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  • in reply to: Tefillin vs Mezuzah checking #1213372
    Joseph
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    They need to be checked twice every seven years, not once.

    in reply to: Ivris speaking cheder #1209403
    Joseph
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    LB: Hamon Am is “the general public”.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210457
    Joseph
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    benignuman: “The question is how far you can go theoretically. I don’t know.”

    So as far as you know, anything leaving anything above the elbows/knees uncovered could be considered as going too far outside halacha.

    (Our last posts crossed.)

    in reply to: Ivris speaking cheder #1209392
    Joseph
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    The Radak (Sefer HaMichlol, introduction) writes that Loshon HaKodesh is all but forgotten to us, and all we have left is what is in Tanach.

    Modern Hebrew is not different than Turkish or Farsi – it is the language of a secular culture complete with all those things that we want to stay away from. The fact that some of those who speak Modern Hebrew are religious Jews is not different than the language of any country Jews are in where they speak the language of the land. The point is to stay away from the language of the land and only talk the language of the Jew.

    The Chasam Sofer notes that while Chazal used many words and phrases borrowed from the Greeks and Romans, they never coined a new word, as has been done in modern hebrew, for in their holy opinion it was preferable to use other languages rather than create even a single new word that did not have its like, its example, in the Torah, since it could not be rooted in sanctity.

    The Chasam Sofer EH 2:11 says that in ancient times Jews used to use a modified version of the non-Jewish languages for everyday (divrei chol) talk, similar to what Yiddish is. The Kuzari writes that Avrohom Avinu, therefore, spoke 2 different languages. One for holy speech – that was Loshon HaKodesh, and the other for mundane speech – that, the Kuzari says was some non-Jewish language that Avrohom Avinu took and changed around a little on his own. And thats the idea behind Yiddish. It is a non-Jewish language that we took and twisted a bit in order to make it exclusive among us.

    The Rambam writes that even in the days of Ezra they had a translator to explain the Torah readings to the people – clearly, they did not speak Loshon Hakodesh, even before the Churban.

    in reply to: Ivris speaking cheder #1209391
    Joseph
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    The Chasam Sofer writes that the reason Jews do not speak Loshon Hakodesh as a speaking language is because it is inappropriate to use a holy language while enveloped in Tumah, which is our current status. The Rambam writes that a love song in Hebrew is more repulsive to Hashem than the same song in Arabic, for instance, because the pollution of the Holy language is an additional crime. If someone wants to store pornography in his house, thats bad enough. But to store it in the Aron HaKodesh is unspeakably worse. So to cause Loshon HaKodesh to be used as a street language, complete with all the disgusting ways it is used today in Israel, is just more of a reason why we should make sure it never gets into the streets. For our Creator to look down at the world and see His holy language – or even elements of it – used in magazines such as are sold in Kiosks on Yaffo or Dizengoff Street, or spoken by the lowest of the low trying to make a sale, is not something that he or we are happy about.

    in reply to: Ivris speaking cheder #1209390
    Joseph
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    1) Jewish children learned Torah for the last 2,000 years without learning to speak Ivrit.

    2) Ivrit is a new language that didn’t even exist barely a hundred years ago.

    3) Ivrit is not Loshon Kodesh.

    4) Jewish children have successfully learnt Torah for over 2,000 years without learning Ivrit.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210453
    Joseph
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    benignuman:

    Can you explain your understanding of the differences in pritzus status or any daas yehudis differences or any other halachic status differences, if any, of a sleeveless shirt versus a short sleeve shirt or the difference in pritzus/daas yehudis/halachic status of a miniskirt versus a skirt that stops an inch above the knee?

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210434
    Joseph
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    gaw, where have you explained the difference in pritzus status of a sleeveless shirt versus a short sleeve shirt or the difference in pritzus status of a miniskirt versus a skirt that stops an inch above the knee?

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210432
    Joseph
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    gaw, please explain how sleeveless and/or miniskirts are or are not of the same “pritzus” status as any other garment that fails to completely cover everything above the elbow and/or above the knee.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210430
    Joseph
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    benignuman, K-Cup: Please explain why it can never be the community “minhag”, and thus muttar, to wear sleeveless and/or miniskirts.

    And then explain how sleeveless and miniskirts are halachicly different than any garment that shows any skin above the elbow and/or above the knee.

    in reply to: Nepotism #1209280
    Joseph
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    tantali, as you see from the halachic discussion herein, “nepotism” is not only acceptable within Judaism but it is often preferred.

