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  • in reply to: Eclipse ??? #2274399
    AviraDeArah
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    Besalel, it is logically deficient, because where does it say that it’s a flaw? Also halevi never said that it’s an actual flaw, chas veshalom, but rather intentionally designed to mirror a flawed human condition – that Hashem made us with flaws is very obvious. That was on purpose, not because of, chas veshalom, any mistake of Hashem.

    As to why we don’t make a bracha…my theory is that to make a bracha, there needs to be a חפצא, a tangible, physically reactive phenomenon. The eclipse is merely an alignment; nothing is משתנה in the moon or sun.

    A rainbow, one could argue, is also not a cheftza, but the bracha isn’t because of the wondermen, it’s because it’s a reminder of Hashem’s promise to not destroy the world again. That’s why it is a bracha of zocher habris, not oseh maysoh bereshis.

    AviraDeArah
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    We’re going to wish we did a lot of things differently after moshiach comes.

    One thing to note is that chasidishe seforim say that when he comes, he’s going to comfort us, see at our low madregos and say “oy, look at what the galus did to you.”

    AviraDeArah
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    Those aren’t the only two options.

    I argue for the sake of, i hope, kovod shomayim. And i do learn some things along the way.

    There are some things I’m not open to, such as the avodah zara of nationalism, feminism, god-in-a-body ideology, internet filters not being important, drafting bochurim, and other things that the gedolim said were off limits.

    But other things I’ll consider if they’re not apikorsus according to gedolei yisroel.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2273573
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    Square, the vayoel Moshe deals with this arizal quite extensively. I don’t understand it because I’m not a mekubal. Funny how zionists who dismiss kabalah when it comes to kedushah inyonim and nissim suddenly are very into the arizal..

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2273560
    AviraDeArah
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    Sechel, want to know what chasidim think of tznius? Ever walk around Williamsburg? Kiryas yoel? Skver? Tosh? Tznius is THE ikkar by them and they’re stricter than litvishe!

    in reply to: Shmad in Israel? #2273514
    AviraDeArah
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    Also, if a girl wants to volunteer – there’s plenty of chessed needed within the frum community, and shomrei Torah umitzvos have priority.

    in reply to: Shmad in Israel? #2273513
    AviraDeArah
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    Smerel, that’s sherut leumi in its current form, but it is still obligatory for all citizens without religious exemption. And many sefardi girls have a hard time getting that exemption, especially if they don’t look charedi.

    Forced work outside of the home is what the chazon ish was very worried about. And it wasn’t as if it was a machlokes; the gedolei yisroel all said it was yehereg velo yaavor.

    Simcha – i agree that pure volunteering isn’t what the chazon ish was concerned with. But you’d need to make sure rhe environment was kosher, which often is not the case.

    Bear in mind that compulsory sherut leumi was just the backup plan once the medina saw that the frum would never let their girls into the military. Mizrachi didn’t see that and supported it, which caused a lot of problems for the Torah world, because the frei went and said “why is it good enough for them and not you”

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2273446
    AviraDeArah
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    Dofi, it’s published as iggeres hagra. The lashon he writes is that his mother does not need his mussar because she is a tzenuah. In other versions of the letter the text spells out that tznius does for a woman what Torah does for a man, regarding fighting the yatzer hora.

    It’s cited in basically every mussar sefer that is aimed at women, including rav shimshon pinkus.

    in reply to: Shmad in Israel? #2273447
    AviraDeArah
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    Simcha, the chazon ish and others explained that when a girl is forced – not voluntarily – to leave the reshus of her husband or father, that is “taking” our daughter away and it is in the category of laws which surround giluy arayos.

    A father sending his daughter to seminary is voluntary.

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    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2273433
    AviraDeArah
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    Modern “rabbis” like to say as a ln article of faith that “the obligation of shmiras aynayim is squarely on the shoulders of men” – they repeat it as if it were a pasuk. They say it the same way they repeat ad nauseum a line of “living a modern life within the framework of halacha.”

    These are both meaningless sound bytes which have zero logic or mesorah. A 5th grader knows what lifnei iver is. The same 5th grader can read pele yoetz which writes that women take the first punishment if a man is nichshal by looking at them, if they are not dressed according to halacha.

    It’s a powerful urge to justify pritzus that leads modern clergymen to spew that line; they will do anything and everything to not admit that their community has a serious problem.

