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Many many years ago before I got married i davened for a long list of people in need of shidduchim cause of the famous saying “that when a person Davens for someone then the person davening for him gets answered first” now many years later since I was benched to get married I didn’t stop davening for others to find shidduchim but am still davening for them today.
On your other point. It’s because today with so many weddings and other Simchas people need to stop into to give Mazel tov. They don’t have time to spend long at each Simcha so their making sure to give the Chosson or parent a hearty Mazel tov and then have to leave EVEN THOUGH THEY REGISTERED TO STAY FOR THE ENTIRE NIGHT. Not to hurt the baal Simchas feeling.
As a final message of you mentioning that you need every person’s bracha. My personal to you is-from an older person-
Is to turn Directly to Hashem with heartfelt Tefillos for whatever you need-rather its a Shidduch or livlihood or something else etc…..-as we say at the end of benching from Tehillim. Vdorshei Hashem….. which means for one that seeks out Hashem DIRECTLY lacks nothing that is good.May Hashem help you find your zivvug quickly cause in truth we all know s/he’s already waiting for you since 40 days before you were even born. That’s besides the fact that now your at least 20 to 25 years later since being born.
So what’s the reason their being evicted from their apartment besides for not paying their rent when due?
Maybe they are not keeping their contract of being quiet or no pets allowed etc…..
But there’s definitely a reason why their being evicted and not just for no reason at all.
Unless the landlord is selling the property and it needs to be empty to sell so he has no choice but I’m sure will evict them in a nice way and maybe even help them find a different place to live.
A fellow jew can be a frum yid but if he sins (cause he can’t hold himself in which means it’s considered on purpose) then he’s not considered a YOREI SHOMAYIM ( a person who fears Hashem) or as an example: he would hold himself back from eating that geshmacke but treife food and only eat kosher.
You could be learning full time in Kollel but if you come home from Kollel and your inside Neshama is still watching TV and the daily sports game then don’t fool yourself and consider yourself a BEN TORAH. Although you’re spending your entire day learning in Kollel, that’s all your outside guf body but what really makes a person who he is is his inside Neshama soul.
You could dress YESHIVISH or even chasidish but if your inside is a life of sports and TV then it’s all fake and also very bad for your children’s chinuch when they see and know that their YESHIVISH or chasidish parents spend their time on vacation and going out to restaurants etc. .. …..Do you think they want to kick out and evicted their tenants? Do you think they want to have to raise the monthly rent? Etc .. but when property taxes are raised then they have to raise the rent. When someone is not paying their monthly rental due then he is becoming a thief and these landlords don’t want to work with people who can’t pay their rent and would rather become homeless C”V for their entire family.
Think about it.
If they could avoid it these landlords would love to avoid doing these sad thingsNone
The best prayer directly from the heart is called Hisbodedus and involves speaking directly to Hashem in any language with anything bothering you on your mind.
Breslov Chasidus are big into Hisbodedus coming originally from Rav Nachman of Breslov their Rebbe ZT”L.
When The corruption Madoff happened the famous line going around the world was:
“IF YOU WANT TO INVEST, THEN DON’T INVEST IN MADOFF, MADOFF GOT MAD AND FELL OFF, IF YOU WANT TO INVEST THEN INVEST IN CHARITY IT’S AN ETERNAL INVESTMENT THAT CAN’T GO BAD, YOU KNOW YOUR STOCKS WENT UP AND DON’T HAVE TO CALL WALL STREET EVERY DAY”
What’s a person’s money worth after they leave this temporary physical world? It’s not even worth counterfeit or monopoly money, it’s completely worthless. What do you think the niftars children will buy a Sefer Torah in the zechus of the Neshama?
Tell him to send it to be posted in the NY times and wallet street journal together with the other media that hate Israel.
Like Gadol Hador said “if you have 2 wraps then it becomes hamotzi with Benching full birchas hamazon after” this is all due to being Kovea Seuda which means that the amount of wraps enough to be considered a full meal so the bracha changes from eating just 1 wrap of melons to 2 or more of making hamotzi followed by full birchas hamazon after.
