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February 21, 2018 12:57 pm at 12:57 pm in reply to: Is there any way to prevent mass shootings???? #1473708Avi KParticipant
Mentsch, someone who gives a cheresh/shotteh/katan the means to cause damage is liable for the damage caused (SA CM 396:6).
Ubiquitin,
I am not Rabbi Pruzansky’s spokesman. If you disagree with something he wrote you can contact him or post a comment on his blog. However, I will defend him anyway as I reposted.
1. He was not stating his opinion but how he interprets that of the anti-gun control side.
2. You are in need of a remedial reading course. “as is done in Israel” refers to “providing armed guards during school hours and searches, screening and profiling for all who enter the school building “.
3. If it is too long for you to read every word so skim.February 21, 2018 8:27 am at 8:27 am in reply to: Is there any way to prevent mass shootings???? #1473400Avi KParticipantGun Wars
by Rabbi Steven Pruzansky
The American gun debate has been a dialogue of the deaf for decades and no end is in sight. That is for the simple reason that the two sides each reflect incompatible and irreconcilable views on the matter. To simplify a bit, when one side feels that society would be safer with more guns and the other side feels society would be safer with fewer or no guns, there is not much middle ground that can bridge the differences. One side blames the gun for the crime (as if guns fire themselves) and the other side blames the perpetrator for the crime (as if he could kill people if he didn’t have a gun). And so horrendous tragedies such as last week’s school massacre in Florida will continue to occur, rachmana litzlan.Each side retreats to its arguments whenever a horrendous school shooting occurs. One side blames the easy access to guns as so obvious that it brooks no discussion. The other side blames the failure to diagnose and treat mental illness or at least intervene and curb the anger and delusions of the disaffected. There are so many layers to the problem that it becomes difficult even to discuss them or analyze them dispassionately. No one is in favor of providing weapons to the mentally ill; by the same token, we pride ourselves in not stigmatizing mental illness, so how can their rights be restricted? And by whom shall they be restricted? Add to this the collapse of the American family since the moral breakdown of the 1960’s – the plethora of fatherless children, the aimlessness of many youth, the broken homes and the lack of any moral guidance from authority figures (schools, churches, etc.) and one big problem looms. And add to that the modern drug of “fame” – the yearning to be noticed, to matter, to be significant in the eyes of society – as if that has any enduring value. There are too many losers who act in anti-social ways to get attention; a small percentage of them will turn violent.
It has reached a point where the arguments no longer address the issue at hand and the proposals made by the politicians satisfy a core constituency but would not solve the problem at all. Trying to prevent a school shooting by tightening the terrorist watch list is a non sequitur. Blaming the NRA and their campaign contributions for the presence of gun violence ignores the reality of the Second Amendment and presupposes that politicians would be amenable to restricting gun ownership if only they had the will. But such is false; most politicians – and most Americans – support gun ownership because they believe in the right of self-defense, itself a cardinal Torah principle: “He who comes to slay you, rise up and slay him first” (Masechet Yoma 85b). There is no virtue to allowing yourself to be killed by a criminal.
Defending the Constitution is seemingly as American as apple pie but its sundry clauses – especially in the Bill of Rights – always vex one group or another and is often under assault by government. Just in the last few years, the First Amendment’s “free exercise” of religion clause was assaulted by a variety of Obama administration measures, particularly regarding the provision of health care; many perceive the Trump’s administration’s hostility and verbal assaults on the media as infringing on freedom of the press; and all of us are subjected, and not always legally, to intrusive surveillance, searches and occasionally seizures with little redress, despite the Fourth Amendment. The Seventh Amendment’s right to a trial by jury sounds great but has not always served the cause of truth and justice.
For better or worse, guns are ingrained in American culture and it is foolhardy to think that the confiscation of 300,000,000 firearms (count ‘em) is feasible even if it were sensible. Some people, naturally horrified by school shootings and the deaths of innocent children, can rail against the prevalence of guns in society but usually will be unaware of the positive roles guns play in the society. The NRA magazine features a monthly column entitled “The Armed Citizen,” in which there are at least a dozen accounts drawn from local media of citizens who saved their own lives (and those of others) by employing a firearm against a hostile entity – intruder, burglar, assailant, rapist, etc. I sense that these accounts weigh more heavily on people’s minds that even the random shootings that, gun control advocates think, should shock people out of their lethargy. Obviously there is a hunting culture in America that uses weapons with much firepower, but since hunting doesn’t speak to me at all (Jews are not hunters) I downplay its role in this debate. Safety first.
