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November 6, 2018 1:28 pm at 1:28 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1618233CSParticipant
Neville I actually appreciated the chofetz chaim referenced. What I didn’t appreciate was the lack of equal treatment to the Rebbe. But definitely good to have sources from all over the spectrum.
As far as what I wanted to get out of this thread etc.:
I more some people enjoy threads that are confrontational and bash, where there is a winner and loser. But not me. I like finding common ground with other yidden (which is why I frequent here to begin with), seeing exactly where we agree, where we disagree and coming out with a broader knowledge of klal Yisraels (kosher obviously) hashkofos (even if I may not hold of some for myself which is fine. There were 12 shvatim, all equally valid.)I wouldn’t for example start a thread based on “neville please explain why three of my brothers have personally experienced litvishe bochurim coming in to their Yeshiva/ shul just to mock them that they don’t know gemara?” Even though those episodes were quite ridiculous and the Lubavitcher boys bested those boys who didn’t know their own gemara. And we don’t do likewise etc. Because such a thread would be based on division and who looks better, not collaboration.
To be continued…
November 6, 2018 10:41 am at 10:41 am in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1618109CSParticipantNeville I don’t know what you’re on about in your latest thread. Rso was saying its fine to put himself on par with the Rebbe and brought Rav shach as an example to bolster his claim that there is no need to respect the Rebbe.
I find this quite ridiculous as I, or any other frum yid for that matter, would never think I should have equal say to predict what halacha should be for example, as my Rav, because (for arguments sake, let’s say I was a man. Not talking about the man / woman aspect) haven’t studied dayanus, so I know I can’t pasken. Maybe I can guess what the halacha is but I definitely wouldn’t put myself on the same footing. I think anyone that does just looks like a fool.
My Rav would never put himself on the same footing as Rabbi Kanievsky for example who is known to have much more knowledge of Torah than the typical learned Rav.
And any learned yorei shomayim person cannot be put themselves on the same level as a tzadik who is not just a yarei shomayim, but has ruach hakodesh, can read people’s thoughts, and can see what is happening in the heavenly realms. The Rebbe was such a person as has been evidenced by thousands of encounters by people from all walks of life.
So for a regular person to say my personal opinion or interpretation of a source (not backed by ancient sources or tzaddikim etc) is as good as the Rebbe’s interpretation I just find ridiculous. And I don’t see why anyone else wouldn’t.
If I said my knowledge of Torah is as great as Rabbi Kanievsky because we’re both human, or because there is a another Torah giant out there that disagrees with him, I would be equally foolish. This is not a matter of litvish vs. chassidish. We in Chabad respect Rabbi Kanievsky and the chofetz chaim etc. Its simply a matter of knowing your place which I think should be a basic for any frum jew
November 6, 2018 10:23 am at 10:23 am in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1618090CSParticipantRso it seems you are forgetting what the whole problem with demand was and that’s why you’re showing every source to be anything other than the word demand.
Allow me to remind you.
The original objection to demanding moshiach was that we are meant to daven for things as a polite request and accept whatever the answer is. There was a source brought above (credits to toi although I don’t answer his posts directly in most cases for reasons explained in the past, here there was an actual source which I do appreciate.)
So the sources I show prove that in certain circumstances it is not only ok but a good thing to demand or request in an impolite name. That was the idea.
So please list whatever source you have that states why its not a good thing to demand or request strongly for moshiach that isn’t addressed by the context / sources brought.
November 6, 2018 9:50 am at 9:50 am in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1618067CSParticipantStuartw, neville, have you seen the Chabadshlucha explain meshichists thread? Neville I know you have. Unfortunately (I think) it was closed down but I think it is informative if you want to see the take on that. This thread is about how the world / am Yisrael are ready for moshiach. I don’t see a reason to derail this thread. I also don’t why any topic that includes the Rebbe’s viewpoint is seen as fair game for “do you believe the Rebbe’s moshiach? Yes or no.” As if that “settles the matter at hand.
I wouldn’t mind if that thread was unblocked. Someone panicked and said it was creating division amongst klal Yisrael, and the next thing was the mods closed it down. I think pen frank discussion is a good thing, as long as it is open and honest, not a baiting, switch-the-topic-so-I-can get -you-on-this-if-not-on-that type of discussion.