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209963
    Joseph
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    LB: After Moshiach comes. The evil inclination the kitzur s”a quoted is referring to is that which is present when men and women converge together in a party atmosphere.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210422
    Joseph
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    “Ask your LOR if they are pritzus or Da’as Yehudis in your community. Those are the reasons why it may be Assur.”

    gaw, seriously? You’re uncertain whether sleeveless and/or a miniskirt is pritzus/assur for every Jewish woman everywhere?!

    LB: Sitting, walking, going up stairs or getting into a car is no different than standing. If it must be covered while standing, by definition, it must be covered while sitting or any other movement. The point is that it must *always* be covered in public or when in the presence of non-family men.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210417
    Joseph
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    gaw, the net result of taking your comments to its natural conclusion is that sleeveless and miniskirts aren’t necessarily assur in the street.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210415
    Joseph
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    gaw, where is your cutoff? Sleeveless is halachicly assur? Short sleeves halfway between shoulder and elbow? Miniskirt assur? Why is halfway not always assur but sleeveless/miniskirt is?

    in reply to: Nepotism #1209276
    Joseph
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    The aforementioned halacha regarding the son being entitled to inherit his father’s position is certainly applicable in a Kehila.

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209949
    Joseph
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    Avi, that apocryphal story, even if it is half true, is said to take place in the CC’s home at his Shabbos table. NOT at a public gathering with masses of both genders in attendance, with music playing and the women dressed to be noticed.

    Catch, that was only at the Tendler wedding, who was much more modern than the Feinstein family, and it was his decision to mix his friends and others. Not Rav Moshe, whose sons’ weddings had separate seating. Dr. Tendler met his wife at the New York Public Library, the shidduch wasn’t made through Rav Moshe.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210397
    Joseph
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    In the 40s America wearing shatnes was also common among the Orthodox population. Mixed dancing in Young Israel’s were still common for another few decades past that. Many halachas were still not kept fully during those decades.

    in reply to: Nepotism #1209269
    Joseph
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    Halacha gives the son the right to inherit his father’s rabbanus, if I recall correctly.

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210382
    Joseph
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    There are Sefardish seforim that pasken that married and unmarried women must wear a full head covering (that leaves only the face visible.)

    in reply to: Switzerland forces mixed swimming #1208988
    Joseph
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    Or the Swiss Jews could move to America.

    in reply to: Izhbitza chassidus and open Orthodox #1209944
    Joseph
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    The Sridei Eish Vol 2, 8 rules that by gatherings, even which are not for matters of sanctity, men and women should sit separately so as not to mix.

    The Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 149:1 (based on the Bach and Beis Shmuel) rules that “shehasimcho bimoinoi” is not said during the benching of a sheva brochos if men and women are seated in the same room because there is no simcha when the evil inclination is active. This is one of the basis that many contemporary poskim use to rule that there must be a mechitza at weddings and sheva brochos.

    in reply to: Women's Bina Yeseira #1208737
    Joseph
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    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210377
    Joseph
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    K-cup, are your arguing that in some places where the “minhag” is for women to go in the street with a tank top (that has a high neckline) and a miniskirt, that it might not be a halachic problem to do so?

    in reply to: Open Orthodoxy #1210365
    Joseph
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    benig/gaw, am I reading you correctly in claiming that a woman going sleeveless in the public street is not necessarily assur/pritzus everywhere?! And pray tell where the S”A “doesn’t hold” that displaying the upper legs (i.e. shorts/miniskirt/swimwear) in the public street (or beach/mixed pool) is always assur/pritzus?

    in reply to: The #1 tragedy facing the Frum world in America is: #1209490
    Joseph
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    The most ideal situation is for Jews to live highly concentrated among acheinu bnei yisroel with as little interaction as possible with nochrim.

    in reply to: Has photography become too much of an obsession by simchas? #1208879
    Joseph
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    Isn’t it sad that the simcha’s schedule and course of events is dictated and run by the caterer and photographer and their wims on what needs to be done when and how?

    Again, the suggestion isn’t to have no photos taken. It is the overdoing it with the photography being a huge amount of time and expense that eats up the limited time and resources of the simcha.

    in reply to: Has photography become too much of an obsession by simchas? #1208872
    Joseph
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    flatbusher, see iac’s comment following yours. Two hours before kabolos ponim plus another half an hour after the chupa. I’ve frequently seen after the chupa the choson/kallah and family taking notably longer than half an hour. But even iac was 2.5 hours.