If almost everyone is in agreement that someone like the Florida school shooter should not have been able to purchase a weapon, then why can’t laws be crafted that make it more difficult for such malefactors to be denied access and easier for the good citizens to acquire and carry firearms?
It also needs to be noted that, I suspect, most homicides in America are committed with illegal weapons, not ones that are legally purchased. Illegal weapons are easily attainable, even though the average citizen would never seek to acquire an illegal weapon. As such, gun control that is too restrictive leaves weapons primarily in the hands of the criminals and outside the reach of the innocent. That doesn’t seem fair. Nor does it make any sense to argue – as politicians do all the time – that this or that law would have made a difference. Last I checked, there are laws against homicide and yet, somehow, those laws don’t deter homicidal maniacs from killing people. It is not the law as much as it is the person and the person’s capacity and willingness to obey the law.
The most recent miscreant fell through the cracks and had all the indicia of trouble. Given up for adoption, adopted parents dead, expelled from school for violence, drifting, aimless, no future and no hope – a ticking time bomb ready to explode. In his own demented way, he was crying out for help. Someone who posts on the internet using his real name that “I want to grow up to be a professional school shooter” is begging to be noticed and stopped. That no follow up was done – that he was not found – is outrageous incompetence for which someone should be called to account. A cynic might speculate that had he said “I want to grow up to be a professional school shooter and I have evidence that Trump colluded with Russia before the election” the FBI would have found him within an hour. And the ongoing problem is that had he been found, there are no laws and there is no protocol that could have confined, stopped or deterred him.
There is no one law that will be a panacea, especially in the face of the great dysfunction of the American family. And it is not as simple as saying “we should not allow weapons in the hands of the mentally ill;” is a battered woman suffering from depression under the care of a psychiatrist and threatened by a violent ex-husband “mentally ill” and therefore not permitted to buy a gun to use to defend herself? And there are gradations of mental illness as well, from mild to severe.
What is needed in the long term is a cultural change – a moral renaissance reflected in the “bourgeois values” touted by Professor Amy Wax in an article whose thesis is so self-evident that in today’s climate was considered controversial and offensive – but even in the short term measures are necessary and mostly at hand. Schools are currently soft targets, accessible to one and all, student and psychopath alike. That has to change, and providing armed guards during school hours and searches, screening and profiling for all who enter the school building should be obvious. Such is done in Israel, as is the discreet arming of some teachers who rotate carrying concealed weapons on their persons. That secures the target, reasonably if not perfectly, and greatly enhances the chances of failure of the attacker to achieve his nefarious aims as to deter even the attempt.
As the school shooters have almost all been young males – from their teens to their 20’s – it is clear that males who have been expelled from school for violence, are under the care of a mental health professional, or have exhibited cruel and unusual behavior should be placed on a watch list that denies them access to legal weapons unless they are permitted to do so by a judge upon the testimony of doctors, parents, guardians and the like. Again, this is reasonable but not perfect. So is this: adults who store weapons in their homes and do not secure them sufficiently to prevent their use by murderers should be held criminally liable with a mandatory minimum prison sentence. Ah, isn’t this blaming the victim? Well, sometimes the victim deserves some of the blame. It is not sufficient to say “I trusted him,” “I didn’t know he had a duplicate key,” “I tried to turn him into a responsible adult,” etc. If it happens on your watch, you are liable. That should get the attention of law-abiding gun owners.