In any case if there is an unresolved question there and it isn’t reopened, and you’d like to explore that topic in am honest manner, feel free to try your luck opening a new thread on it, and I will respond
November 5, 2018 5:45 pm at 5:45 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617736CSParticipantRso- as far as my sources, I didn’t forget just you kept ignoring so I’ll reference in short again:
Regarding demanding / using strong language with Hashem:
1) lama nigara 2) ad mosai in tehillim and kinos 3) kol ma sheomer lecha habaal habayis asei chutz mitzei 4) davening for others vs oneself – Moshe micheini na, Rochel Imeinu – is Your Mercy less than mine? 5) chofetz chaim (you found)And if you bring a proper source (like another Torah giant etc) that states why these aren’t acceptable, or a source directly rebutting what I’ve said, I will be happy to see and discuss.
Creatively reinterpretating classic sources yourself, and thinking you’re on par with the Rebbe, doesn’t wash. If you have a question on a source, one thing. But to Creatively translate and reinterpret and then say that’s why you don’t accept these, not acceptable. Fair?
November 5, 2018 5:43 pm at 5:43 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617744CSParticipantRso: you’re really getting off track with the post addressing mine to neville and i suspect it would derail the thread altogether. besides I think we’ve been through that one before on other threads. So I’m gonna ignore it for now and once we’ve addressed the topic at hand, you can remind me to address it. Dw I don’t forget. But I suspect you know the answer as well.
Ladies and gentlemen id like to thank you for keeping me company during the time my husband has gone to the kinnus. It has been (mostly 😜) a true pleasure exchanging thoughts on different threads. I suspect that I will have less time to respond from tomorrow on, so do forgive me if I don’t follow up in as quick a fashion. I will keep in mind, and if it’s a sincere, non baiting question, as most are, will address in due time (as I have revived this thread due to follow up.) Thanks allot again and enjoy your evening 🙂
November 5, 2018 4:59 pm at 4:59 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617728CSParticipantOK rso I suppose I should clarify the last line of what I meant about Rav Shach as it can easily be misconstrued: I meant that meile if you’re a litvak and you hold of him as your gadol and that’s why you don’t respect the Rebbe then we can talk about whether that’s the emess, you hold by EVERYTHING Rav shach held by, so unfortunately that also includes his attitude towards lubavitch,(which I can respect although I will find unfortunate but I do think I would be hard pressed to find such a person) or do you differ from him in many areas, but davka when it comes to lubavitch, you hold that you have to hate lubavitch? That would just smell of sinas chinam.
However I find it ridiculous you even bring Rav Shach into the discussion as you’re not even a litvak and hence can’t even pretend hashkafic integrity here.
November 5, 2018 4:47 pm at 4:47 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617653CSParticipant@Iitft refreshing. Bh moshiach coming is now being spoken about in all circles of klal Yisrael. To me that itself shows its around the corner.
Fascinating story that I referenced before:
The Rebbe Rashab (nistalek tof reish pei, early 1900s) once commented on kapitl 89, last 2 pesukim, that they refer to three generations/ time periods:
“Asher cherfu oivecha Hashem” refers to the anti G-d period.
That will be followed by “Asher cherfu ikvos meshichecha.” Otherwise frum yidden who have a seemingly unexlka allergic reaction to talking about moshiachs coming, although yidden have had moshiach on their minds every day in the harsh golus.
This will be followed by “Baruch Hashem lolam amen vamen.” The time period of the Geula.
The first we saw by the Frierdiker Rebbe – with the rise of every ism other than Judaism.
The next followed by the Rebbe (why does he have to talk about moshiach so much?)
Looks like that is BH waning (ok there are still a few die hards here but overall has been a great shift) and we are approaching the days of moshiach iyh
November 5, 2018 4:47 pm at 4:47 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617644CSParticipant@coffee addict, there were other issues as well and it is a pretty detailed analysis. As I do not know how to insert the pages that address that here, may I refer you to the sources so you can see the full picture for yourself?
November 5, 2018 4:39 pm at 4:39 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617641CSParticipant“I also believe that we are on the threshold of Geula – thats why we are back in Eretz Yisrael, and Baruch hashem, we are now zoche do be able to be mekayim a mitzvah that was long gone – techeiles.
If Chabad believes were in ikvisa demeshicha, why don;t they wear techeiles and make aliya?”
Fair question. Several points.
Main point: when Chabad talks about being in ikvasa dimeshicha (as can be seen in my very first post on the thread if I’m not mistaken), we mean it in a spiritual sense, and not in a halachic sense.
