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Well i just came back from spending a year in Yerushalayim where it snowed 3 times,and had power outages. No one NEEDS anything. but its a good idea to bring something that would keep one warm.
yes if your going to be there in teh winter! especaily cause you will most liekly be standing around waiting for buses! gloves,scareves and hats to!!!!!!!
Just because she is getting married doesnt mean your relashenship will have to stop. it most liekly wont be the same as before,for she will be a married woman,but she will still want and need friends. Dont let her feel bad about dating or marriage because you will miss her,tell her you are os excited for her nexr stage and look forward to being able to help her,or encourage when or if she will need,dont make her feel bad about it.
start wtih the mindset now,as you ahve.that its not forever but just differnt.you will be friends,just she will have a ultimate best friend as well when she gets married
Luna,i really love it
well,you have to find out about the girls,thats really teh key thing.semanaries may say they are looking for this and this…or have that…but it all depends on the girls that go and will go with you. find out some people who have gone in the past or who are there now in any sems you are looking into.
If your going there,it seems like you should already know atleast half of these questions! Did you do any research at all even?
“treat your family like guests and your guests like family”
its just once cylce over and over………..who is to say wich is how you should treat what ifyou treat the other the other way????
anybody have any stories or know the seforim he wrote??
are you in your first of second year?
you should really talk to someone you trust about how you feel,maybe a older friend. Its not easy to decided such things especially when it effects you so much and could change alot,but you wont really get teh chance of sem again
levovi is a bais yaakov seminary,period. rabbi segal from afikei torah just opend it up. he wanted a seminary that was for strong by girls, who wanted to learn adn had a strong foundation of hashkafa. eveyone has struggles no matter where you go,what are you talking about?some girls going do watch tv,txt and read non jewish books,but they also are very frum eidle girls who want to continue their learning in a nice envierment.
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i text my rav shailos and he texts me back awensers:)
konwing it is one thing,and and feeling it is another. dont let yourelf feel bad if your worried about sem,your totally allowed to! Your worried abotu how it will affect the rest of your life,that the sooner you find out the better so you can plan.Its not saying you dont trust Hashem,its saying you understand its not in your contorl but htat you honeslty dont konw whats happneing
why would the frum be diffrent then teh modern? last i heard everyone gets the letters at the same time from everythwere
i believe keser chaya is not to acadmeic,its more hashkaic, its a bit open minded for girls who are byish and hope ot grow,like go in listein got non jewish music and want ot coem out not!
shopping613- they have a point,its ment as a little thing to take a bit of steam off,and to relax a bit adn find out news and thoughts of others not as a place to live yoru life,for me it would be much easier not hveing to leave my room cause as you said Jews can be mean,but i do because its a part of growing up and a way to just get over what we have to as apart of the human race 🙂 kids go otd of their own accord most times,if we wanted we could find nice people,but there are other reasons people choose not to stay frum or “jewish”,trust me. all the best,hope you arnt to offended:'(
wiy is absolutly right!!
congrats shopping613,hats off to you,we should all take you as example xD
well lets see,do you think its a sin to make yoru kids feel like dirt? To swear at them and when you lift your arm up for your child to jump up in fright? to cause a child to hate their parents so much because how they cause them to feel? why do you doubt it,do you believe in hitting kids to “help” discipline them?
Let me tell you,you cacht more bees with honey then vineger! Im right now bawling my eyes out 2 min to shabbos,a parent of mine is having my otd sibling do mutkzah on shabbos and when i try to say somethign another siblings says to drop it,it wont make a diffrence. Its all a sin,its all assur!!!! and it all should stop!!!!!!!!!!!
WIY- Im so glad you actually asked this! I feel alot of females especially frum ones have been putting way to much time into their looks,especially makeup. When i put on i always try to remeber one thing, make up isnt supposed to make you look beautful its to enhance what Hashem has already given you. If i would put aton on and people didnt recignize me of course i would feel like a fraud, but if i put just enough on to boost my self esteem a bit and present myself better then why not?
i actually often say” O-M-H”! since in halacha class i learnt i cant say the letters o m… i thought it would be better,so i asked my teacher and he said it sounds fine xD
been there,down that,now im pulling all morningers! turns out the night isnt long enough for by hw anymore…who knew?????
shopping613-im sure its nothing personal.
Smile and laughter
Is what I used to know
Until that faitful day
I had such a blow
I saw you as you were
Doing as you pleased
You felt you would only be hurting yourself
But how could you not relize if you hurt so to me
You made me promise not to tell
To keep their minds at ease you said
I agreed although I knew the truth
You just wanted to be loved and cared
Still time went on
So did the charade
And as the layers of secrets piled on you
It became harder to keep tame
I did not wish to add to your pain
You knew what were doing and the reason why
So all I could do was quietly watch and cry
I so wanted to cry out, to plead to you
To come back and leave your nonsense behind
Because I know of the great pain inside
I knew only to well
Just seeking what all crave once in a while
I wait here for you still
I will always be here when you return
No matter what happens
I know you will always be that person I know inside
Yes you may try to hide it
You may even think all forget
But forever and always ill remember
The amazing person you really are
saysme– thank you,yes i can understand that,its life and its the way things are,but i do get frustrated when she accepts me to only work for her and tells me ot turn other people down,it puts me in a difficult position
I have been babysitting rcently for certain families for 4 or 5 dollars a hour,they are kollel and i understand they have a limit,and i truely do not mind,what i do mind is that i found out recently they pay others 8 or 9 an hour to others! i mean come on parents i love to babysit,often kids request me,but make me want to babysit for you,dont make me feel bad for you and give up other oppurtunites! and whne you know you have a toddler that cries when going to sleep and especially with strangers,a heads up would be nice!!!!!
