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  • in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1504337
    klugeryid
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    Health
    The stats don’t differentiate between outer boroughs & night calls.
    They are all inclusive. When I did my Medic training – they were plenty busy. As a matter fact, they did all sort of Shtick to avoid responding. Most days they had more calls than units able to respond to them!

    You give me quite an interesting logic toy here. But your argument is actually self-defeating let’s make a simple if than
    flowchart if the resources of EMS are structured to reflect the calls the volume of calls coming in based on where they’re coming from then the averages would equal out to the total average for total call if they are not spreading their resources then think for a moment what we have in congested interboroughs you have an overwhelming amount of goals which leads to longer if no response times as you ended your post that sometimes there were too many calls to respond to not a very comforting nor positive result for somebody in Anaheim graduation if you’re in an Outer Borough then according to your logic your EMS workers far fewer cases than the average of 1.6 per week leaving him wolf Ali in adequately prepared your emergency the only way around the unpreparedness would be to say that they are rotating the staff and their positions in that case you would probably end up with the same average being as part-time there in my volume area and part-time there in low-volume area to sum it all up there is no way to have EMS workers getting higher exexperience and sufficient coverage if you accept the total number of calls and the total number of workers as stated in the Wikipedia article unless and I don’t think you were you are claiming that they are either overstating the call volume or on this thing you workers by shifting calls in to high and low zones you are only making the outcome worse for the patient not better

    as to the article from Jem yes I would like to know what you recall from that article however just realize that if you saw the article and read the article and are unable to find the article how do you expect somebody who never heard of this publication to go and find one specific article that I never heard of before

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1504170
    klugeryid
    Participant

    health
    ky -“it was an auto correct supposed to say
    “Basing any issues on volunteerism is incorrect.”

    With what medical basis would you post this?
    You think that the article in jEMS is incorrect?
    Do you even read the article?

    what does medical knowledge have to do with this?
    i am stating that a claim that volunteer services are worse simply because they are not paid is foolish as money/pay does not create competence.
    if there are issues with hatzolah
    they do not stem from it being volunteer!!!

    as to the article?
    no i did not read it
    you said you would post it
    i am waiting

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503992
    klugeryid
    Participant

    health
    ky -“Again I think caring any issues on volunteerism is incorrect”

    What do you mean by this?!?
    I have a feeling that you’re not capable to discuss EMS, which includes Hatzola!

    i already fixed it
    it was an auto correct supposed to say
    “Basing any issues on volunteerism is incorrect.”

    why cant i discuss?
    as to stats, i posted from wikipedia
    averages out to maximum 1.6 per week per person in nyc ems
    look it up

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503894
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Basing any issues on volunteerism is incorrect.
    A volunteer organization can have any standards and checks that they want
    So if there is an issue that’s where you would need to go
    People are asking to join hatzolah.
    They don’t need to lower standards to fill ranks
    Oftentimes organizations are staffed by volunteers because they have no money or not enough interest so they get haphazard help as they are able
    IN hatzolah case that is not the idea
    I assume they keep it volunteer to ascertain that only truly devoted people become members.
    But either way,
    Changing to a paid corps will not fix anything.

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503890
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health
    Of course I would like to know it
    Again I think caring any issues on volunteerism is incorrect

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503840
    klugeryid
    Participant

    B613
    I do not know where you got your figures from.
    I went to Wikipedia which lists the following stats for NYC ems in 2016
    275723 medical emergencies called in
    4414 emergency medical professionals
    That works out to an average of
    275723÷4414=62.***
    So at a 40week work year it’s about 1.5 calls a week per person.
    I think most hatzolah members are in that range.

    As to the speed of the ambulances
    the city’s average response time also incrementally ticked up — from eight minutes 27 seconds in 2012 to nine minutes and 23 seconds in 2014. But at peak times and for calls deemed less urgent, response times can frequently be significantly longer, records show.

    The city responds much more quickly — six minutes or less, on average — to the most critical calls, which include cardiac arrest and choking.

    So let’s say their response time is six min.
    Long enough to cause death my heart attack or permanent damage by stroke.
    Now I don’t have stats for hatzolah but based on personal experience it ranges from 30seconds to 3 min

    Nobody is asking the ambulances to drive like race cars.
    But those engines should be able to hit 35mph on ocean parkway.
    They often don’t.

