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yichusdik -“…and at 6:30 pm Israel time today, there was a similar attack on a chareidi soldier walking alone on Shmuel Hanavi. buuuut…it’s all about me and my apparent prejudices. right.”
You’re right it is your Prejudice! Ya’know there was a crime in the inner city today and yesterday and none of the leaders spoke up about it. As matter of fact there is crime there all the time and noone says Boo. But yet they haven’t stopped talking about Zim and his “Murder”. How come noone screams where are leaders of that community to condenm all this crime? You only can find fault with the Charedim in this world, e/o else is perfect.
HealthParticipantjbaldy22 -“IF there was a lot of crime in Tel Aviv and the mayor of tel aviv never said anything about fighting crime in his city you would think there is a problem right?”
There is a lot of crime in Tel Aviv and he hardly says a word about it. So you have no point -you just lied to make a point that isn’t reality. Keep on with your hatred towards Charedim and keep the Bais Hamikdash aflame!
HealthParticipantGAW -“I have to agree. Had the perp’s wife gone out with her knees showing (instead of him attacking a Charaidi soldier), he certainly would have been punished/shunned by the community.”
This post is where you have gone over to the Charedi bashers side.
It’s Not the job of the leaders to police every criminal in their community.
HealthParticipantZdad -“Thats why poeople might demand the Rabbis condem such actions but would not demand the same from the mayor of Tel Aviv for a mugging”
You would have a point if the complaints against the leaders were coming from inside of the community, but the only complaints I hear are from outsiders -so there is no difference in the leaders of both communities standing up. These posters are just looking to find any fault with the Charedim and point fingers at all the Charedim or their leaders. It’s very sad how their hatred is so blatant esp. during the 9 days!
HealthParticipantmusser zoger -“Health, Fired him? Why isn’t he behind bars? Aren’t educators and health professionals bound by law to report this to the police?”
I agree. I obviously wasn’t part of that Yeshiva’s decision.
HealthParticipantjewishfeminist02 -“Health, please post the name of this person l’toeles.”
And I thought you were worldly. IF YWN would even print it -it would open up me and them to a lawsuit. Ever hear of slander and/or libel?
HealthParticipantSam2 -“There are people with an orientation that they cannot control, and we must give them the full sympathy and support that they deserve. And yes, maybe that sometimes means being nice to people who are real Ba’alei Aveirah. But I’d rather not throw out the baby with the bathwater.”
You see this is where we disagree. There are murderers who can’t control themselves, (ever hear of Psycho?), but does society give them full sympathy and support? Of course not. Being Gay with acting upon it – is Ossur even for Goyim. We first punish murderers and then we can give them all the sympathy and support that they need in jail. This society, not only have they legitimized being Gay, but now they have given them equal footing/rights like Straight people. Save your mercy for those that deserve it. And stop with your attitude of Rachmonus of those that have Taivos and don’t act upon them. These are the Miyut Sheb’miyut and these should Not be our primary worry.
This Miyut can seek help with practitioners from NARTH.
HealthParticipantjbaldy22 -“If you think this is an isolated incident and that none of the incidents an e”y warrant any response than I have nothing more to say.”
What does isolated have to do with it? Does the Mayor of Tel Aviv get up and condemn Every single crime that occurs there? I don’t think so. Stop with the double standard.
HealthParticipantWIY -“How can it be that after one yeshiva fired him another hired him and then another…? Such a person should not be allowed near children after the first offense!”
I know the name of a guy in Lakewood who was a Rebbi in NY and was molesting kids and they fired him, but didn’t tell anyone why.
He then got a job as a Menahel out of town. Then he got a job near Lakewood, also as a Menahel, and now lives in Lakewood.
HealthParticipantjewishfeminist02 -“If a) he is not a real journalist and b) he is biased then it logically follows that c) a reasonable person cannot trust that the article contains accurate information.”
Yes, it’s possible, but the only problem with your way of thinking is that he listed the sources, which are verifiable!
