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  • in reply to: supreme decision #1089594
    zahavasdad
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    DY

    Does the Agudah ever invite people who eat treif or are Mechalel Shabbos to speak to them covention? I am sure they have

    in reply to: supreme decision #1089566
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    Rabbis are not requierd to perform marriages they feel is against their belifes. They are not required to perform mixed marriages or other marriages against Halacha like a Divorcee marrying a cohen.

    Wedding halls in Shuls are not required to hold such affairs either.

    However kosher caterers in non-jewish places like a hotel, would be required to cater such events

    in reply to: supreme decision #1089548
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    FYI First cousins can only legally marry in I think 12 states and most of the others recoginze those marriages performed in other states.

    In some frum communities marrying your first cousin is seem as very proper however the general society doesnt not feel the same way and has not legalized it

    in reply to: supreme decision #1089547
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    The law only allows adults 18 and over to concent, with some legal rights for a 16 or 17 year old (Thats how some chassunas can occur at 17)

    An animal can never give concent

    in reply to: supreme decision #1089542
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    does this mean that blood relatives can get married, a man with his his pet, or even polygamy (i want to honor my spouses’ memory)

    The Torah allows polygamy and cousin marriage (which is frowned upon in western socities).

    Pets cannot give concent

    in reply to: Hat's Off! #1088700
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    I think there was outcry over the sign and it was removed.

    in reply to: Hat's Off! #1088696
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    I know people who have blue collar jobs where wearing a jacket , hat and tie would not work and if they had to shower and change they would not be able to get to Minyan

    in reply to: Hat's Off! #1088695
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    I know of a Shul near my house that had a sign saying jackets and Hats were nessasary to daven there.

    in reply to: A fellow Jew owes me money- what should I do? #1088960
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    Even if you win in small claims court, it can be hard to collect a small debt.

    in reply to: A fellow Jew owes me money- what should I do? #1088957
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    Even if you get a Din Torah, there is still no way to enforce collection of the debt

    in reply to: Drinking Grape Juice During the Week #1088388
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    Many times you can get the Kedem 22 oz Glass bottles for 99 cents at Waldbaums, Pathmark or Stop and Shop. It can be bought cheaply

    in reply to: Will American money be treif? #1088224
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    No it doesn’t. A “chillul Hashem” isn’t determined by what the goyim think is foolish or unfair.

    So is it a Kiddush or Chillul hashem if some “frum” jews decide according to the torah a 14 year old and 15 year should marry and there is such a mesorah for this.

    And is it a “jewish Anti-Semite” who decides this is wrong and protests it.

    in reply to: Drinking Grape Juice During the Week #1088375
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    If every bocher took a little chulent thursday, there might not be enough on Shabbos

    in reply to: Will American money be treif? #1088202
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    Just a side note, I dont know how Orthodox Jack Lew is, but I do know he goes most shabboses to the Orthodox Synagouge in Washtington DC

    in reply to: Will American money be treif? #1088199
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    There wasnt much jewish emigration to the US until the 1840’s . There was a miniscule jewish population when Jackson was president

    in reply to: Will American money be treif? #1088195
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    Jackson was a racsit who hated Indians and disobeyed a direct Supreme Court ruling for the Cherokee Indians and he Also hated a National Bank and paper currency so Its kind of ironic he is on the $20 bill

    in reply to: Will American money be treif? #1088188
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    There is a specific law that washington needs to be on the $1 bill. All the other bills could be changed

    In fact Grover Cleveland used to be on the $50 before grant

    in reply to: Will American money be treif? #1088181
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    They should have gotten rid of Jackson and not Hamilton

    zahavasdad
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    Whatever you might think of me personally, I am well aware not everyone thinks the same way I do and when I am with those people I try to respect their wishes even if I strongly disgree with them

    zahavasdad
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    there is nothing wrong with posting simcha pictures online it isnt rude or smacks of haughtiness. People like to see simcha pictures

    However that being said I do have certain relatives that I dont think would appreciate it so I wont post those people photos. I know who they are and they dont have to ask me not to do it. I just wont and wont let anyone else in my immediate family do it either with those people

    zahavasdad
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    Someone else, not your immediate family member, Could be adults and not kids

    They are in the backround.

    Go to Central park or Prospect park for example lots of people go there.

    zahavasdad
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    APY

    I said at the Kotel,

    But even what about a Park and you are just taking pictures of your kids at the park, Sometimes untzniut things go on at a park

    zahavasdad
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    There is no way to prevent unauthorized photos taken of people put on the interet.