It is not fair to punish hundreds of millions of law-abiding citizens because of the despicable acts of a handful of people. Nor should we renounce constitutional rights that have safeguarded American liberties and provided an effective means of self-defense. Nor should we wash our hands and say that nothing can be done because there is no perfect solution. There is no perfect solution – the psychopaths can also acquire illegal weapons, psychologists will claim that putting their patients on a watch list would violate confidentiality and encourage reticence, the fantasy of a gun-free society will always animate some – but a sane society takes elementary measures to keep weapons out of the hands of the disaffected, a sane government focuses its efforts on defending its citizens, especially its children, and rational politicians – interested in more than retaining their seats and its access to the lucre of modern politics – know how to address complex issues with substance, sensitivity and efficacy.
February 21, 2018 7:50 am at 7:50 am in reply to: Is the fact that 40% of the public school is Jewish any less of a tragedy #1473464Avi KParticipantJoseph, please take a remedial reading course. I did not use the word “government”. However, there are various government programs which they do get and thus greatly reduce their living expenses.
February 21, 2018 12:48 am at 12:48 am in reply to: Is the fact that 40% of the public school is Jewish any less of a tragedy #1473405Avi KParticipantDY, even $20K per year per child is beyond the reach of middle-class families. Yeshivish families tend to have lower incomes so they qualify for various scholarship programs. The point about MO schools having to beef up their secular studies programs is also well-taken. When I went to a specialized NYC HS there were a number of frum kids in my graduating class. They were there for the superior academic program. BTW, up until 60-70 years ago it was very rare for even kids from very frum families to go to a day school. They went to public school and, in the case of the boys, an evening bet midrash program. This was before the SCOTUS decisions that banned religion so they were bombarded by Xtian cultural pressure.
Of course, there is another solution -and I know families that have done this. Make aliya.February 20, 2018 2:01 pm at 2:01 pm in reply to: Is there any way to prevent mass shootings???? #1472842Avi KParticipantGun control laws are an exercise in futility. Anyone can print one on the Internet. School staff must be given peace officer status and law enforcement agencies must follow up tips. The FBI was tipped about Cruz several times. He showed all the warning signs from childhood. Why was nothing done?
February 20, 2018 5:28 am at 5:28 am in reply to: Is the fact that 40% of the public school is Jewish any less of a tragedy #1472522Avi KParticipantDY, If tuition is $40K per year (as it is in some schools and parents have a few children from where is the money going to come? Giving up on a roof and food? I think that it is very instructive that at least one of the survivors has a sibling in the Chabad pre-school. She ran to there because she knew that her mother would be there picking up her sibling.
February 20, 2018 5:27 am at 5:27 am in reply to: Is there any way to prevent mass shootings???? #1472521Avi KParticipant1. There are some loose cannons here in the CR.
2. Gun ownership was more prevalent in the US fifty years ago but there were no schools shootings. Perhaps the social causes should be examined.
3. The FBI was warned about Cruz. They were also warned about several others including the 9/11 terrorists. It is high time for a house cleaning.February 19, 2018 12:55 pm at 12:55 pm in reply to: If you had one era to go back in time… where would it be? #1471878Avi KParticipantZD, why not EY as the gates were wide open? However, if they did not listen to Rav Kook and the Imrei Emmet or, lehavdil, Jabotinsky, they would not listen to you. In fact, if you told them that you were from the future they would put you away.
February 19, 2018 12:55 pm at 12:55 pm in reply to: Is there any way to prevent mass shootings???? #1471875Avi KParticipantUbiquitin, you are correct about all but the last two, about which I do not know. I do know a couple of civilians who carry military weapons and several who carry handguns (and it is legal to conceal them). I do know that a few years ago the requirements were EASED in the wake of several terrorist attacks and in Jerusalem teachers in Chareidi schools were allowed to carry guns (male teachers in secular and NR schools are generally eligible as reserve IDF officers). As for daat Torah, after the Har Nof attack Rav Asher Weiss ruled that those members of his shul who have licenses should bring them.
February 19, 2018 12:54 pm at 12:54 pm in reply to: Is the fact that 40% of the public school is Jewish any less of a tragedy #1471868Avi KParticipantMaybe if day school tuition was not so high it would be less.
Avi KParticipantLiterature
by Rabbi Steven PruzanskyThe Jewish Press (February 16, 2018) asked a number of rabbis to address this interesting but rarely-discussed question: “Some of the most famous and important works of literature contain passages and themes that are immodest in nature. May a G-d-fearing Jew read these works for the good they contain, or must he forego reading them entirely?”