So instead of saying the guy is lying because you have nothing else to say, at least try and answer the scientific points made in the article. Ya’know just to make the Gay Agenda look good!
“Please reread what you just wrote. I think you are proving my point.”
I really don’t think so! And what point are you making anyway?
“Hey, what’s with all the random initial caps, anyway?”
FYI, for those who don’t read the whole posts, I highlight certain words.
HealthParticipantadamemes1 -“Any other theory is unsupported and purely speculation.”
I applaud your theory, which is plausable and makes sense. I never even thought of this because the whole country is bombarded with this Gov. who are only doing this to please a segment of society. If your theory would have been brought to the public -they would wonder why there is a criminal case here. There would have never been a case if the Gov. wouldn’t consider certain segments of society above the rest of us. Liberalism is a failure, just like Communism was!
HealthParticipantThis is quite possible. Another possibility is him being found guilty on 3rd degree Murder based on “Child Abuse”. The “Judge” has Not yet ruled on this option. I hope the Jury finds him Not guilty on all charges, in spite of the Govs.’ persecution of this guy Zim.
If found guilty now or later (if there is a Federal case), then this will be America’s (US) “Dreyfuss Affair”!
HealthParticipantjbaldy22 -“What I actually said was that if someone in their community did something like this I don’t understand why its not their responsibility to say that such sinah is wrong and condemn it. Ex post facto not a priori.”
Blaming after the fact by demanding condemnation is also blaming. It isn’t their responsibility to condemn every crime that occurs in their community, just because you and others say so!
“And you know if the Amish started stoning american soldiers you better believe they would be blaming the amish leaders.”
This is simply Not true. They wouldn’t blame them any more than they blame all Xiatinity for the actions of the Westboro Church that are doing disgusting things in the name of their religion.
“Besides for which unlike the Amish we have a concept of arvus in our religion.”
So now you are Rabbi and know more than the Rabbis in Yerushalyim, that the Torah, because of Arvus, requires condemnation for the acts of these criminals?!?!
HealthParticipantjewishfeminist02 -“Health, I care who Westen is because he is
not a real journalist. He is biased.”
Your posts are getting more & more laughable. Who cares that he’s
not a real journalist or that he is biased? He wrote an article, nothing more. My point was what was in the article. You claim you read the article, but besides cursing out Westen, you have Not refuted any of the scientific points of the article.
“Also, your characterization of scientific research as “Anti-gay” or “Pro-gay” reveals your own bias. Research is not “anti” or “pro” anything. It is just research.”
I never said research is one way or another. What I was saying was some research is Pro the Gay agenda and some of it is against the Gay Agenda!
“I, too, am not “pro” gay, and even though I have explained to you that I don’t form my opinions based on “liberal gay propaganda” (you kindly told me that you “don’t care” where I get my information from) you continue to paint me as a liberal gay activist who swallows liberal media.”
By continually basing your opinions on Only the research that is Pro the Gay agenda and Not even looking at All the research, then I’ll continue to paint you as a liberal gay activist who’s selective in what research to promote.
HealthParticipantMatan1 -“Narth is an organization that believes that you can change your attraction. JONAH also believes that”
You still can’t compare one to the other. NARTH has many Mental Health professionals behind them and I don’t know if Jonah has and what kind of methods they do. There was recently a group, some who wear Kippas, suing Jonah for their methods.
HealthParticipantyichusdik -“I then pointed out your straw man, then you wrote:
“My point wasn’t that you were attacking e/o who is Charedi.”
Make up your mind.”
You don’t want to even listen to my point because you’re too busy putting Charedim and their Rabbonim down!
Noone would ever blame Amish elders/leaders for crime in their community -so how come you have No problem blaming Charedi leaders for anything wrong in their community?
This is why I posted -“Your hypocrisy and hatred to Charedim is astounding!” This has to be the reason why you treat Charedim differently than anyone else in this world, eg. the Amish!
HealthParticipantjbaldy22 -“If an analogous situation would happen here in America you would have tons of rabbonim screaming about sinas chinam.”
