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  • in reply to: Girls Congregating the Streets on Shabbos #691533
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    oomis,

    may i counter that i wouldn’t be suprised if the women had a hand in the men’s bittul torah (or really lack of kavod torah), if the women were mechashev it the men would follow

    in reply to: Girls Congregating the Streets on Shabbos #691488
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    wellinformedyid,

    there is a well known halacha called mechitzos in a shul. The reason being is because of the sensitivities of the people davening, because Halacha knows that men will get distracted if they are around women. I wouldn’t be suprised that the reason there is no halacha about women congregating the streets is because they didn’t if they did then there would be one, taking into account mens sensitivities.

    in reply to: Girls Congregating the Streets on Shabbos #691483
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    exactly smile66

    (chachmas eesha bansah baysah)

    you should have this bracha

    in reply to: Girls Congregating the Streets on Shabbos #691456
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    well informed yid,

    you bring up a good point that he has this problem

    but you realize tanaim and amoraim had this taavah too

    case 1) the grandson of choni hamagel

    case 2,3,4) (sorry i’m horrible at remembering names or where it is in the gemara)when the satan comes dressed as a woman either they would’ve been nichshol not for their torah or one bored his eyes out

    definitely the solution isn’t that he shouldn’t go outside b/c he has to (daven, learn etc.)

    the answer to women being untzniusdik (out in the open) shouldn’t be that it’s your fault for loking at them

    in reply to: Girls Congregating the Streets on Shabbos #691447
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    SJSinNYC

    correct, but a chatzer was an enclosed area unlike a front yard

    in reply to: Girls Congregating the Streets on Shabbos #691435
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    sjsinnyc,

    the gemara says Kol kvodah bas melech PENIMAH that means inside the house as opposed to outside the house (including chatzer)

    In my community actually, there is a weekly shiur that the wives go to and they congregate and shmuz over there, i think it’s the best idea

    in reply to: Moshiach #690130
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    the prophecies im talking about are like something from the talmidim of the talmidim of the gra that moshiach is supposed to come before this past rosh chodesh av, or that the thing with birchas hachama being rosh chodesh nisan only happened 3 times once by yetzias mitzraim (not true btw), there are countless others and if you want i can say them too.

    I hear what your saying kapusta

    in reply to: Girls Congregating the Streets on Shabbos #691415
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    oomis,

    i’ve realized men and women have different definitions for communication.

    men communicate to give information

    women communicate because they need to talk

    in reply to: Girls Congregating the Streets on Shabbos #691403
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    Haqer,

    why couldn’t they ask their uncle

    aries,

    that’s a good idea but what yb613 is talking about is girls congregating in the streets I totally agree they should congregate at someone’s house (preferrably one that has no yeshiva aged boys)

    in reply to: Girls Congregating the Streets on Shabbos #691395
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    kasha,

    just on the 24th line it’s interesting to note that bnos tzelofchad went to beis din and their is a whole perek on this

    in reply to: Girls Congregating the Streets on Shabbos #691393
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    Yechezkel, it for sure depends how they socialize

    in reply to: Girls Congregating the Streets on Shabbos #691387
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    I know i’m going to be pounced on but im going to say it anyway

    Asara kavim sicha yordim l’olam tisha natal nashim

    (ten measures of speech came down to the world. women took 9

    women need to talk, just like fish need to swim

    in reply to: What Is a Tuna Bagel? #703855
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    mbachur: A “frum” person cant go to the beach by definition. (Unless its some unknown separate gender beach where it is completely invisible AND inaccessible to the opposite gender.)

    exactly!!! a person who portrays himself as frum in NY but in FL away from everyone else he goes to the beach (hence frum in quotations)

    in reply to: What Is a Tuna Bagel? #703850
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    i just heard it means someone who is “frum” but goes to the beach

    in reply to: Sheidim #808152
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    missme how do you know maybe it was dressed up and you couldn’t see it’s feet

    in reply to: Should Some People Be Considered "Unmarriable"? #687240
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    I think they should be tested, and then they can marry other people that are like that.

    in reply to: Babies Looking Into Mirrors #692234
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    I’ve heard it’s a lubavitcher minhag.

    I don’t follow it

    in reply to: Hotel on Night of Chasunah #687174
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    I think its perfectly fine. A lot of times it’s in the kallah’s city, so technically biyah reshonah is supposed to be in his rishus and her parent’s house doesn’t qualify (this is also true by his parents) and they’re planning on living somewhere else so i think it’s fine.

    in reply to: Wife has an issue… #685449
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    I like Dr. Pepper’s idea LOL

    in reply to: Your Feedback: New YWN Website #992740
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    I agree it took a while (about a few seconds) to get used to but i like the order

    in reply to: 100% Solution to Shidduch Crisis–Goral #667598
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    the roman noblelady preceded you!

    she had 1,000 man slaves and 1,000 female slaves and said this one should marry that one and everybody got all bruised so I don’t think it will work sorry

    in reply to: Anyone Else Worried About Today’s Frum Music? #793064
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    I think it’s fine, being a BT I was used to goyishe music and believe me as long as the tune isn’t from a goyishe song I’m happy with it b/c really it’s mostly the words.

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