    But of course they have no problem chastising the frum for how we supposedly treat goyim and don’t serve in the Israeli army.

    in reply to: Hand Matzos vs Machine Matzos #2273329
    AviraDeArah
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    My rebbe Rav Belsky said that even Pesach minhagim which are tied to the metzius of pre war Europe, like some of those mentioned above, should be kept, as they are minhag yisroel Torah.

    in reply to: Shmad in Israel? #2273331
    AviraDeArah
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    Simcha, the poskim said it’s abizrayhu l’giluy arayos for a girl to be taken from the house of either her father or husband.

    You’ll probably dismiss that as outmoded thinking, but i couldn’t care less the gedolei olam who knew more than you and me when they were 5 said so.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2273324
    AviraDeArah
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    The chazon ish learned kol hatorah kulah, including kabalah, which is what chasidus aims to achieve.

    He’s not jealous of a man who learned kabalah that was made accessible to a regular person, and certainly not of a child who mouths the words of ideas he has absolutely no shaychus with. For torah she baal peh, you need to understand what you’re learning for it to be a kiyum mitzvah.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2272815
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    “Seems like some have tons of טמטום המח והלב. Maybe eat only lubavitch shchita and chalov yisroel, and things will be clearer. I don’t know what to tell you.”

    This is a great example of circular thinking.

    Chabad is right, and if you question it, it must be because you’re not following chabads opinions. If you were, you’d see that chabad is right.

    When facts and sources fail, just go for the “you’re only saying this because you’re not following a Lubavitch standard”

    As it happens, i and almost all other yeshivish people are makpid on cholov Yisroel. I avoid Lubavitch shechitah however, because of the very real possibility that the shochet worships a man as god wrapped in a body.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2272613
    AviraDeArah
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    Gadol, it’s in a letter the Gaon wrote to his daughter

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2272555
    AviraDeArah
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    Yankel, i think you’re right. I have yet to encounter a Lubavitcher who yields on any miniscule point if it has anything remotely to do with chabad. edited The debate is more of a show, because they’ve made up their mind already or closed themselves off from any other alternative.

    And they wonder when everyone else says they’re cultish.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2272538
    AviraDeArah
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    “if you know aleph teach aleph”

    Equals

    A guy with a glow in the dark pen leading a group of people on a cliff in pitch dark.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2272493
    AviraDeArah
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    CS – no hilchos tznius in the “classic seforim”? See the sources brought in mishnah berurah 75 s”k2, and all of the sources brought in halichos bas yisroel. It’s literally all over the place.

    It’s dealt with mainly regarding ervah l’inyan krias shma and talmud Torah. That’s where the poskim discuss which parts of the body must be covered and give the details you were taught. Elbows, knees, collarbone, etc..

    That’s why thw sefer halichos bas yisroel was very important, because he compiled the poskim who discussed the details of tznius, but they were everywhere and needed little chidushim.

    Regarding lashon hora, i am referring to details. What is the definition? What are the tenoim for toeles? When can one believe LH and when can you only be concerned about it? These aee things not discussed at all in the rishonim, st least not directly. The chofetz chaim labored greatly to learn this sugya and come to conclusions in halacha.

    In tznius, there was no such need for the author of halichos bas yisroel to do that. Read the sefer, even though it was not written by a Lubavitcher..it won’t hurt your worldviiew.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2272529
    AviraDeArah
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    Also, “classic” seforim that discuss the mussar elements of tznius as the mainstay of a woman include menoras hamaor, pele yoetz, and many others. Ths Gaon famously wrote that tznius is for women what Torah is for men.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2272384
    AviraDeArah
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    Some Jews are more equal than others

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2272200
    AviraDeArah
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    I also never said that a sinner is an apikores. I said one who claims that a mitzvah isn’t important, or who dismisses chazal and says that what they say are ikkarim aren’t really that important – even if they themselves observe those laws – that’s apikorsus.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2272199
    AviraDeArah
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    Sechel, what did the child swear to? I think you’re referring to a תינוק שנשבה, a captured child. That’s spelled with a ה.

    Whether or not all, most or even any secular Jews today are considered tinokos sh’nishbu is a a machlokes. Some say that most are – but that doesn’t mean that they’re good Jews. It means that they won’t burn for their sins.

    Where in kiddushin does it say that a person who serves AZ is called a beloved son of Hashem?

    A sinner who shechts does not usually render meat treif. Why is that a barometer for what makes a person good? That’s so arbitrary.

