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WOW WOW WOW thank you so much for that post ty! It really shook me to the core. Thanks for the wake up call.
ZEESKITE- You’re right that everyone in the coffee room is great, but no matter how great ppl are, no one is perfect. Of course ty’s post wasn’t aimed at anyone, just a nice little post that was written. I think that the people who needed to hear it appreciated it (even if they won’t admit it). Maybe instead of writing negative comments to this we can see the good in it.
Thanks again TY, it was great.
May all of klal yisrael be spared from pain and tzaaros and may we all be zoche to stay on the waiting list until 120.
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I am 20 and have a sister who is 22. My sister was able to date right when she felt she was ready to start dating, because the one above her was married. It is not a rule in my house that I have to wait BUT when I got home from seminary I waited. All of my friends are dating, and many of my friends are even married… but I haven’t even started dating. It’s been more than a year since I’ve been home from seminary and from an outsider’s point of view I should start dating. I mean yes 20 sounds young but let’s get real here, in the circles I’m in girls start dating at 19, sometimes 18. People think “oh you’re sister is only 22, you should go out” but, they don’t realize she’s been dating for four very long years. Her good friends are married and many have kids. It’s torture. My sister told me to start dating but I am conflicted. I want to start but when I think about it, would I really feel happy if I got engaged before she did? Even if she seemed happy for me, inside the pain would be unbareable. On the other side though, if she knew I was waiting for her,she’d feel even more pressure so, I just keep telling her I’m not ready. But I’m not a niviyah and so I don’t know when my sister will get married (it should be soon iyH) and so realistically how long should I allow myself to wait for her??? but then the same thought comes to mind that even if she chas veshalom was single when she was 27 and i was 25, would I really be happy if i got engaged before her? no. my simcha wouldnt be the same because I would feel the pain for her. So yes YOYA it’s easy to jump and say that (and it could very possibly be your in the same situation as me or you’re the older sibling in this situation), but there’s also the other side. I’ve learnt not to talk about families who have girls of shidduchim age because I realized that girls can either feel my way, or your way “yoya”. All I can say is that iyH this year should be a year that everyone who is in the parsha-no matter how old, should find their besert. May we all only have simchos.
were u in florida by any chance? I think I saw u on a date there!
I’m sorry I wasn’t specific before, I meant Miami-Collins Avenue. I also have a lot of questions as to if we could take a bus from collins avenue to some of the places we found out about-Alligator farm,Miami Seaquarium,jungle queen riverboat,jungle island,imax,marlins game… As of now we don’t have a car and taxi’s are super expensive to go from collins ave to these places so if we could take a bus for 2 bucks to these places then that would be amazing. Does anyone know about that?June 13, 2011 8:02 pm at 8:02 pm in reply to: why is it fair for a younger daughter to have to wait for the older daughter? #776311
I am the youngest and have a sister above me who is single. In my case, she WANTS me to start dating. She doesn’t want me to wait for her to find the one just because she hasn’t found hers yet. I didn’t tell her this but, I’m not starting to date because I can’t possibly imagine me getting engaged before her. I couldn’t be happy if I was engaged and she wasn’t. Of course she would be happy for me if I were to get engaged before her, but she would deep down be hurt. It’s hard enough when all the girls your age are married, she doesn’t need a younger sister married first. I told her I wasn’t ready to start dating, really it’s just because I want her to go first. Obviously at a certain point I’m going to have to go out even if chas ve’shalom she’s not married…that’s why I’m praying hard that she gets engaged before it gets to that point.
I also did 16 and 17!
I’ll take 11- 15!
I know EXACTLY how you feel! I was looking for a job for months and months and was going out of my mind and it can really be upsetting… now thank G-d I have three jobs! G-d willing u will get one really soon. Take this chance to get closer to G-d instead of getting upset at him. Maybe pray for someone else you know who needs a job, swap names and pray for each other! (I did that and we all found jobs!!). ALSO, WHERE DO YOU LIVE? I HEARD OF AN OFFICE JOB IN JERSEY CITY. If you live in California I don’t think u’d want to commute that far;) so… if possible please post a little more information that can help us help you! Thank you! Good luck!
Thanks so much! You can’t even imagine how big of a help you’ve been. Hashem should help you in your job… U really really helped tremendously, I can’t thank you enough! Hatzlacha in everything:)
Thank you mods for getting these posts out there so quickly!
i dnt know how to be more specific cuz i dnt understand it myself:( how do I get onto this live community? I tried googling it but got some strange thing…
live community could help me figure out what to do with these last two paragraphs? like i can just post it and pray someone can help me out?
i tried using that live community but im still having issues. I am so embarrassed because I shouldn’t be havving such issues. By the way random comment… I love your “Nothing in the world cures worry,stress…. like emuna”.. sounds like something rabbi wallerstein would say:)
Thanks a ton! I just followed ur instructions!…
I’m a business student who is required to take qb… I don’t know how I’m going to survive it… each homework takes me ages to complete! I don’t know why I’m finding it so difficult! If you have a little more time (but only if you’re really bored), I still have two more “paragraphs” that I don’t know what to do … but seriously I know it’s late and I’m sure you are not so interested…so if you don’t want to, please tell me… you’ve been such a help so far that even if you stop helping me here, I still owe you a huge thanks
Ya don’t worry, I’m not chaping it either! The book gave me this whole megilla and I have to piece it all together! I”m going nuts!! so umm how do i do that journal entry thing? Do i click on chart of accounts?
wow bH such fast responses! so the first question… it tells me that “a compan owns two properties and as of 12/31/017 it owed a certain amount (a 25- year mortgage classified as a long term liability called notes payable)on the 2 properties for which it originally paid …(it says the amount). of this amount, …. was identified as land, … as furniture and equipment, and … as buildings. use Buildings as the fixed asset account name for the buildings. Accumulated depreciation for all fixed assets as of 12/31/07 was ….
so that’s the first paragraph i need help with (don’t worry I’ve already done two pages…) and i don’t know where to fill out this info!!! help pls!!!
I didn’t read all the comments on this thread.. I skimmed the first one though… The title of the thread caught my eye and I thought maybe it would be about the “Jewish Advertising” that I see a lot that causes my stomach to turn. The sheital ads. Some of them are so un-tzniusdik. How the models are posed really makes me sick. I’m not talking about all the shietal ads, but I’m just saying that if you know someone who makes ads for sheitals, please ask them to make it tzniusdik.
We found a hotel in North East Maryland … does anyone know anything near there ?? snow tubing???
We were looking into Nottingham or Essington but really we’re open for anything. We were supposed to go somewhere else but our plans fell through. If anyone has any ideas of places outside of PA, please share! We’re looking for two days, one night .. that isn’t more than three hours from the NY/NJ area. If anyone knows anything about things to do in upstate NY, it would be great if you could share it! Thank you!
Cutie Pie- Yup I’m female.. but there are quite a lot a 19 year old females in the world;)
Thank you so much for responding. I tried googling Rav Kamenetsky but I’m not so good with google and I can’t seem to figure out how to find out the address!