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i feel bad for his kids, wonder how long they l stay on
it makes a statement
very cute got a kick out of it, the chasidim were horsing around.
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and pls dont hide the money from her, that will make things much much worse. You’ll lose respect for her and she’ll lose respect for u and thats not good.
trim, instead of playing the blame game next time u tlk about it try asking her how she thinks u can solve the problem, ask her if she has any ideas, this way its not just u vs her, rather ur a couple working out there differences together.
MorahRach, amen
From experience, the worse thing u could do is to be disgusted by it, he maybe just doing it to act out/fit in, by getting angry at him or treating him in a negative way, you’ll be burning down any connection that u may have w/ him. Then ull have a real problem.
well now all u got to do is enjoy ur sleep while it lasts
maybe bef posting ur problems on a public forum u should sit down and tlk to her……. shes an adult right and wht do adults do if they have a disagreement about something, they sit down and tlk it out. Try it you’ll be amazed what a simple conversation can accomplish.
147 i hope ur joking but just in case ur not
1)maybe he has family there who cant put him up-going to israel would not help.
2)maybe he cant afford the ticket to isreal….. duh
3)and last but not least is it really ur business.
p.s. supporting the anti-Torah economy does not make u as u say “a good loyal & faithful Jew”.
I agree that u could possibly (maybe, if ur very very frugal) make it on 25-30 w/out a kid,but w/ a kid no way.Babysitting costs close to 6000 a year if its for a half day and a full day its close to 10000. Add that to rent (for which the government does not help w/) formula,food,car (insurance cost more for an old car, and if ur not 25 then its even more) gas and other home/living expenses, no way ur making it (at least not in ny) this is only true if ur not getting help from mommy/ima and tatty/abba (which many people dont have)
“Why is everyone shooting down the messenger?? The issue mentioned above by the original poster we all know happens”
No body is shooting down the messenger,the problem is that the original poster was assuming that when the waitress said “I usually get most of the guests here who keep kosher, and they’re usually pretty disgusting to me” it was 100% true. Ya we all know that there r some people out there w/ bad middos, but im willing to bet u that the waitress was exaggerating, and automatically accepting what she says as a fact is also wrong.
naysberg, i love how u write “It would be cruel and unjewish to brush him off and tell him to move elsewhere. And unhalachic.” sounds like the fact that its unhalachic comes as an afterthought. just sayin…..
if a goy tells u loshon horah, its still loshon horah, and u cant be mekabel.
LJ its there money,they dont need a heter. Of course giving it to tzdaka would be the righteous thing to do, but evreytime u buy something a little too expensive u DONT need a heter.
Poshet what ever the mama says is important…. everything else not important.
popa theres a HUGE difference between not being a slob and attracting other men.
I dont have money, but if someone does and wants to use it for tanugai haolam hazeh, that’s there business, and if someone wants to make money off of there misuse of there good fortune, can u blame them.