I’m not interested in putting down American Rabbis, but they seem to only do things that are PC. How come you don’t hear them talking about what’s going on right now with YU?
“As has been stated elsewhere in the CR there is no issue making voices heard in regards to other communal issues so why is this issue any different?”
And as I said before they don’t have to say criminal acts are wrong -it’s not their responsibility. You wouldn’t blame Amish elders for crime in their community -you and others are just looking to blame Charedim & their Rabbonim.
HealthParticipantyichusdik -“Health, I’ve got to call you on your utter irresponsibility. Frankly straw men are the most pathetic way to win an argument…against yourself.”
Stop wimpering. You failed to even grasp my point. My point wasn’t that you were attacking e/o who is Charedi. My point was why are you blaming the leaders? Noone would ever blame the Amish Elders/leaders for crimes in their community -so why are you blaming the leaders of the Charedim for crimes in their community?
HealthParticipantjbaldy22 -“I hate to say it but I agree with yichusdik (on a majority of his points) and there are some extremely delusional posters here.”
You agree with him, but it seems you are the delusional one.
“If you can’t admit that there is a serious problem with what happened in mea shearim and that every time something like this happens its a massive chillul hashem then hashem yiracheim.”
Noone denied that what happened in Mea Sharim was wrong. They disagreed with the OP who put the blame on the leaders.
HealthParticipantbenignuman -“As I noted above, there are studies on both sides of the issue.”
You seem to think or imply that it’s a more or less a 50/50
debate. I’d advise you to go to NARTH’s website and see for yourself that more research is Anti-gay than Pro!
HealthParticipantJF02 -“The article was written by a man named John-Henry Westen. Who is John-Henry Westen? A pro-life activist who runs his own news website. A failed political candidate. No scientific credentials whatsoever behind his unjustified and clearly biased attack on two renowned scientists.
Find me a real, reputable scientist who disagrees with these men– and has hard evidence to back it up– and then we’ll talk.”
In your haste to defend your belief in the liberal Gay propaganda you didn’t even read my article. Who cares who Westen is? He just wrote a newspaper article. The researchers are listed in the article and it’s Not Westen.
HealthParticipantMatan1 -“About JONAH, the RCA wrote this”
Who was talking about Jonah? I did mention Narth and as far as I know one has nothing to do with the other.
HealthParticipantJF02 -“Evidence for a Biological Influence in Male Homosexuality” for an article written by scientific researchers Simon LeVay and Dean H. Hamer.”
All these studies are very weak, but the real research is Not PC as you can see from the following article:
“If Gay Brother Research is Correct It Shows Homosexuality is Abnormal
BY LIFESITENEWS.COM
Fri Jun 30, 2006 11:15 EST
By John-Henry Westen
In reality, however, the study was most intriguing for what the mainstream media failed to cover. Namely that, if true, the study suggests that homosexuality is a congenital abnormality, and shares its origins with other disorders developed in the womb.
The findings suggest male same-sex sexual orientation is linked to having older brothers, even if those brothers are not raised together. By way of explanation the researchers suggest that homosexuality results from an immune reaction of the mother to the male child in her womb.
HealthParticipantROB -“health: I have no idea what your mention of the well known ohr someach does. I fulle endorse what he wrote, that one who thinks that the center of the world is not jerushalaim (alluding to German Reform Judiasm)will suffer greatly (in reference to the tochacho).”
Simple, I said if you do live in Berlin, perhaps you consider it Yerushalyim and then I guess the words of the OS would apply to you.
“As far as your other assertion, that Eretz yisroel (and jerushalaim) is -chas vecholilo- “golus”, beware of what you write about eretz yisroel! Your quote from eicha makes no sense-as per your interpretation- which is what,BTW?”
Also simple. The Novi says everywhere is Golus and wants it to end, which includes EY & Yerushalyim, not like your posts.
HealthParticipantyichusdik -“When someone tells me that its the aimless, the young, those who won’t listen to guidance who perpetrate this, I first ask, are you sure? How are you sure?