Which is the same reason why 2 full chocolate or cinnamon etc….. danishes also require hamotzi and full birchas hamazon after. Versus just one danishes is just a mezonos.
Ask your LOR for more explanations if this isn’t enough to know the difference when it changes from mezonos to hamotzi with full birchas hamazon after.
How many generations worth HUNDREDS or more years has hashem our loving father and King of Kings been sending us messages DIRECTLY FROM HASHEM waiting for Klal Yisroel to wake up from living in denial and FACE REALITY?
how much horrific tragedies hitting klal yisroel rachmana litzlan has happened just in the last few months/years alone? So what HONESTLY happens in today’s generation when tragedy strikes klal yisroel Chas VShalom? We each ask ourselves as we say in Yiddish “Vos Vil De Eibishter Fun Mir” (what does Hashem want from me) i don’t know who these families that just had horrific tragedies hitting them with loss of their children, i have nothing to do with September 11 2001 hitting the world, i don’t work in Manhattan, i don’t even visit Manhattan, so what does Hashem want from me?????
for a short while we feel it & then it leaves us & we all forget
about it. BUT THE TRUTH is that all the waaaay in the back of us we all get Hashem’s wake up call message for serious immediate Teshuva and Achdus but we’re not ready to FACE REALITY and openly accept Hashem’s wake up call message so we leave Hashem no choice but to Chas VShalom keep hitting klal yisroel rachmana litzlan with non stop horrific tragedies. We all think that the Riches that i have are because of ME & the work i did for my Business, we forget that Hashem sent us all this money & everything in the world he is watching every day. We have to remember that all this is Happening because of אין פוראניות בעולם אלא בשביל ישראל, all this is because we don’t take these messages from Hashem for us to return to him. Hopefully now we can take these signs & prevent other tragedies from happening.The situation in Eretz Yisroel & in the Diaspora is very bad from Terrorists to the entire Economy going down etc… If anyone should ask why all these Tzaros are Happening to Klal Yisroel he only needs to look at what the Rambam says. Saying that as long as we remain ignorant of the present troubles that we have & what the reasons are that they are happening. The situation can only get worse until Mashiach comes. With the society we are living in today we (sadly) CONSTANTLY need reminders (wake-up calls) from HASHEM for us to do T’shuva & return to HASHEM so all this Tzaros can end & Mashiach comes.
Remember from the mussar seforim 3 things and you will never come to sin
The 3 things are listed as
1)what do i come from? A tiny putrid drop
2)where will I be heading? To a place of dust, worms and
maggots. (Meaning Buried underground and worthless)
3)who will i give judgment to? To Hashem the king of kings
ruler of all worldsRemember the 3 above ALWAYS and then you will not come to sin or arrogance and it will always remind you wh a txa nothing YOU are which will change your ways to living a life of humility.
It’s very sad that such a large percentage of frum yidden feel they MUST follow the Jones even if they are broke in debt or else…… instead of facing reality. And then everyone is complaining about why they can’t afford tuition fees or wedding expenses etc….. why didn’t they think about these things beforehand? Instead of throwing their money down the drain on unnecessary EXTRAS and instead put the money away for your next upcoming family Simcha or your daughters Seminary year?
Start FACING REALITY today and make a budget living on one sentence “GET WHAT YOU NEED NOT WHAT YOU WANT”
Welcome to the new generation of self-centeredness and Instant gratification where everything is ME, ME , ME, AND ONLY ME. Maybe if I have a minute I’ll think about my neighbor or friend or maybe help another person.
Very sad situation of living in Sedom……
Hashem said thousands of years ago that EVERY GENERATION there will sadly be people ganging up hate against hid loving children Klal yisroel suffering through Golus. As we say every year on Pesach night at the seder shebichol dor vdor……..
Msy we finally wake up and FACE REALITY and accept Hashem’s wake up call for serious Teshuva and Achdus together as one loving nation so Hashem can send Mashiach already b’karov. Then all antisemitism will come to a complete stop when the other nations see the truth in who klal yisroel really is of Hashem’s chosen nation.