Point 2: Re: techeiles- is that specifically only to be worn by moshiach times or separate question. Regardless, as sam said, the consensus amongst halachic authorities is that there has not been found the creature yet which matches ALL the descriptions in chazal about the chilazon. Thats why most of the chareidi crowd does not yet wear it although we’d love to.
Regarding moving to EY specifically, while I think the dati leumi community and others are doing amazing work strengthening the Jewish character of the government, and of settling and securing EY in Jewish and frum hands, the Rebbe’s approach was that if we all run off to eretz hakodesh, we will leave behind all the Jews facing assimilation. Our primary job right now is to bring all the Jews back to Hashem so that we will all go home together when the time is right.
November 5, 2018 4:34 pm at 4:34 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617633CSParticipant@stuartw
“In fact I believe CS is not here to push her agenda but she is here out if the love of sharing ideas about yiddishkeit, both chabad and others (not guessing, this she stated and i take it at face value).”Thanks its nice to see decent people who don’t attack you for only talking to lubavitchers but also attack you for talking to other yidden.
By “in their own way” I mean in their own way. Ie their own unique path in Avodas Hashem where they focus on yishuv haaretz, often living smack in the middle of hostile Arabs. I really admire the. It’s not my way, we differ hashkafa wise, but I respect their mehalech as being legitimate for them so I say in their own way (ie as differs from mine.) Don’t see why you find that unquestionably offensive when I didn’t mean or feel any offense
November 5, 2018 4:18 pm at 4:18 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617629CSParticipant@neville in your second to most recent post, you are putting words in my mouth that I never said or meant. So no need to defend myself.
As far as Lubavitch isolating themselves, well it’s half and half. We are more isolated as our shittos tend to take the middle path (see my earlier post for some examples) and thus manage to differ both from much of the chareidi world but equally differ from MO etc..while also maintaining common ground/,hashkofos with both.
When your motivating factors for instance, centre around different things, like schar vs. Moshiach for a starting point, it is easy to farbreng more with fellow lubavitchers.
But we are also isolated by others. Vhameivin yavin no need to reference machlokes needlessly.
That’s why I love this forum, it enables me to relate and exchange Hashkofos and common ground with other yidden. Yet people like you, (or should I say your second to most recent post, as you’ve actually been much more respectful generally as of late,) are anti semetic against lubavitchers. It’s like we’re the Jews of the Jews, and there are many double standards. For example, you complain we isolate ourselves. Yet when I join this forum, how many times have I heard the sentiment, Stop pushing your Chabad agenda. You’re only talking to us to mekarev us etc.. Think about it.
Or lubavitchers are shluchim so we expect more of them than anyone else. Hey there’s lubavitchers who are jerks, that means you’re all phony two faced jerks. Etc. Just look at your own post and you’ll see. Aside from making up what I said and meant.
With regards to your post that we are meshichist winking and your not oblivious etc. do you want to state straight out – the answer to your question also answers how techias hameisim could also happen first? I don’t find it relevant so I don’t mention. There’s no wink wink. You know what we believe and what we don’t, we’ve had several threads over it. If you’re curious you can ask. Like what do you want me to do? Clap for you every time a lubavitcher references a source that can also somehow apply to the Rebbe being moshiach?
November 5, 2018 3:37 pm at 3:37 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617586CSParticipantAdditionally rso besides my objection to you not respecting the Rebbe as a source, you keep ignoring, and not addressing, the many (I think 4 separate) sources in Torah I have brought. You definitely haven’t brought any of your own to support your side. All you have said is the
Rebbe saying it isn’t good enough. So I suppose, even if you sincerely want to me to address the Rav shach excuse etc. I would request you first address the sources brought. Because otherwise, what are you proving? Nothing other than you don’t accept the Rebbe. You don’t show any alternate reason why those sources may not be valid in your Chassidus (Rav shach was a litvak just to remind you.)November 5, 2018 3:34 pm at 3:34 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617582CSParticipant@rso the Rav shach excuse to hate on lubavitch/ disrespect the Rebbe doesn’t wash water with me (is that the correct phrase? Lol I always mix up these axioms) for several reasons. I can definitely expound. But I’m wondering if you are sincere about it, and it will give you what to think about? Or you’ll just find the next thing to bash because if your mind is made up, it isn’t worth writing out. Especially on such a sensitive topic.