    And finally
    You truly did miss my point.
    I was just stating that to hinge any fault on the fact that hatzolah utilizes unpaid members, is complete foolishness.
    If you think there are issues in competency, by all means address them. But to base anything on the lack of pay is nonsense.

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503766
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Bk613
    You are conflating two points and confusing the issue.
    The numbers you give have to do with the fact that nyc ems covers millions of citizens vs hatzolah who is basically only servicing the Jewish population.
    Paying them would not change the numbers at all.
    You actually made my point.
    It’s numbers treated that gives the possibility of experience.
    Hatzolah members actually are full time. They just do worthwhile pursuits while not on calls.
    As opposed to NYC ems workers who sit around and do nothing because they are getting paid anyway.
    When a call comes in they have no incentive to get there nor to get the job done. They are being paid either way. As long as you can’t prove negligence they are fine
    Hatzolah members on the other hand
    Are motivated by a desire to save a life
    Want to take care of the issue properly and quickly. Remember they are giving us their job, voluntarily to do so. That shows dedication, gives motivation and demands proficiency. None of which exists in the NYC ems system.
    Just listen with your eyes closed next time you hear a siren.
    If it takes more than 3-5 seconds to go down your block it’s not hatzolah.
    And let’s not forget the difference between brains and brawn.
    Experience may be the greatest teacher, but with brains, your experience can be my teacher

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503743
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health
    What is Jems article?
    BTW my post was supposed to say ”money does not make one more knowledgeable nor more experienced”
    The word money, was auto-corrected to the word one

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503698
    klugeryid
    Participant

    I think this argument is wrong.
    The reason a ”professional ” would be better is not because he is getting paid. One does not make one more knowledgeable nor more experienced
    Since hatzolah’s response time is based on having so many members, and since I have never heard anyone claim that calls go unanswered, there would be no difference in the amount of calls taken And therefore no difference in experience.
    So the only difference would be, are they eating donuts between calls or doing something productive.
    If you can make a logical case that being paid to eat donuts makes a better emt, I would love to hear it.
    Until that case is made though, I think that logically speaking, someone who is giving up their time is probably much more dedicated and motivated, than someone who is doing it for the money.
    Anyone in the business world can tell you there are plenty of fully paid workers who do nothing but game the system.
    Judge merit-on merit.
    Don’t take the selflessness of hatzolah members and use it to knock them down

    in reply to: Gee thanks, anti-vaxxers #1503607
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Josef
    You are cheap
    I have the cash to give you
    For $22,861.39
    I will delivered r it to you

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503411
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health
    Firstly I commend you on a
    Sane
    Normal
    On topic
    Civil
    Logical
    Response.
    It’s a pleasure.
    You are correct . When I said ”help you” I meant in your quest to make hatzolah better.
    I should have wrote ”perhaps people would have taken your words to heart ”

    No I don’t think you kept quiet. And I also rethought my final comment and decided it was out of bounds.
    But there is no way to unwrite a comment once you push send.
    May hashem send you much simcha and bracha in your life together with the rest of כלל ישראל.
    Have a great summer

    in reply to: Gee thanks, anti-vaxxers #1503354
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Where do I send the money
    As a matter of fact I believe you so much you don’t need to show me the proof
    I just want to give you the money

    in reply to: Am I allowed to eat plain flour? #1503341
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Ry23
    Sorry
    I stand corrected

    in reply to: The Longest Seder Contest�How Late Will Your Seder End? #1503330
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Josef
    Of מעריב ?
    😂

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503328
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health:
    You wrote
    “I know you can’t control your rank-outs, but if you decide to respond – try to do it civily.”
    OK I will try. But first I need some guidance FPO our resident ”civil engineer ”
    Please tell me if the following statements make the cut as being civil
    Stop with your misleading

    I know you can’t control your rank-outs,

    That’s because you’re so attuned with yourself – you didn’t read my posts!

    So Mister Know It All – What are my 2 other degrees?!?

    Aren’t you glad that you found out about 1 of my 3 degrees & it didn’t cost you a penny?!?

    Stop with your lying – what do you know about EMS? You’re an eye doc?!?

    Are you Mod 80 along with Kluger yid, Ubiq, Feivel, etc.?
    And I thought only Joseph played these games!

    I guess it’s BORING in the Nursing Home.

