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you showed up to get paid and chat with your friends on gmail. thats why i came in! haha oh and ofcourse to have fun in the CR!
It’s so funny that you bring this up because my friends and I were just discussing this. It must be an out of town thing cuz all the New Yorkers thought its fine but the one out of towner thought it was so untznius, personally I dont see anything wrong with it if plenty of chassidish rebbes approve of it. What I was wondering about is the chosson and kallah holding hands after the chupah, I noticed that some people do it and some dont, what is better? Is that tznius?
“im sorry, i shouldnt have said it was a horrible question, that was very harsh and not true, it was a good question just the yeshivish part bothered me. im sorry, forgive me?”
from the fact that the thread is titled yeshivish condolences, it seemed to me that the question was whether it is accepted for yeshivish people to give condolences, and that sounds pretty bad to me.
if the question is just wat is an appropriate thing to say to someone who is mourning, that is totally different but thats not how the question was phrased, so that threw me off.
i havent slept in a week, thats why im able to say that!!
i think i have a right to being sensitive about it without being told im overreacting, perhaps i read it wrong, but thats the way it sounded to me. im sorry for misunderstanding, but it is a sensitive topic to me, as i am someone who has been on the other side (and for losing someone much closer than a parent-in-law) so theres no reason to judge my responses and feelings either.
SLEEP IS WAY OVER-RATED!
im sorry, i shouldnt have said it was a horrible question, that was very harsh and not true, it was a good question just the yeshivish part bothered me. im sorry, forgive me?
akuperma: good advice!
ok thats a very reasonable question, and is sensitive of you, but it really has nothing to do with being yeshivish, it is a question that every person in every society is faced with. most people have a hard time relating to people and knowing what to say to someone who lost a loved one.
This is a horrible question “what is the yeshivish way to say condolences??? DO people say condolences??”
it’s like saying, is it allowed for someone yeshivish to be a mentch and be sensitive to someone in pain, what does this have to do with being yeshivish?
For every boy that get engaged, there is a girl getting engaged too. so i dont know how one can be “grabbed” quicker then the other, could just be there are more girls in shidduchim, hence there are more SINGLE girls, but there aren’t any less ENGAGED/MARRIED- kinda has to be equal, u know 1 to 1.
daas yochid: good detective work, unfortunately i dont have that many friends, could just be i started an interesting thread yesterday and some bored ppl at work wanted to join the fun!
can you give me the following subtitles:
is not a troll and doesnt like being called 1
doesnt want a gooey toy
ooooooooooooooyyyy
NEVER go into a date feeling in advance this is a waste of my time.
in all seriousness, i disagree with this comment, sometimes we are very wrong and can be pleasantly surprised, often its just nervousness that makes us feel this way
CRuzer- whats with the sigh?? atleast give us a good OOYYYY!!!
but her name isnt ploni
and this is clearly an issue of kibud av v’em, she must listen to her mother and go out!! its one of the aseres hadibros, this is big stuff!!
she’ll be doing the boys a favor, they need practice too
and ouch for calling me a troll!!! yet again!!
“@hardatwork, I thought it was interesting that you appeared at the same exact time as justwantagooeytoy”
excuse me but i DO NOT want a gooey toy, i want a good OY!! big difference!!
who are you to judge what topics are ridiculous?? these are serious matters.
what’s with the coffee room and the troll jokes?? i dont get it.. ive never heard someone call another person a troll before
~Maybe you should be learning in Kollel instead of working~
yeah that would definitely solve the tznius issue.
the mother is always right
anyway it’ll be good practice
it depends what seminary you went to & how long ago you were there
I used to use carmex and found it to be very helpful for chapped lips, but recently i’ve come to realize that it’s not so tznius for girls to apply lip products in public, so lately ive chosen to just let my lips be chapped. it’s hard, but imagine the schar you’ll get for your mesiras nefesh for tznius if you give up chapped stick and vaseline.