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☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant
CY, R’ Moshe is saying that because it was already accepted in many places in Europe to have a nochri turn on the light (lantern), the idea of having lights go on is not zilusa. He might have said the same thing about Shabbos clocks having become accepted, but that doesn’t seem to be what he actually said.
Interestingly, the prior teshuvah is about the havla’ah of bank interest, which is what I compared the prize money to.
June 12, 2015 2:29 am at 2:29 am in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086896☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantYou are missing my point.
The answer, by the way, is puzzled.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantYosi, please be more clear – what case are you talking about?
June 12, 2015 12:56 am at 12:56 am in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086894☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantJust to be fair to the men, how would you feel if, after living with a free schedule your whole life, suddenly your rav told you that you need to daven three times a day and put on tallis and tefillin every morning?
June 12, 2015 12:54 am at 12:54 am in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086893☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAnother question for the women: how would you feel if you didn’t dress tznius or cover your hair, and suddenly your rav told you that you have to?
June 12, 2015 12:41 am at 12:41 am in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086892☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI also have a question for the women of the CR. What if all your life you did melachah on Shabbos, and suddenly, your rav told you that you couldn’t? How would you feel?
June 12, 2015 12:36 am at 12:36 am in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086891☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhy, Matan, was there a sudden change of policy?
June 12, 2015 12:32 am at 12:32 am in reply to: Getting Wealthy from Mechalel Shabbos- What Happens? #1087943☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI’m not sure how the techum around Belmont became an issue…
June 11, 2015 11:46 pm at 11:46 pm in reply to: Are yissurim from negligence a kappara chet #1090742☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSam, we reject doing it, but we don’t reject the notion that pain or suffering doesn’t have the ability to be mechaper if it’s the person’s fault or even doing. Please bear in mind the context in which I brought the idea. I’m not saying we should be rolling in the snow or allowing ourselves to be bitten by bees; I’m simply saying that there could be a kaparah from suffering due to negligence, and I’m bringing a raya from the rishonim who did believe in those things. The reason we “reject” it is not because self inflicted suffering inherently can’t be mechaper.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantCY, take a look at the teshuvah, and for good measure, I’ll throw in a link to a discussion I had with cherrybim about it (turned out, I was wrong, and he was right).
http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=920&pgnum=94
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/kosher-switch/page/2#post-565940
June 11, 2015 7:52 pm at 7:52 pm in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086879☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantApushatayid, shkoyach for your sensible posts on this. I don’t have much to add, other than saying that anyone who thinks we can contemplate this being abusive loses a lot of credibility in the seichel department.
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participanthttp://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14164&st=&pgnum=110
It does not actually say not to sit on a table.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantGavra, likely, neither side will consider the “monitor” objective.
Besides, though I’m not going to pretend to know what all of the issues/taynas are, let’s take ZD’s issues (although a couple seem a bit far fetched) as an example. One community considers separate busing and special ed in KJ to be necessities, and art and music to be extras. The other says the opposite. Who’s right? It’s subjective. Who gets to decide? We live in a democracy, and an independent monitor might just serve to take the ability to decide out of the hands of those who should have it, namely, the voters, whose money it happens to be.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantGavra, why don’t you take it a step further? According to you, that the frum community has nothing to worry about because the services it wants are legally mandated, why don’t the frum board members just resign and let Oscar Cohen, Betty Carmand, and Ari Hart approved candidates take over?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBigben2, how does ???? even come into this discussion? The ????? was on ???.
June 11, 2015 12:08 pm at 12:08 pm in reply to: Getting Wealthy from Mechalel Shabbos- What Happens? #1087938☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantMammele, in the techum or out? Carrying something or not?
It’s okay to take a walk on Shabbos. They can sleep and eat Shabbos seudos in the RV, and take walks afterwards.
Perhaps they can even park within proximity of a shul and have a minyan and krias haTorah.
So, why is this an issue?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantCY, As far as the lights, I would like to point out that if the ??? was told to leave them on and he did not follow instructions, then he may even be told directly on ??? to turn them back on.
Told directly? I’ll have to look into that. I do recall that there’s no issur to be ????.
