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  • in reply to: Can Eidim Be Mevatel Kiddushin #946271
    popa_bar_abba
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    They don’t announce it to the crowd. They say it there to the involved party. And not everybody does this either.

    in reply to: Can Eidim Be Mevatel Kiddushin #946268
    popa_bar_abba
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    R.T.: Many people are noheig to specify who are the eidim to the exclusion of anyone else, in order to avoid problems of being mitztareif psulim to the eidus.

    in reply to: Can Eidim Be Mevatel Kiddushin #946266
    popa_bar_abba
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    That’s interesting.

    Who does the anan sahadi apply to? Does it apply to boyfriend and girlfriend? How about to a couple that davka did a conservative wedding to avoid agunah problems (they know enough, but aren’t frum)?

    Also, I’m wondering when we wouldn’t use yuchzak anyway (I feel like it applies to marriage, but don’t actually remember). I mean, if they are holding themselves out as married, then we don’t need proof that there was a kiddushin, it is yuchzak. It happens to be that the underlying kiddushin would need eidei kiyum, but we’d assume that too under yuchzak. Is there a notion that we don’t do yuchzak when we know about an underlying kiddushin that was passul? But maybe they also did a real one?

    I mean, can a couple avoid yuchzak by simply pointing to one passul marriage they did?

    in reply to: Can Eidim Be Mevatel Kiddushin #946264
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I would think so. If the eidim are passul, there is no wedding. The eidim are eidi kiyum hadavar, so swiet is not correct.

    in reply to: Defend Yourself! #947698
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    We’re talking about the moiser again, ?? ????? ?????

    in reply to: What Blessing to make upon Seeing President Obama #948391
    popa_bar_abba
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    I love how nobody reads the thread.

    just the first and last posts,

    then they post.

    So you have a bunch of redundant miscommunication.

    Ah, the coffee room.

    I suppose that’s directed at me. To be fair, I wasn’t even reading the last post. Someone told me to post that, and I just did.

    in reply to: Atlas Shrugged and the Torah #946512
    popa_bar_abba
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    Well, not every discussion needs to be, or can be, taken to its termination, but I like to be able to know what we are arguing about.

    It seems to me that you are ok with any system, as long as you like the outcome and it seems fair to you. Thus, the current American wealth allocation seems fair to you so you think it is appropriate.

    I am more focused on the process, and that is how I determine morality. So that regardless of how much I think the allocation is appropriate, if it is reached through what I see as unfair processes, I will consider the results immoral.

    Let’s apply this to your African example. If the majority decides to levy an equal tax on each other and give it all to the African kids, you are ok with that because you like the result, and I am ok with that because the process is fair.

    The flip result will be this. If the majority decides to levy an equal tax and take all the money and give it to Bill Gates. You will think it is immoral since you do not like the allocation. I consider it moral because the process is fair.

    in reply to: In honor of Yom Haatzmaut. By popa–RETRACTED #946015
    popa_bar_abba
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    Well, exactly what I said. I am accusing the Dati leumi rabbonim of having the hashkafa they do for reasons besides that they legitimately and genuinely think it is correct al pi torah. That is offensive, and almost certainly incorrect.

    It is like when people say that chareidi rabbonim have the opinions they do because of some ulterior motive. Like when they say that the agunah problem is because the rabbis don’t care enough to make it muttar, etc.

    in reply to: In honor of Yom Haatzmaut. By popa–RETRACTED #946013
    popa_bar_abba
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    No, I don’t think that’s fine.

    in reply to: Rav Druckman's conversions #946430
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Yes, you are correct, anIsraeliyid.

    in reply to: In honor of Yom Haatzmaut. By popa–RETRACTED #946011
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I’m retracting this.

    I realized it is incorrect, and also offensive. See, I am doing exactly what I always get upset at non-religious people for. I am ascribing genuine religious belief to sociological theories.

    So for the record, I do believe that your beliefs on this issue are founded on genuine religious belief, and I do not think they are related to the above theory. And I apologize.

    in reply to: What Blessing to make upon Seeing President Obama #948384
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    May God bless and keep the President… far away from us!

    @ Leibish

    in reply to: Rav Druckman's conversions #946428
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    yah

    in reply to: Atlas Shrugged and the Torah #946508
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    4. I think we’re not speaking to each other then. The part that is bothering me is that the decision is not being made for the common good–it is being made for the voter’s personal good, and it consists of taking from the other and keeping it. I don’t understand how you can compare that to a joint public decision on how to spend funds that are evenly taken.

    5 & 6. Well, my point is that it should not depend on the context. My point is that when you decide to take something from me for your personal gain–there can never be a justification for it. That the theory of democratic government fails when it ceases to be a government of the majority for the common good and becomes a government of the majority for personal good.