Sadly what your saying is 100 percent the truth.
Klal yisroel in today’s generation is missing one of the most important things holding us back from Mashiach coming. We’re missing the TZIPISA LIYESHUA which means the YEARNING FOR MASHIACH to come. Let’s not exaggerate, we all know the truth and can’t hide it from our loving father and King Hashem ruler of the world. The fact that were so happy here in golus America or England etc….. living in a generation of technology filled with gashmius.
When klal yisroel starts to YEARN for Mashiach then Hashem will send mashiach immediately. The choice how long this will take us completely in our hands and there’s no one to blame but ourselves for still being in exile today when Mashiach could’ve came already generations ago.
Cath yourself
You asked for a definition for “Jewish music ”
In my honest opinion from listening to music for decades and watching the Ruach change of songs and the taam i can honestly tell you that the definition of Jewish music is
A)music that is relaxed and not rocken Like the ways of the goyim
B)you can feel the ruchnius taste and singing for Hashem and yes for your enjoyment too.
C)calm laid back music where as you sing the song you’re actually feeling and praising Hashem in thanks for the Simcha you are attending and if your at home, thanking Hashem for the beautiful family and home Hashem blessed you with. As a note Dovid Hamelech woke up every morning at midnight and sang praises to Hashem from Tehillim all night long until Sunrise. And the special thing about saying Tehillim versus davening from a siddur or anything else is that Sefer Tehillim was made as a sefer of 150 tefillos for EVERY situation a person is going through in life. So there’s always something to sing praises to Hashem from Tehillim.
It’s really sad and brings tears to my eyes what has happened to klal yisroel in regards to listening to music.
Compare today’s music and singers to last generation and you will see a major difference. Today’s music-what they consider jewish cause it’s composed and sang by a jewish singer-is actually coming STRAIGHT FROM THE GOYIM with just changing the words of the song to a jewish sentence. And this us ehatvis really effecting a person’s Neshama and ruchnius. Its not the words of the song that effects the person listening to the song but THE RUACH and spirit of the song. And with today’s rocky hockey songs rocken the wedding hall and houses people are not realizing how much this effects their Neshama.
Stop hurting yourself and your Neshama by listening to these new songs that actually come STRAIGHT FROM THE GOYIM with just the words changed into a passuk from navi or Chumash etc…..
No everyone just needs to be more alert cause just like it’s been happening on the college campuses it can also happen anywhere Chas VShalom and we need to keep davening to Hashem for our safety
Wanna
Most frum communities have Chosson and Kallah temporary apartments for rent until they find a long-term rent and yes that’s where they should go straight from their wedding hall.
UJM
that mindset which comes from a financial psychologist is to live by
“GET WHAT YOU NEED NOT WHAT YOU WANT ”
Then you will not be tight on money. Sure everyone should go out for date night with their spouse but to go as a bochur just to have a steak dinner is called crazy.We will sadly always remain in golus-no matter which location or country-if we continue living in denial instead of openly FACING REALITY and accepting Hashem’s wake up call for serious Teshuva and Achdus together as one loving nation so Hashem can finally send mashiach already bkarov.
Cause they are not physical people like us so they have completely no worries and are always happy just like any person who lives a life of Bitachon and Emunah (Faith and trust) in Hashem is completely worry free and always happy smiling no matter what situation he is currently in
I completely agree with you
And this is one of the top reasons why mashiach is not here yet, cause we’re missing the “TZIPISA LIYESHUA the YEARNING FOR MASHIACH” klal yisroel is so happy today living in a generation of technology and physical pleasures. When klal yisroel starts to cry for mashiach with serious Teshuva and Achdus together then Hashem will send mashiach already bkarov.
But Hashem says, look at my loving nation and children klal yisroel, innocent gave them everything they need. Look how happy they are…… they’re not mourning for my holy presence and Bais hamikdosh. When klal yisroel starts crying over the bais hamikdosh now with the three weeks of mourning coming upon us all, then mashiach will come immediately.