November 5, 2018 3:13 pm at 3:13 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617393CSParticipant“There still remains a big difference between demanding geula, and putting it as a tafkid or top priority over other things.”
Certainly. I think this is due to a difference in education. Litvishe education / mussar, from what I’ve seen here and elsewhere, feel free to correct me, focuses on schar vonesh as a motivating factor. Lubavitch (and maybe the frum zionists in their own way) focuses on the end goal abs purpose of creation being moshiach and Geula, as their motivating factor.
Both are equally foundations of Yiddishkeit, which explains why they are both part of the ani maamin, whereas
shabbos, for example, isn’t.They also don’t have to conflict. Both are Torah. Moshiach being the purpose and end point is Creation is emphasised more in kabbola and Chassidus which deals with these topics, and maybe less outright discussed in nigle, although certainly referenced. No matter, they are both Torah. And I can live on a personal level knowing I will be accountable to Hashem for my every action – schar vonesh, while putting moshiach as a priority as what I’m working towards on a global scale.
Of course there is much more to be said on this topic but I think this is a good starter/ summary.
November 5, 2018 1:24 pm at 1:24 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617409CSParticipantCoffee addict: you are correct that there is a gemara that states that, but I have learned a thorough analysis of the topic which makes it clear that not necessarily.
For example, if that were the case, then it would be impossible to apply the anticipating moshiach every day
in practice, because if his coming is contingent on Eliyahu hanavi announcing it three days earlier, then he can’t come today as there was no announcement two days ago….There’s a whole analysis of the various sources but the conclusion is that that gemara and others, discuss the role of Eliyahu Hanavi. How the Geula and appearance of moshiach will actually unfold though, is not necessarily in that order.
November 5, 2018 1:10 pm at 1:10 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617498CSParticipantSam that’s fine we don’t disagree there. I have another post addressed to syag that for some reason (honestly don’t knit know) hasn’t come through yet, and will address your post further as well
November 5, 2018 12:34 pm at 12:34 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617463CSParticipantGlad to hear stuartw 🙂 will respond further soon
November 5, 2018 10:36 am at 10:36 am in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617363CSParticipantFor samthenylic I don’t know where you get your aversion to moshiach from. Actually I know a story that predicts it from over 100 years ago (can share of desired)… But don’t fool yourself thinking its from Torah. You are misquoting / applying the Rambam. Feel free to look it up and quote it here if you think I am wrong.
By that logic, the anshei knesses hagedola were wrong for strongly requesting moshiach fast, several times per day instead of just leaving it for tisha bav.
Also we specifically study hilchos beis habechira during the three weeks (this wouldn’t necessarily prove the point if thus is only a lubavitch minhag, you can let me know) as that is counted as a spiritual building of the Beis Hamikdash. Far from it being a good thing NOT to learn it, quite the opposite…
November 5, 2018 9:29 am at 9:29 am in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617048CSParticipantAnd besides, I enjoy learning and learning other hashkofos, so I like honest intellectual discussion and exchange of sources but wasting time on farces where instead of discussion its, prove this, prove that, and then just switching topics to another thing and another thing (as can be seen in rso latest post) and never accepting that the first thing has been properly addressed and settled. Now you understand. Thanks etc. In which case wouldn’t mind moving on to something else. Or you still don’t agree because of this source that addresses mine etc which is also fine. Then I’ll address that source and the discussion will continue.
Btw rso I think you do seem to be a learned person and i think we could have a great intellectual exchange and mutual education, but your approach has been that of the above. Change it and we can both be happy 🙂
November 5, 2018 9:27 am at 9:27 am in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617045CSParticipantStuartw so those people should stay out of the discussion and don’t waste my time asking for sources when nothing will be good enough and they’re not going to respect lubavitch anyway. (But then I still feel I should respond because there ARE sources and what about the people reading it who think that there’s nothing to respond? That’s what’s annoying)
November 5, 2018 9:26 am at 9:26 am in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617042CSParticipantOne more thing on davening: very different personal requests for personal needs, and davening on behalf of others and especially the whole klal Yisrael:
For personal needs, the correct approach is to request, not demand, and accept and make peace with the result.
For others, a demand or even challenge can be praiseworthy
. For example- Moshe Rabbeinu was taught by Hashem to even daven for reshaim, and when he did, he “threatened” Hashem, “V’im ayin, micheini na misifricha.”Obviously such language would be inappropriate if asking for a higher paycheck or even refuah etc.
