’havdil eleph havdolos Panentheism.

    in reply to: Halacha Discussions, Obscure Heteirim, and the Modern Orthodox #795477

    Yitaningwut: I’m discussing mitzvos bain adam l’makom which are not hard at all to be mihadar in them, like Daled Minim on Sukkos, Matzos on Pesach etc. Charedim are eager and motivated to seek out the mihudar ones, and MO don’t seem to really care much for hidurim. They look at hidurim as a funny concept.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795626

    I’m sorry but I am not well educated to know what L’havdil Panentheism is. I just literally translated the Zohar word for word. The same way Torah was imparted from God Himself, so are the Jews. It is also a possuk in Chumash “V’Atem Hadivakim B’Hashem Chaim Kulchem Hayom”- “You are connected with God, so you are all eternal today”. We are eternal because we are koviyachol an essence of God Himself. And the possuk in parshas Teruma “Vishuchanti Bisoichech-Bisoich Kol Echad V’Echad”, meaning God [the whole God Koviyachol] dwells within every Jew; you can’t get more unity than that. There are many other sources

    as well.

    I reiterate for the tenth time, the MO do not believe that the mitzvah of Limud Hatorah is in order to connect with God while learning the words of the Torah; therefore the above Diveikus is not accomplished during their learning.

    in reply to: Halacha Discussions, Obscure Heteirim, and the Modern Orthodox #795474

    Yitayningwut: The issue is the motivation. MO aren’t too motivated to be ‘mihadar’ in mitzvas bain adam l’makom, therefore they will usually follow the more lenient view; whereas Chareidim are motivated to be ‘mihadar’ with mitzvas bain adam l’makom, therefore they will generally want to follow the more stringent view.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795624

    Yitayningwut: I’m not well versed in all siforim chitzonim, but I can still vouch that the Diveikus concept in unique to Judaism. Maybe you don’t understand it well. The Deveikus concept means that the Jewish people are “One” with God. This means more than just connected occasionaly; it means that God, the Torah and Israel are Kaviyachol ONE ESSENCE. This is famously stated explicitly in the Zohar Hakodosh “Yisroel V’Orayasa V’Kudsha Brich Hu Chad Hu”, meaning ONE entity Kaviyochol. I highly doubt you will find any secular source matching this concept.

    As far as Litvish Hashkafa is concerned; first, you are mixing up the term Hashkafa with the term Machshava. Of course Litvaks have their Hashkafa. Hashkafa means outlook; every sect within Jewry have their own unique outlook of Judaism. You are also mixing up the concept of independent Diveikus with Hashem unconnected to Torah learning, to the concept of natural Diveikus with Hashem through Torah learning. The former is what your rebbe meant is not your concern; however the latter is the central and fundemental foundation of Litvish Mahalach/Hashkafa [call it whatever you want].

    I don’t really see a point in continuing my conversation with you, since you are just evading my points.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795621

    Yitayningwut: You got it all wrong. Deveikus is a unique concept exclusive to Judaism. No other religion believes that man can actually be connected with God.

    I don’t think you are familiar at all with Litvish Hashkafa; the Deveikus concept is absolutely the foundation of Litvish Hashkafa. According to Litvish Hashkafa, being ‘Daveik’ to Torah is in essence being Daveik with Hashem, because the Torah is an impartion from God Himself as GAW quoted from the Gemara/Midrash [see previous page].

    in reply to: Chasidish-Litvish Intermarriage #1043948

    Shilishi: Are you Chasidish? There was very few OTD back then. The vast majority of Eastern Europian Jewry were Frum Litvish before the Chasidish movement sweeped through Eastern Europe. Yes, many Litvish families became Chasidim on their own initative; but there were many who were recruited. Do you know the story of R’Leibele Eiger?

    in reply to: What makes someone Modern Orthodox? #797075

    Metrodriver: The Yekkish community and Rav Breuer Zt”l were vehemently against Modern Orthodoxy. RSRH held one should get a secular education in order to make a parnassah for the purpose of serving Hashem. He never held that secular education in a goal for itself. Anyone who is a true Orthodox Jew believes that there is only one goal for a Jew in this world, and that is to serve Hashem, and that’s all.

    in reply to: Chasidish-Litvish Intermarriage #1043946

    There was mass recruitment 200 years ago. And even today Chabad actively recruites Litvish Yeshiva boys.

    in reply to: Chasidish-Litvish Intermarriage #1043944

    Shilishi: Go review Chasidish history. How do you think a majority of Eastern European Jewry turned Chasidish?