May it happen very soon and never mourn another tisha b’av in Chutz La’aretz and golus
You bet it’s a scam and completely unnecessary to so many people who throw thousands of dollars worth down the drain at these unnecessary therapists when they can work on the help they need directly with their spouse or with themselves.
Donald Trump is doing a great job but we need to make sure to remember that its really all coming from Hashem and he is just a puppet messenger to do his job that Hashem chose for him to do.
Same with all politicians from governors and senators to local .mayors and even askanim they are just actors and everything is coming from Hashem. With Hashem having a plan for every situation.
You better pray that klal yisroel wakes up from their sleep of denial and finally FACES REALITY and accepts Hashem’s wake up call for serious Teshuva and Achdus together as one loving nation so Hashem can finally send mashiach already bkarov and then Noone will be living in new York city anymore and will all be serving Hashem directly in Yerushalayim.
AAQ
sure a person needs to also thank the messenger who helped him. BUT WHO SENT HIM? Who kept you on good terms with your boss and got you more customers? It all comes directly from Hashem who is so hidden that we don’t realize it comes from Hashem. Don’t we all know the famous fact “Hakol bidei shomayim chutz miyiras shomayim” which means that everything is in the hands of Hashem except for fear of Hashem.
May we all come to realize this and it will bring you closer to Hashem our loving father and king of Kings
AAQ
do we say June 13 or 13 June? So the entire world except America says 13 June? That’s what you seem to be saying. But we know that’s not true and just ridiculous.
It’s the same as the tragedy of 9/11 September 11 which when ready in Hebrew is Tisha which means 9 and Av is the 11th month of the jewish year. Exactly as we say it Tisha B’av is 9/11 we don’t say av Tisha
May we finally accept Hashem’s wake up call for serious Teshuva and Achdus together as one loving nation so Hashem can finally send mashiach already bkarov.
The shocking message DIRECTLY FROM HASHEM of this current war between Israel and Iran
THE MESSAGE
On June 13th 2025 Israel hit the country of Iran and it’s nuclear power in all directions to work on destroying and preventing Iran from coming out with a nuclear weapon to Chas VShalom use for the wrong reason. Iran also hit Israel back with ballistic missiles and drones and caused severe damage and deaths to innocent civilians in Israel and everyone is asking what is the message DIRECTLY FROM HASHEM? The answer is that the date the war started was on 6/13 and when klal yisroel doesn’t LISTEN to Hashem and keep the entire Torah of 613 mitzvos as we took upon ourselves at kabbalas Hatorah then Hashem has to send us a horrific wake up call message for serious immediate Teshuva and Achdus together with fasting like we did in the story of Purim which happened in Iran/Persia, so Hashem can finally send mashiach already bkarov and let this war be the start of Milchemes Gog Umagog before mashiach comes.The united states is just sent as a shliach from Hashem to be at Israel side when they need help but it’s really all coming directly from Hashem and every yid needs to thank Hashem for sending Donald Trump and the Medina shel chessed of the USA to always be there for Israel.
May we all start realizing who really runs the entire world and everything comes with a plan. Let’s start doing teshuva today and not wait any longer so Hashem can send mashiach already bkarov.
Besides for the message above which was sent earlier today. There’s another important thing wecall need to know when it comes to countries and rulers in the world.