Rochel Imeinu challenged Hashem as well, “Can Your mercy be less than Your creations??”
Not exactly polite requests accepting whatever the outcome.
And yet in their zechus, BY were saved from extermination, and Moshe is lauded as the first and prime leader of klal Yisrael, and Rochel was the only one who got the promise of vshavu bonim ligvulum from Hashem.
They werent condemned for inappropriate demands or language, quite the opposite.
November 5, 2018 9:25 am at 9:25 am in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617038CSParticipant@neville yes the Rebbe was a revolutionary Daas yichud in many ways. In many things, such as the tefillin campaign, many Rabbonim fought against it at first before they came around and their own representatives are doing the same. The Rebbe often draws the line very differently than others – such as not shutting out the world, but influencing it instead. And not being influenced. Or not condemning not yet frum Yidden but also not condoning their wrong hashkofos or actions. But it’s not revolutionary because it’s something new not in Torah cvs, which would make it just the Rebbe’s thing, there’s always the sources, its just a matter of how to apply them in which there can be differing opinions between gedolim and both can be correct for their community.
Secondly you are ignoring the fact that I brought where in Torah the Rebbe bases himself above. But now that you mention it I’ll bring one more.
As far as davening and not demanding etc.
Chazal say: kol ma sheomer lach habaal habayis asei, chutz mitzei.The same applies to us. Everything our Master decrees for us we accept, EXCEPT for tzei, being kicked out of our rightful place by Hashem’s table
November 5, 2018 8:37 am at 8:37 am in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1617028CSParticipantI agree stuartw. So actually if you look at the title of this thread, I was explaining our shittos. If someone says that’s really great just my Gadol/ Rebbe has a different approach so I go with that, but good to know why you do yours, I’m fine with that.
And if we’re discussing sources, and you ask for my Rebbe bases his, then you in turn bring your Gadols sources and we can understand eilu veilu are both correct ways, and its good to know.
But if theres no opposition by your Rav but the Rebbe is not good enough as a hashkafic standard, but the Chofetz Chaim is, that’s what annoys me.
In this case rso is not a litvak he is a chossid(by his own admission at least on another thread). So it really rankles when the Rebbe is a non source, but the Chofetz Chaim is kodesh kodoshim and would never dare speak that way about him (as it should be. I’m just saying the same standard should apply to the Rebbe too.)
November 5, 2018 7:03 am at 7:03 am in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1616936CSParticipant+1 kaiserw.
Another double standard here is that you state The Rebbe isn’t a good enough source for you/ you want to see where the Rebbe bases it. I actually brought sources – you don’t address them. But the chofetz chaim is a great source…
If you want to see the mekoros in Torah where the Torah giants base their hashkafa, then address the sources. Whether it comes from the Rebbe or the Chofetz Chaim. And the same way its unthinkable to say the chofetz chaim isn’t good enough for me, it should be the same for the Rebbe., who was not just a learned person in Torah, but a leader to all Yiddin , chief Rabbis, chassidish Rebbes, sefardim, askenazim, litvish and not yet frum alike…
Its insulting to display biases so openly and try to guise it as intellectual discussion.
That’s why I can respond point by point but don’t see a need unless I feel someone can benefit from it. But applying double standards doesn’t give me much hope for fair learned discussion.
The same thing happened on another thread. Up in arms that we go to the Ohel and ask brachos, the Rebbe isn’t goes enough. Sources brought and ignored. Oh the Belz do it too. Respectful acceptance. A bit sickening and for sure draining of desire to respond which is why I stopped in that thread.
I suppose if there is an honest onlooker who wants a response to anything I’ll be happy to respond as a respectful learned discussion, not a barely disguised attack on lubavitch. I can respond to you too, Rso, if you see the error of the way you’ve been corresponding. Toi I’m afraid it’s too far gone but I’ll be very happy proven wrong.
November 5, 2018 7:03 am at 7:03 am in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1616937CSParticipantOTOH, very happy to see that chofetz chaim, as it goes to show its a Jewish thing, not just a lubavitch thing, which is what I was saying all along.
November 4, 2018 8:21 pm at 8:21 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1616763CSParticipantThanks 🙂
November 4, 2018 6:37 pm at 6:37 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1616725CSParticipantI can respond tomorrow if desired
CSParticipantI hear you stuartw. What I meant by today, is the women of the wall types who are not at all innocent and are pushing for provocation. There may be some women in reform temples who really sincerely think it’s a good thing to do, but the headlines today show a movement towards provocation etc.