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795615

    Itchsrulik, Mseeker: Let’s cut out this tit for tat, we’re supposed to be discussing philosophies not people.

    Itchsrulik: You don’t need to become a Chareidi; but I wouldn’t recommend identifying yourself as MO either. How about being a true Jew, not Chareidi and not MO?

    in reply to: What makes someone Modern Orthodox? #797072

    Oy vey kids: So you are honestly saying that you go attend college and dedicate your life for your degree and career in order to reach a higher level of Ahavas Hashem?

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795609

    Rav Solovetchik was an interesting personality, and it is very hard to get a clear understanding of him. On one hand he was an extremist Brisker, he hailed from the Brisker family whose ideology were considered the most extreme right of the Chareidi spectrum. But on the other hand he embraced the secular world and believed in integration with them. These two views are very self contradictory.

    Rav Hirsch and other German Rabbanim who believed in partial integration with the secular world, were not extremist in nature nor in their views of Judaism; so it’s easy to understand how their outlook of Judaism blended together with their leniency of being somewhat integrated with the secular world.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795606

    Yitayningwut: I didn’t say they have no meaning at all in what they do; of course that would be a ridiculous statement, given that all religions in the world carry at least some meaning to their adherents. I wrote that they don’t recognize the uniqueness of Judaism, and that Judaism is the only religion that carries with it the concept of “Deveikus”, meaning that every Jew is literally connected with God. This ‘Deveikus’ concept opens up a deep dimension in a person’s feelings, which only grows with each Torah learning and mitzvah which he subsequently does. This is the value which I claimed as central and exclusive to Chareidi philosophy.

    in reply to: What makes someone Modern Orthodox? #797069

    Yitayningwut: Which Torah source states that secular knowledge is necessary for the spiritual growth of a Jew? Can you qoute sources from ‘Halachic Man’?

    in reply to: Chasidish-Litvish Intermarriage #1043942

    Yaffo80: Chasidim have a tradition of turning Litvaks into Chasidim, w/o feeling any remorse for the anguish they bring on the Litvak’s family.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795602

    Mikehall: I don’t hate human beings, never mind Jews. It’s just hard for me to tolerate MO philosophy. Maybe in out of town communities people aren’t so philosophical, so they don’t care enough to argue about their philosophy.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795598

    Yitayningwut: I’m not splitting hairs. There is a root difference in Hashkafa between Chareidi Jewry and MO Jewry. I was just identifying what the root difference is. All the behavioral differences between the two communities are just a natural outcome of this root Hashkafic difference. Rav Yosha Ber made changes to the traditional way of thought of the Orthodox Jewish community; this is why his followers gave their philosophy a new name called “Modern Orthodoxy”.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795594

    Yitayningwut: Yes, Lishma means learning ‘sheim Torah’, but only after internalizing what the concept of Torah means. See my earlier posts on this thread where I clearly explain the Chareidi-MO split regarding understanding the concept of what Torah and Limud Hatorah means, and how this dramatically effects the self identification of a Chareidi vs. an MO Jew.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795591

    The title “Halachic Man” demonstrates the point of differentiation between Chareidi and MO. Halacha w/o hergesh/spiritual feelings is like a ‘Guf’ w/o a ‘Nishama’. Traditional Litvish Hashkafa connects the ‘Nishama/soul’ with the Torah learning/Halacha; whereas the MO philosophy separates the two from each other, thereby remaining solely with Halacha as the title of the sefer “Halachic Man” demonstrates.

    nw13: You are portraying Chareidim the way MO portrays them, not the way Chareidim portray themselves.

    in reply to: What makes someone Modern Orthodox? #797064

    nw13: Rav Hirsch did not create MO hashkafa. Torah Im Derech Eretz is a very different philosophy than Torah U’Mada.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795586

    Derech Hamelech: Can you quote a Torah source that learning secular studies accomplishes “Maale Hachol El Hakodesh” Btw, it actually accomplishes the opposite.