Every Country-including Iran-has a meaning & a destiny to its name when its read in Hebrew. Yisroel reads “Yashar & El” & its meaning of Klal yisroel is telling us that Hashem made the Jews to be his chosen nation & to go in the right ways of Hashem & his Torah. Libya Reads “Lev-Ka” the heart of Hashem & the country being sent to do Hashem will (rather it looks bad or good). Syria reads “Sar-Ka” the Angel of Hashem & being sent as another country (middleman agent) to do whatever Hashem send it to do. Mitzrayim (Egypt) reads “Metzar-Yam” from the pains of the sea, Mitzrayim did not start to be called by that name only after the miracle of the Dead sea splitting & the Egyptians drowning… it was already called that from hundreds of years before (the first time it says it in the Torah is when Avraham Avinu went down to Mitzrayim to get food during a hunger). The country of Russia means “Wicked” & was chosen by Hashem with its name to be the most wicked country for many centuries (from Czar Russia to Communist Russia etc…) & not letting anyone do anything with their lives but feel like prisoners. Europe reads “Yireh-Pe” the Fear of talking, for many centuries the entire Europe was under pure fear of the government talking & not knowing what was going to happen the next hour or day… Iraq reads “ie-rak” meaning Hashem only, & being a country sent by Hashem as an agent to remind everyone that everything comes through Hashem & everyone else is agents. The same thing is read for America reading “amar-ika” meaning this is what is said-by Hashem-& everything that happens is a decree straight from Hashem (like Iraq above)
May we all wake ourselves up and finally realize that Hashem runs the entire world and every single country and city that exists in the world.
Hashem runs the entire world and all governments.
“Lev melochim vsorim byad Hashem” we all know that’s the honest truth and that all these rulers from presidents to kings to governors and Mayors are in truth just acting puppet messengers sent directly by Hashem to act as the ruler of their country or city but we all know the real truth that Hashem runs the entire world 24-7The coffee room askanim can only try to get the teachers and rabbonim of your Yeshiva to give you the secret recipe of more coffee to make it through English each day
Wow you must be reaaaaaaalllllllly crooked like crooked Hillary and probably come from Englewood NJ where everyone is on a Engle and very crooked due to that
Don’t wait until it chas v’shalom gets any worse. Make Aliyah today and be safer and closer to Hashem our loving father also. And be more ready to greet Mashiach with already being in Eretz Yisroel.
When was the frum Yeshiva world ever Zionist to begin with?
Ubiquitin
Both of these wicked people from Hitler Yemach Shemam that murdered 6 million innocent Jews to Osama bin Laden that also murdered thousands of innocent people. You don’t call this a tragedy of the Holocaust happening Rachmana litzlan?
And with that very day that Osama bin Laden was captured and killed on that year it being the exact same day as Israel Holocaust memorial day versus other years it comes out on a different date. You don’t consider this a SHOCKING MESSAGE DIRECTLY FROM HASHEM waiting for klal yisroel to wake up to serious Teshuva and Achdus together as one loving nation so Hashem can send Mashiach already bkarov.Think about it and let Hashem our loving father and king of Kings ruler of the world know when YOU’RE READY for this time of sadly non stop horrific tragedies hitting klal yisroel to come to a complete stop. IT’S COMPLETELY IN OUR HANDS and there’s no one else to blame but ourselves for continuing to live in denial instead of waking up to FACE REALITY and openly accept Hashems Wake up call for serious Teshuva and Achdus together as one loving nation so Hashem can send Mashiach already bkarov.