    I’ll answer your question: It depends on the voting. If the people are all voting to extract value from the other for themselves, then it is immoral. I don’t care what the breakdown is–I just care what the underlying theory is.

    7. I still don’t know why you think it matters if they are building palaces or cardboard box houses. You are taking from me.

    And the notion that I somehow owe it to you because the police protection helps me earn it, is insulting and wrong. I’ve already paid for the police protection, I’ve already paid for the roads, and the army, and the SEC, and the whole government. So now all that is still left is really mine. And now I’ve also got to pay for your heating?

    in reply to: Rav Druckman's conversions #946424
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    yah, a couple years. back ended up with a decision in the israeli supreme court, written by a frum judge (who I’ve met)

    in reply to: Seeing Stars #946330
    popa_bar_abba
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    If they are not different, you admit the idea of seeing stars is another way of referring to infatuation.

    We don’t need to use the word “admit”; this is not a interrogation, and I’m not trying to hide anything from you. When we discuss something, we can use the word “concede”.

    My response is that I’m not completely sure. I think that they are pretty much the same thing, but if you describe a behavior or feeling and I think that is not what I’m referring to, then I’ll say that.

    in reply to: Seeing Stars #946327
    popa_bar_abba
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    spelt: Who says they are different?

    in reply to: Seeing Stars #946325
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Yes, you are.

    My curve is graphing the relationship between the extent to which you see stars, and how good your marriage is. Thus, if you are a 1 on the seeing stars axis, you will only be a 1 on the marriage happiness axis. (how do I make the negative work? it seems like negative stars would still make positive happiness in my graph).

    You are correct that this is different from how my original post was posed, which was that seeing stars is a binary decision and then happy marriage correlates with seeing stars. If so, I need to make a new graph.

    x is how much stars you are seeing.

    y is happy marriage.

    the definition of seeing stars is 100

    y = x – 100 (I’m not making it exponential because I’m not math sophisticated enough)

    in reply to: Seeing Stars #946323
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Again, I’m tayning that seeing stars makes happy marriage. So if X is 1, I want y to be 1, and if x is 2, then y is 4, and if x is 3, then y is 9.

    So the curve will curve upward exponentially (in the mathematical sense). The more x, you get even more and more y.

    in reply to: Atlas Shrugged and the Torah #946506
    popa_bar_abba
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    Taxing assets is double taxation. You already took your cut when I earned it and didn’t spend it.

    Squeak is a fascist.

    Also, there is no fundamental difference between a double tax and a single tax. If I first tax you 10 and then another 10, that is the same as taxing you 20.

    Though perhaps you mean it is unfair to tax people for not spending their money right away. But that doesn’t seem to me any more unfair than taxing people for earning money to begin with.

    in reply to: Seeing Stars #946320
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Popa, please define “a lot” and in your anecdotal observation, how much do the two sets of “seeing stars” and “happy marriage” intersect?

    Let “seeing stars” be x, and “happy marriages” by y.

    y = x squared

    in reply to: Kosher Email #946357
    popa_bar_abba
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    My mom has a Yahoo account for all of her spam.

    What a funny coincidence. She also has all her spam because she has a Yahoo account. ???? ????

    in reply to: Atlas Shrugged and the Torah #946504
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    4. Do you really not see a difference between me voting to build roads with all of our money, and me voting to take your money and give it to me?

    5&6. I don’t want to argue facts. I am asking about a situation where the majority votes to take money from the rich. To disallow the response you made, I will stipulate that the majority will also pay a lesser amoun. So here is the example:

    100 people. Govt needs 100 for general upkeep, and is contemplating social welfare programs which will cost 25000. 75 vote that each person should pay 1 dollar for the general upkeep, and that the richest 25 should pay 1000 each for social welfare progams (which will be food stamps, health care, etc, for themselves). Do you find anything immoral about that?

    7. What is the distinction between assets and income? It is mine. I built stuff, sold it, and made money. Or I grew wheat and ate it. How is it not stealing for you to take it from me for yourself? According to you, it is not stealing the year that I made the money, but if you took it the next year it would already be assets and would be stealing. That makes no sense.

    in reply to: Atlas Shrugged and the Torah #946501
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Let’s not be talking about present situations, since then we’ll have to argue about facts. And that would be a silly discussion. (however, the idea that rich pay less taxes is retarded propaganda, and not remotely true).

    So we’ll ignore specific situations, and the question is only: Is it moral or correct for poor people to vote for governments which will take from the rich and keep it for themselves? This avoids having to talk about your points 1 and 2. For the sake of discussion, I’ll concede that poor people pay more tax than rich people and rich people get more benefits than poor people do.

    4. I think your point 4 is directly addressing the relevant question, but I don’t find it highly convincing. I don’t see how laundering the money through general revenues helps. If a politician runs for office proclaiming “I will tax rich people and take care of you, and I will also make roads”, that is still stealing in my book.