PBT- i agree with you, a great fear i have is that when i get older how i will deal with things and how my ADHD will affect my life,and future family I”YH. and while the adults def need to have things for them,it is improtant for something to be for kids,because people make fun of it all the time(yes adults do all the time as well) and they dont know what they are saying or understand add or adhd,and neither do some kids who have it and its a very sad situation!
teenagers get frustrated with this because when its said its usually said along the lines of adults saying they where also teens at one point or that teens can get annoying…. sometimes peopel feel like what htey go through others dont know or its hard to describe and when some peole say things like “your acting like a teenager” they feel they are trying to say they know how it feels
saysme-wow im flattered really 🙂 the next time i see you post something sad in the poetry thread i will make sure to do that for you,i hope it will help
saysme- thanks i try to be 🙂
what do you mean line in poetry thread?
saysme- the blow ups where ok i guess i was kind of expecting them so whatever, thanks for the hatzlacha i will need it,and i wont ever stop smiling cause there will always be things to smile about 😀
4 questions + 4 cups = 8 times the fun 🙂
Well for those if any out there care to know,i have made some progress 🙂 i have discussed things with a brother of mine over yom tov and learnt some things about him i had not known before, we talked about it and there is a rabbi teacher of mine that i will be hopefully talking to if he agrees to talk to me, and for those on the thread before saying i shouldnt try to help extra on peseach,absolutly right it blew up in my face,i did not see that coming but oh well thats life 🙂 hope everyone enjoyed the yom tov
gg yekke, torah613- i hate to break it to you but i believe Leah had 6 sons and a twin girl to each of those sons…
Bereishes shmos vayikra bamidbar and deverim 😀
its the obvious ones that get away from us sometimes 🙂
3 things the world stands on
3 malachim visited avraham
3 sons of adam and noach
3 avos
saysme- its ok,i understand,beside its hard to understand in type if someone really does or not something like that, and your right its hard someitmes to know consiouscly things that are easy in teh head,thats why when i light i always ask Hashem to help me in the week feel Him by my side and to let me whats right for me
torah613- thank you for hte advice,your absolutly right 🙂
well she has apoligized before,and sometimes she does admit to times she hurts me and says i deserve them,thank you for the encouragment it really helps,i hope that the person i will be speaking with returns soon after peseach so i can talk with her,i do trust in Hashem and believe He will help me i know he has this far and will always continue
saysme- i hear what your saying,and i do understand,but i just feel i keep losing the nerve im so afried it will backfire on me and it will be worse, of course apoligizing doesnt change anything but im thinking maybe it could help it not happen again,that shell relize she felt bad when it happend it wont repeat????
well my mother apoligized to me about yelling at me and throwing the drawer and ripping my shirt, im kind of losing my nerve to tell someone about theses things….do you think that after telling her a few times how i feel about it has changed things it, do i still hve to get help?
saysme- its true,beleive me 🙂 you are so kind hearted and wanting to do the right thing and help those who need it, you are a very special person its easy to tell! im so glad i made you smile,then my day is complete! and a enjoyable fun filled,meaningful, chamtetz free, joyful filled Peseach to you to!
saysme- i must say you are the nicest crer and person,you are so nice to everyone!
fkelly- yes” behavior typical of ADHD…” not necasarily causing it,thank you for looking it up 🙂
puppy- thank you very much for your kind words, im glad you think it inspiring,if just one person is inspired its worth writing 🙂 and i really like yours,it really captures the emotion one feels at times in a crowd of people or with another person who cares less weather or not your there with them
i believe that when people are older they do have syptoms that mimic ADHD or may seem to look like it,but isnt proven that can get ADHD from brain injuries or other such things
fkelly- what do you mean ADHD is common in people who are abused? do you mean since its genetic that a parent who has it will abuse and the kid probably has it so they are abused kid with ADHD? For years my parents thought that i had a learning disability and for years my teachers tortured me because they thought i just didnt want to pay attention to them,only recently was i evaluated for it
first of all im so touched you opend this thread for me,its so major sweet of you,i thank you from the bottom of my heart! you also have ADHD? I have always worked hard for my grades and have been pretty proud of them my mother has told me that Bs are really bad and i should be getting As,im not sure about that… and yes i do try hard at home with other things with my mother its hard to balance the energy i have and put it where…. that is a great idea i might try to find someone to do that with it would really help. thank you so much again, may you have much bracha in everything! chag kosher vseamch 😀