Then I wonder even more. Its clear that in a community where compliance is not mandated, where codes of conduct, dress, conversation, courting, davening, doing business are less defined, There will certainly be those, perhaps many, who do not follow “guidance”, but the nature of the guidance and the communities are less strict and more fluid.
The only implication that is broader, beyond this community in my view is that when posters here are saying that there’s nothing the Rabbis can do, or that if the Rabbis spoke up their life would be in danger, the idea of manhigus through daas Torah is endangered not from the outside, but from within. Very troubling.”
I’m not going to quote your whole post, but your bigotry towards Charedim knows No bounds. Let me ask you this -in the Amish community where there is a strict dress code, which e/o must follow and now s/o commits a crime, do you also blame the Amish elders? Noone in the world would take your drivel seriously for a second if you did, but when it comes to Charedim all of a sudden e/o besides Charedim jump on the bandwagon of hate and bigotry.
HealthParticipantShraga18 -“If he’s found guilty, it will be a miscarriage of justice. But I’m hopeful the jury members are rational, honest people.”
Sorry to disagree -it’s already a miscarriage of Justice.
If this would have occured to a person of Zim’s race -there would have been no trial. All cases like this are decided by the local DA – why did they appoint a State Attorney for this case?
We have heard lie after lie fed to the media by the Gov.
Example – showing photos without injury of Zim to the media.
The Gov. has taken PC for certain segments of the pop. to the level where it steps on others’ civil rights!
HealthParticipantSam2 -“Health, moi aussie: They found it in flies. They altered a gene and they made it so that a male fly would be attracted to male pheromones and genitalia.”
Altering a gene does Not mean it occurs naturally in flies or even in humans. I fail to see your point, if you have one.
“There are certainly those who could go through therapy (and I mean normal therapy, not the obscene “reparative” therapy which amounts to nothing more than serious physical and sexual abuse)”
I don’t know much about “reparative” therapy, but if the liberal propaganda you just repeated was even a little true, not only would these practitioners be sued all over the country, but they would certainly be jailed for abuse.
Please stop quoting the PC liberal propaganda about Gays, unless you bring some proof to what you are posting.
HealthParticipantyichusdik -“Health – see my post above regarding who is to “blame”. Not the whole chareidi velt.”
I realize who you were blaming. Now go back and read my post again.
If you want to blame Hirsch and the NK for this because they concurred -then go ahead. This has nothing to do with the Charedi Rabbonim, no matter what you post!
HealthParticipantjewishfeminist02 -“I’ll jump in here. I believe the OP’s point was that Charedim are utterly devoted to their rabbonim and will follow any directive without question,”
This is ridiculous. Your assumption that the leaders have more control over their populace than Govs. is based on your bias, not on any reality.
“Furthermore, the threat of cherem or not getting a good shidduch is far more effective in regulating the behavior of Charedim than any police power.”
This is only true if you’re from that group. More stereotyping.
When one Chassidus fights with another, do you think Cherem or Not marrying into the other group deters the fight?
You must be from outside the Frum Yeshivish world because you have No clue how things work in it.
HealthParticipantMatan1 -“Health, I know what firsthand means. If you do have such evidence, would you be able to give us an example of any study or empirical evidence?”
Listen, I didn’t do any study, but the statements I made before were based on people I know personally. So these are facts that can’t be argued on. I don’t know if they are all like this, but I haven’t been shown any proof to the contrary. All so far that I’ve seen on YWN is just the repetition of the USA’s PC view on
homosexuality. Everytime I ask for proof, all I get is double talk.
If you’re looking for proof for some paper that you’re writing -you’ll find plenty of stuff from professionals on NARTH’s website. They have opinions over there from many Mental Health professionals. Maybe some of the stuff will be helpful to you.
HealthParticipantJF02 -“It’s personality. People are born with personality traits. There is no such thing as a “rapist gene” or a “gay gene”, but babies come into this world with natural predispositions for homosexuality”
Prove it!
HealthParticipantrationalfrummie -“I don’t get how you can downplay it.”
I was downplaying it compared to the riots in the sixties.
