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  • in reply to: PBA has flown the coop #1184072
    zahavasdad
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    In general in more MO shuls, the board of directors controls the shul, not the Rabbi. He is an employee. Most charedi shul (NOT all) the shul is a shteibel type where its the rabbi’s shul and he has more control.

    Honestly I dont think any charedi rabbi would refuse membership to someone who didnt keep halacha, unless they were blatant about it (Like driving to shul on shabbos and parking in front of the shul) If someone was known not to be as religious as others, outside the shul, but not blatantly, I think most charedi rabbis would let it go, or gently try to get them to keep more.

    Beating up people for Gets, in the USA , Is a Chilul Hashem. Its one thing if its quiet and nobody knows about it, but when it goes to the mainstream press, it is a BIG problem

    in reply to: talking to goyim about jewish religion #1183917
    zahavasdad
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    anyone can google stuff nowadays, better they hear it from you, than from googling

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184195
    zahavasdad
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    Emergency lights is actually the law for shuls. If a shul doesnt have one, go to another one.

    in reply to: Why Rabbaonim in Israel and America SILENT when Frum Soldiers Screamed At #1184304
    zahavasdad
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    Where do you think the Gedolim get their news from?

    Do you think they turn on their laptop on go to YWN for the latest news story?

    Do you think they turn on the Radio to 1010 wins and get the news or turn on Fox News to get the news?

    Do you think they read the New York Times Daily for the news?

    No they get the news from the Askanim , who “tell” then what is going on

    in reply to: PBA has flown the coop #1184069
    zahavasdad
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    I do find it fascinting with the frequent news stories in the mainstream media of Get Refusal and the tremoundus Chilul hashem such articles cause, the more charedim, dont dont anything and dont seem to care

    in reply to: PBA has flown the coop #1184068
    zahavasdad
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    They cannot enforce anything, however the Rabbis who perform the weddings can tell the people that they will not perform the wedding without the pre-nuptuals. If the people seek a civil marriage or “living in Sin” there is nothing the Rabbi can do.

    in reply to: PBA has flown the coop #1184065
    zahavasdad
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    The RCA cannot force dress codes on their communities.

    in reply to: PBA has flown the coop #1184056
    zahavasdad
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    Kiddiushin and Get isnt the problem by itself. The problem is the Torah and Chazal put safe guards into the get that would have avoided using the get as a weapon. However in the US in 2016, these safeguards are not availble. Its against the law to beat someone up and even community pressure doesnt always work as in a case I heard of where the man civially divorced his wife and then married a non-jew (Meaning he doesnt consider himself part of the jewish community anymore, so community pressure is non-existant)

    in reply to: Why Rabbaonim in Israel and America SILENT when Frum Soldiers Screamed At #1184301
    zahavasdad
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    Calling a Rav Infallible is really disrepectful for the Rav. When you say or insinuate that a Rav is Infallible, someone who is looking to find a mistake he said, will usually find it without looking very hard. and then others will say the Rav is a phony causing people to disrespect the Gedolim.

    better to be honest that gedolim are special people, who are not infallible and do make mistakes and people will respect that. Nobody expects them to be perfect unless they are put on a pedesel as and said they are.

    in reply to: Nafsheinu Mental Health organization? #1190148
    zahavasdad
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    Rather than Tzdekah, you should look into Medicaid or some other kinds of private insurance (Private insurance might not pay). Tzdekahs can only raise so much money especially with costs for mental health could be in the $100’s of thousands of dollars, that is really hard to raise

    in reply to: Zionists, Chareidim, and Handouts #1181112
    zahavasdad
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    Satmar and Brisk, like it or not , DO take from the government, just not direct aid.

    They use the Police, they use the roads, they use the public transportation and other government services.,

    They probably also use Kupat Cholim (Although I dont know this for sure)

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184184
    zahavasdad
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    In my shul, we do not have a landline and the phones are carried by the doctors.

    Jammers have nothing to do with siddurs apps, they will work without internet

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184181
    zahavasdad
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    Some people dont know the differnce between carrying a phone , turning off the ringer and checking it every 2 minuets. And no not everyone needs to carry it on shabbos, but at least 2 people in every shul (Usually doctors) should have access to one in case of an emergency. Like I said, Ive seen it happen more than once.

    And Once it looked really scary. Thankfully one of the doctors was there , and was able to call Hatzolah

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184175
    zahavasdad
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    They are not legal in Israel either.

