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  • in reply to: Photos in the CR #1121608
    HaLeiVi
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    You can put a picture. Post it as a signature in BASE64.

    in reply to: Public Affection #799318
    HaLeiVi
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    It says not to speak to a woman, even a relative, in the street. Passersby won’t necessarily know that it is a relative and it doesn’t look good. Also, Sefer Chasidim says not to kiss your child in Shul. I think the idea was not to offend those who, unfortunately, don’t have children.

    in reply to: A question about being self- centered #804158
    HaLeiVi
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    The purpose of the whole creation is to get to the ultimate goal, in Olam Habaa. Someone who is kind in this world, for the sake of this world, gets rewarded in this world.

    The greater the person the loftier his desires. The highest and loftiest desire is to desire Hashem. That is Olam Habaa. You say you’ll shun a small desire of eating your lunch for a greater one, of being able to help someone. There is even a greater thing, to become holy and close to Hashem, eternaly. That is what holy people desire.

    I hope you are aware of the famous Mishna about Hevei Ka’avadim Shemishamshim Es Harav Shelo Al Menass Lekabel Pras. We are all taught this Mishna that it is better to worship Hashem just because He said so, and not for the reward. That would suffice to answer your first question. However, as I pointed out earlier, even someone who is doing Mitzvos to collect Olam Habaa, is a great Tzaddik. Tell me if you reached that point that you don’t desire earthly things. A self centered person is someone who makes sure he gets his goodies. A philanthropist who enjoys becoming famous for his accomplishments is not considered self centered. To ask this question is to view Olam Habaa very simplistically, or like a Muslim.

    The problem I have is that it sounds like you think it’s better to act for the sake of Earth than for the sake of Hashem.

    in reply to: The Most Ignored Law's #812593
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    Middle, it’s actually a written rule. Have a look at the coffeeroom rules.

    in reply to: The Most Ignored Law's #812588
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    I heard that one about a certain Slavic ethnicity.

    in reply to: The Drunk Thread #800031
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    Sure he’d force himself — by drinking wine!

    Coffee, I don’t disagree with your point, but that Inish thing is a poor excuse.

    in reply to: Photos in the CR #1121600
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    You can put a picture of bowling pins.

    in reply to: The Drunk Thread #800024
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    oy vey, there’s a big difference between falling asleep and going to sleep. With the first you are Yotze Ad Delo Yada, with the latter you aren’t.

    in reply to: Who inspired you? #798259
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    I was inspired by stories of Gedolim who started out simple, which showed how all is within my reach. Also, by my older brothers.

    in reply to: Ohr LaGoyim #798354
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    You don’t find it in early Sefarim either as a guide to behavior. Somehow, today, it is evoked very often as a reason to go someplace or do something. Yiddishkeit was never meant to be based on outsiders.

    in reply to: The Great Debate: Ultra-Orthodoxy vs. Modern Orthodoxy #798665
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    I would not go to a Rav that starts with his Hergesh and builds his Psak from there. We are taught to do the exacte opposite. We bend our feelings according to the Torah. We all agree that the goal of the Mitzvos is to change and form the person. We start out with animal emotions and we change it constantly by learning and actions, not the other way around. Yes, feelings are very important but they must be trained and they must follow the intellect. The Ramchal’s Daas Tvunos is set up as a dialog between the Neshamma and the Sechel. The Sechel teaches the Neshamma.

    I think this whole discussion is based on the idea that you’d hear more often in the Chareidi decision making, the words, Se Paast Nisht. More modern Yidden would laugh at such talk. However, I don’t think that is because they don’t believe refraining from something based on its vibes. It has to do more with the general attitude toward modernity. If you have no problem with different modern ideas then, naturally, you won’t say, Se Paast Nisht.

    in reply to: Kohanim not being able to go to exhibits with real dead people. #800170
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    Deiya, if there is no way out then the whole thing is Tamei.

    in reply to: Wish me luck this week #800409
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    Coffee, Hatzlacha. Hashlech Al Hashem Yehavcha Vehu Yechalkalecha.

    It’s interesting to see that many people are much more Frum than Chazal, who believed in Mazal very much. (And not just with the Nozel joke.)

    in reply to: Could someone please explain the Joseph story to me? #798894
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    You might have seen his name on a thread that was revived recently. I doubt that account is active. However, I think you got the right party.

    in reply to: Derech Halimud #1093288
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    Be a good boy in Yeshiva and don’t fall behind in what they do. But, Bein Hasdarim and on Shabbosos learn a completely different Masechta on your own. When you finish the first Perek do it again. When you finish the Masechta, do it again. The Ragichover said that until he learned a Masechta nine times he didn’t know it. You can ask the Ragichover’s assistant!

    in reply to: Derech Halimud #1093272
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    This is the cry of the Maharal. People think his main point was the Mishna of Ben Asor, but his main point is actually that there is no Yedi’as Hatorah. He says that in one or two years someone with no background in Torah can be up to par with any Lamdan. I’ve seen this myself. The Maharal actually says exactly what OnTheBall said earlier, that knowing how doesn’t make you a Talmid Chacham. I was really surprised to see someone question that. Like a Maggid Shiur of mind once said, being able to steal doesn’t make you a thief.