    No one’s saying no photography. Even if having family/friends take all the pictures is not enough for you, so get a professional photographer. But not a team of five photographers costing about $10,000 or more.

    in reply to: Jury duty #1209222
    Joseph
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    lilmod, if your number had been called, would you have reported to jury duty?

    in reply to: The Cheder (Fountain Ballroom) #1212934
    Joseph
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    The police are still looking for her and the driver.

    in reply to: The Upsherin – What are the Origins? #1207980
    Joseph
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    I’m more of a lurker than poster.

    in reply to: CONTROVERSY IN RAMAPO – LoHud Article Has Community Buzzing #1208259
    Joseph
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    So Monsey should embark on an infrastructure building project to upgrade the public roads to support a much greater volume of vehicular and pedestrian traffic.

    in reply to: Lakewood Resident Screaming About New Shopping Mall #1208598
    Joseph
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    A beis din has jurisdiction over anyone. All Jews are subject to beis din. And anyone has a halachic right to take another Jew to beis din for a binding ruling.

    in reply to: Lakewood Resident Screaming About New Shopping Mall #1208594
    Joseph
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    Is there any halachic basis a beis din could stop a developer from building on his own property because neighbors don’t want the development?

    in reply to: The Upsherin – What are the Origins? #1207978
    Joseph
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    squeak is the CR supercentenarian.

    in reply to: The Upsherin – What are the Origins? #1207975
    Joseph
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    Hrmph, where was the band and red carpet for my tin anniversary over three months ago.

    in reply to: I have suspicions #1207887
    Joseph
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    I love talking to myself. (The other two of you, don’t mind me please.)

    in reply to: CONTROVERSY IN RAMAPO – LoHud Article Has Community Buzzing #1208243
    Joseph
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    Urban cities have no place to build. It is the normal course of real estate that suburban areas become more urban throughout the United States as the population grows. This isn’t unique to Monsey and Lakewood.

    in reply to: Lakewood Resident Screaming About New Shopping Mall #1208576
    Joseph
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    gaw, in this scenario of BMG that you’ve weaved in this thread, who do you imagine was the Rosh Yeshiva of BMG until the day before Mr. Aharon Kotler joined BMG’s administration as CEO?

    in reply to: I have suspicions #1207882
    Joseph
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    Everyone in the CR, other than you and one other real poster, is Joseph.

    in reply to: The Upsherin – What are the Origins? #1207971
    Joseph
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    WB squeak.

    in reply to: Shadchanim charges #1208023
    Joseph
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    Traditionally, halachicly and normatively, (unless pre-agreed otherwise, which by far is the exception) shadchanim are only paid for a successful shidduch that results in a marriage.

    in reply to: Yes – he IS my son!!! #1208060
    Joseph
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    If we are to follow halacha and not Israeli law, then anytime an Israeli soldier or jail warden shoots dead a handcuffed Arab, in Israeli jail after being convicted of murdering a Jew, the soldier or jail warden should be let off scot free every time it happens.

    in reply to: Is there a benefit to remaining single ? #1209864
    Joseph
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    You’re obligated to get married.

    in reply to: Yes – he IS my son!!! #1208053
    Joseph
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    Hypothetically, if an Israeli soldier shot dead an Arab who was already arrested, handcuffed and undressed, do you think such a soldier should be jailed for 10 or more years?

    in reply to: CONTROVERSY IN RAMAPO – LoHud Article Has Community Buzzing #1208236
    Joseph
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    If you read the full article you’d notice that it falsely implied that home values are *falling* as a result of the changes.

    in reply to: Jury duty #1209212
    Joseph
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    In NY primary caregivers of children are exempted from jury service until the child reaches a certain age. Mailing back a copy of the child’s birth certificate is all that’s required.

    in reply to: Jury duty #1209207
    Joseph
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    So far I’ve seen no disagreements from the attorneys here (or others) that someone seeking to get dismissed, will get dismissed by claiming to be predisposed to find guilt against those accused or being able to use facial expressions to determine the case or being biased against certain ethnicities.

    in reply to: Jury duty #1209205
    Joseph
    Participant

    If “Judge A” would dismiss the attorney with a scheduling conflict, shouldn’t it follow that the same “Judge A” should also dismiss the business negotiator with a scheduling conflict?

    in reply to: Jury duty #1209203
    Joseph
    Participant

    “I raised my hand to indicate a conflict. The judge asked why and I explained that I was representing a client in a case starting Wednesday in US District Court starting Wednesday. I was immediately excused. It is far easier to get another juror than reschedule a Federal case.”

    Would a judge similarly be as accommodating in excusing a prospective juror who is a business executive, who will have a scheduling conflict between the pending trial and an upcoming major corporate international deal negotiations where he was the critical negotiator and the deal could fall apart with any postponment?

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