    Itche Srulik: So you are equating MO philosophy with Emes and Chareidi philosophy with Shtus? Chareidi philosophy is the traditional Jewish philosophy dating back over a millenim.

    Gavra: source for what? “Mitoch Shelo Lishma” means learning in order to become a recognized scholar, but still believing in the concept that the words of Torah learning literally connect oneself with Hashem. This kind of learning accomplishes in the long term ‘Lishma’-for the sake of learning. The learning I was discussing above was learning while lacking this fundemental belief; such learning is not classified under “Shelo Lishma” in the Gemara, and naturally will never accompish the “Lishma” which the Gemara refers to.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795582

    1) I have no problem if MO would give money to Yishivas knowing that they connect to Hashem through the Torah in the process. This is what Litvish Baal Batim do. The issue is that they don’t have these specific Kavanos when they give money.

    4) I meant that the concept of Emunas Chachamim goes hand in hand with the concept of Deveikus. If you really believe that your Rebbe/Rosh Yeshiva is connected to Hashem through his Torah learning and spiritually higher than yourself, then you will naturally be inclined to listen and follow his advice even if you don’t understand it well.

    5) This has nothing to do with texting on Shabbos. MO believe in Halacha but they do not necessarly believe in many Midrashim and Agaddah, as they question if it’s really Toras Moshe.

    BTW, RSRH was vehemently against Modern Orthodoxy.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795577

    One can learn Torah all day and actually be a great Torah Scholar, but if he doesn’t believe that during each word of Torah which he utters from his mouth he is literally connecting to Hashem, then he will not become a spiritually elevated person. Whereas, one who is not bright at all, but recognizes that with each word of Torah he utters he is literally connecting with Hashem, and sits and learns each day w/o ever becoming a recognized scholar, he is actually the one who becomes a spiritually elevated person, which is the real purpose of Limud Hatorah.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795573

    Gavra: 1) I don’t see how my two posts contradict one another. I just explained more in the second post.

    2) Aggadah in the Talmud is considered Midrash (as opposed to Halacha).

    3) There is big difference between believing in the general concept that a specific person who learns Torah is more spiritually elevated than another person, to believing that your Rebbe is the exclusive Rebbe.

    4) Emunas Chachamim derives from Deveikus. You only believe in a Chacham since you recognize that he is in essence spiritual material through his Deveikus.

    5) I’m discussing Chareidi-MO philosophy, not people.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795568

    Gavra: There is only one Deveikus concept. And yes, it is mifurash Midrash like you qouted (as well as many other sources). Both Litvaks and Chasidim believe that this is the core of Judaism. The difference between Litvaks and Chasidim is to whether Limud Hatorah is necessary to reach this Diveikus or not. I personally am a Litvak.

    Do you really believe that all MO sincerely believe in this Midrash? Do they really believe that a Talmid Chacham who learns Torah all day is on a higher spiritual plane then the layman who works? It’s clearly evident from their general lack of Emunas Chachamim that they actually do not believe this.

    in reply to: What makes someone a Charadi? #795565

    Gavra: A Chareidi is someone who believes in the concept of deveikus. In other words, that God is literally connected with every Jew if we first connect ourselves with Him. Deveikus is what defines a Chareidi Jew, and it stands at the core of the motivation of Chareidim to fulfill mitzvos bain adam l’makom, have a relationship with Hashem, and keep away from movies etc. I believe that MO philosophy of Judaism does not include belief in this ‘Diveikus’ concept.

    in reply to: A Lack Of Sensitivity #795191

    RSRH: Agreed. That was the approach of the Malbim and other German Rabbanim when dealing with the Reform. However, I agree with the OP that Hergesh/feelings for Yiddishkeit is a crucial element of Judaism as the Gemara says “Rachmana Liba Bo’ei”. You can’t qoute a halachic source which states that one is not yotzei a mitzah bain adam l’makom if he doesn’t feel any hergesh, but if someone is seriously lacking general hergesh for these mitzvos, then something is obviously seriously wrong with his Judaism.