    Stop with your lying.

    But if you do, it shows your incompetence!

    So I guess that you’re not that smart – that you can’t remember simple things.

    Either way – do you have 3 degrees to claim you know more medicine than me?!?

    The truth is – I had a case, but since you proved to be a pain to me, for years, I refuse to give it to you for free!!!

    And try to be honest, if you are capable!

    Stop with your lies & sarcasm.

    Tell them to your wife, if you have one.

    Know who the author of them is??
    Someone who goes by the screen name ”health”

    As to your main issue. I must tell you I feel sorry for you.
    After 250+ comments on a thread your issue finally comes out. You claim that hatzolah was negligent in a case involving a family member and that person died and hatzolah did nothing about it.
    You know, had you come right out at the beginning and said that, you probably would have garnered sympathy from many readers, and perhaps someone could have been motivated to try to help you.
    However by now you unfortunately are a proven liar, fulminator and agitator. Nobody with any critical thought abilities gives any credence to your claim.
    I personally think you made it up because the thread got so ridiculous you needed to try to save face.
    Have a wonderful summer

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503158
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health, let’s bring the entire conversation leading up to that pull quote you provided just now

    CAD – “Having participated in almost every aspect of pre-hospital care, public, private, and volunteer, I can safely say the rate of incompetence amongst all agencies is pretty constant”
    (health responds)
    This I agree with. But other agencies have options that deal with incompetence. They have supervisors and lawsuits. Try suing H & keeping your kids into Frum schools!
    But other agencies have options that deal with incompetence”

    (CAD responds)
    So does Hatzolah. From remediation classes , to practice under observation, to restriction of privileges, to suspension, to termination. Its all there, much like every other BLS/ALS organization. Does it catch everyone? No, but neither does the 911 system’s QA/QI. Incompetence falls through the cracks sometimes, in EVERY organization.

    (Health responds)
    CAD -“to practice under observation, to restriction of privileges, to suspension, to termination.”

    LOL!!! You must be a Hatzola guy. ****The only case of termination that I heard is when an EMT on Hatzola was working with H Medics & and they let the guy die! ****This EMT went to a Godol for a Din Torah. And the Medics & the leadership were opposing him – so they they threw the guy off!
    And btw, it wasn’t me – like I posted many times – I never joined them!
    End quotes

    So basically your denial and counter-argument to someone else’s point consists of your entire rational.
    Until that point you would not mention your issues with Hatzola because it would ”involve issurim”
    And a reader is supposed to figure out that 200+ comments into a thread is where you will slip in your real issue??
    And we should believe that you can run an organization??
    Only way you can run it is into the ground.

    Oh and BTW to defend this foolishness of yours?
    Hey I am not involved so I know no details nor stats, nor have I ever tried to find them out, but I know at least 3 people who have been suspended / under observation by Hatzola for infractions.
    I don’t know the details cause it’s none of my business.
    But that’s 3 that I heard of WITHOUT EVEN TRYING!!!! so to claim they have no disciplinary procedures is just plain foolishness. Or outright lying. Your choice. I don’t claim to know with any degree of certainty if you are a fool or a pathological liar.

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503159
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health
    I hope you noticed I stopped calling you a woman.
    Cause I’ll take your word for it since I have no evidence otherwise

    in reply to: Am I allowed to eat plain flour? #1503160
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Rebyid23
    You left out the chilli powder

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503072
    klugeryid
    Participant

    I am still waiting for you to show me where you told me that you are a man.
    I’ll take your word for it now that you said it. But your claim that you told me many times before is plain odd, as I searched and it ain’t anywhere that I could find.
    And BTW, I never claimed you are not a medical professional.
    I wouldn’t do such a thing as I have no basis to say that.
    Nor is it important.
    Your posts are so ridiculous it would make you look worse if you are a medical professional.

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503040
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health
    I am not actually ”defending ” Hatzola. But only because I have not heard any actual complaint. So there is nothing to defend them about or against.
    What I am doing is standing up to a disgusting online bully who is besmirching their name without giving any reason for doing so.
    As I actually did post.
    I have unfortunately used them many times and every time their service was a1
    So put up or shut up

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503011
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Oh and by the way I am not a member of Hatzola, nor a medical professional either.
    But I am defending Hatzola
    So your claim that only someone in Hatzola would defend them sorta falls flat.
    Should we extend your ”logic??” to say only someone who cannot get onto Hatzola would bash them?
    Just wondering.

