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Sparky I am very proud of you. In fact I have a Tora Mate were learning together for about a year. This family came a long way..The last few weeks we broke it through they became shomer shabbat. You can’t imagine how happy and thankful we all were..When someone wants to become better like you mentioned we all as a jewish nation want to help (especially here in this coffee room we are one big family) we got a little disapointed when you gave up so fast . We know you are very special. We all have our nisyonas Remember non of us are perfect ,we all want to get better and if we want enough the time will come and we will get there. Never give up…
Sparkly don’t be upset cause look how famous Trump is !!!!!!!!
Yes by being here and cheering us up with your positive attitude you did something great..
Sparkly Why don’t your read your posts.
Sparkly. Seems like you realy would want to do better. True it’s hard to stop doing things that give you pleasure especialy as you said you are depressed these pleasures might be an outlet for you like watching t.v. talking to guys etc. I think if you would find a frum counselor to listen and guide you might be very beneficial for you. You might be surprised what difference it can make. No you are not sick or crazy for doing that. I beleive it’s a mature decision for any one to do .
I also beleive you are far from looking forward to college next week and that can have a strong impact on you. Please don’t take anything personal,I might be wrong . Its just my assumption.
L.u. cause you have your head on your shoulders . The right words the right time.
l u.I have seen your post many times . I am impressed.
Sparkly. scared you will do more then you need to . Or just doing things over and over never feel good enough. Rather stay the way you are.
you moved the wrong way.
oh your scared of o.c.d. I understand.
well gogogooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
untill you have a hearth attack… and for good reasons
Red light stop (stop what your doing right now)
Yellow light think (think whats right or wrong, good or bad)
Green light now go (Of course after you made a good decision)
Hold off it’s red light….
Sparkly. What turned you off so fast?
It realy depends whats more important for you.. your pain when your boys go back ..or your boys haveing family time when they come home..
I know I am into a big argument now…
To be good takes effort and to be (bad) might just be easier or maybe fun.
Whatever you do ,you do for yourself. If you make the effort to be good to do what’s right you will in return feel good about yourself and you will have a good name. If you just don’t care and do something wrong your definitely going to pay the price for it. If you are refering lifnim mashiras hadin like you wrote on your post, then thats a different story.
what do you mean by becoming more religious? What exactly is on your mind?
Of course if you want is very meaningful. Hashem knows your thoughts and your nisyoines. Why do you ever think there’s no point of being good? Because you fall back? That’s part of your nisoyan. Wanting to want is beautiful in itself. If you would do some good reasoning why you want you might want even stronger until you can stick to it with out to many falls.
One thing for sure NEVER GIVE UP. Even for the smallest effort you get schar.
#tosensethis29#youwillget40%#thinkitsworthit#howdoyoufeelpostingpostthatendenduplookingscrambledeggs.
I asked if it was clothing ?
Anything to do with clothing?
on my screen you look white and black . a black guy with a white beard or white guy with a black beard.
try to. thanks for bringing it to my att.
yes.thats what I ask
ia.got it.Borich Hashem you have no problems.Glad to hear that.You seem to be a careing husband …..beautiful…
anyone from coffee room
ia. I would love to help you but I am not sure what you are trying to tell me.Are you the kimputarin and you wake up every three hours cranky is that the point?
iacismma.There are some org.that sponsor for a short while. there are org.that sponsor suppers and overnight nurses to.
I am from America and from a heimisha neighberhood and if you read my post I stress Mothers must have rest regardless were ,if you managed with
out going kol kavod you must be very strong. Most mothers are not and because I do counseling I guess I know the results .I have to many cleints after having babies are on the verge…simply from lack of rest sleepless nights and overworked .It makes a BIG difference if they had a good rested kimpurt or you find yourself cooking supper 3 days after giving birth..
Its not the kimpert heim that I meant but yes it is a great place .
s.l. Why do children need to be told you need a rest from them? They should be told mommy needs to recover and she will come home when she feels better. I understand you want to rejoice with her.These places have father hours. I am sure your not with your wife 24/7 on every day basis. Having a baby is a stressful time for the whole family and also a rejoiceful time.But mommy MUST have her rest.
Icacismna .If you would rather have her go to her mothers house thats up to you.The point is SHE MUST HAVE REST…
syag lchochma..mothers go through horomonal and physical changes before and afterbirth, besides birth is in itself very stressful .They need to have loads of rest after birth in order to recover quicker .Thank god we have kimpaturin heim to help them. Go out of your way even if you cant afford it to give it to them.You will end up with a healthier wife and better mother.
Thank you Sparkly,isnt that the thread?
can you explain?
RebYid ..cute example
sparkly. How in the world are these examles an insult..These examples are for any one to read..just because its in your thread doesnt mean that I mean you, and if you took it personal, I am sorry please forgive me..
Thank you moderator 29. You did a good job .Sorry for my poor, english but glad that you understand.
Thats the impossible..
Sparklysparkels there is a big difference between taking care of siblings then taking care of your own children. For your own children the mothers instincts and love towards them makes the work much easier ,although you can still become stressed but still no comparison.
your brain is a muscle. Like every muscle needs exercise so does your brain.Try stretching your brain by practicing every day a new word ,a new telephone number,a new address play a game like sudoka ,rummy. When you do deep thinking you will notice your face turns red from the extra blood flow you are sending to your brain thats called stretching.But dont overdue by getting a headache.
i.u. of course its a compliment!!! I guess everyone has their own life style..as long as your happy and bussy.
l.u. you are over powering in every thread..good job
meno.no it means his name speaks by itself..
or even better sparklysparkels…and thats true.
NO.ITS NOT DANGEROUS…I just wont like it…but why do you realy care to know?
So you are in denial about her personality and try to convince yourself it wont happen again. That only provokes more pain when she abuses you. No matter how long you have been freinds.
m.a. that would be magic from a president. Clinton would promise that and obama would approve it.
King David
Now lets use the I statements see the difference.
You always take my book.You never ask permission .
I would like you to ask permission before you take my book.
You are mean and nasty for doing this.
I feel sorry if you think I am mean or nasty.
Can you stop acting like a baby.
I would like you to stop acting like a baby.
You never give me a chance.
I feel like I never get a chance.
When we attack like using the (you) they will defend and probably end up fighting.
When you use the (I) you help them understand how you feel and thats your right.. try it ..it works…