    in reply to: A Lack Of Sensitivity #795186

    Modern Orthodox generally look for clear sources in halacha for all their religious practices. If you tell them it’s just a feeling, then they will say it’s just a Chasidish thing, since Chasidim do generally just follow their hergesh w/o bringing any clear halachic sources for all their chumros.

    in reply to: Skirts and Judaism #794417

    80: Quark2 is really a talmid chacham, check out his recent posts on the Tzizus thread. I don’t think he’s Mr Guberfield.

    in reply to: Pressure in Yeshivos #797302

    Gavra and peacemaker: Yeshivos taking in boys of less caliber is not the reason why Yeshivos aren’t producing Gedolim. The reason why they are not producing Gedolim is because even in the elite yeshivos the ambition is to become a rosh yeshiva and give shiurim on specific blatt Gemara, as opposed to becoming a talmid chacham and knowing Sha”s.

    in reply to: Pressure in Yeshivos #797296

    Gavra: I’ll agree with you that Yeshivos in Europe pre war were exclusively for the elitist, and that was R’ Chaim Volozihner’s intention when he established the first Yeshiva. However, in today’s day and age Yeshivos are universely necesssary in order to instill basic motivation for Yiddishkeit in our youth. If Yeshivos were segregated in the way you propose, then many would opt to go to college instead of merely being considered a second class Yeshiva student. To qoute Rav Hutner Zt”l, Yeshivas used to be like a Mishkan [for the elitist only], now yeshivos are like Noach’s Teiva; in other words we need regular Yeshivos for everyone in order to perserve Yiddishkeit.

    in reply to: Pressure in Yeshivos #797295

    Peacemaker: Based on what criteria are you deciding who belongs where? Does a natural masmid, who’s not so bright, have no right to learn forever by his shtender if that’s what he and his wife desires? We can’t kill childrens potential through deciding ourselves what their capabilities are. And as far as I know there are no official elite vs. second class Yeshivos.

    in reply to: Pressure in Yeshivos #797292

    GAW: How exactly do you expect to set the cutting line to decide who is sufficiently smart enough to join an elite Yeshiva? Doesn’t every Jew, regardless of how smart he is, have a right to strive for his own greatness? Are you willing to be in charge of this ‘Selection process’ and decide who will not be given a chance to try to achieve his Gadlus, based on your IQ test of him? Torah is a yirusha/inheritence for every single Jew, so every Jew can obtain Gadlus. I would not recommend at all this proposed segregation.

    in reply to: Texting on Shabbos could be worse than murder #794071

    Health: The Halacha l’moshe M’isinai refers only to the oinesh; the issur was well known before.

    The Midrash states that Avrohom Avinu stations himself at the entrance of Gehinom, all of his children he pulls out of Gehinom except for those who were Bo’el a Bas Neichar [Aramis] and thereby lost their “Ois Bris Kodesh”.

    The prohibition of Arayos is the foundation of our connection with Hashem. This is precisely why Bilam Harasha advised Mo’av specificly to be machshil Klal Yisroel through Arayos. As the posuk states “V’Ra’ah Bicha Ervas Davar V’shuv Mei’acharecha”.

    in reply to: How Often Do You Eat Meat? #1088153

    I don’t touch meat or chicken; I’m b’shitta a vegeterian. I do eat fish though. It seems like the 9 days became priviliged days in which you get to eat gormet milchig dishes which you can’t afford all year round.

    in reply to: Texting on Shabbos could be worse than murder #794053

    Health: “Lo Sachmod” is one of the Aseres Hadibros and it’s nevertheless not even punishable by Malkus. Are you implying that “Lo Sachmod” is more chamur than Bo’el Aramis because it’s one of the Aseres Hadibros?

    The Lav of “Lo Yihyeh Kodeish” is stated in parshas Mishpatim, way before Parshas Pinchos. Do you think Klal Yisroel thought being mezaneh is not a grave sin before Pinchos came around and killed Zimri?

    FYI, I’m not at all a Chasid.

    in reply to: Texting on Shabbos could be worse than murder #794041

    Health: sorry, I meant the Gemara Nidah 13A.