    5 & 6. I don’t think this is the relevant question. Sure, rich people might want it. But since they are paying for it, they should be the ones to decide. You say that the majority decides–yes, that is precisely the problem, and it is not a response. When the majority decides to take stuff from the minority, that is just plain tyranny and stealing.

    7. I’m not aware why it makes a difference if we give out cash or guns or cars or milk and bread. I’m not aware that stealing bread is more moral than stealing cigarettes.

    in reply to: UNREAL: Obama Refuses To Call Boston Bombings 'Terror Attack' #946091
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Is being a birther now assumed racism?

    in reply to: Atlas Shrugged and the Torah #946498
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    yytz, I’ll engage you on that. You wrote a lot so let me see if I can fairly distill it and see what I think.

    I will put my characterization of your points in blockquote.

    1. The taxes in this country are not in form of the poor taking from the rich and keeping for themselves, since they also pay sales taxes and some other excise taxes.

    2. People who get more than they pay in one year may give more in a different year.

    3. Even if people are getting more in their lifetime than they pay, they are not the majority, so I am not correct that they are using their votes to do this.

    4. Even if they are the majority, it is not stealing because they need it to survive.

    5. The wealthy are willing to give it to avoid being robbed from on an individual basis.

    6. Rich people should view it as a form of insurance in case they become poor.

    7. Money is also spent on other stuff, and perhaps the rich people are getting value through that.

    Here is my thinking, point by point.

    1. No, I think you have to view it on a net basis, as you say later. Blazes, they are paying those sales taxes with the food stamps and EITC I gave them.

    2. Sure, but most people know around where they’ll be for the foreseeable future. But that is probably why we don’t hit the 51% percentile and above so hard, because people think they might be in it. That is why the rhetoric goes after the “1%”.

    3. I think they are quite close to a majority. But that is not really the point–there is plenty of political power without being an actual majority. Case in point: Chareidim. Certainly you agree the chareidim are doing this even though they are not actually a majority.

    4. No, that is exactly stealing.

    5. That is also exactly stealing. If I don’t give it you’ll riot and kill me.

    6. I might have reasons to give it. How about I’ll decide that–not you.

    7. I think it is unarguable that the largest point of our tax system is to redistribute wealth. Sure, some of it comes back to the rich people, and that part of it I am ok with. But I don’t think that “kashers” the rest of it.

    “Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to eat for lunch.” –Ben Franklin

    in reply to: UNREAL: Obama Refuses To Call Boston Bombings 'Terror Attack' #946089
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    the level of racism in the yeshivish world never ceases to amuse me.

    I’m sorry to hear that racism amuses you.

    in reply to: And they say I'M not a zionist #945920
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Oh. I thought hillel and hallel were correlated. Maybe I should have gone to shul this morning after all.

    in reply to: And they say I'M not a zionist #945918
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Popa- I assume you said hallel at shacharis this morning.

    Certainly didn’t say Hillel at shachris. No overlap between shachris and Hillel.

    in reply to: No more college? #947181
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    MR: Of course someone should use all the information at their disposal in making a decision, and anecdotes on websites are not very good information of the general trends.

    In any event: how old? 28.

    in reply to: ??? ?????? ?? ???? #945738
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    To be more precise, this actually was not a basar shenisalem case.

    Basar shenisalem would be if I knew reliably kosher food was placed there, and had not been watching it to see if it was switched. I did not know that reliably in this case–I was just assuming it, and a non-neeman telling you that it is kosher is not reliable.

    in reply to: UNREAL: Obama Refuses To Call Boston Bombings 'Terror Attack' #946080
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Ok, but Hagel is now in news calling it “cruel act of terror”. I guess our thread worked.

    in reply to: UNREAL: Obama Refuses To Call Boston Bombings 'Terror Attack' #946079
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    So David Axelrod explained that the reason Obama hasn’t called it a terrorist attack is that maybe it was conservatives killing people for Tax Day.

    “I’m sure what was going through the president’s mind is — we really don’t know who did this — it was tax day. Was it someone who was pro–you know, you just don’t know.”

    in reply to: ??? ?????? ?? ???? #945737
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Does a clear plastic bag make it non nisalem min haayin?

    My minhag is that it works for the eyes, but not for the wine. For the wine, it needs to be without any chatzitza.

    in reply to: Seeing Stars #946316
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Hmm. That was a really good point. I wish it wasn’t buried here in the middle of a thread. Maybe I should ask them to put it in my OP also. But that will mess up the elegance of the OP.

    Hmmm.

    Maybe I should start 10 new threads with this as the OP.

    in reply to: Challah Making Appliances #949810
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    oh. how large are we talking here?

    in reply to: Seeing Stars #946315
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    In fact, remembering the initial attraction and “stars” is what can get a marriage back on track many years later after a falling apart and bitterness and acrimony.