    What is someone is at the Kotel and takes a picture of themselves and there are people in backround. ANd what if the people in the backround are doing something untzniut. It is not the photographer concern or responsibility

    zahavasdad
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    I was once at an event and I was photographed with my voice and it was put into a for-profit movie, I complained to a lawyer because I signed no released and got no compensation and I was told tough, I do not own the rights to my own image and voice

    in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086980
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    There was a scammer who used a blog area of CNN praising his product and then advertised that his product was endorsed by CNN.

    You always have to be aware which are more blog than news

    in reply to: Wasn't the Rebbe a Zionist? #1087178
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    Rav Yaakov Kamminetsky was also quite zionist and he even said Hashem didnt need the Satmar Rebbe’s permission to perform miracles in 1967

    in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086978
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    Unfortuantly on the internet the line between Blogs and News sites can be very blurry and even legitimate news sites many times have a blog area (And this can be an area for abuse)

    in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086976
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    The JPost isn’t a beacon of truth. Especially when they are reporting third-hand news from halfway around the world. The rule has been (very) long standing. This fact isn’t even news to anyone slightly familiar with Belz and other Chasidic communities. The only “new” thing was the need to enforce the longstanding rule. (Hence the notification that it would be enforced with the stated penalty beginning the aforementioned month.)

    If its not in the Yated, its not news

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086700
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    Its not what I belive, its what the mandate is. Special Ed is important, but so is the kid who wants to play in the band.

    There are no entitlements in the society except what the goverment says you are entitled too. Any more is just what you want, not an entitlement

    in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086956
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    A jewish anti-semite is someone who disagrees with you.

    in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086954
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    Its amazing the same people who wonder why people are upset at Belz, have no problem condeming the people of Efrat. It should be their choice not anyone elses

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086696
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    We already basically agreed that in Williamsburg the class for autistic kids was likely taught in English, NYC is much bigger and can handle this more than East Ramapo and likely has more yiddish speakers than in East Ramapo. How many special Ed students in NYC get taught in Yiddish. You are asking for something NYC residents dont get. Its very hard in NYC to get the city to pay for private special ed. And according to the Tablet aritcle , not that hard in East Ramapo

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086688
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    For this conversation Hebrew is very differnt than Yiddish. Many young frum jews who speak Hebrew have no qualms about going to a university and getting BA’s and MA’s.

    How many non chassidim speak Yiddish? Among the more modern’s Hebrew is the preferred language. I think many chassidim greatly overestimate the number of yiddish speakers outside the community. Even in Lakewood the preferred language is english. In Israel I think the Litvish do speak Yiddish as opposed to Hebrew.

    We are talking about Mandates here and what is mandated. And you said it was mandated to teach the special ed in their own language so thats why they had to go to more expensive schools costing the district money.

    You said Art , music and Drama werent mandated by the state and thats true, but neither is Yiddish Speakers, Seperate classes , or avoidance of teaching about the fat man in the red suit. You cant have it both ways

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086685
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    Mammale.

    You missed the point, Nobody ever said these kids should just “go fly a Kite” nor did anyone say there werent Yiddish speakers in Monsey.

    You didnt answer how many yiddish speakers, especially chassidish in Monsey have masters degrees in special ed from an accredited institution.

    Long distance BA degrees do not have the some worth as acreditied degrees from accredited instituions, and you need masters not just a BA anyway.

    I did read the tablet article, and frankly Tablet is a blog not a news site.

    in reply to: The real reason for the ban against chassidish women driving? #1086942
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    Mammele as someone who grew up in the Suburbs and many times we could not afford a car, I am well aware of what its like not to have a car in the suburbs and its very difficult

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086681
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    you claim that there is no mandated requirement to teach special ed in languages other than English. Can you quote where you saw/learned that?

    There are over 100 languages spoken in NYC, it would be an impossible requirement to get a mandated teacher in all of them. You can certainly try and Spanish it should be fairly easy and its probably not to hard in Mandarin either, but after that it gets harder and harder. I dont even know if they have translators in all languages (A side note there was recently a court case that was declared a mistrial because alot of the evidence was phone calls spoken in chassidic yiddish and they didnt have good translators of chassidic yiddish ..The YIVO coulndt do it as they speak a differnt yiddish)

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086679
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    Syag +1

    in reply to: home schooling in NYC #1087158
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    In many states anyone can homeschool, Just not in NY

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086675
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    Syag totally got my point

    I never said speaking yiddish makes you unqualified, not having a masters degree does make you unqualified

    Unfortunatly today the larger majority of yiddish speakers are Chassidim or people who grew up chassidish (and became OTD) some eldery people and a select few people who either learned yiddish from their grandparents or learned from the YIVO.