    I fail to understand why the Torah punishment of an aveira is the measuring stick to determine the severity of a specific aveira. You had yourself stated earlier that Ritzicha is more chamur than Shabbos even though its capital punishment is less severe than Chillul Shabbos. Someone who is Bo’el Aramis cha”v invites on himself a world of “Klipos” r”l, whereas someone who is merely mechalel shabbos cha”v does not metameh himself with all these “Klipos Teme’os” r”l,which is the essence of the real Gehinom.

    in reply to: Texting on Shabbos could be worse than murder #794035

    Health: Check up the Gemara in Krisus which states that one who transgresses a certain sin, its as if he transgressed all the 3 Chamuros. Do you hold that a Bo’el Aramis is less chamur than a one time Chillul Shabbos, just because Beth Din doesn’t give capital punishment for it?

    in reply to: Texting on Shabbos could be worse than murder #794029

    Yitayningwut: Great post, I agree with your analysis, thanks.

    in reply to: Texting on Shabbos could be worse than murder #794025

    I would say that interenet addiction to immodest sites are just as chamur as texting on shabbos. Once a teen becomes addicted to this r”l, he may lose his feelings of yiras shamayim and then won’t feel a barrier to texting privately on shabbos.

    in reply to: Texting on Shabbos could be worse than murder #794005

    Shilishi: I didn’t mean to infer that all children who text on Shabbos r”l are emotionally messed up. Many children are just not too inspired to keep Yiddishkeit. However, the many teens who are actually messed up emotionally, as a result of their parents/rabbaim abuse and humiliation, are definitely in the category of ‘Oi’nes’, and logically it would seem that the parents/rabbeim carry the ultimate responsibility for the child’s future actions, or they are at least responsible for the aveira of Ritzicha for emotionally killing this child for life.

    I don’t think Levi Aron’s actions is comparable to teens being mechalel shabbos; someone doesn’t kill a child unless he has muderous instincts with perverted ta’avos which he desires to fulfill; however through abusive/humiliating parents a child can lose his whole desire for Yiddishkeit, making all mitzvos absolutely meaningless to him. would you go daven each day if the words in tefila have absolutely no emotional meaning to you at all?

    And I was just qouting a Gemara regarding the severity of the issur of Loshon Hara; are you disagreeing with the Gemara?

    in reply to: Instilling a love of Yiddishkeit in our children #793534

    Teach your children to recognize their maalos through you pointing it out to them. When children are aware of their individual kishronos they will naturally become more motivated. When they do mitzvos like davening/learning/keeping Shabbos make sure to point out their accomplishments to them so they will naturally learn to appreciate the mitzvos which they do, thereby increasing their motivation to do more mitzvos.

    in reply to: Texting on Shabbos could be worse than murder #793997

    Popa, I would add that Loshon Hara is even worse than all of the above, as the Gemara says that at the end of times Hashem will forgive those who transgressed the 3 big Chamuros- killing/arayos/avoda zara, but Hashem will not forgive those who spoke Loshon Hara randomly -“Uma Yisron L’baal Haloshon”.

    Whoever messed up these teens in the first place, will get the ultimate punishment of all.

    in reply to: Why do we judge each other? #792763

    Mod80: I’m not well versed either. I just want to point out that the end of the possuk which popa qouted(“Yitamu Chataim Min Haaretz”)says “U’Rishaim Oid Einam”, so the posuk is discussing Rishaim.

    in reply to: Why do we judge each other? #792760

    Mod80: who is Rav Moshe Halberstadt? I need verses from the Torah or Talmud or Midrash; the Rishonim also have to be quoted with exact wording. The Gemara says its “Assur L’histakel Bifnei Rasha” since one can be spiritually harmed from this stare; however it doesn’t say that its a mitzvah or permitted to physically hate him.

    in reply to: Why do we judge each other? #792756

    Mod 80: Please cite sources for your quoted ‘mitzvah’? Its a mitzvah to wipe out Amalek, but its not written in the Torah that its a mitzvah to hate them.

    in reply to: Why do we judge each other? #792754

    Bar shattya: Its Assur to hate anyone. Hatred of people is evil, period. We must despise what the Torah describes as an essence of evil as the posuk in Tehilim says “Ohavei Hashem Sin’u Rah”, but we may never interpet the hatred in a practical way at a specific human being.

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