These were my thoughts on the matter:
I don’t believe there is a definitive answer to this question, although it is certainly easier just to say “no.” Much depends on motivation, purpose, context, source, and especially the precise nature of the immorality, of which, of course, there are gradations. Perhaps the most important determinant is the message that is being delivered. Ancient and medieval works generally frowned on immorality and as such reinforce a Torah message while more modern and contemporary works often celebrate immorality. Usually, no good comes from the latter and prolonged exposure to values that are antithetical to Torah will eventually dilute the reader’s moral perspective and later his or her practice and commitment as well.
It’s important to note that Chazal (recorded in Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 307:16) banned the reading of “divrei cheshek” – loosely, books of romance – as a waste of time that could be spent on more godly pursuits and as a tool that could only increase illicit temptation. Books that might fall under that genre must therefore have some redeeming value. Its prurient aspects must be incidental to its primary message for it to be considered appropriate and worthwhile. Fiction generally, Rav Kook wrote, affords us the opportunity to see the world through the eyes of another person’s experiences and thus can broaden our horizons. But not every lifestyle or experience deserves to be investigated, studied or fantasized about and certainly not emulated. So caution must be applied.
That being said, there is one Book that exposes the vices and venality that can permeate human nature and is unsparing in its accounts of our failings. It is superior to any work of fiction. That Book is the Tanach. And we can rest assured that its moral guidance is always spot on. Anyone who wants to learn about our potential for degradation as well great virtue is urged to study the relevant passages and not just skip over them. They provide a solid grounding in moral instruction and, nevertheless, occasionally put human dysfunction on display. One who is drawn to indulge in problematic works of literature would be well advised to study the works of Tanach instead, especially the chronicles of the early prophets. “Turn in it and turn in it, for everything is in it”( Avot 5:22).February 19, 2018 2:11 am at 2:11 am in reply to: If you had one era to go back in time… where would it be? #1471615Avi KParticipantI was already there as well as a few others in previous gilgulim. However, Rav Kook says on “ad shelo notzarti” that this one started exactly when it was needed.
Avi KParticipantAccording to Rambam a tzaddik is someone whose mitzvot outweigh his aveirot – and we do not know the weights (Hilchot Teshuva 3:1-2). Thety are different for each individual (Rav Dessler, Michtav meEliahu, Kuntras Nekudat haBechira). However, for some reason the minhag is that “zatzal” is only written about talmidei chachamim. After the name of a murder victim we write “Hy’d”.
February 19, 2018 2:10 am at 2:10 am in reply to: Is there any way to prevent mass shootings???? #1471613Avi KParticipantCuriosity, do you believe that Hashem gives parnassa? If so why do you work or seek some other form of income. In fact, it is not universally agreed that a person cannot be killed before his time. See Or haChaim haKadosh on Bereisheet 37:21. See also Mishlei 13:23.
DY, I don’t believe that Rav Moshe said that. He certainly knew that in Israel it is permitted and fairly common. He also certainly knew that some people need them for self-defense.
February 18, 2018 3:06 pm at 3:06 pm in reply to: Kallah Taking Chosson’s Last Name Upon Marriage- Jewish or Gentile? #1471391Avi KParticipantSome Jews already had family names in Chazal’s time. See, for example, Sukka 38a. See also Bartenura on Gittin 9:8 d”h chanichato. IMHO, a woman should take her husband’s as she joins his community.
Avi KParticipantVery well put ZG. The Gra says that the Erev Rav can even be talmidei chachamim and that in the time just before Mashiach the sin of the spies will infect those who hold on to the Torah. Rav Teichtal also said this in Em haBanim Semeicha. However, their numbers are steadily shrinking. The younger generation of Chareidim want to be part of the state. In fact, if Ayelet Shaked gets her way we will also have a female Chareidi judge – Chavi Toker, whose father-in-law Naftali Toker zatzal was the rosh yeshiva of the Chevron Yeshiva, and is a senior attorney in the Jerusalem DA’s office.
Avi KParticipantJoseph, are trolls included in “amiteicha”?