    It’s a sad day when a person who claims to be a Torah jew can’t use Torah observance to determine what a good Torah jew is. The only issue is that it runs against the brainwashing in chabad.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2272145
    AviraDeArah
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    Christians say you can be a good jew without the mitzvos, because yushke “fulfilled” them.

    Conservatives say you can be a good jew without most mitzvos, but you need to keep some.

    Reform say you are a good jew no matter what you do as long as you pay your dues to Hadassah/JNF, vote Democrat and support LGBT.

    Modern Orthodoz Jews say you’re a good jew as long as you do the above(without much LGBT, just a little bit) and you also need to keep shabbos and kashrus.

    Chabad say you’re a good jew if you believe in their rebbe, and keep some mitzvos.

    Torah Jews say you’re a good Jew if you keep ALL of the mitzvos to the best of your ability.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2272069
    AviraDeArah
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    Sechel, I’m sure you’d agree someone who’s a kofer in kabalah is a heretic, no? It’s not mentioned there either.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2271956
    AviraDeArah
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    Here we go with the deflection again – the reason why it’s not apikorsus to teach that, for instance, keeping shabbos is a bigger deal than coming late to davening, is because it’s true! But if someone were to say that coming late to davening doesn’t matter, when chazal say it does, then yes, that would be apikorsus too.

    My assertion that shluchim say tznius isn’t so important is based on this thread and your statements that it’s not an ikkar. That explains what we see in crown heights whenever outsiders, “snags” like me drive through it and have to keep our eyes open so as to drive safely.

    Tznius is the lifestyle of a Jewish woman. An illiterate woman who can’t pronounce tzimtzum but dresses tznius and behaves modestly is infinitely greater than a woman who studies seforim not intended for her but does not commit to serving Hashem by performing her essential mitzvah. Her studies are, in fact, harmful to her.

    in reply to: Shmad in Israel? #2271816
    AviraDeArah
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    Yankel – could be the gerrer rebbe allowed it, or it could be there were extenuating circumstances, but either way, rav shach received a lot of criticism from brisk for changing the yeshiva world’s policy

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2271760
    AviraDeArah
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    Sechel, if a jew violates a prohibition of tznius, it’s not apikorsus.

    If a chabad shliach does so in public and teaches that tznius isn’t very important, then it most certainly is apikorsus.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2271729
    AviraDeArah
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    Mods, please don’t post the part about CS definitely lying about K9 – i found out that there is a way to use it with windows 7. Disregard.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2271728
    AviraDeArah
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    Tznius is not just a crowning midah.

    Chazal say when Hashem made Chava, he made every limb of hers swear that it would be tzenuah.

    When bilaam wanted to destroy klal yisroel, he knew the only way to overcome Hashems love of the yidden was through something he hated so much that the hatred was greater than this love, and that’s zimah. “The God of these people hates zimah,” he said. (This explanation comes from the chasam sofer)

    The very essence of klal yisroel is tznius – this is what made bilaam turn his curse into a bracha, when he saw that the yidden had tents that were made to preserve the privacy of each family.

    It isn’t just a nice thing. And I don’t care what the Lubavitcher rebbe said about it – if he erred in it, then i can tell you exactly why he did according to reports that are known in the Yeshiva world, but i will not write about it on here because it’s extremely offensive.

    in reply to: Shmad in Israel? #2271629
    AviraDeArah
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    Yankel, the frum parties would only be in the opposition for almost 40 years. That was the ruling of the chazon ish and all of the other gedolim.

    Rav shach said in the 80s that this psak no longer applies. Under Menachem begin, things were different. He was sympathetic to frum people and was the closest thing Israel has ever had to a religious prime minister.

    What Rav shachs understanding of the differences were is beyond my understanding; i have emunas chachamim that he saw a significant change which permitted joining the government.

    But at the time he said you can’t be a full minister. Under rav chaim kanievsky, this was changed too, and yaakov litzman became the first charedi minister. Again, we only follow what the gedolim say

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2271545
    AviraDeArah
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    Satmar isn’t responsible for every idiot who quotes them wrongfully. Acknowledging it itself is an issue; they’re not a PR firm. Agudah doesn’t speak out when it’s cast wrongfully in the media either, and neither does mizrachi or zionist organizations. Your request of them is petty.