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1503010
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health
    ”I’!m Not gonna read the rest of your lies, but I told
    ***you***
    many times – I’m not a lady but a male!”
    List one time please ma’am

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1502823
    klugeryid
    Participant

    So let’s just sum up this thread
    We have a lady (health) who
    has some hidden gripe against Hatzola,
    Cannot state that gripe
    Cannot string together two logically connected thoughts
    Cannot give a pointed response to a detailed pointed question
    Is incapable of admitting a mistake
    Cannot listen to others with an open mind.
    BUT FOR THE RIGHT PRICE
    is willing to take over running one of the most respected and successfully run frum public/semi-public organization.

    For most of us Purim was a little more that a month ago.
    For some it seems it goes all year!
    L’CHAIM!! TO HEALTH!!! ah freilichen Purim to all!

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1502714
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Ubiq
    Please don’t allow yourself to be taken for a ride.
    I am willing to give health ‘s scotus care
    Plus her real name plus all her alternate screen names, for 1.6 million.
    Plus I will throw in a free coffee maker and two nights in a three star hotel.
    Satisfaction guaranteed

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1502598
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health
    Ky-“Man up and say
    ”I was wrong ”
    It won’t hurt as much as you think”

    I just proved that I was right when I posted -“The only other way to know about their religion is if you practiced it.”
    So – Man up and say
    ”I was wrong ”.
    It won’t hurt as much as you think!

    How exactly does that prove you are correct???
    Do you know the definition of the word prove??

    in reply to: Pictures of women in frum magazines and advertisements #1502551
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Why would it be assur to have pictures of women?
    It’s probably safe to grant a 50/50 audience male female.
    So for half the readership there is no issue.
    For the other half, many men will not sin just because there is a modest headshot of a woman.
    So its probably less of an issue than reading advertisements on shabbos
    Which is what the op was saying.
    Your addition of that single innocent word allowed you to make an argument that did not address the issue at all.
    Now you are making a new argument
    Kol Hakavod
    Perhaps you are correct. I don’t know.

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1502435
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health
    Quote
    ”Ok – here goes:

    “I studied their religion”

    WHY – It’s Avodah Zora?!?

    “I have a neighbor who practises that religion and we argue religion all the time
    Same as above but with a coworker”

    Why waste your time discussing Avodah Zora?!?” (end quote)

    You may or not have a good question there. However try to strain your brain for a moment and remember what the aforementioned lines were written in response to.
    Can’t recall?
    OK
    Let me help you by cutting and pasting your words that I was responding to.
    (quote)
    The ##only ##other way to know about their religion is if you practiced it. DID YOU?!?
    Hash tags were now inserted by me
    Capital letters are yours.
    All clear??
    Great let’s proceed
    You staked a claim that there was no way to have knowledge of their religion except if I practised it.
    I provided you with multiple alternatives. Only one of which is necessary to accomplish the stated aim.
    You had no response and I called you on it.
    So you respond with a question as to WHY I would do some of those alternatives?????
    Who cares!!
    They are ways to be aware of the details of a different religion without practising that religion.
    Contrary to your stated claim.
    Man up and say
    ”I was wrong ”
    It won’t hurt as much as you think

    in reply to: Pictures of women in frum magazines and advertisements #1502438
    klugeryid
    Participant

    G h
    “Most readers read these magazines on Shabbos and (if I understand the halacha correctly) it is prohibited from anyone to read or look at advertisements on Shabbos…”

    What marketing study or credible evidence is there that “most readers” read these newspapers or magazines only on Shabbos??

    Interesting how you added one little word
    ”only ”
    To the original post in order to smash it
    The poster did not say most people read it ”only ” on shabbos
    The op said ”read it on shabbos ”
    That is a stand alone statement that does not discuss the rest of the week as it is irrelevant to the point
    Read the letters to the editor in any of these rags and see how many people state that ”their shabbos is not complete unless they have their favorite magazine. ”

    in reply to: Are you selling your pet for Pesach? #1501919
    klugeryid
    Participant

    My pet is a cream cheese bagel. I don’t sell it. I make sure to finish eating it before the zman

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1501897
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Interesting how you had no response to the main thrust of my post

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1501819
    klugeryid
    Participant

    The only other way to know about their religion is if you practiced it. DID YOU?!?
    Did you ever think before you post?
    Let me list for you some alternative ways
    I studied their religion
    I have a neighbor who practises that religion and we argue religion all the time
    Same as above but with a coworker
    I heard shiurim from my Rebbe on the topic

    And perhaps I did practise it. So what? Maybe I am a ger tzedek and you were just מבטל מצוות עשה של ואהבתם את הגר
    Maybe I am a בעל תשובה and you were just עובר ולא תונו איש את אמיתו

    ”And most Frum Yidden, call Hatzola in an emergency, Not 911, doesn’t make them right either!”

