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Interesting question. i will be by Rav Nissim Karelitz on sunday, and i will ask him if their is a specific order that it should be said in.October 28, 2010 9:02 am at 9:02 am in reply to: Yated, Hamodia, Jewish Press? What Is Your Choice? #707549
Isn’t it a law that ‘none of the above’ is supposed to be an option?
when i cheat on chalav yisroel, than its keebler grasshoppers or mint girl scout cookies. Otherwise its stella de’ora fudge cookies
30 years ago, camp morris took the kids to a mets game. Today its an issur doraisa. I fear that in 30 more years the yeshivish world will consider it assur to speak to a girl you are courting a single word that isnt directly l’shaim chuppa. After reading the posts here, i see that i wont need to wait 30 years.
So let me get this straight? It isnt lashon hara because its not mindless? In otherwords its for a to’eles? Doesnt toeles have to lead to probable (or at least highly likely) change in metzios?
I know – im not a chinyuk, so how dare i challenge you tzadikai kinayim? After all, its well known that halachos do not apply to kinayim.
I am impressed that kinayim are so certain in their view, that they accept on their broad shoulders the responsibility of being over lashon hara
I must join my local chinyuk club, it seems to be an exciting and superior religion.
why on earth is this thread mutar?
the point of such a date is that often times a match is fine on paper, but after 3-4 dates their is still no spark. It may be strange, but a spontaneous date many times changes the fomal atmosphere and creates the needed spark. 25 years ago when i dated, it was accepted in the yeshivisha velt to go on dates to places that were conducive to laughter and fun. ie: shooting arcades – mini golf ect.
Here in israel, all the dates are carbon copies of each other. (meet at a hotel lobby – 44 min later you go on a walk for exactly 46 minutes, and than go home) My daughter claims that for the most part the bochrim themselves are carbon copies of each other, with no independent personality or thoughts. (80% of all conversation is based on what his rav said) Imagine if she would go out with 2 guys who have the same Rav? The conversation would be identical.
She was hoping that maybe by calling the shadchan and suggesting a spontaneous date, that it would create an atmosphere beyond the standard dry and boring she has experienced till now.
i mean where the girl suggests that they go out with only 2-7 hour advanced notice
Tov Pizza in Baltimore.
here is a website that has free tfillah shiurim in english by rebetzin neustadt. Rav brevda has shiurim in english and hebrew, so before you pay $, make sure it is the right lashon for you.
go to the homepage, and you will find hundreds of shiurim all for free
Rav Shlomo Brevda has many shmoozin on this topic. He is a brilliant speaker. You can find hundreds of his sichot online for a small fee.
I live in tzefas (near kikar ha’maginim) and i never heard of YOUR ‘admor’? Is he the admor that comes to town every now and than and dovens in the kosuv?
But everybody knows that what makes this town tick is that this town is just plain wacko, (na na’chs – Mashiach’ist – doped out balei teshuva – coverts who did so by simply stating ‘I AM A JEW’ ect. We are also a town of an incredibly high % of vegans and vegetarians.
So I am venturing a guess here (and this is pure speculation) But maybe YOUR admor owns a shechita factory?
Because to say r’l on such a thing is a distortion of halacha and Torah
See you at Sanz