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An additional question on this topic.. I have heard that it is not recommended to buy stuff for a baby prior to birth.. Is this a valid rumor and if so , why ? Does it include all stuff or just clothing?
well its time to post that im off the market.. proposed on friday
well its time to post that im off the market.. proposed on friday
i would ask your LOR if i were you
well im up the 401 in the good ol’ capital 🙂
its very difficult w/o hockey but the next closest thing is junior hockey 🙂
@snowbunny3318.. maybe u could correct if im wrong. but i dont see that i was forcing my own opinion at all.. just stating the facts of todays generation
@gac .. i was actually referring to rebdoniel .. but sometimes posts take a while to actually post
@getaclue.. I nvr said a picture was required just could increase your chances because of the way guys are these days.. I guess you will find your husband being one that doesn’t take looks into his concern but the power to u
who are u talking to ??
i nvr said you were .. but i do agree with abt there being more tech jobs in israel
going to israel isnt one of those things i look to do unless i have a job prior to moving there
something in the computer industry ( IT, network support.. etc)
@shaggersyeshiva.. so then plz explain what u are trying to say
@snowbunny613 so why not be the shadchan 🙂
maybe through here we do but im not a “full-time” learning guy(which i believe she is looking for) and hope to be working primarily and learning iy”h in the evenings/when i have time..
if u have to pay someone off for a shidduch then trust me you’re going to have a very difficult marriage
@Getaclue. it is very possible that could happen. this brings me to another point abt shadchanim. Most shadchanim these days dont truly know the guy/girl that they are trying to help. yes they may have met them once in person(if even that happens these days) but if they havent how do they know the “type” of people they are setting up. by providing a picture it can describe alot about a person that a resume or a phone call sometimes cannot.
i have been working with a shadchan for awhile who never asked me for a picture , yet recently i was in contact with a couple other shadchanim who said that they would not even look at my resume w/o adding a picture ( and yes i will admit self-portraits are not my favorite thing in the world) but if i wanted to “expand” i had to come to the realization that i either jump in with both feet (give a picture) or sit on the side(withhold the picture)
I am not trying to say that you should/have to give a picture but it could possibly increase your chances of iy”h getting more yes’s because yes unfortunately guys are into looks and realize that they have to live with this girl for the rest of their life.
hatzlacha on your dating endeavors and may we all find our husband/wife
different strokes for different folks
Agreed.. But when do they want their husband getting that degree.. When hes younger or has has a family with 2/3/4 kids and is struggling to make ends meet because the kollel he was in can longer guarantee his monthly stipend
@getaclue. b/c many of those dates that are”only one date”. add up to alot of $$ and depression/sadness because they dont see themselves going on 2nd dates with those girls
and why do think i am selling myself cheap?
learning/working .. which is more important to you? one very hard thing to understand abt girls these days . do you want him having a job and learning when he has time (or other way around?)
@postsemgirl.. why not express your opinion .. isnt that what CR is for
pba.. what are trying to say
@postsemgirl.. if u would want to discuss it .. would u let a mod give u my email ?
@ postsemgirl … maybe u are being read to the wrong guys .. how would u describe yourself and what u are looking for in a husband?
@GetAClue… as i guy who is currently dating .. i have to be honest . i had always been of the type not to ask for a picture .. but as previous posters mentioned just b/c a girl is attractive/good looking in one person’s eyes doesnt mean its the same view for the person looking to date … so to save myself the dating a girl who doesnt even fit certain “criteria” i have started to request a picture .. it may save u time in the long run .. Are u looking for a guy who is learning/working or full-time learning?
would u recommend a quiet cafe for a first date.. or something more “active”
prospect park .. bnos leah …