The shocking messages below regarding President Obama were sent down DIRECTLY FROM HASHEM as soon as he won the Presidential election
MESSAGE 1
Barack (Husaine) Obama is what we need for moshiach to come. You see before Moshiach comes the whole entire world is going to be against Israel & the jews. Now, you can’t just have President Bush & the United States go against Israel, you need a Muslim i.e. Bnei Yishmael to rule America & THEN go against Israel. The way Judaism works is that if your mother is jewish then you are jewish. Muslims are just the opposite, if your father is Muslim then you are a Muslim & that is what Barack Obama is. (a Muslim from his fathers side) Now with America under Muslim/Bnei Yishmael rulership Moshiach can come.MESSAGE 2
President Barack (Husaine) Obama is the 44th President of the USA. The numerical value of his last name is 44. The 44th word in the Torah is Choshech (Dark). It says the word Eved (servant) 44 times in the torah & the numerical value of Dam (Bloodshed) is also 44. Now we can & should get ready for the Bloodshed of Milchemes Gog U’Magog before Mashiach comes. Hold yourselves in as he negotiates with terrorists, as the relationship between Israel & America is slowly separating (in president Obama’s inauguration speech he welcomed in every terrorist country from Iraq to Iran etc… & told them if you join America & expand the land then we will assist you in all our programs AKA Social Security, Medicaid, HUD Foodstamps etc…)Very sad we are still in golus today and didn’t accept Hashems Wake up call for serious Teshuva and Achdus together during the days of President Obama when he was supposed to be the shliach to even put America which is a Christian country into the hands of a bnei yishmael of Obama so Hashem can keep his promise that before Mashiach comes THE ENTIRE WORLD will be against eretz Yisroel and klal yisroel
Osama Bin Laden-the terrorist leader of Al Quada & leader of the terrorist act of 9/11- was captured & killed on May 1 2011. Israel’s Holocaust memorial day (Yom Hashoa) in 2011 came out also on May 1. Hitler YEMACH SHEMAM commited Suicide on May 1.. put the english date of 5-1 together & get the wake-up message DIRECTLY FROM HASHEM. you get 51, which chapter in Tehillim is chapter 51? The chaper of תשובה (repentance) when will klal yisroel wake up & do teshuva? just how many more signs of tragedies C”V will have to happen before we do תשובה? IS THIS MESSAGE & SIGN ENOUGH or does klal yisroel need more Tzaros to get us to wake up & do תשובה?
May we all finally accept Hashems Wake up call for serious Teshuva and Achdus together as one loving nation so Hashem can send Mashiach already bkarov.
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So then what are we waiting for? Obviously we have not come to the level of serious Teshuva and Achdus together as one loving nation that Hashem is expected from his loving children klal yisroel and therefore the horrific tragedies hitting klal yisroel worldwide including this current israel-Hamas war and bochurim being forced to join the IDF has not been enough to wake up klal yisroel to serious Teshuva and Achdus together as one loving nation so Hashem can send Mashiach already bkarov.
If you want to get the children engaged then you first need to speak to a shadchan to find your child a chosson/Kallah
BELOW IS NOT A JOKE BUT ACTUALLY A VERY SERIOUS MESSAGE DIRECTLY FROM HASHEM
THE MESSAGE:
In the miracle of klal yisroel being saved in the story of Purim. Both main characters being complete opposites, from the words of ברוך מרדכי to the opposite of ארור המן both have the same Gematria/numerical value of 502 which is the Gematria of the word בשר which refers to the physical body of a person and could have chas VShalom destroyed All of klal yisroel’s בשר if we had not immediately gathered together as one loving nation and openly accepted Hashems wake up call message for serious Teshuva and Achdus like we immediately did and we’re miraculously saved. What are we waiting for in today’s generation when there’s sadly so much horrific tragedies hitting klal yisroel rachmana litzlan to bring us to immediate serious Teshuva and Achdus like we did in the story of Purim? Do we Chas VShalom need it to get any worse? Have we not lost enough בשר in klal yisroel already? Isn’t the situation in klal yisroel bad enough already? So what’s the true honest answer why we have not accepted Hashems wake up call for serious Teshuva and Achdus together immediately to stop the tzaros in klal yisroel?Pesach is the Yom tov where we celebrate our freedom together as a nation from Egypt. We need to be thankful to Hashem for this freedom 24-7 but mostly we need to be thankful for our freedom today to live as frum yidden rather it’s in the United States or Israel or anywhere else for that matter. So many recent generations not long ago had to live undercover to remain Jewish rather it was in Germany with the Nazis Yemach shemam or the Morranos back in Spain over 500 years ago that had to live undercover or if discovered to be Jewish we’re immediately sentenced to death Rachmana litzlan. Today we are blessed and fortunate to live free as open and frum yidden in a free country and can celebrate Pesach with our families and need to be thankful to Hashem for that each day we live.
May you keep up your non-music as a zchus for klal yisroel and may all of klal yisroel finally wake up and accept Hashems Wake up call for serious Teshuva and Achdus together as one loving nation so Hashem can send Mashiach already bkarov.