I would venture to say, that although there may have been great women in the past who wore tzitzis secretly (this is why they’re not well known, as the whole point was that it was secretly as it’s against halacha to wear openly.) today, no G-d fearing righteous woman would dream of requesting to wear tzitzis as it has become a symbol of the fight against halacha, mesora and women’s special role in Yiddishkeit
CSParticipantHmm Stuartw how would you word it? What they do is wrong. I’m not concerned about being pc. I think Dan lchaf zechus bases are covered by not assigning them necessarily evil intentions, and saying its not Avodas Hashem is quite a soft way of putting it while still acknowledging its wrong. But open to hearing your thoughts.
November 1, 2018 8:09 pm at 8:09 pm in reply to: Vegas Massacre: 59 Good Reasons to Outlaw Automatic Weapons #1615466CSParticipantMy two cents:
Fact: guns kill more people more quickly than knivesFact: in countries such as the UK where guns are banned, terrorists kill by other means. Some, like cars can kill as many as guns
Feeling: its scarier to feel one may be stabbed than one may be shot. Stabbing is a more painful scarier way to die. (Not that any of the above should happen to anyone cvs. I’m not choosing between the two cvs.)
Fact: in Israel, many people have guns and there still arent the mass shootings now rampant in America
Fact: America wasnt always subject with rampant mass gun shootings.
Fact: moral standards have declined on an educational level in America
Conclusion: the problem and solution isn’t the guns or lack of funds(although common sense would dictate that whoever owns a gun should be heavily screened and cleared of any violent history etc). The problem is that in a self centered society, people are increasingly seeing nothing wrong with taking away human life. With G-d centered society, knowing that one will be answerable to G-d for his actions, even if he can fool the police, and that people are created in G-ds image, so it is wrong to casually kill people UNLIKE animals, society isn’t plagued with such issues. You don’t see it in Israel and you didn’t even see it in America when it was a place where family values were espoused and G-d was frequently mentioned by parents to their children.
So the solution isn’t the taking away of guns (although that may serve an urgent temporary stopgap to decrease the number of murdered) as the murderers will find another medium such as a knife or car.
The solution is in education – to talk about G-d more, respect for authotity etc.
Aye you may say that’s against the rules – well confiscating all guns would also require changing the rules and would not address the core issue. If we’re gonna fight to change the rules, maybe we should fight to change the ones that will bring across the most change?
CSParticipantJoseph, I learned this in seminary in the subject where we went through each of the zman grama mitzvos and why women do or don’t do them. The Rabbis there were very learned, Id be surprised if the Tzitzis thing was just based on a bubbe maase as everything was sourced. Not knowing something doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist or is a bubbe maase, it just means you haven’t learned it yet.
Otoh, I acknowledge that it isn’t fair to expect you to believe me without any source, just my recollection learning it. I wouldn’t mind being wrong on this point either, as I’ll be the first to admit that today, as I said above, women wearing tzitzis is not associated with Avodas Hashem. So you can not believe me. I do trust my recollection and have faith in the integrity of my teachers. Hopefully someone else here will be able to clear it up with the source
November 1, 2018 7:56 pm at 7:56 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1615456CSParticipantLooking forward to seeing your sources. One more thing : are you similarly inclined to protest when someone uses strong language when crying out for a relative who is sick? Or is this criticism picky reserved for davening for the whole klal Yisrael to go back to living how we should, out of golus?
That being said, welcome back. Haven’t seen you post in some time
November 1, 2018 6:08 pm at 6:08 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1615438CSParticipant@rso its quite strange to me at least that you make as if desperately wanting moshiach is a negative thing. I’ve posted above regarding 1) how often and urgent we request in davening – MEHEIRA satzmiach 2) ad mosai in tehillim and kinos 3) lama nigara
How do we know that this is what Hashem wants?! Can you bring me one source that Hashem is happy that were in golus? He’d like it better if we’d tone down the rhetoric and desire to get out of golus?
There are tens of sources otherwise.
1) VSHAV Hashem – He is in golus and suffering with us.2) appeared to Moshe in a thorn bush to symbolise that any time were in pain, He is too. Etc.And you make as if I’m the one creating things in Yiddishkeit? It maybe the Rebbe?
