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-coke
i am sure u are an extra special friend to her too… especially if she did so much for u!!! 🙂
Lomed Mkol Adam
it depends how u interprate “stable”, i may have a diff opinion on the meaning… and just bec they are “stable” still doesnt give them the right to do something assur!!!!!
coke,
wow what a tzadekes u r!
COKE, THAT IS SO NICE OF U??? Y DID U MAKE HER POTATOE KUGEL??? IS SHE NEEDY??? OR U ARE JUST TRYING TO B A NICE FRIEND… WTVR IT WAS I AM SURE SHE WAS VERY GREATFUL THAT U DID THIS KIND DEED!!!
P.S. CAN I HAVE THE RECIPE?? I’M SURE IT TASTED GREAT
Please princess, drop the all-caps
THERE IS NO DIFF, THEY ARE FOOLING THEMSELVES..
Please princess, drop the all-caps
SJSinNYC,
I DONT MEAN TO PUT U DOWN OR NETHING BUT MAYBE U JUST DONT UNDERSTAND THE CONCEPT THAT U ARE NOT ALOUD TO BEFRIEND A MALE OTHER THEN REAL DATING PERPOSES…!!!!! Y CANT DO SOMETHING ASSUR FOR HISHTADLUS… IT JUST DOESNT WORK THAT WAY… I’M SORRY IF U CANT UNDERSTAND!!! IF U ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING AND DOING WHAT U ARE SUPPOSE TO BE DOING HASHEM WILL DO THE REST… DONT WORRY ABT…WELL MAYBE I WOULD HAVE PREVENTED MYSELF FROM MEETING HIM ETC….
Please princess, drop the all-caps
i think u r suppose to take 2 but if desp, can take 3!!! I WISH U A REFUA SHILAYMA AND WHATEVER U ARE SICK WITH SHOULD GO AWAY VERY VERY SOON!!! (OR AT LEAST THE PAIN 🙂
-SJSinNYC “My husband and I started dating when both of us were 19. Neither of us had any intention of getting married.
Had I not “dated” I would never have started with real dates and never have been married”
do u not believe in g-d??? where is hashem in your life??? Do u not believe that hashem can do nething?? shiduchim ccome from left field! If u didnt meet him early and he was your true bashert hashem would have made u met a different way!!
-coke
are u sure we dont know who u are??? i dunno y but for some odd reason i thnk i do… do u know how to make potatoe kugel really well???
-lol
does your face get all sticky ang grose when u hairspray your hair???? or does it get oily??
*i put a slip on my pillow and it prevents your make up from coming off when u sleep….i found that that helpd a lot!!!!!!
-didu
no i didnt go to sem in england lol… oh well sorry…. but maybe our teachers are related or friends or had the same teacher :)!
-Midwest2
I dont think what “didu’s” teacher was trying to say that “that you have to “buy” something from HaShem by giving the required number of Tefilas, perek Tehillim, etc”…i just think her teacher was trying to say that everyperson has a certain amount of hishtadlus they have to do. For one person it could be 10 prakim of tihilim and another 10 times the amount! and of course we dont know how much we have to do so we just have to do the most we can. I dont think her teacher was forcing any one to do anything so pls dont put down any seminary’s. we must not construe her teachers words, i am sure she is a very special person!
-DiDu
i dont know what sem you went to (who knows maybe we sat next to each other in class) but as far as i’m concerned i think you are correct. i was in sem last year and my teacher said the same thing. Hashem may want one person to say the tihillim twice to find thier zivug and someone else 100. But we dont know how much is our hishtaflus so we must do the best we can. And yes it may dipend on the tifelose of others as well but that is not our job to worry about. Also it may be that hashem is not waiting for someone elses tifeos but if that pefson davened it may speed up what ever u are daving for! Just keep on davening….Tifela is the key to everything…hashem is listening he is our father waiting for our tifelos…(it says in parshas birayshis that hashem didn’t bring rain until someone aked for it…Hashem wants us to call out to him…Also Remember that when u dont get what u want dont think that hashem is not answering you…Hashem may be answering but the answer is NO…and thats not a bad thing..hashem is sayingthat at the present moment what u want is not good for you although u may not understand it!
The more we daven the closer we are with hashem….so keep on davening…dont give up…And iyh you should find your zivug hagon bikarov mamash!
Well first of all i definately agree with everything that “WELLINFORMEDYID” said! I was in sem this past year and it deffinately made a huge difference to me that i wrote down what i wanted to accomplish! at the end of the year i looked back and boy did i feel accomplished! You can even mark down in your calender every week something else to work on (something small ex:making sure to smile at everyone etc…) and iventually it will become habit!
One thing i grew a lot in is Tifella! GO TO THE KOSEL A LOT! The more you go the more you feel a kesher towards the kosel/hashem! And whatever areas you are hoping to grow in daven that hashem should help you! All you have to do is daven and a little hishtadlus and hashem will do the rest!
hatzlacha rabba!!!!!!