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  • in reply to: The Girls Parents Supporting #697750
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    we cannot compare the greatness of different mitzvos

    “Talmud Torah Kneged Kulam”

    in reply to: The Girls Parents Supporting #697749
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    “However, it cannot be the “minhag” that EVERYONE follows…”

    It isn’t.

    in reply to: The Girls Parents Supporting #697747
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    Supporting the boy allows him to continue learning Torah HaKedosha full-time. That is a major accomplishment and zechus.

    in reply to: The Girls Parents Supporting #697745
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    What’s your point about polygamy? (The Yemenite Torah community still has a minhug to do so, as did many sefardim until the last few decades.)

    If it is ones minhug, there is nothing wrong. For Ashkenazim there is a gezeira against.

    in reply to: The Girls Parents Supporting #697743
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    I’m not commenting if it is good or not. I am saying it has been practiced for many many hundreds of years by shidduchim. This is merely one of the modern day versions of it. (Another example is the girls side often pays for the wedding hall.)

    in reply to: The Girls Parents Supporting #697741
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    Its kind of like a dowry. And dowries have been provided by the kallah’s family to the choson throughout Jewish history.

    in reply to: Where to go on a date? #722662
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    BP Totty: Directions would be great!

    in reply to: Where to go on a date? #722659
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    Anywhere but a hotel lounge.

    That’s easy (and cheap) enough for a girl to say… 😉

    in reply to: What is the purpose of girls going to Seminary? #697532
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    arc – nowhere did he say “only”. He said they are fine yiddish maidlach without the Israeli seminary attendance. And what he stated is factually correct.

    in reply to: Hat and Jacket Always #697091
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    Yidden always dressed different than goyim. And a Yid could always be identified by his dress on the street.

    in reply to: Clearing up a few myths regarding Tznius problems #696843
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    No, they should not be explicit in what they teach.

    in reply to: Divorce Crisis #697387
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    Rav Yosef Shalom Elyashiv said the RCA prenup a solution is totally at variance with halachah, and has a similar, if not the same effect as a get me`useh, which will lead to instances of mamzerus.

    in reply to: What is the purpose of girls going to Seminary? #697524
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    Boys (depending on the child) can benefit from the Torah of Eretz Yisroel. There is no reason girls can’t go to a local seminary.

    in reply to: Hat and Jacket Always #697082
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    SJS, does your husband wear his tzitzis out? If not, does that not answer what you’re getting at?

    in reply to: Ways to Save Money #722721
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    Buy off-brands, don’t go to restaurants, and wear second-hand clothing. I’m sure others will add some more ideas.

    in reply to: IMPORTANT: Phone Conference: Stopping the next expulsion #696319
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    yechezkel89: Israel gave the Sinai to Egypt, and despite the continuing “cold war” with them, no lives have been lost in wars with Egypt ever since.

    They never should have taken the land in ’48. That already cost thousands of Jewish lives ever since. Now that they already did, we see giving land can save lives.

    in reply to: The Following Made Me Feel Good… #996900
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    The day before Yom Tov you can get it for $25.

    in reply to: Hat and Jacket Always #697060
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    Levush does change with time. Nevertheless each time had its set of levush for Bnei Torah.

    in reply to: IMPORTANT: Phone Conference: Stopping the next expulsion #696316
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    Your rabbi is a kahanist, so obviously he doesn’t agree with them. But mainstream rabbonim put pikuach nefesh ahead of land. (Of course the religious zionist always argue giving up land is pikuach nefesh, but the mainstream rabbonim unaffiliated with zionism acknowledge that giving land can save lives.)

    in reply to: Price of Psicha for Neila #697834
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    How does a higher price make it more chashuv? (If so, the guy in your shul should of doubled the price even if there was no competition at that price level.)

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094335
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    mbachur, your point was brought up in the teshuvas of the mattirim on this issue.

    in reply to: Hat and Jacket Always #697052
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    I understand, and don’t disagree with wearing appropriate clothing to work tasks at hand. The issue at hand is more regarding when walking on the street.

    in reply to: Price of Psicha for Neila #697832
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    You can get it on the cheap at a small minyan.

    in reply to: What are you doing to make Yom Kippur last? #696349
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    That may all be true and all, but yushka was a rusha merusha himself. What is the reason you are using that screen name?

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094333
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    This blog deals with that question a little differently:

    http://kosherwater.blogspot.com/

    See from the sentence “How can the Almighty allow righteous people to unknowingly sin?” and further.

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094330
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    squeak, the question you asked regarding the Tannaim, you can ask regarding Rav Moshe – who lived in NYC where we know the water supply has these creatures. I believe Rav Dovid said that question is a non-issue.

    in reply to: Hat and Jacket Always #697046
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    Nope. He may have been a Ben Torah, who wouldn’t be seen without one. (Like some people’s American Express card, LOL.)

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094329
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    squeak, What is your response to the question you pose to me?