    Also, while they don’t agree with nadler and his people, they also don’t think it’s pikuach nefesh for the US to send arms to Israel. You decided that. They basically believe in shev v’al taaseh; they don’t support the war nor do they support those who are opposed to it.

    That’s not only satmar. The rabbonim who backed away from the major israel rally a few months ago also said that demanding things from America is not the way we behave in galus.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2271472
    AviraDeArah
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    Satmar has not lobbied against giving arms to israel.

    Formerly pro israel politicians looking to cozy up to the new left in the Democratic world which is anti Israel have used satmar as an excuse.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2271473
    AviraDeArah
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    There definitely are gemaros about tznius details – Brachos 24a, kesuvos 72b, many other places.

    The details of lashon hora are far lesa discussed, which precipitated the need for the chofetz chaim to delineate them

    in reply to: Shmad in Israel? #2271164
    AviraDeArah
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    Arabs who kicked out the berbers**

    in reply to: Shmad in Israel? #2271140
    AviraDeArah
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    Yankel, the “who started it” is just as childish as when kids get into a fight. Both sides can point to an earlier point where there were attacks or aggression; it’s not clear at all who started it, but the zionists had a bloodlust, personified by their leaders writing “רק בדם תהיה לנו הארץ”

    You’re right that the arabs expelled the sefardim, which is often ignored by leftists – no one’s saying the arabs were “right.” My point was that it’s a myth that the zionists merely bought up all of or most of the land – it wasn’t even close.

    We’ll get what’s owed to us in the geulah shlaima, including the heavy losses of the sefardims money, and the revenge of the 6 million kedoshin in Europe. Hashem will avenge all of it.

    From an objective point of view, I don’t care that they kicked out Arabs; same way the arabs kicked out the ottomans, who kicked out the Byzantines, then the romans, then the jews – we know the story.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2271090
    AviraDeArah
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    Square, you’re talking about after zionists came in.

    In the okd yishuv of yerushalayim, say during the time of rav shmuel salant, people went to the kosel unfettered.

    in reply to: Shmad in Israel? #2271086
    AviraDeArah
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    Sharing the burden of the Torah community is a Jewish value. Sharing an imposed burden by enemies of Torah who want you to not keep the Torah is not a Jewish value

    in reply to: Shmad in Israel? #2271082
    AviraDeArah
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    Square, you should know that the “we bought it” argument is almost a complete fabrication. Zionists bought up some kibutzim, and tel aviv.

    They also took kver 300 arab villages. Some by force, like deir yassin (whether or not this was a military campaign or an intentional slaughter is anyone’s guess at this point) and others were because the Arabs fled the armies.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2270930
    AviraDeArah
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    Of note is that before zionism, Jews were able to go to the kosel freely. The Arabs stopped it because they had this paranoia about al aqsa mosque which to this day makes them go rabid whenever a Jew goes near it. This is by design – there’s a serious issur in going on har habayis.

    So when zionists use the kosel as a trophy of victory and pride, it’s really just undoing the damage they inflicted.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2270929
    AviraDeArah
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    Square – cute. Just to be clear, all of my rebbeim held of going to the kosel, just like 90% of klal yisroel. Chaim Berliners have no problems going either – Rav Hutner never said others shouldn’t do it.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2270898
    AviraDeArah
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    I heard from a talmid that Rav Hutner didn’t visit the kosel because he agreed with the satmar rov on it being a problem of not being mechazek the reshoim.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2270890
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    Ubiq, do you think the chachamim would have fought the romans when they went to meet them? Milchama was a strategy when feasible.

    But did the zionists do the first two options? No – they were like the foolish baryonim who went straight to fighting.

    And during the Holocaust, fighting would have only ensured that no one survived r”l… Look at what happened in Warsaw.

    The shvuos do not require jews not to fight goyim at all in self defense. But they do require us not to take back eretz yisroel by force.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2270745
    AviraDeArah
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    I’ve been busy the past few days – just wanted to note that nowhere does the Satmar Rav say that the soton has any independent power, chas veshalom. He brings many examples of maysoh soton, such as the image of Moshe dying on har sinai, which is in medrash rabbah, as times when the soton was tasked with making signs to test klal yisroel.

    The state is no different; its success, the satmar rov says, is a test for our emunah – will we use it as a proof that something against the Torah (a secular state calling itself Jewish with apikorsus definitions of a jew, non Torah law being practiced, pride parades, mixed army, etc…) is good and that we should celebrate it, and think that it represents us as Jews, or will we see that such things are a test….בפרוח רשעים כמו עשו, when the wicked prosper…. that’s already in pesukim.