Avi KParticipantZD, you are over on a takknat kadmonim not to be motzi shem ra on the dead. You have to go to Begin’s grave and ask forgiveness. Begin was a traditional Jew. When he was wanted by the British he successfully assumed the identity of a rabbi. When he visited the US after becoming PM he consulted with Rav Soloveichik, Rav Moshe and the Lubavitcher Rebbe. As a young man in Brisk he even went o the separate-swimming pool frequented by the yeshiva men. After his wife died the Chevra Kadish was hesitant to bury her among tzddikot. He told them that she kept taharat hamishpacha and they went ahead with the burial.
Avi KParticipantThe Chacham Tzvi (Responsa 93) says that a golem does not have a neshama and cannot be counted in a minyan. It wouldseem that this would also be true of a clone.
February 18, 2018 1:55 am at 1:55 am in reply to: Is there any way to prevent mass shootings???? #1471029Avi KParticipantDY,
1. Israel also has gun laws but they are much saner. First of all, those who live in certain areas can get licenses after passing firing range, background and psychological tests (the last must be redone every few years). Reserve IDF officers have an automatic right to a license. They are very common and have stopped terrorist attacks at the get-go.
2. The Arabs have their own factories. The Jews also had them during the Mandatory period. Carrying an illegal gun was a capital offense (and there were a few hangings) but that did not stop them as they were ready to die for their cause.
February 18, 2018 12:16 am at 12:16 am in reply to: Is there any way to prevent mass shootings???? #1471017Avi KParticipantToday there is no way to keep guns out of the wrong hands. Anyone can make a gun using the Internet. There have even been cases of soldiers stealing guns from their bases and selling them to dealers.
February 17, 2018 9:55 pm at 9:55 pm in reply to: Is there any way to prevent mass shootings???? #1470956Avi KParticipantFebruary 17, 2018 7:03 pm at 7:03 pm in reply to: Is there any way to prevent mass shootings???? #1470834Avi KParticipantLaskern, Israel also has police but they cannot be everywhere. Many terrorists have been stopped by armed civilians. thus the Minister of Internal Security made it easier to obtain a license.
Avi KParticipantWoman, no matter what someone does someone else will take offense. Life is tough. What about black groups who focus on alleged injustices to blacks, Catholic groups that focus on Catholics, etc.? What about when American newspapers focus on American victims?
Midwest, so why mention the Jewish aspect at all? Just write that kids and a teacher were killed without mentioning their backgrounds? Interestingly, the Jerusalem Post, whose online edition certainly has non-Jewish readers, did not feel the necessity to explain away its concentration on the Jewish victims.
February 16, 2018 8:51 am at 8:51 am in reply to: Is there any way to prevent mass shootings???? #1470561Avi KParticipantArm school staff and give them mandatory training.
Avi KParticipantMidwest,
1. I am Jewish.
2. I have been taught that Jews are rachamim bnei rachamim, and also understand that non-Jews are also creations of HKB’H. In fact, I posted protests against pejoratives directed at non-Jews.
3. if this be trolling let us make the most of it.
4. So why emphasize the Jewish side at all? I personally think that it is natural that each group prays more for its own members. None other than Avi Weiss said this when criticized for emphasizing love of Jews.
5. So why not disclaimers regarding articles that discuss something that happened to a frum Jew that emphasize that he was frum.MTAB. it is like “incitement” in Israel, and, on the other hand, photoshopping politicians in SS uniforms.
Joseph, trolling makes strange bedfellows.
February 15, 2018 2:05 pm at 2:05 pm in reply to: Is it permissible to have a goy in a sukkah? #1470037Avi KParticipantLaskern, it does not hold the “responsible”. It just points out that it is not appropriate for them. Rav Kook explains that this is why they received the sheva mitzvot and we received the taryag.
Avi KParticipantPlease do not feed the troll. May Hashem grant him a refuah sheleimah.
Avi KParticipantLittle, I am in favor of the super glue solution.
February 15, 2018 8:56 am at 8:56 am in reply to: Is it permissible to have a goy in a sukkah? #1469702Avi KParticipant1. The Kaf haChaim only refers to an idolator (akum) not a non-idolatrous non-Jew (aino Yehudi). Rav Mutzafi says that it is permitted although it is middat chassidut not to.