R’ Moshe didn’t quite hold that timers were the same as ????? ????”?; his position was a bit more nuanced than that. He was mattir timers for lights, even where ????? ????”? would be problematic.
Gambling has ruined many a family. Even if technically muttar, it’s a bit seedy. Horseracing is not quite as bad as casino gambling, as it has an element of sport in it. It’s still not necessarily an endeavor I would recommend for a nice Jewish boy, but I think it may be a bit much to call involvement a chillul Hashem.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantNo, that’s not correct. The reason they’re mattir it (which is actually not poshut) is mitzvah d’rabbim.
Many times, actually, the reason the light’s on in the morning is that it’s on a timer. This is better than relying on a heter for amirah l’akum.
June 11, 2015 1:56 am at 1:56 am in reply to: Getting Wealthy from Mechalel Shabbos- What Happens? #1087936☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThey want to drive around on Shabbos??!! I don’t think anything as bad as that was done here, and I don’t see how that can be blamed on this story.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantCY, well worded halachic analysis.
I’m with you on the kedushas Shabbos issue as well, but that, I would word differently. I don’t know know the family involved, and I don’t want to ascribe or imply bad motives or intentions where there may not be any.
What I would say is that I hope nobody will model the way they keep Shabbos after what they saw from this family.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAnd Joseph is an expert on assumed identities.
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June 10, 2015 11:20 pm at 11:20 pm in reply to: Getting Wealthy from Mechalel Shabbos- What Happens? #1087934☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantZD, yes, there’s a difference, but public aveiros bein adam lamakom are also chillul Hashem.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI was told he got around the prize money by selling it to a Goy somehow.
If he did, that’s great. I mentioned that possibility a couple of times.
That might take care of the a”l issue as well, but I believe that I correctly refuted gavra’s point, and the fact he’s even more motivated to succeed than other schirim makes no difference.
Regardless, it should have been publicized.
June 10, 2015 10:53 pm at 10:53 pm in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086852☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI’m not loving this thread too much either…
Why? You certainly seem to agree with talmidchochom that, “In the arena of Halacha, daas yochid carries no weight.”
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☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantNo it’s not.
Setting up is part of the job.
There’s no job here. It’s a prize for winning.
If you want to make a comparison, compare to receiving interest from a bank. There is havla’ah because they pay for Saturday, which includes part of Shabbos and part of Yom Rishon, but if that weren’t the case (which happens when Yom Tov falls on Friday and Shabbos or Shabbos and Sunday) we wouldn’t say that preparing the money for deposit makes it havla’ah.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI believe it could be argued that the jockey would be “Adayta D’Nafshei”, as the jockey wants to win the race.
So you’re being mattir all amira l’akum where the nochri wants to succeed at his job? ?? ????? ??? ???.
Adayta d’nafshei would apply where he didn’t have to do it on Shabbos but chose to. I don’t think they’d let him run the race on Friday and have the other horses run on Shabbos.
Or, perhaps you’re thinking of the issur to benefit, where we consider the intention of the nochri. However, I’m referring to the actual maaseh.
The prize money includes all of the pre-race work needed to enter, so that would be Havla’ah.
No it doesn’t. The prize money is for winning the race.
June 10, 2015 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm in reply to: Getting Wealthy from Mechalel Shabbos- What Happens? #1087930☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSyag, I am not fighting transgressors. I am pointing out transgressions so that people don’t think it’s muttar.
I’m not saying he’s bad. I have no idea as to his level of knowledge; he may very well be a shogeg not a meizid.
Chillul Hashem most definitely does apply to frum Jews. The gemara I’m aware of referring to chillul Hashem is referring to actions done in front of frum people.
I don’t know which other Shabbos transgressions you think I should be fighting. I have written here about such things as the Shabbos App and the Kosher Switch; if you know of other areas which should be spoken about, I’ll try to look into it.
ZD, an aveirah done in public most definitely is a chillul Hashem. I don’t know why you think otherwise.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantNewbee, can a more mild case, without the issues you mentioned, turn into a more severe case?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI believe they made both a kiddush Hashem and a chillul Hashem.
A kiddush Hashem was made in that they didn’t drive there on Shabbos.
