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  • in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1995563
    AviraDeArah
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    Avi; I’m proud that you embraced part of your heritage and used a yiddish word; frum! Maybe I’m having an impact here after all

    in reply to: Anti semitism poem #1995180
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Also, the chofetz chaim did not live in eretz yisroel…neither did the Gaon.

    in reply to: Anti semitism poem #1995179
    AviraDeArah
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    There’s a reason why half of the amoraim were not moser nefesh to come to eretz yisroel, nor were most rishonim or achronim. Every tzadik has mitzvos that they are more tied to and that they are moser nefesh for. The gedolei yisroel throughout the generations have NOT championed moving to eretz yisroel for everyone, or even for most people. The gaon sent his prized talmidim to go; he also encouraged rav chaim volozhiner to stay. Eretz yisroel is part of a cheshbon in overall avodah for many tzadikim, but it wasn’t as if they all were itching to go but couldn’t for practical reasons. The baalei tosfos were just fine where they were, as were the chasidei ashkenaz, sefardim and taimonim who never expressed much interest to go even at the behest of Ezra (this was a mistake on their part). There were no laws barring jews from living in EY at any of those times. Immigration quotas only started under the British.

    Many, probably the majority of the rishonim hold that there’s no chiyuv; rabbeinu chananel holds there’s no mitzvah at all bizman galus. I think i have a few hundred mitzvos to worry about that are full chiyuvim before i start thinking about yishuv eretz yisroel. Some also hold that the main mitzvah is owning land thereby extricating goyim from it, that’s shitas harivash.

    As far as kedushas haaretz, that’s a reason not to go. What we do wrong in chutz”l will be judged harsher in EY. That’s been a fear of many tzadikim. There are tons of mekoros about this in vayoel noshe; I used to know a ton more about this issue in my bochurisher years, when in yeshiva I was “the hashkafa guy”.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1995177
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Reb Eliezer; according to that reasoning, selling bosor becholov also shouldn’t be an issur hanaah either. Rather, a good definition would be any benefit that comes from the use of the object, so if i use the bosor becholov to feed the dog, and that act makes me happy to see him eat it, that pleasure is coming from the use of issurei hanaah.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1995015
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    I know of no concept that we don’t use chazal to define. That’s a problem with looking at Torah as just laws and stories…the Torah defines for us any value…this is touching on a great divide between the yeshivos and the MO world. MO believes in “other things” outside of yiddishkeit, values that are general and not dependent on Torah. We don’t. For us, kudsha brich hu istakal beoraysoh ubara alma – everything that exists only does so because it’s in the Torah.

    Rev Eliezer; what does the halacha of tevilah have to do with my statement that abstract hanaah may not be considered such? Actually i do need to be chozer from it for a different reason. It says you can’t feed animals bosor vechalav, even if the animal is not yours, because you have hanaah from the animal eating it.

    Re, chesed leumim chatas – I’ll admit that my knowledge of the inyan was from my tanya learning days, as quoted in the end of the 1st perek, which he quotes from the arizal in aitz chaim shaar 49 when discussing the intrinsic spiritual differences between the beshomos of goyim and jews. He says that there is no true Tov, goodliness in the former, and that all the chesed that they do is to glorify themselves. It would seem that the arizal is paskening not like the maskana of the gemara in bava basra (happens to be that immediately after RYBZ, the gemara says that while it may be good for them, it is bad for us because it holds back the geulah when goyim have zchusim). I have a mahalach that the arizal can fit perfectly fine with the maskana, since if you look at the maharsha he says that the way Rebbe nechunya ben hakana(and RYBZ) read the pasuk, it’s saying that tzedaka and chesed are for yisroel, and the kaparah is for the goyim – meaning that even when yidden do lower levels of chesed not lishma, says the maharal, they count. With this we can understand the arizal – they indeed do chesed for themselves, due to their spiritual nature, but it is still a cleansing for them.

    Chatas vs chait – we find many times that chatas means sin as well….al na sashem aleinu chatas…a korban chatas itself is a sin offering..

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1995007
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Nowehere does the rambam say that YOU should learn philosophers. He actually writes in the same hakdama that he did it so that Jews wouldn’t have to search elsewhere for hashkafa – there was a lot of, aptly named nevuchim – confused people, who were into philosophy. It’s true that the rambam holds one is mekayam vehashayvosa al livavecha through philosophy, but even that’s only A) people who have filled their “stomachs with shas and poskim” and B) about yichud Hashem, which brings me to my next point – the rishonim who were busy with philosophy were studying logic and concepts to understand emunah. Nowehere does the rambam get his morals or values from Aristotle. See the first bartenura on pirkei avos – he says that avos starts off with the chain of mesorah because you shouldn’t think that ethics and morals are a free for all with the rabbis making things up as they see fit or according to their own understanding. Rather, he says, just as every other mishnah is torah she baal peh, so too are middos and ethics – purely Torah.

