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A woman is allowed to get drunk if her husband or father is with her
Unfortunately, girls / women in the frum world who want to be guys have no one to discuss it with because it’s considered ‘not normal’ and most frum females Ik say they’re very happy being a girl. Why is it considered ‘not normal’? Is someone who is depressed ‘not normal’? We can’t help being mentally ill!
It’s definitely not accepted in Stamford Hill where I live. Because I smoke in private. I keep my e-cig in my pocketbook. My mother told me I shouldn’t because what what if my boss or a workmate sees? I was so mad because why is it different than if I would be a Rebbi in a cheder and my boss found it? He wouldn’t care. Why should my boss care if I smoke in private? People think it’s weird even if women do it in private. Anyway, I do it in public because I don’t see how it’s not Tznius, and guys sometimes anyway look at me unfortunately
If women are required to fulfill Matanos Levyonim then why don’t they also buy voucher books and give out Tzedakah to the collectors?
If women are required to fulfill Matanos Levyonim then why don’t women buy voucher books and give out Tzedakah to the collectors?
If you think about it, why are men allowed to get drunk on Purim? They’re the ones who tend to do the Aveiros when they get drunk, not women. I’ve had drunk guys talk to me and (gasp!) not keep Shomer negiah with me. So if guys can’t behave they shouldn’t drink. But we women can behave, as ik from personal experience. Nowadays, it’s considered more accepted for women to drink Purim, with there being multiple girls’ Purim parties on Purim. Plus, I’ve seen my workmate, who is very normal and chassidish, suddenly dance on the street and act tipsy. But it’s still not accepted in my community. So if anyone sees a girl that’s a bit tipsy, just know that I am normal, BH, and please still suggest me Shidduchim, lol. The problem is once we have kids, B’ezras Hashem, we can’t get drunk because someone has to watch the kids ðŸ˜