2. There is no prohibition of having a non-Jewish friend. In fact, Rebbe was friendly with Antoninus and Shmuel was friendly with Avlet. He even drank cooked wine with him (A”Z 30a).
Avi KParticipantLittle, you are correct. Perhaps the shul board should consider fines (if legally enforceable) and denial of honors. I heard of one shul where each section had an official shussher – and the list was posted so that everyone knew. I would add people whose cell phones ring, and even more so those who run out to answer them. I had a thought his morning during davening that holes should be bored in their ears.
Avi KParticipantNisht, I checked and you are right. I left out a letter. Is this the only nit you two picked or are there more?
Avi KParticipantIacisrmma, he speaks not his mouth and tongue. You can see it on a website called Shulsigns. Do a search on “תוספות יום טוב”.
Little, actually the Mishna Berura says (124:27) that a shul police force should be established. The Kaf HaChaim adds (s”k 37) that the offenders should receive many punishments and be publicly shamed
Avi KParticipantSeveral shuls were destroyed by this serious aveira (Mishna Berura 124:27). Even learning quietly is prohibited (ibid s”k 17). The Tosafot Yom Tov blamed the Khmelnytsky massacres on this and wrote a “misheberach” for “מי ששומר את פיו ולשונו לא לדר בזמן התפילה”. It is also prohibited to talk during keriat haTorah (SA 146:1) and the Haftarah (ibid seif 3).
Avi KParticipant1. IMHO (and not just mine) this is an equal and opposite reaction to the coarseness of secular society. When i was a kid (I am 63) American TV was squeaky clean and pushed family values. Even tabloids did not print inappropriate words. Women dressed modestly in the street and at work (there were even “indecent exposure” laws). Now it is the opposite.
2. There are some good Jewish books for those who need relaxation.
3. It is true that a talmid chacham is wasting his time (unless he needs this knowledge to impress baalei battim) but noit everyone is on that level. Rav Soloveichik’s mother taught him Russian literature when he was a child.
Avi KParticipantIt depends on the books. Some are antithetical to Jewish values and some parallel them. Do you have a rav whom you can ask?
BTW, not only are women photoshopped. There is a famous picture of Rav Elchonon smoking a cigarette. The cigarette was taken out. It reminds me of the removal of people who were out of favor from Soviet pictures.
February 9, 2018 9:02 am at 9:02 am in reply to: What’s the difference between Davening in front of a mirror and a picture? #1466178Avi KParticipantNone.
Avi KParticipantAkuperma, on the contrary. Israel has a basic law (“basic laws” form a quasi-constituional framework) that gives Jewish law standing (and many judges, even those who are not so observant, use it in their opinions), the Ministry of Justice has a Jewish Law division headed by a Dep. AG that coments on proposed laws, the Knesset has an advisor on Jewish law (I happen to know him personally) and individual MKs have rabbanim as advisors.
Haimy, who says that you lose all your reward? It only says that that is the lowest level. Hopefully it will lead to wilingnesas the person will get used to giving. However, the highest level is to give someone a productive job. Getting something for nothing is called “bread of shame”. While rabbanim and their talmidim should be supported not everyone can take the name. Many are just lolling about while officially registered because of social pressure. Some fall into the “shabab Charedi” (street kids who commit low-level crimes) because they have no outlet for their energies. The best thing all around would be for them to serve in the IDF and then get jobs. This also goes for those who are learning at some level but will not be rabbanim and r”mim. They can put their analytical skills to good use in military intelligence and then go into high-tech (this industry is crying for skilled workers such thatt here is talk of bringing in foreign workers from India). This would also allow the State to give more to those who are really deserving.
Joseph, universities also have to produce. The rule for professors is “publish or perish”. For students there are exams and those who do not make the grade are out.
Avi KParticipantMTAB,
1. Who says that there were 4 million frum Jews in Europe before the Holocaust? The Yevsektziot put a stop to Jewish religious life in the Soviet Union. Poland had 3.3 million Jews, many of whom were non-observant and even anti-reliigous (e.g. the Bundists). Many of the frum were women and children. Germany only had half a million, most of whom were assimilated, as were many in Czechoslavakia and Romania.