    That’s a huge distinction.

    in reply to: Anti semitism poem #1994547
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    AAQ – I’m not arguing philosophy like people did years ago, I’m answering the assertion that i am doing something wrong by living in America during galus. I’ve lived in eretz yisroel, and yes, the situation of jews living there has radically changed in the past few decades. I’ve lived in eretz yisroel and the Torah community is flourishing. I can even respect the adherence to mitzvos of the religious zionist community, lacking and incomplete as it may be.

    That doesn’t mean the dangers of zionism are defeated just because its progenitors are dead. it doesn’t mean that we must be negligent in protecting the same innocent and uneducated populations that you mentioned; we must stop the government from making Hebrew Nationals out of them and instead show them the light of Torah, whether or not the powers that be are guilty or just raised wrong, or if those powers wear fabric on their head or not bears little weight on the tactics and necessity of saving the disenfranchised populations from zionist assimilation

    Having frum jews in eretz yisroel was never contentious; actually, the only opposition came from those who were worried that if frummer yidden settled there, it would strengthen the zionists or that they may be influenced by them. The gedolei yisroel did not agree with that position by and large, and places like komemius and kibutz chofetz chaim, along with the yishuv hayashan testify yo the purity of their motivation.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994934
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    One rishon holds “potrin oso miyad” by the case where every member of sanhedrin convicts by a chiyuv misa, that it means we kill him right away. The komarna rebbe in shulchan hatahor says that safek brachos lehakel means to make a bracha. Do we deal with those shitos in lractice? Not really. If there is such a malbim (source please?) It’s not what the rishonim on the gemara say, and it’s not pashut pshat. We wouldn’t use it to dismiss the idea of the gemara since it’s echoed elsewhere.

    Also, rashi on mitzvos laav lehanos nitnu can fit – he’s not (nor is the gemara on that sugya) addressing abstract feelings, but rather hanaah in the context of every case in the gemara, which refers to physical benefit.

    Rand’s theories on ethics and morals have as much place in a beis medrash as zeus and hercules

    in reply to: Ben-Giver #1994936
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Yaakov called eisav “adoni” way before ivrit made it into an inconsequential term for “sir”. It’s galus; play your part and don’t be proud and stubborn with goyim

    in reply to: Anti semitism poem #1994827
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Let me get this straight…the zionists abandoning jews who were not both young and of their philosophy, cooperating with Nazis to save their own skin and let the European frum jews literally burn..

    Are you actually comparing that – even facetiously – to the 3 oaths? You’re not at all bothered by that murderous act? America would have been a viable destination had the zionist leadership said “no! Only to Palestine!”

    Who says israel would have been safe? Rommel was 2 days away from eretz yisroel. If not for how the frummer responded, they could have wiped out everyone in a matter of hours.

    As to dismissing pashut pshat with laitzonus…. let’s just read the bible. It says that they thought of themselves as grasshoppers in the eyes of the canaanim. They said they are stronger than us. They were afraid of fighting them. Yes, there was an element of ingratitude, but let’s not forget the expression they all shared when they said chazal hu mimenu. That is the inverse of kochi veotzem yadi, it is the belief that your strength – or lack thereof – is kf consequence and should dictate your behavior. It is the belief that it is not Hashem who gives us the koach laasos chayil, but rather our “uzi”, an aptly named israeli firearm. My point was that the meraglim had that element in them, just as the zionists do. They were given a mitzvah, and they should have had the bitachon of the chashmonaim and went to fight anyway.

    I’m interested in going “home” when I go to the beis medrash. The chasam sofer says that avira de’ara, (my screename!) Applies in batei medrash. The Torah is my home, and it is portable throughout the generations and the exiles. If Israel fell apart tomorrow, those of you who invested your identity and judaism in jt would be crushed… most would perhaps go off the derech entirely.

    We would simply observe and continue to march on, whether we live in eretz yisroel under Israeli, American, UN, or ottoman rule, or if we live in chutz laaretz. I feel home because I have Torah. Sure, I want moshiach to come so we can have the beis hamikdash and have the world acknowledge Hashem, but in the meantime, I can serve Him just fine until that time comes, bemhayroh veyameinu amen.

    in reply to: Anti semitism poem #1994828
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    If there’s ever an ostrich syndrome…you claim to not know why there’s abyi semitism…we have very clear mesorah as to why – read the poem! It’s all about that

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994779
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Also, where does rashi “negate all charity not done for a mitzvah”

    The gemara itself says chessed leumim chatas, that chessed done by goyim is sin, because it’s just to boast and feel pride

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994774
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Ayn rand also believed that the “guiding moral principle of man’s life is the pursuit of his happiness”

    Lovely, truly an authority on morals and ethics

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994771
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Avi, not to weigh in on a machlokes between goyim who you see as authorities on matters of hashkofa..

