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☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant
It’s not מלכות, it’s מלקות.
I’m not just correcting a spelling mistake, I’m pointing out that it’s a different word.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThat is the first point I feel is being ignored: DaasYochid (and the others), what do you say to that? Do you agree that the Chabad minhag is *less* against the Shulchan Aruch?
You have missed my entire point. It’s not about being against SA. It’s about it being backwards.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantYet you’re perfectly fine with the svara that when Shulchan Aruch wrote that menorah must be lit outdoors for pirsumei nisa unless it is dangerous, it was actually modifying the mitzvah, and now, in safe times, it is *preferable* and *ideal* to light the menorah indoors, with minimal pirsumei nisa.
I mamish don’t understand your tzu shtell between sleeping in the Sukkah and lighting the menorah indoors, and this paragraph is incomprehensible. (I don’t think anyone claimed that the SA modified the mitzvah).
The only tzu shtell is that they both go against the psak of the Shluchan Aruch, but that misses the point, because the tayna isn’t that it goes against the psak of the Shulchan Aruch, it’s that makes no sense that this mitzvah was given only for those on lower level.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIn that article he condemns those who find this “minhag” so backwards as to therefore question the legitimacy of Chabad chassidus as “troubled”. Suffice it to say that I disagree.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI’ll quote from the Shulchanaruchharav site how he explains the minhag Chabad, MS, you can tell me if it’s wrong:
“The Chabad practice is not to sleep in the Sukkah due to that one is unable to be conscious of the holiness of the Sukkah during sleep, and this causes one painful, and anyone who is in pain upon dwelling in the Sukkah is exempt from the Mitzvah”
In another article:
“The reason behind the custom is due to another aspect of the exception of Mitztaer/distress, which exempts one from sleeping in the Sukkah, and was not listed above. This aspect of Mitztaer is explained as follows: The Sukkah contains a sublime level of holiness, or G-dly revelation, called Makifim Debina. Chabad Chassidus emphasizes the study of Chassidus which internalizes the knowledge of the above level of Divinity. One who has knowledge of this holiness contained in a Sukkah, will naturally be disturbed to perform any action that is unbefitting of the holiness it contains. Now, since during sleep one is unable to be conscious of the holiness of the Sukkah, as well as the act of sleep in it of itself can be viewed as a disrespect to the holiness of the Sukkah, therefore there is distress involved in sleeping in the Sukkah. Accordingly, since sleeping in the Sukkah causes one spiritual pain, he is exempt from doing so, as anyone who is in pain upon dwelling in the Sukkah is exempt from the Mitzvah. This reason especially applies to those Tzaddikim and Chassidim who are on a level that they could feel the holiness of the Sukkah, and therefore simply cannot fall asleep. Furthermore, it even applies to those who do not feel this level of holiness, if they are nevertheless distressed over the fact that they know it contains this holiness, and are disturbed to act in a disrespectful way towards it, such as to sleep in it. Furthermore, it even applies to those who are not disturbed to sleep in the Sukkah due the holiness of the Sukkah, but simply due to the fact that this is the custom of their Rebbe, and they are distressed to not follow in their Rebbe’s custom. As stated above, if none of these reasons, or other exceptions, are applicable, and one hence finds no disturbance at all in his sleeping in the Sukkah, then he is obligated to do so.”
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantExcept that it doesn’t. As I’ve explained several times.
I’ll try one more time. The notion that ideally one should be on a level to be so sensitive to the kedushah of the sukkah that he is mitztaer and therefore is pattur, is backwards.
Hashem gave us mitzvos to do. Yes, sometimes there’s a p’tur, but it’s not the ideal.
The others are at worst against Halacha, but the reasoning behind the minhag is solid.
(Also the way it’s universally applied is wrong, because most people, I’m pretty confident, are not actually mitztaer…
A Chabad chossid one told me that he’s mitztaer that he’s not mitztaer. I told him that he can do that in the sukkah….)
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantMS, you’ve got it backwards. The reason people “mock” Chabad is because some of their haskafos and hanhagos are outside of the pale.
Sukkah is perhaps the most concrete example because of its clear twisting of halacha. Until you understand that there is a qualitative difference between some of the differences we have with Chabad, vs. the differences we may have with some others, you will continue to believe that we are finding excuses to put down Chabad, rather than the truth, that the reason we don’t like Chabad* is because of these things we strongly disagree with.
*I just want to make abundantly clear that there is, in my opinion, a lot to like about Chabad, and there are some Chabad chassidim I know for whom I have a lot of respect and admiration. I still firmly reject some of the tenets espoused by and associated with Chabad.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI personally think these minhagim (Sukkah, Shemini Atzeres, Menorah) are valid (though I keep the two that I was taught), while DaMoshe thinks they’re all invalid.
Where did DaMoshe comment about lighting the menorah indoors?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAnd this is why I sleep outside the sukkah.
I don’t blame you.