HealthParticipantROB -“My objection to your post was when you named Eretz Yisroel “golus”.Chas vecholilo!!”
Yes, it is Golus. The Medina Is Not Esschalta of the Geula like the Zionists claim.
I guess next week you’ll be skipping part of Eicha that says in 4:22 “Lo Yosef Lehaglosaich”, if you’re in Israel, because you don’t consider EY “Golus”. It seems that most of the Klal, that still read Eicha, consider that the words of the Novi still apply everywhere!
HealthParticipantyichusdik -“There’s nothing the Rabbis can do”
That’s the saddest comment I ever read on YWN. If there’s nothing the Rabbis can do, in a community so directed, so restricted, so regimented, then the system is broken.
If these kids don’t listen to any Rabbis – which I do not believe – then there’s a much bigger problem than a chareidi guy walking through Mea Shearim in Madim that needs to be addressed.”
Your hypocrisy and hatred to Charedim is astounding!
Do you hate the Israeli Gov. or the American Gov. for every crime committed in their country? Yet, you blame the Charedi leaders for every action of a “Charedi”. The leaders of the Charedim don’t even have any police powers like Govs. do.
Govs. are much more responsible for crimes committed because their liberal laws don’t deter much crime.
HealthParticipantGamanit -“Rabbi of Berlin says one must live in Eretz Yisroel… hmmmm… Since when is Berlin in Eretz Yisroel?”
Maybe he thinks like the following post?!?
“Avi K – To all those who love being in Galut: the Ohr Sameach said that if someone thinks that Berlin is his Yerushalayim Hashem will show him otherwise.”
HealthParticipantMatan1 -“Is your first hand knowledge anything more than anecdotal evidence?”
Another dictionary question. Since when is “anecdotal evidence” even close to “first-hand knowledge”?
HealthParticipantanothermother -“To your point about the rioting: that’s what always happens in these situations. When the cops were acquitted in the Rodney King trial, LA burned (I’m too young to remember, but my aunt, a Korean giyores who grew up in that part of LA,saw her parents’ store wrecked during the riots).”
I’m chuckling about your term “LA burned”. What happened during those riots -you couldn’t really call “burned”. I guess you never heard about the riots in the 60’s after the killing of MLK -during that time most inner cities “Burned”, including LA. A lot of Jewish businesses were destroyed. But I just read that in Phila., it wasn’t like other inner cities because the Mayor gave orders to his police to shoot to kill. This stopped them from having any serious riots.
HealthParticipantI’m not so sure about this. It depends on how liberal & PC the jury is.
And they probably will bring him up on Federal Civil Rights charges.
HealthParticipantrd -“A bisexual or homosexual cannot change. Reparative therapy doesn’t work.”
This statement of yours is liberal propaganda nonsense!
I personally am Not in the Mental Health field -so I don’t have a professional opinion on this, but you’ll find many professional opinions on NARTH’s website. Well, you’ll tell me that website is Nogeiah. And the answer to this is they Quote many Mental Health professionals, who were not forced to have their opinions.
The next guy’s opinion, which I found online, will be an eye opener to most, not just to the Libs here!
HealthParticipantMatan1 -“Health, What is your first hand knowledge?”
Do you want to know the definition of “first-hand knowledge”?
If yes, I’m Not a dictionary – look it up.
Or do you want the private details, like Names, Addresses, Ages, etc. on a public forum?
HealthParticipantROB -“SO- you do not accept what the gemoro says? I thought you followed halocho…”
So now you’re a Poisek and are telling me where I have to live?
First of all, there are many Heterim given to live in Chutz Laaretz and I thought you always have to go with Kulos acc. to your previous posts? And besides which, the Satmer Rebbe zt’l held it’s better to live in Chutz LaAretz than in Treif Medinas Israel.
HealthParticipantjewishfeminist02 -“Some people are born gay. It is not a choice.”
You keep repeating the same line over & over. Do you have any proof to your claims? Do you know even one gay person that told you he/she was born with these desires?