    Rashi says chesed shel emes by burying the deceased is so called because “aino metzapeh leteshlum gevul”, he does not expect recompense. That’s my definition.

    Chasidishe rebbes used to give a poor person tzedaka multiple times, because the first time it’s to alleviate tzaar that you feel, abd then afterwards eventually it’s totally lishma.

    When I’m talking altruism, I’m discussing chessed lishma, for the sake of helping others. Not because of promoting peace between goyim and us, and not because the goy will help you in the future, or other ulterior motives

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994579
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Olam chesed yibaneh, it’s a pasuk.

    It doesn’t mean we throw away all of the aforementioned. We are, at times, forbidden to or discouraged from pure altruism with goyim.

    in reply to: Jewish Comedy #1994575
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Reb Eliezer, if i can be mahaneh a yid, why not?
    The nazis did a lot of things. They clamped down on the media, confiscated firearms, indoctrinated youth, and employed propoganda. The germans didn’t hate jews because they were guilty of the sin of generalization. Let’s say all jews are bad, in their mind – let’s say I think most (blank) people are criminals and are a drain on society. Does that give them the license to kill and commit genocide? The two have nothing in common. Their evil and their crime wasn’t in their blanket judgement of the jews, it was in the genocide and oppression that they used that hatred as a justification therefore.

    The problem begins when people start looking at ancillary causes for anti semitism. Anti semitism, as my poem spells out, is a divine boon without a discernible cause, as no matter what jews sldo they are eternally hated. Attributing nazism to secular causes, aligning one’s self with liberals who preach that racism is the root of all evil, is to give a quasi idolatrous spin on history.

    By playing into the narrative of the anti-racists and conceding that the holocaust was due to it, we are agreeing that if not for tha5t, the holocaust would not have happened. To milchomo-yidden, we were told never to bring up the aveiros and downward trajectory of European jewry, because the gemara says that if you tell someone that their suffering is because of their sins, it’s onaas devorim – hurtful words. Rashi says not because it’s not true, but rather because the person is pained by the realization that had he not sinned this suffering would not have come upon him.

    How is it any less hurtful to tell a milchomo-yid that if not for racism, if only western liberalism had spread enough in germany, then your wife and kids would still be alive?

    Attributibf our suffering to anything other than hashgocha is not in our frame of reference….if a highway rail fails, we examine our ways – and of course fix the railing! So if we can try to make kiddiush hashem with goyim and hope that maybe it will mitigate antisemitism…fine, but when i cross that line and start developing ideologies…. that racism need be avoided at all costs in order to prevent a holocaust, or that nationalism must be adopted to prevent another holocaust…. it’s missing source and attacking the rod, the shevet evraso of Hashem.

    in reply to: Jewish Comedy #1994576
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    If evicting Palestinians was the “racism” referred to earlier….am i actually more right wing than you? Eviction is not an option because it puts jews in danger. But theoretically the halacha is lo yayshvu beartzecha. Goyim are not allowed to live in eretz yisroel, and if we had sanhedrin, moshiach and legitimate rulership of the land, that would be first order of business.

    I have little sympathy – not none, but little – for a population that is overwhelmingly in favor of jewish genocide.

    in reply to: Jewish Comedy #1994549
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    What i meant is that Hashem tells us what he cares about in the Torah. As far as i know, grouping people together and making fun kf them isn’t in the list of things Hashem tells us that he hates. Actually, Hashem groups people together quite often – allmon and moav, amalek, etc…of course there are details that allow for individual growth in most of those laws, but if someone is more bothered by racist humor than by chilul shabbos, that shows a profound lack of priorities.

    in reply to: Jewish Comedy #1994540
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    I don’t know that we are in the position to decide how Hashem (capitol H) “feels” about him and we know not what his final thoughts of regret or tshuva were. Feel free to start a thread about the concept in general. – 29

    in reply to: Jewish Comedy #1994506
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    It is very easy to dress up the term “mumar”, apostate….as “well, he used to be frum but we can’t judge him because when he wasn’t busy making fun of us he defended us from…. something”

    If he had smicha, doesn’t that take him out of the fancied tinok shenishba category? If that doesn’t, what does? Are our enemies only those who physically oppose us? Are we any different from a non jewish nation which respects the rights of its citizens to cast off their traditions and is only mad if they oppose them politically?