    In Beis Hatalmud the idea was that the people in America should see the depth of Torah. That served its purpose by now, even if it justifies the extremely slow pace. It is really sad because in the end there is no Kinyan. They don’t end up really knowing those ten Bletter, either. They just have some famous Chaqiros floating in the head. So now we all know that a Migui is either a Raaya or a Koach Hataana, and there’s a Siba and Simman, and Umdena Shaft Nisht Ah Kinyan. Now what?

    Bochurim don’t really relate to all that anyhow, which is why they cannot be tested. The thing is that there is something between what’s called Iyun and Bekius. That is what Chazal call Mareh Panim. Rashi explains that to mean giving a reason to everything. The funny thing is that while getting all heated up about how the Rashba in this Sugya relates to the famous Reb Akiva Eiger in Kesubos, there is little focus on the flow and Svara of the Gemara. What should be emphasised is how much everything actually makes sense. The point in learning is to adapt your mind to that of the Torah. That is done by making sure you agree to what it says.

    in reply to: Wish me luck this week #800393
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    Mazal Tov

    in reply to: 8 year old boy taking Hilary Clinton to court #797852
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    Very good Tzushtel, Twisted.

    in reply to: I moved! #797773
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    Popa, you just got married? That’s definitely a different state.

    in reply to: Could someone please explain the Joseph story to me? #798889
    HaLeiVi
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    We’re not making fun, we’re having fun.

    You really want to know? Joseph Shida is rumored to have lurked in the CR, and drank up almost all the coffee. The CR staff banded together and locked him out with a chain with all sorts of Sheimos. It still manages to poke its head(s) in and leaves very distinct footprints, but it barely ever drinks up all the coffee. People get frightened whenever they think they see him. Some don’t believe in the whole thing, and therefore ignore anything with his footprints.

    in reply to: The Great Debate: Ultra-Orthodoxy vs. Modern Orthodoxy #798608
    HaLeiVi
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    Why is the medina brought up? It is far from being central to the identity of a Chareidi. Take a look. All (English) Chareidi papers stand up for the Medina.

    Lomed, he did not say separation is not important. He said it is a means not the end. Therefore, the separations that Chazal instituted are enough for him. Why are you piling it on him?

    in reply to: I moved! #797768
    HaLeiVi
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    And you took Bar Shattya with you?

    in reply to: Chochma baGoyim Ta'amin #798404
    HaLeiVi
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    No implication of anything, only that you shouldn’t think your friend is lying. Making use of things has nothing to do with acknowledging or learning. Obviously it doesn’t take Emuna because there is no Chiyuv to believe they have Chochma. It doesn’t say Ein Chochma Bagoyim Al Taamin.

    As far as learning things that they’ve discovered, it is obvious that the Rambam pursued knowledge for its own sake. Broadening the mind in one area opens it in other areas as well. There is a difference however if the Chochma is Bria based or human based. The latter was considered Chochmas Yevonis, and was frowned upon when unnecessary.

    There is also the issue of who you are learning from. Then there is the Shulchan Aruch that says you should first be well versed in Torah so that it shouldn’t sway you.

    in reply to: Saying "Nu!" in Middle of Davening #797462
    HaLeiVi
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    There is no Hebrew word Nu. Those that pronounce the Kamatz as Koomitz, say Nee.

    in reply to: HELP #798321
    HaLeiVi
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    Beethoven’s 9th symphony has words. Pavorotti sings with words, if you know English, German, Italian, Russian and French.

    in reply to: Saying "Nu!" in Middle of Davening #797453
    HaLeiVi
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    You don’t say Nu, it is a noise just like a click with the tongue or snap of the finger. I know it’s a lot of fun to show how the whole world got it wrong, but usually, when something is common practice, the focus of our Chachamim was to realize its merit. Continue Nuing.

    in reply to: A Critique of Contenders #797435
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    Lomed, how about we’ll all go through a famous Sugya, say Rachuv uManhig, and we can discuss and argue with that. That way there’ll be S’char of learning, At V’Hav Besufa, and perhaps a normal outcome. Then we can all join, without our name tags, regardless of whether we were chosen to hold the megaphone, no need for a referee, and lastly, no non-stop mentioning about how we are ha ha online.

    in reply to: A Critique of Contenders #797434
    HaLeiVi
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    Which ibn Ezra are you talking about, the one in Bereishis about Malachim?

    in reply to: "Attempted Abduction" #797353
    HaLeiVi
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    Ask the kid.

    in reply to: First and second generation of holocaust survivours #797414
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    There is a reason why we admire the survivors who went ahead with their lives and rebuilt families. Many became totally broken and did not move on. Their story is untold. Perhaps for younger people it was easier to look ahead, but what about those who’ve had families beforehand?

    a maamin, why 4 exclamation marks in one comment?

