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s2021 – love EL OH EL
I just read a funny joke. A Jewish man became president and he finally convinced his mother to attend his inauguration. while he was giving his speech, his mother nudged the lady sitting next to her and said “you see the man up there. his brother is a doctor!!”
c’mon! that’s EL OH EL
and oberservanteen! no need for tissues…
okie dokie, i elect cshapiro! wipe away those tears dear
c’mon guys/girls! single life is great!!! just think about all your married friends who never had that single carefree years. most ppl get engaged down the line, so dont worry!!! You’ll get your single years and your married years!! enjoy the time now and make the most out of your time! your prince/princess will soon be coming!
hey, did i hear myself get nominated??? that’s cool. thanx observanteen. anybody against redheads in power? ya know we have a temper lol
I only think you can ask if you know there’s a chance he may know someone. i mean i work with a lot of guys, and some you can ask and some you cant. it depends on how old he is, frumkeit and if he’ll take it too far and get personal with you. it’s each person for themselves to make such a decision
yes i agree that’s how we should reply – but that’s not a converstion
Just confirming cause you said how could a Torah Jew not bring Hashem into conversation….
Zeeskit: How could one be a Torah oriented Jew and not bring HaShem into conversation???
um…honestly, do all our conversations have to include Hashem? I mean we could be thinking it, but perhaps it annoys ppl when everything is so Hashkafadic??!!
I happen to know that a certain Rav told the boys that the first dates should just be talk – naerishkeit
and of course, it all depends on how the vort/dvar Torah comes up
cshapiro – it was only really 2 guys who talked Torah. ya know that after dating for a while…at least by me, the type of guys you go out with are quite different from where you started. you can narrow it down more what you need..what bugs you. so the guys that talked Torah aren’t so recent 😉
allsgr8 – i think you’re very wrong. we should always want to marry someone who is better than us. no one is ever on the exact same page. and being that, you want someone better than you because you know your own faults and you prob dont want someone like that:) your’e supposed to grow from each other in marriage
yup i am truly red! those are gr8 colors…..
oh my! it was soooo mortifying! bartender was like: you have a beautiful girlfriend!!
I was ready to sink into the floor. and he didnt even crack a smile or wink! that’s what i wudve done if i was he. wtvr – i actualy just saw him engaged on only simchas the other day. it’s so nice to see the guys that you went out with move on.
I only wear black on first dates….my dad thinks i’m nuts. he would prob want me to go out with my hair in a pony and minimal makeup. he hates when i get all dressed up. and i quite agree. no guy likes when youre all caked upped. you should look as natural but as beautiful as possible. i did have some weird situations when a waiter/waitress complimented me on how i looked in front of the guy lol!!!!
i think the best way to stop it to put in a bite plate if you have one!
although i cant say i never eat some chocolate with a good book at night! and for girls, think about what you want to wear tomorrow and if you have to fit into it 🙂
all i’ll give away is the color of my hair! can you believe it that ppl dont want to marry it because of it!!!!???? whacko generation!
well im not saying that you should not talk any torah on dates….but def not on the first 2 or 3! thats pushing it! and i would totaly be turned away that talk about their looks and money! that’s soooo egotistic! first few dates should just be chit chat
i’ve gone on plenty of dates…and i’ve got a few notes for the guys:
1 – dont talk about learning…chaburas….
2 – dont’ say a dvar torah
3 – you’re allowed to take off your hat
4 – don’t ask the girl differences between seminaries. weird
5 – be chilled. you’re allowed to crack a joke on/to the girl
g’luck!
s2021 – yes, i do know more than one person who gets their face done before they got out on a date. go figure!
minols – no one in minimizing the emphasis you should put in learning, but when i see someone’s knees, from a ‘good’ BY girl, and cant even tell you what i feel!!!! it’s not normal! I think that there should be MORE talk about this issue!
mytake:
we had a man teaching us Tznuis, and hearing it from their prospective was VERY scary. He was a very chashuv man with a beard and all, and to hear how even he gets affected…wow! he was even crying!
i personaly always tuned out whenever we had a Rebbetzen teaching us Tznius. like whoope do! like i’m going to listen to them!
this was just the way i approached it…..
just dont overdue the blush – and you can always edit the picture and put on more blush in Adobe Photoshop. I corrected my picture….
honestly, when i look at the yearbook, i cant tell who got their makeup done. so if you cant find anyone for free, dont waste your money. and if you say you can do your makeup fairly well, u wont look like a clown:) just in order to not looke pale – go for the bronzer!! (or extra blush) but i totaly hear you if you dont want to look pale being that i’m pale ghost myself:)
and just a last thought – in a year or 2 your anyways going to laugh at how you looked! your face changes and so does your style
popa_bar_abba: that’s really beuatifull, but your a guy….and short pants look pretty pathetic! so please do throw them out!
lol mewho!!! dont think i wud ever get married if i wud give my 8th grade pix!!!!
I dont agree with the idea of giving your pix, but i can totaly understand them. every girl is labeled ‘stunning’ and that’s totaly not true. and guys can be very particular. a picture of a guy is totaly not needed because most guys are anyways not good looking 🙂 (sorry guys out there!)
oh boy I know how hard this is for all of us girls!!! i know that many cant understand why….
I used to wear very fitted clothing and just just skirts. and then i went to seminary 🙂 You could be laughing, but i really changed. you have no idea what a strugle it is to wear a longer skirt than everyone else!! but you have to stop thinking what everyone thinks because that’s not how you want to live your life! it’s your life and you can let everyone else laugh, but dont let it stop you!!! Just IGNORE all the comments! stick to your goals and you’ll see that you’ll come a long way! g’luck!
why can’t you do your own makeup???? I did my own for graduation pix and for graduation! I think it’s a waste of $$, but if you want to blow it, you can go to any department store and spend I think a minimum of $50 in order to get your face done. I like Mac, although make sure you get a good person! Sephora also does faces
I don’t know of any place that’s for free…sorry!
yaff80 – how bout putting on a bald cap? or if you have a beard, to spray it black or white?
i think i can honestly say thay i dont have any fears!