But it is a tayna on the one who recently wrote a poor and backwards sevara and influenced his chassidim (yourself included) to pretty much disregard a mitzvah
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI think you haven’t properly explained why you attack Chabad’s minhag but not the menorah minhag
I think he explained it clearly and repeatedly
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSources to explain the practice of lighting indoors when there’s no sakana:
https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=53183
The רמ”א says that everybody lit indoors (although he does say it would be better to light outdoors, according to the MB’s explanation).
The MB himself says better to light by the window if that will better display the menorah to the public
Menachem, your comparing this to not sleeping in the sukkah is completely off base.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI honestly think my argument is quite simple and clear, and I’m surprised that I can’t get a simple explanation of why the Chabad minhag is bad but the other minhagim are good
I didn’t say the “minhag” of not eating in the sukkah on SA is good. I actually said it’s bad. I just said not sleeping on the sukkah is worse.
Not sure where lighting indoors came into this; as YB said, it’s a sugya about whether or not Chazal actually changed the tzurah of the mitzvah (which is a d’rabbonon.)
The idea that the R’ma modified the mitzvah is just wrong. He simply codified a very sensible application of mitztaer.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhy is this minhag less “backwards” in your mind than the minhag of sleeping outside the Sukkah?
Because there a good reason to not sit in the sukkah on Shimini Atzeres, because on the tzad that it’s not Succos it’s nireh k’mosif. Happens to be we don’t pasken that way.
OTOH not sleeping in the sukkah is a distortion of the mitzvah, the reason given not to is basically against the whole mitzvah of sleeping in the sukkah, and the halachik justification of mitztaer doesn’t hold water.
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant(even though it has *some* basis in Shulchan Aruch)
It doesn’t.
It’s k’neged Halacha because it mangles the definition of mitztaer.
It’s backwards because it takes a mizvah and makes it k’ilu it’s chas v’shalom an aveirah (or at least a shortcoming that one isn’t “mitztaer”)
(Please don’t accuse me of bringing a strawman argument; I know you don’t literally consider it an aveirah)
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI will repeat my simple question, which no one has been able to answer:
Why do you (Yankel, Daas, etc.) insist on attacking Chabad for davka not sleeping in the Sukkah, while ignoring those who DAVKA don’t eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres, and DAVKA light the menorah indoors – both of which are seemingly against halacha.I actually did answer, but I’ll repeat:
Eating outside the Sukkah on Shmini Ateres is indeed k’neged Halacha.
Saying Davka to sleep outside of the Sukkah on Succos is not merely k’neged Halacha; it is backwards.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThis includes D’oiraisus, let alone something like sleeping in the sukkah.
Sleeping in the sukkah is D’oraisa
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThe issue with sleeping in the sukkah has nothing to do with modern-day Chabad
I’m not old enough to know, but not everyone agrees with that.
If they didn’t sleep in the sukkah in Europe because it was too cold, that make sense, but making it into an inyan davka not to (even when it’s nice weather) is backwards.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIs it backwards that people davka don’t eat in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres?
It’s k’neged Halacha, but it’s not backwards.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantNo, it’s not a bad thing
Then why did the Mittler Rebbe (supposedly) give mussar for sleeping in the sukkah?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI don’t know what the Mittler Rebbe said or meant, but if it’s as you explained, it’s not merely that Chabad accepted some type of kulah, but rather, it became a bad thing to sleep in the sukkah, which is backwards.
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participantrelying on memory
Yes
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantChabad absolutely doesn’t reject that sleeping in the Sukkah is a chelek of the mitzvah, ch”v. The chiddush is only that they accepted the kulah of not sleeping in the Sukkah
What kulah?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI don’t understand how this conversation veered to how necessary internet is.
A car is a necessity, but I have never heard anyone demand that a tzedakah sponsor their brakes.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantYes, there’s kol isha on it
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThe worst part of the “minhag” not to sleep in the sukkah is the reasoning given which doesn’t hold water. And the fact that it essentially rejects a chelek of the mitzvah.
As far as the Rebbe’s infallibility, and I think this is what YB is saying, there’s a huge nafka mina.
Many Lubavitchers understood the the Rebbe thought he was Moshiach.
If he was fallible, the simple conclusion when he passed away would be to say that he was mistaken.
Since they didn’t accept that possibility, two possible resolutions were offered – either he hadn’t actually passed away (which is a meshugas) or that Moshiach could be from the dead. Without getting into whether that technically can be defended, it’s clearly not the mesorah in klal Yisroel and wasn’t in Chabad either until ג’ תמוז.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantYou need to go after the growing crowd who buys flat screens to watch Netflix … The way you get them is via free filters
Those people don’t want filters altogether.
I think what you want is to pay them to get filters.
And TAG should be the ones to pay them.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSCA explicitly was chartered to *not* deal with any religious issues. And, still, RJBS opposed it.
What does the “S” stand for?
Also you didn’t answer my question.
The Chazon Ish and Rav Shach etc. held to vote in Knesset elections despite that it’s the actual Medina, in order to fight the reshaim. Why is WZO worse?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantEveryone was opposed to participating in the Synagogue Council of America. Even Rabbi J.B. Soloveitchik was explicitly opposed. Certainly the WZO isn’t any better than the SCA.
But he (as well as people who we would consider mainstream Gedolim) supported and support voting in Israeli elections.