2. Who says that DL men do not learn? DL men learn in many iunformal settings such as shiurim on the Internet.Avi KParticipantMTAB,
1. You are counting the Eastern European men who learned after work but not the Israelis who do. That is fake statistics.
2. Just before the war there was massive involuntary unemployment among Jews because of economic boycotts. This canot be compared to unemployment by choice.
4. The State also subsidizes yeshivot, kollelim and learning programs for retirees directly. Not to mention State Religious and Chinuch Atzmai school, religious councils, neighborhood, town and city rabbis.Avi KParticipantGAON (= never having heard of Rashi or Tosafot), if they do not know the “how to” and they will attempt to defraud the government he is helping them to do an aveira.
Joseph, according to the statutes I cited they are considered like married people for the purpose of benefits. while they cannot say that they are married they can claim to be a couple.
CTL, I doubt that anyone memorized the statute book. In fact, when I cited a statute in a case before the President of the Jerusalem District Labor Court (appealing a National Insurance Institute ruling) he had to look it up as it is not a well-known loophole (I checked the law on the Internet as I had once seen something that suggested it).
Avi KParticipantJoseph, I asked a retired shul rabbi and he said that it does not sound right (from the point of view of Jewish ethics) and would not be a party to it. Atthe very least it is naval b’reshut haTorah. Moreover, it could be a double-edged sword as the survivor might not be eligible for survivor’s benefits.
So far as NYS not recognizing common-law marriage, that does not necessarily bind the Feds. For example, they are prosecuting people in states that legalized marijuana for violating Federal laws. Here are relevant quotes from an actual case (SSR 76-27):
“The claimant and a woman whom he holds out to the community to be his wife, reside in a State which does not recognize common-law marriages. The Social Security Administration determined that a husband-wife relationship existed according to section 1614(d)(2) of the Social Security Act. The claimant contended that since the State of his residence does not recognize a marriage relationship, the Federal Government should be precluded from recognizing one. Held, a husband-wife relationship as defined in section 1614(d)(2) of the Social Security Act, as amended, does exist whether or not such relationship is recognized by the State in which they reside. Because of this relationship, the claimant is subject to the income and resource deeming provisions of section 1614(f)(1) of the Social Security Act.
The general issue is whether the claimant is a ‘husband’ under section 1614(d)(2) of the Social Security Act, as amended, and if so, is the claimant affected by the deeming provisions of section 1614(f)(1) of the Social Security Act, as amended. The specific issues to be decided are: Whether the claimant and a woman who are holding themselves out as man and wife to the community in which they reside, are husband and wife under the Social Security Act; and what effect would a State’s nonrecognition of a common-law marriage have in the final determination as to whether they are husband and wife?The claimant, an obviously disabled individual, appeared at the hearing with a woman whom he identified as his wife, Eve. Claimant admitted at the hearing that he considered Eve to be his wife and that they had lived together holding themselves out to the community as man and wife since 1971. He indicated that there had never been a formal marriage ceremony binding them but that they looked upon one another as husband and wife. Eve also indicated in her testimony at the hearing that the claimant’s testimony was substantially correct. Both indicated that the child now living with them was the natural son of the claimant and Eve.
Section 1614(d)(2) of the Social Security Act provides that:
‘In determining whether two individuals are husband and wife for purposes of this title, appropriate State Law shall be applied; except that . . . if a man and woman are found to be holding themselves out to the community in which they reside as husband and wife, they shall be so considered for purposes of this title notwithstanding any other provision of this section.’
Section 416.1005(a) of Regulations No. 16 reads in part as follows:‘Two individuals may be considered to be husband and wife for the purpose of determining that one is the spouse of the other under title XVI of the Act if at the time the application for payments is made or at any later date:
(1) The individuals are living together in the same household, and holding themselves out to the community in which they reside as husband and wife. . .’
Section 416.1003(b) and (c) of Regulations No. 16 in this regard reads as follows:‘For purposes of this subpart, the term “household” means one or more individuals living as a family unit in a single place of abode . . . A man and woman are ‘holding themselves out as husband and wife’ if they represent themselves as husband and wife (or as married to each other) to relatives, friends, neighbors, or tradespeople with whom they do business.'”.
