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may this year be the BEST year ever for everyone
I know its rite near the space bar
I feel.like I have no.outlet for my.humor these days! and this phone is dot happy
Among other trite and ignorant statements like: Oh well, takes two to tango yknow…plus there are three sides to every story…blah blah blah.
Remembering does NOT mean not moving on in life. When.people say that to someone who has moved on.in every way possible except memory and CURRENT obstacles they sound ignorant.
I mean crazy for YOU
little froggie that is the craziest username, you are a very fine person not at all like a frogOctober 26, 2016 4:36 am at 4:36 am in reply to: Ideas for a meaningful Simchas Torah for single girls #1188277
I followed my own little advice, and hope Hashem heard my heart:) but a lot of nice ideas on this thread!
lilmod, re: your last point, you are right. The abusive person may remarry someone tougher and/or who has the status they crave, and BEHAVE. The second wife is not being mistreated, and if she was, the guy would be thrown out, so the guy figures out what he has to do to stay, and acts human.
Abba, with all due respect, you are missing a lot of details, so I dont blame you for not understanding, but many of us would love to forget. No more nightmares! Read The High Road Is Dangerous thread, and you will get a glimpse of why it’s a challenge to forget.
You seem pretty solid, lilmod. We all get discouraged, believe me.
I ate a meal somewhere where all they did was talk about other people from beginning to end, it turned me off so completely. THIS ruins lives!!!
thanks lilmod, its sink or swim as you know:)
lilmod, ty but I am not upset:) I just like to set the record straight.
lilmod, thanks:) I wish you the same
Its the worst feeling to be trying to live a simple life not bothering anyone and hear that ridiculous gossip never dies.It was said in the context of trying to make me lose a job, otherwise I would just laugh at it.
ty , it kept showing up.as yellow so.didnt know if it posted
Rumors amaze me.Today I found out that I had “a couple of marriages”. Really? Silly me, I only remember one.
because otherwise that added note is not needed
did my.first post about the Living Emunah books go thru
Joseph, I didnt mean any disrespect,sorry
I’m not sure an apology is necessary here
authOr. and excuse all those extra dots
A fantastic and not at all.boring book you would appreciate is Living Emunah and Livimg Emunah 2. Down.to.earth and real.life examples. authour is Rabbi Dovid Ashear. and you can contact. me privately if the mods know how that can be done. Main thing : Youcan actually ask.Gd in.plain English.to help you believe in Him more, nothing is beyond Gd. All.prayers are respected.
Joseph, use your cyber brain.please, if only.one person desperately wants out, I think.you can.guess what the dynamics are. No abusive spouse ever said, would you like a get, sweetheart? so.this unilateral thing, sorry.
say Im humbled by your compliment
men, if its over, deal with it like men.
The five yes five years I was trapped because my ex would not move out or give me a get (and I had literally nowhere to go away to) were the most difficult years of all.our lives. Everyone who supported my ex in ignoring my repeated requests will have to give din vcheshbon one day.
reuventree555:that is very well put
when one person.goes to secular court the other is forced to follow. that will age you and take you away from.your kids even.when.yoi are home! Many rabbonim.do not know how to help women in.tricky situations, but all.you need is ONE to vouch for you, and never drag anyone to court unless you have a really really good reason. and I dont know too many good reasons!October 23, 2016 1:55 am at 1:55 am in reply to: Ideas for a meaningful Simchas Torah for single girls #1188272
Whilst feeling a bit emotional when watching the dancing in a “sincere people shul”,daven in your heart to be zoche to a true ben Torah , by true I mean he loves the Torah for real (not just status) and he knows about how a true ben Torah treats a wife. Daven.in your heart to be zoche to children who will always stay on the Torah path. The simcha of watching lively singing and dancing combined with a heartfelt plea to Hashem TO BE PART of the simcha by way of Torah children/spouse is sure to be accepted by Hashem.
no intention.of sharing real name, just commenting. I am the management:)
Lilmod ulilamaid BAS cheder kafay, for sure! May Hashem answer all your tefilos in.the very best way possible very soon!
Oy! I guess I will ask a rav
And thank.you to whichever.mod gave me that kind bi line
Abba maybe that’s why my life has been.one parsha after the other, ha ha:) anyway thank you so much. Re my age, as I mentioned in.my free advice thread I am between binah and e I t z a h ( a word my auto correct insists on changing)
Amein, thank you! You made my day!!
They are both equally horrible in different ways, I am just not voting, so whatever happens I didn’t choose it!
re: that one liner…tav lmeytav tan du milemeitav armelu (I for SURE got that wrong somewhere) must be once you’re already stuck with the person or somethingOctober 21, 2016 12:04 am at 12:04 am in reply to: How are single girls supposed to be mekayem the Mitzvah of Simcha on Chol HaMoed #1187899
I like your last line!October 21, 2016 12:03 am at 12:03 am in reply to: How are single girls supposed to be mekayem the Mitzvah of Simcha on Chol HaMoed #1187898
lilmod, that is a true sign that Hashem loves you and understands every individual persons needs !!! Wow!!!!!
Rav Chaim’s rebitzen was nifteresOctober 20, 2016 8:20 pm at 8:20 pm in reply to: How are single girls supposed to be mekayem the Mitzvah of Simcha on Chol HaMoed #1187895
abba s: that joke does NOT mean someone prefers being alone in general! It means yheir dates have been discouraging or depressing to the point that even being alone seems brighter than time spent with dates like the ones they are getting.October 20, 2016 8:12 pm at 8:12 pm in reply to: Do you think Jewish men should start practicing polygamy again? #1190906
ksamaychacha …ytzeercha…bgan eden mikedem..One Odom, One Chava
it sounds like a New Yorker saying, what, New York is out of town? 🙂