“But claiming that they don’t have that yetzer hara in the first place, or that they acquired it later in life because of environmental conditioning, or liberal media, or what have you, makes a mockery of their struggles.”
You can’t claim mockery because I have first-hand knowledge that they didn’t have the Yetzer Hora in the first place and Did acquire it later in life. What proof do You have that some are born like this?????
HealthParticipantheretohelp -“@Health- I didn’t say it was simple. I said it was inapt and not useful. That’s not a good thing. Don’t be so proud.”
It’s only inapt for those who have trouble understanding the Moshol even as simple as it is.
HealthParticipantheretohelp -“@Health- the analogy to the frum guy going into Burger King is maybe the least apt and least useful analogy there could possibly be.”
Yes. I used a simple analogy for the simple minds who post here!
HealthParticipantJF02 -“Again I ask you: why would a person choose to become gay? Why on earth, if it really is a choice, would anyone decide to drastically limit their pool of potential partners and become a target of criticism? It just doesn’t make sense.”
A lot of things don’t make sense, but people do it because the Yetzer Hora tells them to. I’d try to answer your questions, but the best people to ask are the ones like I know who never were like this ever before, not even deep down, no matter what you say.
“Furthermore, this is not coming from exposure to “liberal propaganda in the media”. I came to these conclusions on my own.”
I’m really not interested where you picked up this liberal belief. I’m just telling you, from first hand experience, that this belief is nonsense!
HealthParticipantROB -“Health- Eretz Yisroel is never golus! As you know, the gemoro is very dismissive on anyone who lives in chutz lo-oretz…”
Yes, it is Golus, in spite of the Chazals saying the things they did about living in Chutz Laaretz. The Medina IS NOT Esschalta of the Geula!
“and my remark was not meant to taken literally”
But mine was! Zionists reconsider making your Medina in Uganda!
HealthParticipantROB -“health- I have a very easy solution to you and the ones who espouse your views: move to another country who does not require you to ‘share’ in any burden. I am sure that the israeli government will be very sympathetic to you moving to, say, albania.”
This post is so ironic. I’ve been espousing this argument for years and none of the Zionists here it took it seriously, except it was the other way around.
That’s right – the Zionists and even the so-called “Religious” Zionists should reconsider making their homeland in Uganda and the rest of us who realize that even Israel is Golus will have the land of Palestine ruled by the Goyim like Turkey. This IMHO will hasten the coming of Moshiach!
HealthParticipantjewishfeminist02 -“and some people unfortunately have to live with being born gay. Whether it is neurological or developmental, I don’t know, but it is not a lifestyle choice any more than a cleft palate, for instance, is a lifestyle choice. It is a disorder.”
Sam2 -“Health: People don’t discover it mid-life. It (in many cases) grows in time, just like normal sexual attraction does for normal people. Most people who come out, even if they didn’t realize it at an earlier age, realized that there was something not normal in there heterosexual relationship.”
I guess the two of you didn’t comprehend my post. I don’t know if any gay person is born that way, but I do know many that became that way and it wasn’t inside of them at all, hidden or in the closet or otherwise. I know it’s hard to believe all the Liberal propaganda that people are exposed to, esp. in the media, about gays is False. This is like saying a Frum guy goes into a Burger King at 30 yo and for the first time in his life orders a HAMburger and this desire to eat Treif was an inborn trait, not just something he decided to do now. Ridiculous.
HealthParticipantThe closing will be more jokes or cursing. This isn’t a trial, but a 3 ring circus.
And even if Zim is aquitted, which of course he should be, he isn’t out of the woods yet. I remember s/o from very high up saying the deceased would be just like his son, if he had one.
That person will appoint his AG to prosecute Zim on Civil Rights charges.
HealthParticipantAfter year after year of tragedies during the three weeks, perhaps it’s Not the time for Jews to be on vacation? I’m not saying Jewish kids don’t need vacation – maybe three weeks during the winter and three during the summer after Tisha B’Av? I think being in Yeshiva would be good enough -I’m not advocating e/o sit on sackcloth with ashes on their head for 3 weeks.
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