    And its not true you cant use the phone on shabbos, You can use it for an emergency which I have seen more than once and Hatzoloah had to be called

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184171
    zahavasdad
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    Not every shul has a landline and even if it does, it might be in a place that is not easy to get to (Like a locked door) or the doorway is blocked for some other reason ie the stabber is right in front of it

    in reply to: Why Rabbaonim in Israel and America SILENT when Frum Soldiers Screamed At #1184293
    zahavasdad
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    Why don’t you ask why Rabbanim don’t speak out against drug dealers, thieves and murderers? Whatever reasons you can come up with, apply here as well.

    Most drug dealers, thieves and murderers do not come from their communities and therefore whatever they say really has no effect on them

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184165
    zahavasdad
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    Yes, the haf Nof Shul had cell phone jammers, it came out in several news sources

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184164
    zahavasdad
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    If someone is coming into the shul stabbing peple, its not rude to use it

    Also unfortunatly there have been incidents in my shuls where Hatzolah needed to be called (A few doctors carry their phones 24/7)

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184156
    zahavasdad
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    MA

    Pretty much so

    They are illegal in most countries

    in reply to: Cellphone Jammers in Shuls #1184154
    zahavasdad
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    There was a terrorist attack in jerusalem a couple of years ago. I think 4 men were stabbed by the terrorist. It seems the shul emnployed a cell phone jamming device and people could not call for help.

    Because people were running for the door, it created a log jam of people trying to get out and it took longer for help to come and the terrorist was able to inflict more damage.

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181071
    zahavasdad
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    $25,000 sounds like alot, but it really isnt. Especially if their business model was having people hang around and order stuff for hours while watching the football game

    in reply to: Zionism, Apikorsos? #1185457
    zahavasdad
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    People are willing to condem Rav Kook for not seeing that a real torah state does not currently exist in Israel, but how many are willing to condem those who said torah could not exist in the US or Israel? and their unwillingness to see that it could probably helped exaserbate the sitation today. had more yeshivas been built in NY before WW II, and even WW I the yiddishkeite situation would likely be differnet than it is today

    in reply to: Zionism, Apikorsos? #1185454
    zahavasdad
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    Not getting into the issue at hand, (how I wish I had the time I used to… the place here would ROCK, SHAKE & QUAKE!!) he knew what he was talking about.. he had open Nevuah.. it’s not a secret

    JMO but it really does give lack of Kavod to the Rav to give him Nevuah. Rav Wasserman was one of the greatest gedolim of the previous generation. However to credit him with Nevuah, leaves him open. It leaves the question open, if he had Nevuah, why didnt he tell people to get away. It causes people to lose emunah chamachim. People will ask if he knew why didnt he tell people and there is no way out.

    in reply to: Zionism, Apikorsos? #1185452
    zahavasdad
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    You obviously missed the point

    It has nothing to do with modern, things DID change after the war. Almost every gadol forbid leaving Europe for either the US or Palestine that is not an opinion. They all said one should stay in Europe. That is a fact.

    After the war it was impossible to stay in Europe, that is also a fact. Not being modern , It is a fact.

    Of the few Gedolim who survived the war including the Satmar Rav who clearly before the war forbid people to leave Europe, even he left forst to Palestine and then settled in the US, which he expressly forbid before.

    Of all the Rabbanim who survived the war, how many stayed in Europe after?

    Things did change, whether you want to admit it or not. The future of yiddishkeite no longer was in Europe, but in Palestine and the US.

    And finally let us not forget communism, most of the jews lived before the war in countries that would become communist and religion would become forbidden there. The jewish community did not get back the Building for Yeshiva Chamei Lublin which was finished in 1930 and closed in 1939 until I think 2004. And it is STILL not totally a yeshiva, its partially a hotel

    in reply to: Swastika Necklace #1180763
    zahavasdad
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    aliexpress is a part of Alibaba which is a chinese type eBay. Its a way for chinese sellers to sell to the rest of the world

    in reply to: Issurim in voting #1180746
    zahavasdad
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    All that i said was that in the 2016 Presidential general election it is assur to vote.

    Assur according to whom?

    in reply to: Issurim in voting #1180744
    zahavasdad
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    Please name some Rabbanim who claim its assur to vote in the US

    in reply to: Zionism, Apikorsos? #1185443
    zahavasdad
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    Actually the anti-zionism comes from the Muncatcher Rebbe. His son actually left Muncatch after the war because he felt zionism was the only answer after the war.

    It is foolish to quote Rav Elchanon Wasserman. While its true before the war he was against Zionism, and he was against going to the US as well, we do not know what he would have said in 1945 had he lived and staying in Europe was not a possibility anymore

    in reply to: Swastika Necklace #1180757
    zahavasdad
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    I belive Aliexpress is a chinese company and most of the sellers are in China who might not be aware of the symbolism

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181061
    zahavasdad
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    Which is a worse Averiah watching the football game while drinking beer or telling someone else Lashon Harah that someone did it

    in reply to: Zionism, Apikorsos? #1185435
    zahavasdad
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    The problem with the Satmar Rebbe’s postion was he felt a jew should not leave Europe, however the war changed that reality and the jews who were left could not stay in Europe anymore.