    Doesn’t that sort of disprove your point?
    Are you now going to respond to yourself with some nasty gibberish?

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1501281
    klugeryid
    Participant

    So would you say the same thing about the Missionaries that go around? I mean maybe X-ianty is right – because most people in the US practice it?
    Confusion conflation and straw man all in one. That’s impressive.
    The answer is simply
    yes.
    I would say exactly the same thing about the missionaries.
    I don’t judge the religion by the crazies.
    I judge by the entirety of the religion. And theirs doesn’t make it to first base. On merit! Not based on a few nuts.
    Sort of like how I would not judge the logic and reasoning skills of Jews based on one lady with a screen name of health

    in reply to: Thoughts on going OTD #1500961
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Just want to point out another point.
    I think the reason you feel so turned off from Judaism is because you (rightfully so) expect a higher standard from our community.
    The non Jewish world is empirically so much worse in all aspects it does not even come close.
    it’s just that you don’t connect with them and you sort of expect it so your radar does not even pick it up.
    People usually only sense anomalies.
    So its actually a positive sign on the whole that you are so bothered.
    But please don’t become turned off
    Just from a pure logical position, what’s your alternative?
    As another poster wrote
    The Jews may not be perfect but the Torah is

    in reply to: Please Post Your Weight #1500270
    klugeryid
    Participant

    622

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1500168
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Sorry Josef
    There is only one of you!!!

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1500166
    klugeryid
    Participant

    And Rebyid23
    And poppa bar abba
    And ”the wolf ”
    And health
    And dancingmom
    And shopping613
    And the rest of the moderators
    And Chabadshelucha

    There. I’ve outed myself with all my alternate screen names
    Now answer the simple question
    ”what is your beef against Hatzola? ”

    My personal thoughts are that you were turned down because they don’t take women.

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1500139
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Facts are irrevelant to guys like you!
    What does ” irrevelant” mean?

    Who do you think you are?!?
    Just someone trying to figure out why you would publicly bash Hatzola

    Why would I mention them on a public forum?
    Firstly, who cares why. You said the facts were spelled out there.
    Secondly because it would be common decency to back up your hyperbolic animosity with some sort of facts.

    Now start helping your mother or your wife for Pesach
    Thanks for the sage advice.
    That’s the first sensible thing I have seen from you.

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1499238
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Wow!!!
    That’s the smoking gun???
    That’s your issue with Hatzola?
    There is no issue mentioned there. Just someone (perhaps it’s you. Perhaps someone else) maligning Hatzola in a different setting.
    Boy did I waste my time with you.
    edited, again. 

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1499213
    klugeryid
    Participant

    BTW
    How do I access that post? I am clueless to these things.
    (yes health I can’t figure out how to access that post but you think I have two names.
    I only managed to scroll through all your posts on this thread cause I tapped on your name and ywn had it all set up.)
    And once we are on the topic
    You said quite plainly that you discussed it ”in this topic AND…
    חז’ל tell us מלתא דעבידא לאגליי לא משקרת אינשי
    edited!