    Others say that the state’s success was because of the frum people there. The chazon ish said after the Holocaust there was a tremendous ais ratzon, and if the yidden wanted moshiach, he would have come… instead they wanted the state, so they got it in ways that require siyata dishmaya. But that doesn’t make it a good thing.

    Tha main difference between satmar and the majority was how distant we ought to be from the government; can we ignore our obligation to defend not only our rights but influence people, especially sefardim, who we might lose to the zionists if we don’t join the government? Satmar says what can we do? We are anusim mipnei hadin. Agudah says the din is that we can, and that such a thing isn’t hischabrus.

    No malaach, weak or strong, does anything besides what Hashem tells is to do; that’s its nature.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2270746
    AviraDeArah
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    Yankel, if a group of jews were able to destroy the tracks – good for them, but they couldn’t.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2270064
    AviraDeArah
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    Mdd – the kings of malchus beis dovid were all from the command of Hashem that kings should come from him. In malchus yisroel, yeravam was made king by a navi, but only some wrested power through takeovers; they all had the din of a melech nevertheless.

    Where did you get that all food was under the “hashgocha” of ovadia?

    Smerel, it’s the simple chain of events. They only assembled an army after haman was defeated and mordechai was made viceroy. It was clear that the gezerah was batul and the king expressly told them to be omed al nafsham. In such a case, when we have Hashems favor we are assured victory, and not one Jew died.

    Aaq, gedolim have cheshbonos for things – we know from people who were there at the time how the chofetz chaim felt about rabbi kook, going so far as to nock his name upon hearing that the latter had praised the mechalelei Shabbos soccer players.

    It could be the chofetz chaim did address zionists at some point in writing; I’m not familiar.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2270037
    AviraDeArah
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    The overpowering, extremely intense yatzer hora for idol worship was destroyed by the anshei knesses hagedolah.

    The yatzer hora for apikorsus, however, is very strong, and we are told by many tzadikim that it will be an almost insurmountable challenge באחרית הימים.

    It is true that the brisker rov and his talmidim did not stress rhe shvuos; they focused more on how twisted nationalism was, the עקירת הדעת that it champions, its “new” jew who is not a galus yid, its high casualties in terms of deaths…

    But rav chaim soloveitchik said repeatedly that zionism is indeed avodah zara. Rav elchonon wrote that many times too.

    You have a kasha on a gemara – it means that we don’t have a tayvoh to worship sticks and stones anymore, but ee definitely have a tayvoh for zionism, because it’s not worship, but rather apikorsus – we use these terms kind of interchangeabley, but chazal did not. When rav chaim and rav elchonon wrote that zionism is AZ, they mean it is foreign ideas, what we generally call apikorsus, an import from the goyim.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2269986
    AviraDeArah
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    Smerel – that was AFTER the gezerah min hashomayim was batul and they were given permission to fight. If such a thing had happened during the Holocaust – great, but it didn’t.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2269980
    AviraDeArah
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    My apologies; i mixed up elisha with eliyahu. The story is in Melachim 1 17:6, which says that birds brought eliyahu bread and meat while he was hiding from Achav and Izevel. The meat was from her table, chazal say.

    It’s not me changing the story. First – there was a nevuah that Ezra was acting on. I never intended for it to be read that he himself prophesized.

    Second, the navi(i mixed up the name…sue me) ate from izevel’s mest, which proves that she and her cohorts all kept kosher.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2269854
    AviraDeArah
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    Yankel, on an individual basis, there’s nothing wrong with fighting, but as you can see clearly from the megillah, organizing an army for defense was NOT the method the Jews took nor would it have worked. Lobbying the US to bomb the tracks to Auschwitz was perfectly within the parameters of hishtadlus, and was done by gedolim who were anti zionist too.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2269853
    AviraDeArah
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    Da, i was responding to the other poster, anonymous, who says he prefers and compares the leader of a secular country to malchus.

    Anon – if you weren’t familiar with the 70 years nevuah, i think that says a lot about your own knowledge of tanach. And yes, elisha ate the meat, which was brought by birds to where he was hiding. Why in heavens would you think a navi would eat treif?

    I never said avodah zara was small. What i said was that there are clear indications that they were frum otherwise and knowledgeable in Torah.  edit

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