I’m very curious. Where do you get the idea that its a good thing to be quiet about golus? And a bad thing to cry out for moshiach? Cuz I don’t see it in Torah
CSParticipantStuartw I specifically worded my post as the opposite of Avodas Hashem, not evil intentions or the like because as you said they may be sincerely misguided. However, regarding serving Hashem,in actuality you can only be
serving if you do what He asks, not Not do what He asks and only want to do what He doesn’t ask…CSParticipant5ish unfortunately I don’t know the exact source offhand. All I know is that I learned that certain righteous women (who is course already did all their mitzvos and were eager to do more) discreetly wore Tzitzis underneath their garments. Rashis daughters are one example. Maybe some of the menfolk here have come across this and can give you the exact source.
Again this was not for regular women, it was women of extreme piety.
CSParticipantHolymoe why wouldn’t they? Wearing techeiles is part and parcel of Tzitzis, isn’t it?
CSParticipantCorrection : we wouldn’t sleep well in a lit up world
CSParticipant@oyveyismear you can see the practical results in the different methods of chinuch (ie immersing youth in secular culture vs. giving them the highest standards of purity and kedusha possible.)
If anything, the proof is on you, the toien, to provide on how you see this approach, which had produced better results, is wrong.
As far as seeing an outright source in Torah is what I quoted about the tree sufficient? Or more stronger Torah thought? As I said I have some time now I’ll gladly write it up.
CSParticipantMeno apparently that will change as well. Currently we wouldn’t sleep well in a dark world.
Stuart thank you. I find it fascinating for two reasons: 1) that usually women wearing Tzitzis is associated with the complete opposite than serving Hashem (although to be fair it is also a sign of extreme righteousness as long as done in a quiet fashion, and there were women throughout history who wore Tzitzis on top of their mandatory obligations)
So it’s interesting to see it in a completely different light. Almost funny, like a joke. Sudden change of perspective.Also find it fascinating in terms of thinking of Tzitzis fashion that will invariably arise if it becomes part of a womans wardrobe. In fact it is likely there will be the standard tzitzis for men, just with techeiles, while women designers will design feminine tzitzis friendly designs too wear as part of the clothing… Funny to think about.
Also being that I am expecting to see moshiach in the near future, it does look like something that will directly impact me as well.
CSParticipantFake maven thanks for your post (just read it properly). I don’t see where you contradict what I wrote other than rather tersely explaining (would love to see more detail) in what way a goy can relate to mimale kol olmin (which is what I wrote) and how he can’t (which I wasnt aware of and thus didn’t write.)
So just to clarify, if you think something I wrote is wrong, can you quote it and disprove it as I did in my post above?
Otherwise it seems you are just adding and differentiating further with reference to the difference between a goy and a yid.
I would also like to see more examples (Mivsari echeze…) of the practical difference between a goys yediah of Hashem, and a yids, based on a solely mimale level. It does seem goyim can relate to Hashem completely on this level. Otherwise, how do you explain noach, iyov and other righteous goyim who were granted some form of nevuah, were righteous people, and seemed able to feel G-dliness, not just acknowledge it. There also seem to be Noahides today so learn Chassidus and it resonates with them.
Maybe that’s the idea of chassidei umos haolam who have a different neshama than regular goyim as the Rebbe notes on perek aleph Tanya?
Regarding emuna, it seems we are saying the same thing in different words and I fail to see where you think I went wrong there. It does seem you have just misread my posts on the topic. Or maybe you don’t experience emuna as a feeling/ sense? But i would think that’s a misunderstanding on your part, as it definitely is a feeling, just one that is makkif and above logic, not below and influenced by logic…
Looking forward to seeing your response.
@mods I’m enjoying seeing how quickly my latest posts have gone through. Thanks for all your good work!
CSParticipantOK here goes the logic: since the moon will shine like the sun, the mitzvah of Tzitzis will apply at night too which removes it from the category of a mitzvah shehazman grama, hence its application to women.
Why will it be applicable at night? The reason why its only a chiyuv by day now is because the mitzvah is uriisem oso. Since at night out is dark, the mitzvah doesn’t apply then. However by moshiach as above-mentioned, the moon will shine too. So we will see the Tzitzis by night too and will be mechuyav to wear by night
CSParticipantA good mashal I learned about this is that of a tree. Ki haadam etz hasade. A mature tree is tall and strong and can weather many storms. However the smallest scratch in the seed can damage the tree for life. So too, by sheltering our children when they’re still seeds, immersing them in a much life giving waters of kedusha as possible, this gives them the foundation so that when they’re older and do get exposed, they’re all the stronger and better able to weather their challenges.