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1499208
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health
    What’s with you and ”other sn’s”?
    I only have one. sorry.
    It’s anonymous
    Why would I need another one?

    truncated

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1499181
    klugeryid
    Participant

    ”I discussed this already many times. In this topic …”
    Really? I just scrolled through all your comments on this thread. There is not a single one there that provides any reasoning or facts to back up your open animosity to Hatzola.
    Just saying

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1498902
    klugeryid
    Participant

    How can badmouthing someone without giving any info be toeles?
    cmon!!
    a little respect for the readership here

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1498803
    klugeryid
    Participant

    health
    i’m lost
    “We are talking about many Issurim. ”
    that would indicate lashon hara
    machlokes is only one issur.
    so badmouthing a group of jews without providing any bacground of facts is not fomenting machlokes?

    you have to be mimaet by every medical emergency. whats your point.
    no i am not a member of hatzolah

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1498325
    klugeryid
    Participant

    health
    “We are talking about many Issurim”
    do you mean lashon hara?
    because detailed information would possiblyn mitigate that
    whereas plain negativity is simply lashon hara with no redeeming qualities

    “Tell me – is Labor a life-threatening situation in most cases?!?”
    um,, yes. chazal seemed to think so. thats why you can always be mechallel shabos and why she is MICHUYAV to eat on yom kippur

    in reply to: What Happened With Ezras Nashim In Boro Park On Monday Night? #1498160
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Health
    Can you provide some detail?
    I can’t say I read every comment as there are currently 175 comments here. But I did scan them and I am quite curious.
    In what way is Hatzola so bad?
    Maybe I’m naive. But I always thought the purpose of that organization is to be first responders to medical emergencies.
    Unfortunately I have had many occasions to need them between me and my extended family. Every time they arrived speedily, a few times even before I hung up the phone!!
    They were always courteous and professional.
    So what exactly is the issue with them that is giving you such grief??
    I hope it’s not and issue of say, mismanaging funds or the like. Because to that I would say ”who cares? ” nobody forces me to give them a dime. They will respond just the same to a supporter as they would to you. If I felt they were mismanaging the money I just would not donate.
    If it’s internal politics, such as promotions or the like, what do I care? I am not a member anyway. It doesn’t hurt me. So what exactly is the issue that has you so enraged that you consistently smash them here?
    I am quite curious.
    Thanks
    Looking forward to your well reasoned response

    in reply to: What tastes better Hand Matzah or Machine Matzah? #1493652
    klugeryid
    Participant

    CTlawyer
    I asked how do you get your matzah TO the oven
    Not INTO the oven
    It is a serious question

    in reply to: What tastes better Hand Matzah or Machine Matzah? #1493592
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Ctlawyer
    How do you get your raw matzah to the oven?

    As to the general discussion?
    Why chose
    Buy a box of hand matzah
    When you finish them, just eat the box!!
    Bingo two for the price of one
    In a blind taste test most people cannot differentiate between average machine matzoh and the box it comes in

    in reply to: Wife older than husband: How is it working out? #1493582
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Rav shamshon Rafael Hirsh was a few years younger than his wife.
    He said when he was looking to get married, I have too much to accomplish to marry a young girl.
    (I do not remember the exact quote which was. Said in German, anyway. His point was I am looking for a mature girl not someone still maturing. He felt that required an older girl.)

    in reply to: Marriage? #1487880
    klugeryid
    Participant

    You are correct.
    My example fell short.
    Let me rephrase.
    If I post ”I think most people with glasses are nerds.” (probably more in line with common stereotyping than some random insult tacked on to ”people with glasses ”) I think most people with glasses would shrug it off. For the reasons mentioned.
    As to your sensitivity part. One word
    ”context ”
    This was not a trolling post
    ”I think store workers are beneath me ”
    This was a personal post about dealing with finding a shidduch and how to react to specific pieces of information.
    To leave out her personal prejudices would sort of make the whole post worthless.
    ”I am dating. Sometimes I get information that would make me not want to date that person. How should I proceed? ”
    See what I mean. So yes if you are looking to have a discussion that a major factor is your personal predilections for or against certain lifestyle choices, it sort of behooves you to say out what they are in order to have a sensible conversation.
    As you say
    Heavy stuff

    in reply to: Marriage? #1487849
    klugeryid
    Participant

    Syag
    Which, by the way, is just the kind of person I judgementally would cross off my list as a potential spouse for any of my kids in a heartbeat.
    So basically you judgementalism is OK. I guess because it’s you doing it.
    You are looking for a p c spouse for your kids. Great. Hope you marry them off quick and well with much nachas.
    Let me explain what I meant with my ”anonymous ” comment.
    If I meet you and tell you ”I can’t stand People with glasses ” and you are wearing glasses. That is insulting. Because it’s a personal frontal attack.
    But if I post anonymously on a website that I can’t stand people with glasses, most spectacled people would just shrug it off without getting insulted. Because it’s not direct nor personal.

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