Avi KParticipantCTL, the מסדר קידושיו might be מסעיה לדבר עבירה if he knows that they will do it. I know a rav who was told by a caterer that if he paid cash he would get a discount of $1,000 as the caterer could get away with not declaring it. He asked a dayan and was told that it was not permitted. It may also be illegal to perform a marriage ceremony without a license (here in Israel this is the case). BTW, if one of the parties has not yet received a civil divorce it could cause legal problems for both. I would consult an attorney who specializes in family and benefits law as well as a competent rav first.
Here in Israel common-law marriage (ידועה בציבור) is recognized for purposes such as single-parent family and social insurance purposes – and there are inspectors who check up on people. There once was a law rescinding the pension of IDF widows who remarried but it was repealed because of the hardships it caused. It also did not make much sense as women with high incomes also received it.
January 18, 2018 6:50 am at 6:50 am in reply to: May a lawyer publicly state that his client is crazy? #1451923Avi KParticipantCTL,
1. May an attorney plead insanity against the client’s will.
2. What is the difference between morality and ethics?
3. While you are technically correct that the judge/jury decides the verdict an attorney can blow smoke, especially in the case of a jury.Avi KParticipantCTL, if you think that this thread should be ignored why did you respond?
Avi KParticipant1.4142135623730950488…, you are being irrational. Only big talmidei chachamim can do the Goral haGra and get an answer. By definition they do not participate in the CR.
Avi KParticipantChabadshlucha,
1. You can google it.
2. If they (and their families) survived and thrived after giving everything away obviously they took it back in some form. Or the stories are sippurei savta (bubbe meises in creole German).Avi KParticipantChabadshluch,
1. We don’t here of such things today? You never heard of the Amityville Horror?
2. There are stories of “tzaddikim” giving all their money to some needy person and leaving their own families high and dry.Random, here is Rambam’s statement at the end of Chelek 1 Chapter 7 according to the translation of Smuel ibn Tibbon:
“ויחי אדם שלושים ומאת שנה ויולד בדמותו כצלמו” (בראשית ה, ג), וכבר קדם לך (בפרק א) עניין צלם ודמות מה הוא. וכל מי שקדמו לו מן הבנים לא הגיע עליהם הצורה האנושית באמת, אשר היא צלם ודמותו הנאמר עליה בצלם אלוהים ובדמותו. אמנם שת כאשר למדהו והבינהו, ונמצא שלם השלימות האנושי, אמר בו “ויולד בדמותו כצלמו” (שם).
וכבר ידעת כי כל מי שלא הגיע לו זאת הצורה אשר ביארנו עניינה, הוא אינו איש אבל בהמה על צורת איש ותבניתו, אבל יש לו יכולת על מיני ההיזק וחלוש הדעות, מה שאין כן לשאר בעלי חיים, כי השכל והמחשבה שהיו מוכנים לו להגעת השלמות אשר לא הגיע, ישתמש בהם במיני התחבולות המביאות לרע, והוליד הנזקים כאילו הוא דבר ידמה לאדם או יזיקהו. וכן היו בני אדם הקודמים לשת. ואמרו במדרש: “כל אותן ק”ל שנה שהיה אדם נזוף בהם היה מוליד רוחות”, ר”ל שדים, וכאשר רצהו השם, הוליד בדמותו כצלמו.
והוא אמרו: “ויחי אדם שלושים ומאת שנה ויולד בדמותו כצלמו” (שם).You can see for yourself at
http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=11580&st=%d7%a6%d7%9c%d7%9d&pgnum=47In fact, in American cities there are many stories of such people taking over apartments. This has prompted the Manhattan District. Attorney’s office to institute a Narcotics Eviction Program.
Avi KParticipantChabadshlucha, I was not aware that hat was one of the Thirteen Principles. In fact, many Chassidic stories have serious halachic problems. Either they could not have happened or Chassidut is not a halachic movement.
Avi KParticipantI heard that some of the BST stories were written by maskilim in order to make fun of him.
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