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Lilmod, very funny.
Meno, whoever asked me in specific I forgot who. Look above to find the person.
Meno, okay fine. So why were you guys asking me what my definition of modern is?
Lilmod, how would you describe a girl like this? Someone who learns and always does chesed and keeps tznius very well and does not hang out with guys. Are they considered yeshivish?
yekke2, then too many other guys would be considered yeshivish even the ones going out to movies but still want to spend more time learning. Also, I did not say that I want someone who hangs out with girls I would never say that. In fact I probably will marry someone in between like the definition I said.
Winniethepooh, didn’t you say you were old in another thread? How do you have a 4 year old daughter than if your in your 60’s?
I do not like kids so I cannot add anything cute about them.
Lilmod, then even the guys who I consider to be more religious not yesivish but in between you consider modern because they watch movies. Then according to you I definitely want a modern guy no matter what. I consider a guy who only keeps shabbos and kosher and nothing else to be modern. In between is someone who watches movies, does not talk to girls, listens to not Jewish music and learns at least part time to be in between and yeshivish someone who learns in kollel.
bmyer, mazel tov. The guy who just got engaged, went OTD before and came back on and just recently got engaged is 24?
yekke2, do you consider boys who go to movies modern?
Gr8bochur, why wont ner work? I happen to be very pro ner. So that is why I am asking.
smearl, I thought you were referring to me because that is what they keep telling me.
yekke2, especially since they are very good boys bh.
yekke2, there are plenty of nice good frum boys who go to ner. They are amazing boys. They are not “modern”. They may go to college but they are not “modern”. They learn part time and work part time. There is nothing wrong with that. Some of the boys that go there end up learning in kollel. That is not “modern”.
Gr8bochur, that is ner that you are referring to. Many boys who go there are very smart and have a college education and definitely not a learning disability or challenged. They go out to restaurants, movies and anything they want. It depends on the boys level of yidishkeit also what they do.
YWMOD, I think that is only the high school. My brother went there. So from my understanding only the high school boys cannot have smartphones maybe?
Ner Yisroel fits with what you have said.
Lilmod, (jokingly) I guess I lack sechel when it comes to shidduchim but everything else I have shechel for?
Lilmod, I was just thinking I am not sure if it was you or someone else that mentioned that it is not okay for him to be friends with other girls besides his girlfriend and future wive which could be me. I see where you are coming from now and I 100 percent agree. I even know other girls who made their boyfriends get rid of all their other girl friends and they did the same. I totally agree with you. I should look further into that.
jhonny, listen to your parents. Do not ruin your live.