    Who is a rasha besides…neturei karta? Political enemies who believe in Hashem and serve Him, despite whatever delusions and garbage they follow.

    Can modern orthodoxy admit to the concept that someone who breaks halacha openly is a rasha? We shouldn’t really have to have this discussion. It’s something that one gets from reading an english bible. Yet such baaic truths, in the words of the ramchal…in the degree to which they are revealed and known, they are hidden”… Modern orthodoxy grapples with the most fundamental ideas of Judaism, fighting with scripture in comical ways and inventing ad hoc systems of thought to gloss over biblical and talmudic realities. They deny the evils of homosexuality, feminism, abortion, to name but a few.

    Someone who has smicha and goes off is a rasha, and a shoneh uporesh.

    in reply to: Jewish Comedy #1994499
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    I only wish laitzonus of serious torah ideas and gedolim were greeted with the same oppobrium and visceral disgust that one has for racism, sexism, etc

    I teach elementary school children; if someone makes fun of shabbos it’s ok, but if someone makes fun of the debased and repugnant culture of certain groups of people, they are chastised and not tolerated in the social group. Such is the norm in modern orthodoxy, a twisted ideology which champions ideals not found in chazal and repudiates those which are. Rabbi J.B. Soloveitchik aaid so himself; that there are people who would readily disagree with moshe rabbeinu, and we tolerate them in the interest of not appearing fanatical lr fundamentalist…yet if they disagree with the politics of (then) menachem begin…achas daso lehamis

    If making fun of the holocaust evokes disgust and anguish – justifiablly so – should not the same feelings be felt if not more for the elbono shel torah? We are used to people mocking rabbonim and torah, because we let such things fester and grow. We don’t take torah seriously, or at least not as seriously as racism, sexism, or holocaust denial.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994465
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    C’mon, i said a good pilpul… Let me enjoy myself

    in reply to: Anti semitism poem #1994464
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    I’m not sure why my post wasn’t accepted, but just bekitzur

    We don’t have a chiyuv nowadays to go to eretz yisroel, the bnei yisroel did during the time of the meraglim.
    The most prominent rishon who holds there is a chiyuv nowadays is the ramban, who brings the 3 oaths in maamar al hageulah, prohibiting mass immigration or armed force in taking eretz yisroel.
    Also, it’s hypocritical to say that anti Zionists are anti eretz yisroel and are too comfortable in galus when the majority of religious zionist supporters are much more comfortable in the upper east side etc

    Chait Meraglim was kochi veotzem yadi, much like the Zionists, just inverted

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994177
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    “al hakol” clearly doesn’t mean every single person, as chaz say kol hamerachem al ha’achzari, etc, and again the halacha of ain mefakchin

    Notice how the rambam here omits the afilu akum, whereas by tzedaka he says it – must be because of darchei sholom exclusively! That by akum there’s a special reason to give tzedaka erc, irrespective of the other reasons that apply to ger toshav or avadim – and that’s darchei sholom. Your quote is a very clear diyuk – shkoyach for the proof!

    If the rambam meant the idea of chesed, or emulating hashem as applying to akum, he would have said afilu akum in hilchos avadim, or at the very least said darchei sholom( if darchei sholom means the pshat you’re saying it means) by avadim too

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994176
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Boruch – i repeat, gevalt…

    He’s talking about eved cannaani, who is almost Jewish. He’s chayav in mitzvos as a woman. You’re only proving my point further.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994015
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Gadol; the gemara says one is not allowed to save the life of an oved avodah zara, even if paid to do so, except in a case where hatred of jews would become increased (mipnei aivah). Today’s goyim who believe in monotheism are not subject to that prohibition and one may save their lives regardless of the aforementioned, though it definitely is not an intrinsic obligation.

    As it happens to be, the halacha i quoted above – ain mefakchin alav es hagal, that we are prohibited from saving the lives of ovdei avodah zara, should be proof enough that darchei sholom was never intended to mean more than promoting peace with goyim (mipnei aivah is different, it allows that which would normally be a worse sin, darchei sholom allows a lesser sin, though this is my own chidush and I’m not going to stand by it should it be disproven)

    If saving their lives or healing them is assur, feeding them if they’re hungry should be no different, absent darchei sholom in the latter and aivah in the former

    in reply to: Anti semitism poem #1994016
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Gotagoodpoint – are we the only anti zionist posters on here?

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994003
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Worth noting in addition is that no other rishonim who bring this gemara mention the pesukim of the rambam or anything else; it’s not in the shulchan aruch or nosei keilim

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994000
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Also, would you mind telling us where the tzitz eliezer and rav yaakov emden say such things?

    Rabbi Dovid tzvi hoffman would not be surprising, as i mentioned sbove, yekkishe rabonim started going with this shita around the time of rav hirsh.

