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  • in reply to: New subtitle!! #934945
    fkelly
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    I think everyone has seen it- it was sort of public!

    in reply to: Coffee Addictions Anonymous #938647
    fkelly
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    Decaf?

    in reply to: Being a shliach for the tzibur without Hashem #935486
    fkelly
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    If they are searching for emunah in Hashem, they definitely should continue keeping the mitzvos.

    It depends. If they truly want to believe in Hashem then they should listen to proofs from our side. Rabbi Orlofsky and Rabbi Lawrence Leib Keleman have some great shiurim on proving Hashem and the Torah, you can find them on torahanytime.

    If someone doesn’t want to believe, then no one anyone says will convince them of anything.

    in reply to: Being a shliach for the tzibur without Hashem #935484
    fkelly
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    Secular Frummy- Sorry, I read the question wrong. I thought you said mechalel shabbos b’farhesia…

    I think the proof is there for anyone who is open to listen. Its actually quite obvious! But there are many reasons someone may not be keeping the mitzvos even though they believe. And I know a lot of people who are outwardly shomer torah umitzvos and are hiding that they are not frum.

    in reply to: Being a shliach for the tzibur without Hashem #935464
    fkelly
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    Oh, cuz I didn’t really understand the question “So shomer shabbos b’farhesia is enough to be yotzei the minyan for kriyas hatorah?”

    in reply to: Being a shliach for the tzibur without Hashem #935461
    fkelly
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    Well that person should be considerate of the other people and refuse to daven/read from the torah.

    What about someone mechalel shabbos secretly- what happens with the wine in their house that isn’t mevushal?

    in reply to: Being a shliach for the tzibur without Hashem #935459
    fkelly
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    Are you asking or telling?

    in reply to: Another Chocolate Thread #936592
    fkelly
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    Love chocolate!

    But I do know people who dont like it though… I still can’t understand why.

    in reply to: Being a shliach for the tzibur without Hashem #935457
    fkelly
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    So what is the answer to the original question?

    in reply to: Being a shliach for the tzibur without Hashem #935455
    fkelly
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    Yes, if they are hiding that they don’t believe.

    in reply to: Driving #935397
    fkelly
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    All I can say is practice, practice, practice!

    in reply to: Coffee Addictions Anonymous #938641
    fkelly
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    Same here, coffee no longer has an effect on me. I usually just drink it for the taste.

    in reply to: Post Here to Add/Change Your Subtitle #1199263
    fkelly
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    Hey, you learn something new every day! Thanks sharp!

    And thanks mod for the subtitle- makes me really feel part of the CR!

    in reply to: Post Here to Add/Change Your Subtitle #1199261
    fkelly
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    Loving my subtitle! Thanks! Shaychus Irish though?

    in reply to: Post Here to Add/Change Your Subtitle #1199234
    fkelly
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    So I guess I never asked nicely. Mods, please can you give me a subtitle?

    in reply to: Rather than Staring Blankly at the Four Walls, You… #934730
    fkelly
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    Stare at my computer.

    in reply to: In Witch He Snorted #1115540
    fkelly
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    Agree with just my hapence- Hermione says the Arithmancy is the hardest exam.

    in reply to: Mazel Tov! It's National Grammar Day! #934411
    fkelly
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    Well then apparently I don’t have much common sense 😉

    Youre talking about the quiz on the bottom right? 10 questions?

    in reply to: Ivy League Yeshivos #934316
    fkelly
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    In what sense- hard to get into? Very good name?

    in reply to: Mazel Tov! It's National Grammar Day! #934407
    fkelly
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    Did you take the grammar quiz on that website? Definitely showed me how little grammar I really know! Sort of burst my bubble, but oh well.

    in reply to: YWN Topic Type and Your Responses #934028
    fkelly
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    Controversial topics definitely!! Or interesting titles…

    in reply to: The YWN Coffee Room Welcome Wagon #1064766
    fkelly
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    Didn’t even see my welcome until now.. Thanks! 😉

    in reply to: In Witch He Snorted #1115530
    fkelly
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    Well they say its really complex to become an Animagus and very few underage wizards achieve it. Maybe part of the complexity is doing the magic without a wand.

    in reply to: Misophonia #965525
    fkelly
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    I’m actually not quite sure how they are dealt with- possibly sensory integration therapy? OT? I dont really know..

    in reply to: Post Here to Add/Change Your Subtitle #1199208
    fkelly
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    Yes, thanks! 😉

    in reply to: Special Needs Sibling #933613
    fkelly
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    Many people give children away but usually only in the communities where that is encouraged. There are families who are ashamed of their children. And there are many people who look down and children (and families) with special needs, so you can not blame the families!

    Excuse me, but that is an absolutely untrue and offensive comment! Who said siblings will get “2nd tier” shidduchim?? There are MANY people who have siblings and are very happpily married even without the “huge positive”. I’d love to know where you got your info from!

    in reply to: Post Here to Add/Change Your Subtitle #1199206
    fkelly
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    So what do i have to do to get a surprise subtitle change?

    in reply to: Avoiding Secular Music #934015
    fkelly
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    The point of trying so hard is NOT to get hashem to answer your tefillos. You try hard for you.

    Yes it is true- what you want may not be good for you. But as you grow what is good for you changes. So you may be davening for something and it wasnt being answered because it wasnt good for you. When you change, what is good for you changes too

    in reply to: Special Needs Sibling #933611
    fkelly
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    I think Down Syndrome is less of an issue today… But theres still definitely lots of stigma!

    in reply to: Misophonia #965523
    fkelly
    Member

    Wow! Good luck!

    in reply to: Special Needs Sibling #933609
    fkelly
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    Ohel Bais Ezra has sibling support groups- run very well! They combine activities, discussions, its a great way for kids to meet peers who also have sibs.

    you can contact them at [email protected]

    in reply to: Misophonia #965521
    fkelly
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    Misoponia definitely sounds more severe than sensory issues.

    anon91- Regular things can bother someone with sensory issues. For example, the feeling of a clothing tag, or a strong smelling food. With sound, certain sounds will bother them very much. Sort of like the feeling people get when someone scratches a chalkboard for a long time- it bothers you tremendously and makes you tense and anxious. But with a regular sound- such as certain ringtones (different for each person)

    in reply to: Popa Is Retarded. By, Popa #1200486
    fkelly
    Member

    Technically, there is little difference.

    “Insanity, craziness or madness is a spectrum of behaviors characterized by certain abnormal mental or behavioral patterns”

    There are many negative terms that were originaly clinical terms (mental, idiot, dumb,etc.)

    The difference between saying retarded is that mental retardation is an actual diagnosis. Imagine if someone you know was diagnosed with MR and then you heard people throwing around the word retarded.

    This btw, is the same thing as people saying I’m so OCD or ADD. It is very offensive to people who actually have those or know those who do!

    in reply to: Misophonia #965519
    fkelly
    Member

    Can you explain the difference between this and sensory problems? thanks!

    in reply to: Avoiding Secular Music #934012
    fkelly
    Member

    Helpful for the radio, i tried this for a bit but stopped- take radio of your main menu list. This way when you turn your ipod on it wont be right there for you but if you ever want it, theres still a way to access it. Youre doing great!

    in reply to: What does YACHAD do? #933431
    fkelly
    Member

    They also have shabbatons in different communities

    in reply to: Popa Is Retarded. By, Popa #1200474
    fkelly
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    The reason it is offensive is because their are many people actually diagnosed with mental retardation. It is a clinical term! When you call someone or something retarded you are in essence insulted those who really are “retarded.” Which by the way, is not used very often anymore because it became an insult. Please dont use it!

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