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Been on market for over 2 years, never had that problem yet. . . The rebbeim are doing a gr8 job teaching everything else. They don’t gotta teach us how to have a conversation with a girl!!
I was in Yeshiva full time and then started taking college courses at night. I cannot begin to tell you how much more productive the sedorim that I do learn are. Thank you Rebbeim for giving me the push to make the change, even though I’m in the parsha. I think all parents that realize that their son isn’t maximizing his time in yeshiva should push college!! And guys, the quality girls that I started being redd to were of the same caliber and if not higher!!
woke up early last year. Whole thing is overrated. . . Good Night, Enjoy your sleep.
We have set up a few funds. We are raising money for Rabbi Cornbagel Pidyon Shvuyin. Dr. Weissman doctor bills, and Rabbi Goldbergs house which went on fire. Please send checks payable to: Pleasehelp3jewishfamiliesgetbackonthierfeet. Or donate online at pleasehelp3jewishfamiliesgetbackontheirfeet.com. Tizku L’Mitzvos!! And thanks to cr for giving us the forum to bring such sensitive issues to the public.
Rabbi Reisman, a Rosh Yeshiva in Torah V’das and famous posek can be reached at 917-841-6698. I spoke to him tonight, he was very warm and said you should definitely call, and he will try to figure it out. He can be reached after 10:15 at night. If no answer try again a few minutes later. He also mentioned that you need not say your name if rather not. Wishing you much luck,
And btw thanks for that last post. . .Happy to hear you are on top of it. I was scared that maybe you got it off your shoulders and that’s it. . . Happy we able to be part of helping out.
Michelle- I don’t really understand your concern as i have zero contact with her but will only make a call for her. It is extremely hard and scary to make the first call which is why i offered. This wont be the first time i have done this. I know the Rabbonim well. Hatzlacha,
Growing, I will Bl”n take care of it tomorrow. Ill post when i did.
Therfore, leave it home, all will be fine. Chill.
Guys take it that she doesnt trust him. period.
Growinggirl, Wat u think about all the advice being shared?
Growinggirl- Dont worry, no one is perfect and everyone has things that they have to work on. . . I wouldn’t get bogged down by these things you expressed in last post. U’ll find the perfect match for yourself when the time is right. . . I never spoke to Rav Belsky personally, but im almost for certain that he will give you all the time you need. If you would like, I can gladly call him and let him know that I have referred you to him as you have a family halachik situation and that you will be calling. It may be easier for you if he is expecting your call. No names or info have to be exchanged, all you need to do is post back and ill do it. I call Rabonim often, so no biggy for me. Let me know,
Hi, thought these numbers might be helpfull.
Rabbi Yisroel P Gornish, you prob see his name as hasgacha on restaurants, but he is very big in geirus. He and his rebetzin are very warm and may be very helpfull. 718-376-3755.
Rabbi Yisroel Reisman, also great Posek, and heart of gold.
I am trying to find Rabbi Belsky’s number also.
Call them up, and ask if you can come down to talk in person. You do not have to give them your name if you rather not.
We are all behind you on this, and please update this post with how things develope. . .
Wow, very intersting! I feel bad deing the first to reply, i’m sure you will get a lot of inteligant answers. Your yearning for the truth is truly comendable. (Please excuse my grammar,).
I’m sure you are a terrific girl, and i dont think you will have to compromise in the slightest bec of your background. You may click better and respect each other greater if your future spouse also comes from a similar situation. There are plenty of top notch guys that have grown past their background.
About the other issue you mentioned. I give you credit for opening up, as i’m sure its been brewing up for a while inside. However i think this is not the right forum for this. This is pretty serious and sensitive topic. You must be in touch with a good bais din. If you had one teacher from the past that you trust, I would make her promise to keep it quiet, and have her walk through the whole thing with you. It may be hard to divulge, but you will feel a huge burden off your shoulder, knowing someone is behind you. Trust me, its worth it. Others on this forum may be able to refer you to other Rabbi’s that specialize in this area. But for your own good, do not take advice from anyone(as in other bloggers,such as myself). Wishing you luck on this clarification process. It will not be as scary as you think it is.
Keep on Davening to Hashem that he should give you the strength to keep strong throughout, and i’m sure you will!!!! Hatzlacha Rabbah!!!!