    Rabbi kook’s use of it is no more convincing to me than his assessment of the nevala-painting Rembrandt as a “tzadik” because of his painting of the tosfos yom tov.

    The term “gadol hador”…there were no zionist rabbis who were acknowledged by the entire torah world as being its leader. Whereas the converse is true – dati leumi people accepted the chazon ish, rav Moshe feinstein wnd rav elyashiv despite not being at all from their camp. The yeshiva and chassidish world did not accept rabbi yoshe ber soloveitchik as a leader of the generation, nor did they accept rabbi kook after the gedolim vegan distancing themselves from him.

    There’s a reason why in no mainstream yeshiva will.you find the books of rabbi kook or rabbi yoshe ber soloveitchik, though the latter you will sometimes come across.

    every dati leumi yeshiva has an igros moshe.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1993995
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Gevalt – you quoted the last part of the halacha of the rambam and are…again….missing the first part of the same halacha regarding ger toshav, which the rambam says “yereah li” “it appears to me” that one must dl gemilus chasadim and derech eretz LIKE A JEW, making a clear distinction between jew and akum., Then he turns to akum and says “afilu” akum, meaning don’t think that since im saying to treat a ger toshav like a yid that a goy whos oved avoda zara you should treat like garbage, since tzkvu chachamim, the chachamim commanded us to feed their poor, etc (omitting.hashovas aveidah and other mitzvos), because of darchei sholom. “Harei neemar” with this the rambam brings 2 pesukim for 2 different ideas, the 2nd pasuk of vechol nesivoseah sholom means that the way we behave should lead to sholom, and the first pasuk is anyone’s guess, but if we are to say like you that it’s advocating altruism “lishma”, we wouldn’t need the two pesukim, would we? That would be enough of a reason without nesivoseah sholom…rather i think the two pesukim refer to the two people discussed in this halacha, the first pasuk of rachamav al kol maasav refers to the ger toshav and the 2nd, referring to making peace, refers to the akum

    Have you ever “learned up” a rambam before?

    in reply to: Anti semitism poem #1993991
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Need we even mention the Mi Yehudi tragedy and the willingness of the religious zionists to bring complete goyim into klal yisroel simply because they’re israeli, or as one “posek” put it – “they fight in the army and fast on yom kippur, how can you say that they’re not jewish?”

    Heartfelt tears of joy run down the face of the immodest gun-bearing female soldier as she is deceived into thinking that she is a member of the jewish people under the guidance of rabbis who are uneducated and brainwashed in the religion of zionisn.

    in reply to: Politicizing kashrus #1993613
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    In some people’s view, singling out Israel over other countries that have human rights violations (china, Russia, Arab world) is anti semitic bias. Why would B&J only boycott Israel, while ignoring actual genocide of Chinese Muslims and other atrocities?

    I tend to agree, though I’m no fan of Israel or its policies, as I’ve made abundantly clear here over the past few weeks

    in reply to: Theological question #1993608
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Gadol….im surprised at the lack of awareness of basic halacha.

    Shulchan aruch is full of examples of how mispronunciation can be assur. You need to make a distinction between vechara Aff hashem, lest it sound like vecharaf hashem, which would be a curse chas veshalom.

    Of course Hashem “knows what we mean”, but davening is for US and affects US if we do it wrong.

    Does davening for a choleh with his mother’s name also bother you? Have you only now started philosophically pondering the omnipotence of hashem?

    in reply to: Anti semitism poem #1993459
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Is having America – which has more jews than Israel – not the same level of significance? Why do we not sing halel on the 4th of July? If anything, American independence granted us far more rights, safety and opportunity than the state of Israel, without the wars on body and soul. American jewry is privileged like no other society since zman hamikdash, literally.

    in reply to: Anti semitism poem #1993458
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    I agree wholeheartedly with gotapoint; the belzer rov zy’a made the same points in his psak that one may take money from the government. The majority of poskim – charedi poskim, allow it, with the yerushalmis and briskers being a minority.

    I would add to his description of the plight of the sefardim that there were no less than one million sefardi refugees who were yhrown out of their homes…they had lived in arab lands for half a millenium, unlike us ashkenazim who moved around every 100 years, sometimes far less depending on when we were expelled.

    More jews died in Israel due to terror attacks than did in anti semitic assaults in arab lands prior to zionism. Attacking jews was forbidden under islamic law, and a punishable offense.