    In college I once took Yiddish literature in translation, the professor was a reconstructionist “rabbi” , If instead of being an acadamian he became a special ed teacher, would you accept him as a teacher? He was also anti-relgious.

    How many younger yiddish speakers have masters degrees from accedited institutions in special ed? The eldery who might speak yiddish and have masters degrees probably are too old to teach anymore.

    I purposely kept spanish out of the conversation and picked a neutral language like Pashtun which probably has a similar number of speakers in the NYC area as Yiddish, and the reason was Spanish is somewhat politically charged for various reasons.

    in reply to: home schooling in NYC #1087155
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    It is not easy to Homeschool in New York, You need to be a licensed teacher, there are websites that homeschoolers frequent

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086668
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    Just because someone speaks yiddish, doesnt mean they are qualified to be a special Ed teacher, there is no mandate by NY to teach special ed in any language except english, Sometimes they will try to find a native speaker as long as they are qualified. They can usually find a spanish speaker who is qualified as there are alot of those.

    There is also no mandate that says your kid should not be in a class where songs are sung in december about an evergreen tree. Otherwise Muslim , Hindu and other children of other religions could use the same argument

    I picked Pashtun because was sort of neutral and NYC was actually looking for qualified Pashtun speakers and coulndt find any. Had I said SPanish people would have said well, there are spanish special ed teachers , There are because there are alot of spanish speakers and its not to hard to get a qualified spanish special ed teachers

    And qualifications are set by the state and they include a masters in special ed from an acceditited university. I dont know exactly what the qualifications for a Bi-Lingual Special Ed teacher are. Ill assume you need that masters degree and the ability to show proficiently in that language

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086663
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    You can rarely get qualified teachers to speak any foreign language except Spanish.

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086661
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    In case anyone didnt know Pashtun is spoken in Afganistan and Pakistan.

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086660
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    mammale

    You never answered why a kid who speaks Pashtun should not get the same treatment as a Yiddish speaker. I also think speciifically in East Ramapo there might be alot of creole speakers. In NYC there are over 100 languages spoken. The kid who only speaks Creole or Pashtun will also get harrassed for only speaking those languages.

    There shouldnt be a “right” to a Pashtun or a yiddish speaker. In fact you are doing both kids a diservice because maybe while they wont speak either , many can understand languages and it better for them to understand english (especially for the day when the parents arent around) and someone will have to help them

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086657
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    Mamale , just a side note

    The the “x” is xmas is not a jewish invention , It comes from the greek letter chi which looks like the letter X and it means our lord and savior so xmas is just as bad as any other way of saying it, The only real neutral way to say it is December 25th.

    I dont know if the Williamsburg kids are frum only and I do know they dont teach them in Yiddish because the kid whom I know was sent there does not speak yiddish (She barely speaks and when she does its english) and her parents I dont think speak yiddish either (If they do they dont do it in public and dont have any yiddish accent and their other kids also speak with a typical NY accent)

    in reply to: Does the Hecsher Company have to look out for the consumer #1086538
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    Poland Spring is from Poland

    Poland, ME

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086654
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    If you kid can barely feed or dress themselves, I dont think you are so concerned about Davening. I know lots of people who work for Bais Ezra so I see some of the residents frequently.

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086651
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    The Williamsburg class I belive is for Austistic kids and I belive Satmar provides the kosher meals.

    The kids in this class religion doesnt really matter as they are lower functioning (I am fairly certain I knew someone whose kid was in this class)

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086645
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    Frankly if the people in Ramapo were smart, they would send their kids to the public schools for the free secular education and then only need to pay for Limudei Kodeshm I mean seriously how mixed would a school in Monsey really be. Vouchers are not legal in NY but an almost all frum school would be possible in Monsey, it would lower Yeshiva tution for many

    in reply to: What is mandated in NY for private schooling #1086644
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    Student Loan crisis is from people who insist on dorming to out of state schools that cost $40-$50K a year and the jobs they get nowhere pay what they will get in a job

    SUNY or CUNY in state tution is about $6000 a year

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