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094327
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    squeak, you continue to make unfounded assumptions in this thread. Additionally, I am not forced to choose from your multiple choice questionnaire.

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094325
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    Would you care to respond whether you disagree or question the basis of the factual point I made — specifically, regarding the prevalence of copepods?

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    EDIT: That’s the second time you edited an old post after I responded.

    In any event, I don’t see us disagreeing on any points now that you withdrew from your first posts implication regarding the prevalence of copepods.

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094323
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    squeak, why am I anymore forced to choose those options than are you? Are you disputing, or questioning, the two factual points I made?

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094321
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    charliehall, do you agree with my above comments regarding the prevalence of copepods (in almost all bodies of water), and that they will appear in Boston’s tap water — as well as the other few municipal tap water systems that are still authorized by the EPA to remain unfiltered?

    Also, not to necessarily dispute the assertion, but how are we aware they have been in all the same bodies of water since Noach?

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094318
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    One is a matter of nature — whether they are present in various bodies of water, and the other is a religious matter — whether they render the water unkosher. The first issue I answered above. It is a simple observable fact. The second issue is a religious dispute, with the majority of Chareidi authorities ruling it unkosher, and others saying the water is kosher.

    You are conflating the two issues by insisting that since the majority of those authorities render it unkosher, the first observable fact can’t be accepted. I don’t follow your logic on that.

    As far as the historical nature of the water, all we know for a fact is they exist in the bodies of water today. Perhaps we can speculate they arrived at a later time than the Tannaim, etc. But whether that is the case or not, I don’t see how it effects the first two facts.

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094315
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    I never addressed that point. Rav Belsky says they’re muttir. Other Gedolim disagree. But you first comment implicating they are not so widespread was wrong.

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094313
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    Hi squeak. Sorry you got edited. I’ll ask a mod if you had any super vital info that didn’t make it.

    From http://www.tafi.org.au/zooplankton/imagekey/copepoda/index.html

    “Copepods are probably the most common and abundant holoplanktonic organisms worldwide, occurring in all oceans, seas, estuaries, rivers and lakes.”

    From http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Copepod (first sentence)

    “Copepods are a group of small crustaceans found in the sea and nearly every freshwater habitat.”

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094310
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    mbachur, the answer I gave to your question (1), was yes there are copepods in the Boston tap water.

    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094307
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    in reply to: Copepods in Boston tap water #1094306
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    New York, Boston, Seattle, Tacoma, and San Francisco have unfiltered tap water (unlike almost every other city in the country.) Any unfiltered water system will have copepods.

    in reply to: Internet access in Lakewood #696377
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    I guess the OP never found another internet connection since starting this thread, to read all the replies with suggestions.

    in reply to: Bat Mitzvah Gifts #696131
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    A Happy 12th Birthday card from Hallmark.

    in reply to: Shower on Yom Tov #695933
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    Does Shoveh Lechol Nefesh Change?

    [Shulchan Shlomo 511:footnote 3]. Parenthetically a five minute shower uses about 15-25 gallons of water) or are the rules set down by Chazal regarding shoveh lechol nefesh unchangeable.

    Cold Shower

    (From http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/torah_archives.php “Showering on Yom Tov”, Rav Moishe Dovid Lebovits/Rav Benzion Schiffenbauer Shlita/Piskei Horav Yisroel Belsky Shlita Reviewed by Horav Yisroel Belsky Shlita)

    in reply to: Shower on Yom Tov #695930
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    mamash: Kulos are far far more abused than chumros by a long-shot.

    in reply to: Shabbos Tshuva drosha recap #695860
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    BP Totty: Chasidim eschew restaurants? I find that highly laudable.

    in reply to: Best Kosher Sushi in Brooklyn? #694474
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    Never quite understood why some people like sushi so much.

    in reply to: Save Up to 100% on Diapers #694059
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    What is the least cost method or place to purchase Luvs diapers on a regular basis (i.e. aside from limited time sales/coupons)?

    in reply to: Musical Chairs and Shidduchim #694270
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    LMA: According to your theory, of the older male singles a majority are picky, and the minority which is not picky have issues. Yet the older single girls are peachy keen?

    in reply to: Bais Yaakov Boro Park Tuition Crisis #694811
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    housewife2: Sounds like you can’t afford it, but the school is making you pay to keep your child in. How are you paying it right now?

    in reply to: Custom or very good sheitles for under $1000 #739985
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    Pashuteh Yid:

    Paula Young still sells wigs in that price range or not too much more. It is well worth it. Even if it lasts 1/4 as long.

    in reply to: Musical Chairs and Shidduchim #694267
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    AZ, are you maintaining that there is NOT a significant population of older never married guys? Is your position that the “shidduch crisis” is a female-only issue?

    I’m not sure how you can miss the significant population of never married older guys. Unless I’m not understanding your position correctly.

    in reply to: Yidden in Sports! #694458
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    Pulled into what? Playing sports? That’s good. Following professional sports? Not so good.

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