    AAQ – rav chaim kanievsky, hardly a kanoi on these issues, writes that the state of israel is illegitimate and therefore has no force of Dina dimalchusa regarding taxes. I also agree that theoretically one may decry the evils of zionism while receiving money that would otherwise go to pay for nefarious activities. I’m not one such person, as my rebbeim did not hold of taking anything, with the sole exception of subsidized low-cost food which even the satmar rov zy’a allowed, for a number of reasons. I’m referring to the cost of food in the store, not a government program like WIC or food stamps; here you’re just getting a discount if you happen to buy food basics in lower income areas, including charedi neighborhoods.

    in reply to: shiduchim #1993334
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    If eshes chayil is indeed from a very chasidish community, i dont think the coffee room will provide her any assistance – be the ammunition for snarky comments? Yes, but helpful…no

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1993237
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    The nafka mina is in the intent; one person gives chessed leshem his avoda zara…chessed leumim chatas, and a yid gives it for Hashem. Same action, different reaction; the oved avoda zara is punished and the oved Hashem lehavdil is rewarded. And yes, the opportunity to make a kiddush hashem is gevaldig – i remember once a guy ended up on the cover of the new york post because he returned a ton of money that he found in a desk that he bought at a yard sale; his obviously frum appearance was everywhere.

    What would have happened if he would be dressed as a modern orthodox jew with a name like morris? Would there have been a kiddush hashem for everyone to see on the cover of the paper? Something to think about

    I was saying that even if we accepted the meiri, which we have no reason to do, it wouldn’t apply in most cases…maybe it would in your location.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1993238
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Avi; would you mind telling us where you got the story of rav aryeh levine from? You’re good at mareh mekomos

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1993214
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Also, while the torah worlds rejection of zionism was due to it being an admixture of foreign junk into torah, the canard of the meraglim is exactly the opposite….the meraglim felt that they had to rely on their own power and seeing how great and powerful the canaanim were scared them. Real jews believe it’s Hashem that lrotects us, not the Uzi (aptly called “my strength”). The sin of the spies was in denying the strength of hashem and only believing in their own kochi veotzem yodi.

    No anti zionist rabbi ever said anything bad about eretz yisroel. here we go again with the circular logic of “if you say something bad about the shmad state, you’re slandering eretz yisroel!”. Eretz yisroel lechud and medina lechud. They’re not baalei batim over my holy land. Saying that the zionists were wicked and that they spread an evil immoral toeva-infused culture into the palace of hashem is NOT lashon hora against eretz yisroel.

    Saying that such things are ok to be in the holy land IS LASHON HORA itself, that the land is some secular political entity, or the early zionist land-god nordic influence of the connection between man and land. To make an avodah zara out of eretz yisroel… that’s truly the sin of the spies on many levels

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1993204
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Avi; id think you’d be the first not to compare rishonim/achronim with neviim. If they had written “this is only beshaas hadchak” on the label, I don’t think it would have accomplished their goals at all. It’s up to those who are the baalei mesorah to understand what’s meant ledoros and what’s not. The vast majority of rav hirschs torah is ledoros and i am among his avid fans and admirers. There are, however, certain things that must be understood in the context of the state of german jewry. Modern people LOVE this academic context-oriented approach when it comes to dismissing the chasam sofer etc, or saying that the rambam was just parroting Aristotle cv”s, but when it comes to their own sacred cows…..the payos come out and we can’t question the context of unusual statements made by yechidim that don’t fit the framework of chazal. Why is it ok to say that chazal believed in the existence of the fire breathing salamander “just because the goyim did” but not ok to say that rav hirsch advocated for social justice to win the favor of the masses of german jewry who were falling away en masse? It’s hypocritical snd intellectually dishonest.

    I never said that rav hirsch et al wrote about goyim because of his influence cv”s, by having good relations with them. I said that he was doing kiruv and packaging yiddishkeit in a way that’s palatable for newcomers and people educated with progressive and universalist ideology. Think of what aish hatorah does. Did rav hirsch argue with chazal that goyim who dont keep the 7 mitzvos bekavanah have no olam habah? There’s even a machlokes in the gemara in sanhedrin if goyim who DO Keep the mitzvos have it. Did he argue on the punishment of a mechalel shabbos? No, but he didn’t talk about it much either, because he had a goal, which he accomplished – the yekkishe community is along, if not the most staunchly traditional community in the world with their minhagim and adherence to halacha.

    The kav hayasher, rav kordenoiver, was the rov of frankfurt a while before the aruch leneir; he probably had good relations with the gemutliche germans too, but that didn’t stop him from writing all about tumas akum, romemus yisroel, etc..