    I wrote, very few survived, because ofCourse wrote that very few of our generation-type would survive the holocaust.

    By the way, I don’t think that whole talk is appropriate. Don’t throw our generation in the garbage. We have toys that take our time, fine. The victims of the holocaust are people we can relate to very much, as you will see when you read personal things about them. There are pictures. We are (mostly) from the same century. We both rode in trains and had electricity. They weren’t from the ‘olden days’, the types that ‘were able to handle these things’. They were people like you and I. During those horrible years simple people reached amazing levels of Chessed, Mesiras Nefesh, and Emuna.

    In our generation we had a Yid that was mentioned by President Bush for his selflessness. That wasn’t an everyday thing for him, either.

    in reply to: The Great Debate: Ultra-Orthodoxy vs. Modern Orthodoxy #798574
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    I think we should have a Tzans vs. Rishin debate. BPT will stand for Rishin and alwaysRunning will be for Tzans. Ready? Let’s go!

    This thread is so funny that just thinking about it made me laugh out of nowhere.

    in reply to: "Attempted Abduction" #797347
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    Well, if it would meow, I’d say it’s suspicious.

    in reply to: Could someone please explain the Joseph story to me? #798881
    HaLeiVi
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    MBD sings it, but not on that tape. Reb Yontel didn’t take Webber’s song, even if MBD did.

    Some of MBD’s lyrics include:

    ??? ??????? ??? ???

    ???? ??? ??? ??? ??

    in reply to: "Attempted Abduction" #797341
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    aries, I thought the same.

    ZeesKite, did it ask you weird questions?

    in reply to: How Did You Break Your (Musical) Fast #796977
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    Just turned on my computer, and broke it Perlman playing Zigeunerweisen.

    in reply to: First and second generation of holocaust survivours #797410
    HaLeiVi
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    Very few survived it then, too. Not everyone went on to rebuild their lives. Those who did are heroes.

    in reply to: How Did You Break Your (Musical) Fast #796971
    HaLeiVi
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    By the way, the violin string are GDAE. From one string to the next is a fifth. In a guitar, it goes EADGBE. I’m not sure why the B was put after the G, but in general the string are a fourth apart.

    in reply to: "Attempted Abduction" #797325
    HaLeiVi
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    Now let’s hear the other side of the story from YWN.

    in reply to: Could someone please explain the Joseph story to me? #798876
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    apushata, the songs on that tape are from Reb Yontel Ehrlich.

    in reply to: The Best is Yet To Come.. #796761
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    Are you running on a 1950s system?

    in reply to: more computer help please #796783
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    Is it always stopping on the same file?

    in reply to: How Did You Break Your (Musical) Fast #796959
    HaLeiVi
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    I was in a Yiddish store that played music. It made me wonder if why they couldn’t have that the whole three weeks. Who invented that electronic “dance” sound, and why?

    in reply to: Children : The Challenge #796235
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    I once found my children spraying chocolate and strawberry syrups all over the bathroom, and themselves, and the couch. They grew up a couple of years since then, and have very fond memories thereof.

    in reply to: Children : The Challenge #796229
    HaLeiVi
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    I’ve had nephews that pretty much fit that description. You’ll clime out of it. You’ll look back and enjoy it (the way we are). One nephew was strapped in, with a child leash meant for this purpose, and he broke the gate of the crib, then the rest of the crib, and ended up on a ripped up matress. Don’t get anything expensive for these couple of years. Your kids have spunk and it’s a good thing that you’ll appreciate in the coming years, B’ezras Hashem.

    in reply to: #796169
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    Which idea? I saw two, responded to the first then the second and many seemed to think I was picking a fight. Does it really go one way?

    in reply to: #796161
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    It’s funny how you’d want to put it on men when, I think, every story I’ve heard so far was a woman. And it makes sense, since they tend to be more absent minded.

    in reply to: #796160
    HaLeiVi
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    Why a pressure censor? It should be an infrared censor.

    in reply to: West Nile Virus #795097
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    Thanks. I guess in Brooklyn. They did say they were spraying there for it.

    in reply to: West Nile Virus #795091
    HaLeiVi
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    They say 80% of those who get it don’t notice it. From those that are affected, by some it stays for a few days while for others it can stay for several weeks. I have it for two and a half weeks. The first week was high fever, headaches and slight dizzyness. The next week was much better, Baruch Hashem, but with shivers in certain spots. After that different muscles hurt. It seems like it’s a moving inflammation.

    in reply to: Halacha Discussions, Obscure Heteirim, and the Modern Orthodox #795482
    HaLeiVi
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    Chacham, why do you talk like that? There are quite a few MO members of this CR, and you can easily tell that they are full of Yir’as Shamayim.

    Why is it even given different names. When you look at the big picture, we are one and the same. We Daven in each other’s Shuls, we eat each other’s Hechsheirim (more often than we realize), we dance together at Simchos and we care and Daven for each other. We keep the same Torah and Mitzvos. Yes, there is a different approach toward modernity and dress, but calm down.

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