A chillul Hashem was caused by the issurim d’rabbonon which were violated. I do think amira l’akum is an issue; it’s assur to ride a b’heima on Shabbos. The prize money is schar Shabbos. There may be workarounds (e.g. a shtar mechirah) but I haven’t heard such a thing, and at the least it would be maris ayin.
Someone (ZD?) pointed out that the whole idea of involvement in the gambling business is improper. I hear the tayna.
I’ve seen some try to say that shvisas b’hemto is an issue, but I don’t think any melachah was done by the b’heima.
I’m pretty sure Kapusta isn’t too happy that this thread was posted. 🙁
June 10, 2015 4:57 pm at 4:57 pm in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086840☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI think Mammele makes an excellent point about convenience. I know people who don’t drive, and they’ve found a way to manage, although I personally can’t imagine how I’d manage without two cars.
Certainly, in a community in which people (women, in this discussion) don’t drive, managing is easier than we drivibg families perceive.
June 10, 2015 4:50 pm at 4:50 pm in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086839☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSam, as far as we know, yes. But there are some very great talmidei chachamim who haven’t printed seforim.
If I had to guess, I would guess differently. I’m not posting it, though.
June 10, 2015 4:37 pm at 4:37 pm in reply to: Getting Wealthy from Mechalel Shabbos- What Happens? #1087924☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThat’s not all, because you have insinuated that I don’t have the prerequisite knowledge to post what I have, and despite the fact that you’re not trying to attack me in public, you are. You are saying that I posted lashon hora without toeles.
FTR, I’m fine with it, but if you want to be consistent with your own approach, you should ask a shailah before you hit “send” on any post which may be hurtful to someone, which could be an issur of onoas d’vorim.
Again, I am not hurt, so no worries, but the content and tone of what you posted could have been hurtful. Perhaps your judgement is that it’s worth that risk for whatever benefit you think you are achieving, but if you don’t think I can make such a judgment, to weigh the potential positives vs. negatives without first asking a shailah (and I’m not saying whether or not I did), then perhaps you shouldn’t either.
June 10, 2015 2:03 pm at 2:03 pm in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086828☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIf one accepts R’ Vosner’s take that it’s a gross violation of tznius, the application, even if one could hypothesize that it would change the specific psak, cannot be called irrational, illogical, or be called dishonest to present as tznius.
So, no matter how you try to soften it, you are still essentially saying it about R’ Vosner.
Although I believe R’ Vosner may have the only written teshuvah against it, it should be pointed out that each chassidus has its own poskim, and they aren’t beholden to R’ Vosner. The fact that several are against women driving tells me that his opinion is by no means that of a daas yochid.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWrong. It is rejected l’maaseh, not conceptually. In fact, to some degree we practice it l’maaseh when we fast on a taanis, and even until recently, probably even today, there are people who fast more than just on taanis tzibur.
Something isn’t rejected from Yiddishkeit simply because you don’t practice it.
The reason we don’t practice it is because yotzo schoro b’hefseido, since it will hinder our davening, learning, and other avodah, not because we reject the idea.
June 10, 2015 3:26 am at 3:26 am in reply to: Getting Wealthy from Mechalel Shabbos- What Happens? #1087919☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantLC, for a non tinok shenishba, you would say it’s a problem?
Kapusta, I lost you there. What I do see is you seemingly making a couple of incorrect assumptions.
Also, I’m curious: what justification does your rav have for running horses on Shabbos? (I’m sure you’ve shown him this thread, because you surely wouldn’t make such accusations without asking him first.)
June 10, 2015 3:21 am at 3:21 am in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086816☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI am definitely arguing with both
I don’t know the situation in England; I don’t live in that community (I suspect that you don’t either).
The fact that you are still essentially calling the ??? ???? irrational, illogical, and dishonest, leaves me with no respect for your opinion on the application to London.
Sorry about questioning your use of the absurd word.
Accepted.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantNot incorrect; perhaps incomplete.
I don’t think eilu v’eilu precludes there being an ultimate emes which is in conflict with one or more of the positions. It refers to the process; if two chachomim explore a halachah, and all of the steps are legitimate, Torah based sevaros, the results of the two psakim may be different, because there might have been a conflict between two legitimate sevaros, and each resolved it differently.