    To clarify my position on the meiri and omission; even if the rishonim and achronim didn’t have access to it, fhe fact that the gedolei poskim, asher mipihem anu chayin, do not mention it, means that they learned the sugya differently and that the halacha therefore should follow the overwhelming majority who omit this exception to chazals rule that it is assur to return a goys aveidah. That’s different than the falacy of the omission of the 3 osths (it’s quoted A LOT in the rishonim and achronim…the rambam, ramban, tashbetz, rashbash, maharal, many others) but 5hat misses the point that the 3 oaths ARE A GEMARA, so the question is why aren’t they mentioned, not why are they….here it’s the opposite, here we have a chidush from a rishon…if it’s not mentioned, it’s clear that it’s not halacha. If a gemara isn’t mentioned, we ASSUME THAT A GEMARA IS A DIN, because it’s a Gemara….we then ask why it’s not in the tur and mishneh torah, and there are answers given. Either it’s stam a kefira in bias hamoshiach, as the satmar rov wrote, or it’s not a din per se, but an exhortation not to do it because there will be redifos chas veshalom (rav belsky zt”l), either way the gemara says not to do it so we don’t do it. It’s not like other things that the rishonim say are not nogaya anymore, like the refuos in the gemara which tosfos says are not nogaya, or mayim emtzaiim, there we have rishonim who bring the gemara and say why we don’t follow it. Here by the shevuos no kadmon says that it’s not nogaya.

    Yes, if you learned the sugya of hafkaras mamonam and yiush with the rishonim you’d see that the meiri doesn’t fit at all. You seem to be very good at finding mareh mekomos for things, but i believe that your strength in bekius needs to be built around learning sugyos be’iyun, of which I’ve seen little example.

    Also, who says the majority of goyim are mayshiv aveidos? I believe that they don’t. I don’t think most goyim put up signs or ads in papers that they found a diamond ring. The only thing theily seem to be careful with is returning dogs. Hamayvin yovin.

    Yashrus doesn’t mean we treat goyim like yidden. Hashavas aveida is a special mitzvah, like Rashi says, between yidden. It’s not for goyim inherently, absent kiddush/chilul hashem tangents

    in reply to: Going to the left #1992962
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    7184319501 – relief. They respond faster with an email. Google relief jewish organization for the site

    in reply to: Going to the left #1992960
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Maid; i feel that your question to our esteemed poster was accusatory and frankly abusive. Wanting to be with people who understand your personality because they have a similar neurological makeup is not “reveling”, it is feeling validated and familiar, and not the “other”. We’re not talking about someone who is, say overweight, and prefers being around obese people to not feel that they have to lose weight. Autistic people are born autistic and that’s how hashem made them; they deserve to feel comfortable among us and each other just as much as anyone else. Whatever differences they have socially etc, are not our business. Our business is to be mekayam veahavta lereacha kamocha and nothing more.

    Think of it this way; you’re lubavitch, I’m guessing from your acreenane. Imagine never being around anyone – not one person, who has heard of lubavitch, nor are they interested to. They’re all, say… mongolians. They don’t even speak English. Wouldn’t you miss being around other yidden and especially around other chabadniks? Does that mean you’re “revelling”?

    Ephraim has been hurt enough as it is, let’s not add insult to injury.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992951
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Avi – shimon ben shatach was making a kidush hashem…very simple. Re, the meiri; while it’s possible that the reason why his psak is not mentioned in the achronim, as in the nosei keilim and gedolei poskim, is that they didn’t have access to it – that’s not clear. I didn’t invent the idea that he wrote that psak under duress; it’s in….i believe the aruch hashulchan, but i have to check into it.

    And yes, i do dismiss the psak of people who are incapable of seeing past the egel hazahav of zionism; it’s actually a pretty good litmus test to see if someone is motivated by emotion or pure daas torah, because the impulse towards it was extremely powerful….im pretty sure if i had lived under oppression as they did i would have fallen prey to it as well. It doesn’t mean someone is a bad person or unintelligent, just that to pasken halacha to the extent that i will be machnia my daas to them, one need be of a purely torah mind, and adding in nationalism, haskalah, rebbe-messianism, feminism, or other abberations to your Judaism disqualifies one from being so.

    Re, rav hirsch; he wasn’t the only yekkishe rov who said that, but prior to his time, none of the yekkishe poskim report it. That includes the aruch lenair. It’s not a stretch that if the meiri wanted to keep peace with goyim, that rav hirsch would not also be so motivated…even more so as he was trying to package judaism in a way that would be appealing to enlightened german jewry.

    It doesn’t change the fact that the rishonim and achronim; rambam, tur, rosh, ran, rif, mechaber, rema, sm”a, shach, chelkas mechokek, gr”a, nesivos, rav Akiva eiger, chasam sofer…. dismiss it by omission. The fact that it is appealing to rabbonim who were justifying judaism to its detractors in a hostile environment doesn’t change that we have no reason to pasken like it whatsoever.