CSParticipantMdg im talking halachically, not pontificating about how the Geula will happen…
November 1, 2018 2:03 pm at 2:03 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1615163CSParticipantYes I know I wrote BY/ Moshe… In the quote I gave, it was Moshe.
I’m not sure what the rest of what you wrote is negating. That is my point too. They were upset to lose out on a mitzva, and used strong language to express it. Hashem was happy. Hashem is also very happy when we cry out for the Geula from the depths of our heart and are not lackadaisical about it because in truth we couldn’t care less… Aderabe the more we cry out, the more we show we care. And the more nachas we give Hashem, and cause Him to want to bring the Geula sooner. Especially as He Himself suffers in golus with us and will be redeemed with us, as chazal explain on vshav Hashem Elokecha es shvuscha… Vhaishiv lo neemar ela vshav…
November 1, 2018 12:13 pm at 12:13 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1615054CSParticipantPost two:
This is far from the only instance of forceful language used in tanach. In fact regarding the pain of the churban golus, we find the expression in tehillim “Ad mosai yichoref tzor?!”
Apparently there is a whole kinos written which starts off every stanza with ad mosai- until when??
Another point:
We can philosophize and bring proof along the above lines, but on a practical note, if cvs a dear family member is in danger, are you very careful to daven with the proper platitudes along the lines of “Hashem, if it’s OK with You and You’re up to it, please heal me relative. If You don’t want to, I’ll accept that too.”
Or do you scream with pain and say “Hashem, save her! She’s your child!! We deserve better!!” Etc
One may say well, yes we would choose the latter, but that’s because we’re speaking from pain. But with the Geula, we should use proper polite platitudes…
Then that is exactly the issue!! Why should the Shechina being in golus, and the entire Am Yisrael unable to see and experience Hashem in a revealed way, exiled from our Father’s table, matter less to us than an individual yids suffering?? We should all cry out to Hashem Ad mosai?? We want moshiach now!!
November 1, 2018 12:13 pm at 12:13 pm in reply to: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us! #1615052CSParticipantAs my husband is away at the kinus and I have some time, I wanted to address two points that I didn’t follow up on yet:
regarding demanding from Hashem, I brought proof from the positive response to the demand of lama nigara.
Some have responded its not a demand.
So to respond to that, yes it is. I mean just translate it. The yidden/ Moshe had times they davened nicely, they knew how to say please, as in Kel na refa na la… He was not a polite, “if it’s OK with you Hashem, we would love to have the zechus to bring the korban pesach…” Rather it was “lama nigara,” “Why should we miss out??”
And Hashem was very happy with that, because He loved how much they cared for His mitzvos…
To be continued
CSParticipantIn any case, I have looked up derech mitzvosecha myself, mitzvas haamonas Elokus, to respond to your quote below:
“Emunah is Sovev, by definition Sovev has NO connection to us (that we can feel) as the Rashab explains beautifully in Heshach 5772 part 1. ”
And I quote, page mem hei, line 18 ( exact translation, faster to type in English and cant / don’t know how to post a screen shot on here)
“And this concept is referred to as “Sovev kol olmin” in the Zohar, that regarding this (sovev -ed), is the mitzvah of belief. But regarding the level of mimale kol olmin, the term emuna doesn’t apply to it. Rather, as it is written, “Mivsari echeze Eloka,” (from my flesh, ie own experience, I envision Hashem), I can actually envision it, although we cannot see Him with physical vision, nevertheless, its as if we can actually see the concept of how Hashem enlivens all worlds, because seeing with the minds eye can be with the same certainty as physical sight.”As the Tzemach Tzedek clearly states, we can relate to sovev through emuna (which is our koach hamakif), and not only that, but that is the only level where emuna should be applicable…
Maybe you misunderstood what I wrote before . non any case, here’s the source.
CSParticipantShame it hasn’t been approved, hopefully it will soon. I was looking forward to a learned discussion and learning new things 🙂
CSParticipantThanks DY. I was wondering if conjugation was the right word to use for hekesh. Still not sure from your answer but thanks for defining it :).
Fakemaven you have not yet responded. Looking forward to seeing it
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