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a married woman goes from being called Bas —— to Eishes ——.
So we see that a Jewish woman, upon marriage, her name changes from that of her father’s to that of her new husband’s.
” A man’s legal names was “Piloni ben Piloni” and a woman’s name was “Pilonis bas Pilonis”.”
A woman’s legal name is Pilonis bas Piloni (not bas Pilonis.)
iac, I don’t understand what your 80% (before marriage) and 50% (after marriage) mean. What do those figures represent?
Also, the chisronos that (before marriage) you thought you could overlook and live with that turned out after marrying you found you couldn’t tolerate, how did you deal or manage with those chisronos?
The whole last name concept, from A to Z, is goyish. Yidden, both him and her, traditionally never had a last name in the first place.
His name is Reuven ben Yaakov and her name is Dina bas Yaakov. You’ll never hear anyone being called up to the Torah by a last name. Even today. Similarly, since you asked about marriage, the kesuba will never have for him or for her (or for the eidem) any last name.
What is the Rechnitz Challenge?
“Before marriage it looked like 80-20. In the thirty years it has become more like 50-50.”
iac, just to clarify your point, you’re saying before marriage it looked like your kallah was 80% of what you were looking for but after 30 years of marriage you found it is more like 50%?
SHY: How do you explain the huge amount of Seforim HaKedoshim throughout the centuries in galus, from the Rishonim and Achronim, warning us of the dire punishments for various aveiras?
SHY: Where do you see a stira?
“The question she asked me was “will you be able to live with and overlook the other 20%”?”
Did your wife fail to meet 20% of what you were looking for?
iac & Wolf: What is your rate?
The way you describe this scenario the references only omitted some neutral information, they didn’t give false information. If they weren’t specifically asked about these neutral (or even negative) points, they have no reason to give the caller that information.
BITP, the world at large and general society spit at their “ancient” ancestors as barbarians and nowhere near as advanced and civilized as themselves.
The 20th Century Weimar Republic was one of the most “Western Democracies” coming from the great German civilization, the most “civilized” people and nation on Earth. And that democracy democratically elected as their Chancellor and Fuhrer Adolf Hitler ym’s.
CS, I said Nazi Germany. That was in very recent times. The Russian pograms wasn’t all too long ago either. Even Tach V’tat is within memory. Crusades is a bit longer ago. When did this great utopian “Western Democracy” that you so love begin?
“Insider info?”
An apikorus can be a he or she. But someone with such a grubbe outlandish spit in your Jewish face attitude is surely a he.
WB Health!
UB: It’s a he.
Insider info?
CS, 1) Who said it needs only be said as a motivator? It’s the truth and the truth needs to be said out loud and clear. 2) Our gedolei yisroel for thousands of years admonished us as such, so clearly they felt it is the correct and appropriate mussar to give us.
“Now however, the nations themselves are allot more refined”
You really believe that? It was only a few short decades ago that the nations engaged in a worldwide war, for the second time in a very short period, and wantonly murdered six million of us while everyone else watched and applauded the murderers even if they didn’t actually participate. Most of the occupied countries helped the Nazis murder.
“Your whole argument against the draft is that those who learn torah should not go to the army as they are protecting Klal Yisroel”,
No, that’s only one of several arguments. Another is that the Israeli army purposefully attempts to shmad every inductee. This is their official policy to be a melting pot. Additionally the behavior between male and female soldiers has always been very immoral.
They make self-haircut machines.
CS, are you trying to claim that the world is a better place today than, say, during the time of the Beis HaMikdash or during the time of Har Sinai?
“Joseph-why stop at 3”
That’s how many wishes a genie traditionally offers you for freeing him from the jug.
BMG_Guy: This topic’s for you.
The stealing bit was in very bad taste even if the rest was humorous.
The B”M’s of very frum families cost in the range of $3,000 – 4,000, ghd. You must be referring to Reform and Conservative b”m’s.
“What makes these klutz kashehs?”
Because a klutz asked them.
Mazal Tov!
Better for a malcontent to be on the streets than for him to be shmadded in the army.
I can’t pasken. But if it is known they don’t mind in such a scenario then it probably is okay.
Tell him not to be so fancy. What a waste of money. He could make the whole Bar Mitzvah on Shabbos and it’ll cost far far less.
“This hasnt been the main discussion here, but in general protests against Chilul Shabbos generally dont work”
Exactly, ZD, you’re finally getting it!!! Protests against malcontents don’t work, exactly like you said. Whether the malcontents are mocking Israeli soldiers, engaging in chillul Shabbos or getting high on drugs.
“I don’t know what the halachic sources say about this”
The halachic sources say that you are not permitted to even ask the price of an item if you have no intention of purchasing.
√2: To perfect ourselves.
You are not permitted to even ask the price of an item if you have no intention of purchasing. But if you told the merchant upfront of that intention, then you’re fine since he agreed to talk to you despite knowing your intentions.
Virginia is done. The Republican won. A third recount will not occur and has not been requested. The Republicans continue to control the Virginia House of Delegates after everyone was sworn in yesterday.
Look at the chiluk between frum miscontents and non-frum/goyishe miscontents. The frum ones only yell at people; the non-frum/goyim go on drugs, alcohol and rob and assault people.
Those who know don’t tell; those who tell don’t know.
LC: The OU and RCA continued to allow membership for those toeiva supporters. (Well, OU does; he quit the RCA on his own, they didn’t chuck him.) That’s different than these miscontents who are not members of anywhere.
Throughout the Seforim HaKedoshim Klal Yisroel is admonished by Chachmei Yisroel regarding the various severe onshim we have for violating or not properly completing the various tasks that the RBSO demands of us. It is only in today’s messed up generation that the youth have demanded that the severe onshim not be mentioned too much.