Why is WZO worse?
SCA is worse because it’s a religious organization.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIt looks like there are 2 issues in elections:
They have legitimate reasons to believe that it is against Hashem’s ratzon to join the IDF.
The fact that you can only ascribe selfish motives doesn’t say much about your having an ayin tovah.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIt looks like there are 2 issues in elections:
Your missing what some consider more important: joining an organization which is anti Torah
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participantif someone is going to reject the Gedolim who pasken that it is forbidden to participate in the Zionist Organization voting
Similarly, if you don’t vote in the WZO elections, you are rejecting the Gedolim who pasken that it is a chiyuv to.☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWonder whether ujm has a rebuttal.
Sounded more like backtracking than a rebuttal…
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThat is what the gedolim in favor of voting in the WZO elections are saying – to take money from the reform and have it used for good purposes instead. And that’s what the ads (that I’ve seen) for EH are saying.
So you’re ok with voting for EH (or perhaps other frum delegates) as long as you have the right intentions.
That doesn’t seem to be what you were saying until now
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSo, they are severely limiting their choices to a small number of rich girls
Completely untrue, as are your extrapolated conclusions.
The boys who want to learn seriously for a number of years are the most in demand, and although there are of course exceptions, most want to do it for the right reasons, not to shirk responsibility.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI thought you were making a suggestion that would help the shidduch crisis. I guess not.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantDr. Pepper, don’t be so suspicious.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIf you lived in Germany in the 1930s, would you vote in the Nazi party elections, since the Nazis are the party in power and the Nazi primaries determine the German government leadership?
If you had the opportunity to vote out Hitler ym”s, you wouldn’t?
(I’m not expressing an opinion about WZO elections, just that your analogy is inapt)
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI think my true colors have come out. I don’t think Charedim should be exempt.
Exactly. And that’s why your righteous indignation at ywhat you
perceive as skewed priorities is completely baseless, since you completely devalue the other side.The Israeli military is ashamed machine despite your protests, and even if it weren’t, taking the lomdei Torah out of the beis medrash would be a tragedy which would affect all of Klal Yisroel both spiritually and ultimately physically as well.
Since you don’t agree with these sentiments, of course you don’t believe there should be tefilos for the yeshivo and yeshiva bochurim.
Stop pretending it’s about the hostages – the chareidim daven for them more than anyone else does, and your insinuating that they don’t care is disingenuous and despicable.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantOpenDNS and the like are easily bypassed.
Keeping an unfiltered computer in a public area is a disaster waiting to happen. There isn’t always someone else home.☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantTalkingtachlisnow26, let’s say I agreed with everything you wrote.
How would that solve the demographic issue?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAccording to you Yankel, what’s the difference between a Lo Avado Beinoni and a Tzaddik?
If you don’t mind me sticking my nose in, the tzadik was born with a yetzer hora but killed it thorough his avodas Hashem.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhy don’t I have a “right” to tell a tzedaka what their job is if they advertise as such?
I have never seen them advertise that they will pay for your filter. And it’s not self understood at all.
Tag holds itself as almost like your bies din making takonos
I don’t think that’s true. Even if it were true, you don’t need toisten to them. Listen to your rav. And if a school makes a condition that you have a certain level of filtering, that’s between you and them, not TAG.
And I think it’s borderline geniva that they don’t
Now you’ve gone off the rails.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSo you’re suggesting that the market would support such a thing.
Other than your posts on the CR, I haven’t seen or heard of any demand for certification of shadchanim, so I don’t agree that there’s much of a market for it.☕ DaasYochid ☕Participanttrying to convince me to get filters when I am not yet convinced
Go back and read the OP again.
He is quite convinced that he needs a filter.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantChaim87, not sure why go think you have a right to tell a tzedakah what their job is.
And there is plenty of money for both.
Is that something you know for a fact, or something you made up?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIt’s always so annoying to see people FUMING mad at some organization for not *sponsoring* something that they like.
Agreed. Not sure “annoying” is the word I would use, but agree that’s it’s completely unfair.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantMS:
But what’s the nafka mina?The nafka mina is that since many Chabad chassidim (if not most or even all) considered the Rebbe to be infallible, and many felt that he had practically declared himself as Moshiach, when he passed away, they had no choice other than either denying that he had died, or changing longstanding mesorah (despite possible interpretations of some sources that could allow otherwise) in Klal Yisroel (including Chabad) that Moshiach will be a living person.
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☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIf there’s nothing that stops friends and family from redting shidduchim, what will stop anyone who is not “certified” (or whatever term you would use) from redting shidduchim?
And if anyone can redt shidduchim, what is the motivation for shadchanim to get certified only to subject themselves to discipline?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBikur Cholim isn’t Tomchei Shabbos.
They don’t give out food because people can’t afford it, they give out food to people who are in hospitals and have a hard time accessing food.
TAG isn’t about funding filters, it’s about helping people access them.
If you want to start an organization that pays for filters, I don’t think anyone will stop you.
BTW the OP is one person, not 8.
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant👆 In case anyone was wondering what a “backhanded compliment” is.
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