    It is so powerful that Hashem references it as the moshol for how He will draw us back despite everything that has happened between us. ??? ????? ????? ?????? ???? ?? ??? ???? ????? ?? ??? ?????? ???? ???????

    in reply to: Challah Making Appliances #949808
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Hmmm. I also want a mixer. Like a kitchenaid for example. It can be very hard to knead dough. Like for pizza or for spent grain beer bread.

    in reply to: PHOTO: Orthodox Jewish Man Covers Himself In Plastic Bag On Plane #945901
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    It was me. I did it to start discussion on the issues of tumah and tahara, to prepare us for mashiach/the medina (??? ????? ??? ???? ????? ???).

    I am glad my actions brought forth such wondrous fruit.

    in reply to: List your favorite sweet wines #945728
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Mine is the Yarden Frozen Heights wine, made from frozen Gewurztraminer grapes.

    I even know how to pronounce that. I have a friend from Strasbourg, which is where that variety comes from. He taught me how. That’s what makes me better.

    G’veertz-RAH-MEE-NAH

    in reply to: No more college? #947168
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I am not a navi, But for those who say “Hashem will provide” I can pretty much gurantee you will not be getting a job as a Brain Surgeon without a medical degree.

    Hashem will provide. Among the people I know, some of the most successful have no college degree. There are much better ways to earn a living and support a family than being a brain surgeon. The quality of life for brain surgeons is only slightly worse than for prisoners in Guantanamo Bay.

    in reply to: UNREAL: Obama Refuses To Call Boston Bombings 'Terror Attack' #946076
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    I think ‘terrorist attack’ implies that the attack had political motives rather than personal or delusional motives.

    Yes, and that is by far the most likely case. So it would fair and accurate to call it an “apparent terrorist attack”. When you hear hoofbeats, don’t look for zebras.

    yy: Come now, what is the reason he deliberately refrained from calling a terror attack, and has not referred to any of the other clearly terror attacks that have happened under his watch as such? (Fort Hood, Benghazi).

    You might agree with his reason, but if so–say that. If you agree with it, you should have no reason to hide it.

    in reply to: Atlas Shrugged and the Torah #946490
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Right. So you specifically failed to bring the remotest amount of support for the only point that I was contesting, and utterly failed to even note that there was a leap of logic.

    And then you just say that I don’t like your response.

    So again, the only point I am making is that I don’t think it is a legitimate use of government for voters to force other people to give money to them. And I am unaware of any such notion in the Torah. Rather, I contend it is stealing–the same as any other.

    As regards the chareidim, I certainly don’t condone their use of political power in that manner. And at the same time have trouble understanding how you do not accept it.

    in reply to: No more college? #947154
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    No more pencils

    no more books

    no more teachers dirty looks

    in reply to: Yom HoAtzmaut and Behab #946995
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Sam:

    A bit off topic, but maybe you know about this.

    I was told today, that many or most of the YU roshei yeshiva do not go to the YU Yom haatzmaut chagiga. And that it is thought the reason is that they object to there being dancing for the women, even though it is behind a mechitza.

    That reasoning sounds bizarre. What is the real reason.

    in reply to: Atlas Shrugged and the Torah #946485
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    “If the chachomim decide I must give you charity–I trust that they are doing what Hashem wants and that I must give it because that is what Hashem wants.

    If you vote that I should give you charity–that is just stealing.”

    Wrong. Taxes are mutar. See Bava Kamma 113.

    Somehow I feel like you’re not responding to me.

    in reply to: Is it tznius to #947105
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    It’s not forbidden to talk to a female. SO why can’t u read a book that a female wrote????

    Well, is it more like talking or more like singing?

    in reply to: UNREAL: Obama Refuses To Call Boston Bombings 'Terror Attack' #946063
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Remember how Muslims were initially blamed for the Oklahoma City bombing? Bloggers and pundits can jump to conclusions, but government officials shouldn’t. Note that Governor Patrick, Mayor Menino, and the Chief of Police also aren’t calling it a terror attack. Let the investigators determine who’s responsible.

    Is it your contention that only Moslems can do terror? Oklahoma city was a terror attack.

    And this almost certainly was also. If you really must, you can call it an “apparent terror attack”.

    in reply to: Atlas Shrugged and the Torah #946480
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Charlie: All I know is one thing, and this is all I really see the point of the book as, and the point with which I agree with it.

    And it is this:

    If I decide to give you charity–that is good of me.

    If the chachomim decide I must give you charity–I trust that they are doing what Hashem wants and that I must give it because that is what Hashem wants.

    If you vote that I should give you charity–that is just stealing.

    That is all I’m saying, and that is what I see as the principal point of the book.

    in reply to: Atlas Shrugged and the Torah #946479
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    yo how long did it take to listen to? the book is a freaking tome.

    I think it is like 56 hours or someat.

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