    Humanism and other such foreign motivations don’t count; if this would be any other shailoh you wouldn’t dig up a meiri and change established halacha based on it. Or mayeb you would, which is even scarier. The chazon ish in michtavim writes that we cannot do so and that whatever prints of the rishonim were in the possession of the achronim are halacha, all else is “ravcha lemilsa”

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992952
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    AAQ, also we have times when rishonim wrote things that were interpreted to be intended only for their time snd audience; many hold that the rambam wrote that there is no such thing as kishuf and sheidim to get jews away from such things that were culturally widespread in Egypt; the rambaN dismisses medrashim in his debates with Christians, while his actions were understood to only be permitted in that context

    It’s not an issue of “convenience”, it’s an issue of, is this sefer going against pashut pshat and mesora from chazal? If it is, then we are open to exterior explanations… it’s not to fit some yeshivishe myopia as modern people claim. If chazal and rishonim say that the world is 5781 years old, then anything else we find should be made to comport with that, not the other way around. If chaz say that hashavas aveida stam is assur, and one sefer says a wild chidush that it’s not because of the way you learn the sugya normally; i.e. they’re automatically meyayesh because goyim dont return lost items al pi rov, or because of hafksras mamonam, or other pshatim, but a wild chidush that it’s only because they wouldn’t return ours….you can ask a ton of kashas on that pshat; why would the halacha of ownership and gezel depend on their attitude towards us? If one person steals, it doesn’t mean you can steal from him

    Saying that it was a necessary contrivance is the more reasonable assumption

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992693
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    AAQ, definitely important to keep darchei sholom – also, to UJM, the achronim are medayak into the words “with” in that gemara; the consensus is that they do not neee to be together; see the taz i quoted above who talks about it

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992692
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    The gemara in kesuvos 68 says that we should have gratitude to the remaim, the fraudsters, because if not for them we’d have to give everyone indiscriminately without checking, and if we didn’t we’d be sinning every day

    Imagine being grateful for thieves!

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992629
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    There is also a theory in the achronim that the meiri wrote that to show goyim that we don’t think of them as goyim as stated in the gemara, because that was only said about ovdei avodah zara, but that he didn’t mean it lehalacha.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992628
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    The rambam.you quoted is, as not surprising…wrenched out of context. He does not say “non jew”, he says akum, which is in contrast to the lines above your quote where he says that it appears to him that a ger toshav receives chessed like a Jew. Then he says that even an idol worshipper receives tzedaka, visiting their sick and burying their dead, because of darchei sholom. See Taz on the shulchan aruch seif that you quoted that explains that there is no connection at all between the giving lf tzedaka to goyim and to Jews, by yidden it’s a mitzvah and by goyim it’s just darchei sholom.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992622
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Boruch….r. unterman was a zionist rabbi; that sefer does not convince me any more than it would if you’d quote him as saying that the state is the harbinger of moshiach.

    What is his proof that darchei sholom means any more than darchei sholom? It’s clear from the gemara; the reason is to have peace with goyim. It is not chesed lishma.

    He’s nust saying “well, no, the REAL reason is lishma, don’t be fooled by the language of the gemara”

    He’s wrong about this just as he’s wrong about kesuvos 111a that “there isn’t REALLY an issue of the 3 oaths, just move along in the Gemara, nothing to see here…just donate to the JNF and all will be well!”

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992620
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Boruch – the achronim completely ignore that meiri; it’s a daas yochid; I didn’t mention it because we don’t pasken like him.

    I never said giving tzedaka to goyim is a bedieved, i said that it’s an ends to a means and not lishma or altruism.

    Avi – the lives of the Jews in arab countries were still exponentially better than their ashkenazi counterparts. Blood libels were everywhere in Europe, but only happened in the 1500s in the ottoman empire – “suleiman the magnificent” issued a firma, a legal ban on blood libels in that time, as did another muslim ruler in the mid 1800s at the behest of moses montefiore. Then they became very popular…. Guess when? In the 20th century. Thank you Zionism.

    Being a jew in galus was and is no picnic, but jews flourished in the arab lands, with free access to professions, markets, freedom of movement, yeshivos, and they had shuls.. I don’t know the details of your claims, but they had beautiful shuls, and their example is copied by sefardi jews in America, sometimes to a fault.

    If not for zionism, we could have easily immigrated to Arab lands, had the zionists not stoked a fiery hatred of us prior. We didn’t need their help. If not for zionism, said the chazon ish, jews would jave davened and done teshuva and been saved from the holocaust like the yerushalmis who prevented rommel from attacking eretz yisroel with their teshuva and fasting. Instead they relied on kochi veotzem yadi and we know what happened afterwards.

    The state is not just “imperfect” it is rotten at the core, the mamzer of the union between nationalism and jewish identitarianism

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