Lo bashomayim hi, so we are only held accountable to follow the opinion which has greater weight (yochid v’rabbim, etc.). There is still an ultimate emes; klapei shmaya galya which opinion is correct (perhaps even a third unstated one).
I’ll give a (perhaps imperfect) example. Say a bais din paskens that someone is chayav misah based on two eidim, or a rov, etc. Turns out that the eidim lied, or the metzius was with the miut.
Was putting him to death assur? Klapei shmaya galya that it was, but they were still correct to do it.
I would say the same thing using the word moral. Killing an innocent person is inherently immoral, but they did the right thing.
Same with psak. Say klapei shmaya galya that the Tzitz Eliezer was wrong, but a talmid who is a doctor follows him. Klapei shmaya, what he did was assur and immoral, but after 120, he will get schar for a mitzvah.
My understanding of eilu v’eilu is based on Rashi in Kesubos, and other sources which I can’t pinpoint. It may be in conflict with other opinions on it.
June 10, 2015 2:42 am at 2:42 am in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086814☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBesalel, apology accepted.
Yichusdik, maybe I misunderstand, so please explain, but it seems that the first half of your post is arguing with R. Vosner, and the second half, merely arguing with its application.
I do not find the distinction compelling. The issue of tznius didn’t change; perhaps the tzorech changed, perhaps it didn’t.
My use of the word absurd was in response to besalel, who used it in reference to your position (as I understand). If you have an issue with it, take it up with him, not me.
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant“Regardless, it’s still completely different from “morality” changing with the times and societal whims. “
Granted. I did not mean to imply anything different.
Then you shouldn’t be arguing with Oomis.
So regarding morality, much like halacha youd say eilu veilu?
Yes, but what that means depends on how to understand eilu v’eilu.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantHow old?
How tall?
Sorry, I don’t like to reveal personal info on the CR.
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant(or insert a better term) Subject to machlokes. It’s still absolute, it’s just a machlokes what the absolute truth is. I know you’re going to ask from eilu v’eilu, and the answer will depend on how to understand eilu v’eilu.
Regardless, it’s still completely different from “morality” changing with the times and societal whims.
June 10, 2015 12:42 am at 12:42 am in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086811☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBesalel:
What setting do you think yichusdik was referring to in which it would illogical and absurd, that Rav Vosner would agree to?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI take that back, no need to call. They will call him. My cousin is a big yarei shamayim, though, so put her on top of the list.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThey all do. Before you call though, I have a cousin who fits the bill. Can she get first dibs?
June 9, 2015 11:16 pm at 11:16 pm in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086808☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBB2, he writes that he knows from experience that it leads to problems, and that the inherent problem is difficult to explain in writing. That is partially why I call it a “sensitivity”.
I do have my thoughts, but I don’t think this is the venue for it.
June 9, 2015 11:06 pm at 11:06 pm in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086807☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI have no idea how that answers my point that one of the gedolei haposkim clearly says it’s a tznius issue, and that you called that view irrational, illogical, and dishonest.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAre you asking new, unrelated questions? I’m not sure I follow you.
June 9, 2015 10:35 pm at 10:35 pm in reply to: Getting Wealthy from Mechalel Shabbos- What Happens? #1087916☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantKapusta, what makes you think I didn’t ask? Also, I don’t think how public it is is important. I think people who are aware of what took place should be aware of the serious halachic issues involved, and whether ten or ten thousand people read the CR doesn’t change that, unless you’re suggesting that I should also take out an ad in Yated. 🙂
June 9, 2015 10:29 pm at 10:29 pm in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086803☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThe ??? ???? linked above (here it is again):
http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=1414&st=&pgnum=9&hilite=
does indeed say it’s a matter of tznius. The ??? ???? ??”? was neither irrational nor illogical, and not dishonest. My community, and my poskim, are okay with women driving, and my female relatives drive, but I respect those who don’t as having a legitimate tznius sensitivity. I’m sorry if you can’t.
Welcome back.
June 9, 2015 10:10 pm at 10:10 pm in reply to: Getting Wealthy from Mechalel Shabbos- What Happens? #1087915☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantLC, Why that distinction?
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