    He also banned going to the USA and of course he changed his position

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181058
    zahavasdad
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    Besides being creepy, taking photographs of people entering an establishment and passing the pictures around might very well be Loshon Harah and therefore against halacha

    in reply to: Why Rabbaonim in Israel and America SILENT when Frum Soldiers Screamed At #1184286
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    in reply to: Why Rabbaonim in Israel and America SILENT when Frum Soldiers Screamed At #1184279
    zahavasdad
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    Most gedolim rarely leave the Beis Medrash, they dont read the news and dont really know what is going on unless Askanim tell them.

    They probably dont know about this as the Askanim dont tell them

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181045
    zahavasdad
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    Nobody forces anyone to go to any establishment. if a McDonalds opened up on Route 59, nboody would go and it wouldnt be a boycott either.

    If nobody would go to this sports bar, it would close up and no need for a boycott

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181044
    zahavasdad
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    I dont live in the 5 towns, but I do know there was a dispute with a place and the Vaad. Im not exactly sure what the dispute was about, but it did seem clear it wasnt about Kashruth, but more likely about money.

    There was also a dispute there about some wanted the vaad to put on the store that the owners were not Shomer Shabbos (The store was closed on Shabbos and had a Hashgacha, but the owners were not religious). That dispute almost split the Vaad

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181039
    zahavasdad
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    What do you think would have been result if a Sports bar opened in Monsey proper, but not under a Hashgha and open Friday night somewhere along Route 59 near a shul.

    And people went near it to protest the opening of an establishment in “Holy Monsey”

    in reply to: Lev Tahor – what now? #1184389
    zahavasdad
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    Im not sure the leaders can be prosecuted to actions related to adults. However they can be prosecuted for neglegence for children

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181010
    zahavasdad
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    I stand by my statement, if you dont like the establishment, dont go. It will likely close anyway due to the business model not working

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181009
    zahavasdad
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    The Kosher stands at the ballparks sell Beer

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181005
    zahavasdad
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    Ultimately it will be market that will decide if this place should be there or not, not some Kanoim, and likely the market will decide there just isnt enough business. However when Kanoim get involved they make the business more sympathtic and actually hurt their own cause.

    Better say nothing and let the business shut by itself, it likely will not re-open , however if Kanoim “close it” someone else might try

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181004
    zahavasdad
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    Ive been to Europe a number of times and I saw there that many of the Kosher restaurants serve Alchohol much more than they do here. It was a little shocking to see people having a beer with their meal at a restaurant , something I rarely if ever see here.

    Even Wine I saw much more common there than here (Wine or Beer depended on country. The Netherlands served Beer, Italy served Wine)

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1181002
    zahavasdad
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    A few years ago Mendy’s opened a Sports bar on the upper west side. It didnt last very long and it wasnt because of Kanoim, the business obviously wasnt there.

    I suspect if nobody had said anything about the one in Monsey , it likely would have closed too. People do not go to sports bars on Tuesday night, they go on Friday NIghts and Satudays when there are sports events going on and the Kosher sports bars wouldnt be open.

    Jews also tend not to drink alot, even if they drink, they might have 1 beer and at most 2. Many people who go to sports bars might drink 5 or 6 beers

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1180989
    zahavasdad
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    I dont know the exact store or the story, Only what was posted here

    But most likely it was the Hasghcha who told them to take them out

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1180986
    zahavasdad
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    The people who are “Boycotting” likely wouldnt go to this place in the first place

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1180983
    zahavasdad
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    There is no constitutional rights to free speech on private property, otherwise someone could walk into a shul and preach that if you dont accept “Him” you are “going somewhere” and claim free speech

    in reply to: Take the TV out of the Restaurant or we will shut you down #1180980
    zahavasdad
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    Who is making the threats?

    Is it the Kashruth agency or just some Kanoim?

    The Kashruth agency might have a point, the Kanoim should be arrested for tresspassing and harassment

    in reply to: Ideas in far rockaway #1180247
    zahavasdad
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    you can walk on the boardwalk in Atlantic Beach or the Prominade in Rockaway

    in reply to: Life insurance #1179800
    zahavasdad
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    There are people without Health Insurance. Is it a lack of Bitachon not to have that either?

    in reply to: Life insurance #1179785
    zahavasdad
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    Better to have insurance than C’V something happens and your spouse and children need help. There is no reason to raise Tzdekah if there is an easy way to solve the problem

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